 it could be a same-soul connection in which case it's quite a big challenge, tough challenge, and it can be lifelong. And if you want to get out of this mess, apart from the whole Kundalini issue or story, the only way, immediately, right now, no discussion about it in the sense that that's how it is, is to tune into the soul every time even the thought appears of that person. You go inward and you go into the surrender state immediately.