 Hello everyone Welcome to another Narc survival live video as you can see I'm just messing around on the swings It's about 9 p.m. At night here just having a bit of fun Playing around got so much energy Gotta burn it off somehow So I like to come out and do this maybe not a good idea to do this one Must fell off but yes, and this one we're going to be talking about when the narcissist Turns everyone against you because yes, this is what they do When they fear that you are going to Reject or abandon them They fear that you may threaten to expose them Or maybe you have already questioned or confronted them When you do these types of things yes, they are very afraid Because they already know that they are hiding something They already know that they are doing something that is not right They're manipulating and abusing you They deceived you they lied to you the future faked They did all of these things wrong to you and they knew They did not have good intentions behind that They know that they didn't have your best interest in mind. They did not mean well for you And of course as I've said before The narcissist is always going to choose their false character of the illusion Over any source of supply Doesn't matter if you were their business partner, maybe you were in a relationship with them Maybe you were a family member a friend Whoever you were it does not matter The effect is still the same And yes the effect is that They will abandon you first They will try to control you. They will try to stop you from leaving They will try to isolate you. They will start a smear campaign against you They will try to turn everyone against you I think there's a frog here We're toad. Wow, it's cool to see that As you know, I just love nature. I love animals It's very still like a statue It looks like a toy frog But it is actually real But yes back to this message They will try to turn everyone against you They're very egotistical They have this exaggerated sense of their own self-importance and abilities And Yeah, just like they manipulated you And they got you to stick around all of that time all of those years Well, they never actually did anything for you. They just wasted your time Maybe your money and resources as well And then they go They manipulate up just as they did to you They get everyone To see you in the exact same way They try to control you. They isolate you And it's the same thing as they did to you They manipulate, they lighted them And in a way they also give them a form of future faking as well Well, yes, they may bring up the past They may turn Mohals into mountains And exaggerate all of these things that you are meant to have done in the past Or they just may make up things all together And it may not have any basis in reality But then they also future fake The enablers and flying monkeys as well But they're type of future faking for them. It's not that They're going to do or give something to them They future fake in a way where they label you as bad crazy or wrong And that is at some point in the future You're going to be up to something You're going to be doing something wrong Because you're this bad person, you're crazy, you're dangerous And of course I'm not saying that I just know that that's what they're thinking, the narcissist And that's what they've got in all of their flying monkeys to believe as well And Although I am in quite a good mood Right now I don't want to take the seriousness away From these situations I mean Clearly yes, I am someone that you can talk to, someone who will understand All of these types of things But the flying monkeys Even the enablers They are not the type of people that you can go and talk to And try to explain your side It's not going to work that way The narcissist already got to them, they beat you to the punch They got there first, they already manipulated them They got inside their heads And I know these things, these smear campaigns, the gang stalking It's a psychological phenomenon Or at least it's supposed to be Until you do enough research and you really understand it Because you've got to look at it like this That same narcissist who manipulated All of these people to turn against you Is it really that hard for you to believe? Because just look back That same narcissist manipulated you They made you believe in all of these lies and illusions all of that time And I don't know if you were with them for a few years Maybe a few decades All of that time they had you caught up They had you believing all of these things And people may have came to you during that time and tried to tell you That you were being cheated, you were being manipulated And you didn't want to believe it And yes I know in time maybe you found my videos and you started to wake up But it may be different for you, you may be an empath You may be more able to understand these types of things As I've said before a lot of the enablers and flying monkeys They are in fact narcissists, borderline sociopaths, psychopaths as well So they're not going to come to that same conclusion as you did They could be around for 10, 20 years For the rest of their lives and they will never get it And yes I can understand that may be hard to believe Because although it may have taken you some time to figure it out You got it in the end But it's not going to be that same way for them Because a lot of you because of your empathy You pull out of it because you want to be of service to someone You want to help people Narcissists are not thinking that way They are in it for themselves To get supply And they see you as the perfect target You've already been manipulated You've already been groomed by the narcissist So they haven't even got to do any of the work It's already done for them It's the perfect set up for all of these predators to come in To swoop in and take you out Or keep you down rather So that is typically how that happens But just why yes I can tell you that you are wasting your time Trying to get them to understand Trying to get them to believe you Doing that you're just going to waste your own energy It's just going to drain you It's going to confuse you Because as I said a lot of them already know exactly what they're doing They may already know that there's nothing wrong with you at all But they love the reactions you're giving to them You believe what they're saying You're listening to them You're believing that there's something wrong with you And you're trying to defend yourself You're trying to prove something to them And they love it when you're doing all of that But you need to stop trying to convince them I have been a victim, a target of multiple sphere campaigns throughout my entire life And one thing that I've learned Is that there is no point explaining or justifying yourself To people who don't even care They honestly couldn't care less If there was something wrong with you or not If you did something wrong or not They don't even care about that They just use it as an excuse Because everyone knows Or should know That there is no excuse for abuse And I hope that you will know that as well If you are one of my subscribers If you watch my videos You should not go around Exposing people To the public And yes I understand it's sad that the reason why these narcissists do this a lot of times Is because they were scared, they were afraid That you were going to expose them And that is why a lot of times they expose you And I don't know about you But in my situations What I became the target of sphere campaigns I actually never intended to expose anyone I was never thinking of doing that at all Yes I may have confronted the narcissist Or people who knew them People who were close to them But that was never my intention at all to expose them Because I am actually a very loyal and devoted person And that completely goes against what I believe in I already know that would make me wrong To make something public About my relationship, my family To put their names out there I already know that that would be wrong of me And I don't advise any of you to do that as well Because I personally believe that that is wrong But yes these narcissists that is what they will do They will blame you and they will tell everyone about it Because if you haven't figured it out by now They are not loyal Plane flying above I'm going to be on a plane now in a couple of days flying out But yes they are not loyal And the crazy thing about it is All of these enablers, these flying monkeys And you may have been an enabler or a flying monkey for the narcissist as well At one point All of them they think are Yes we have the sense of loyalty, the sense of belonging to the group To the narcissist Or to the other flying monkeys and enablers But that's exactly what you had as well And you may have been the closest person to them And they still got rid of you You may have been the most loyal person they ever had in their lives So it really just shows you how delusional All of these flying monkeys and enablers really are If you devoted all of that time, energy, money and resources to the narcissist And they got rid of you It just shows that they really are playing everyone for a fool And yet you were the one you probably cared more about them Than anyone else did in their entire lives And they got rid of you And now they're surrounded by all of these fake people who probably don't even care about them And they're all just using each other And yet you're worried Maybe you're angry, you're upset That the narcissist turned these people against you As I said I don't want to take away the seriousness from this From this situation But when you look at it, it's like who cares When you look back and you realize that you were the most loyal devoted person to them You cared more about them than anyone else in their lives And they got rid of you Why? Because you did one thing wrong If that's all that it takes To be thrown out of a business partnership If that's all that it takes that you do One thing wrong And it's not even a big thing Maybe you didn't even cheat on them You didn't lie to them You didn't steal from them You didn't do any of those things And yet that's all that it takes For them to get rid of you Then why would you want to be a part Of something like that to begin with Because clearly there is no place for someone like you in that You're far greater than that And they already knew it That's why they turned everyone against you Because they already knew that you were going to shine the light on them And everything that they did to you They abused you, they manipulated you, they tricked you And I know they did that Because that's how you found my videos in the first place You wouldn't have found my videos if you didn't think that you got cheated You got robbed You wouldn't have found my videos if you didn't think that So I already know And I am not the type of person To fall for these tricks, these childish games No one is going to come on here And make me turn against anyone I'm not going to give anyone advice Even if you are dealing with a narcissist I'm not going to be your flying monkey, your enabler I'm not going to team up with you to tear anyone down If you expose them to the world No, we do not do things like that on here We promote good righteous behavior And I recommend for you to do that as well There needs to be a distinct line between you and them Something that separates you Because there is clearly a difference of character between you and them They're going out And they're doing all of these things to tear you down When that is something that you never would have done to begin with You never would have engaged in that type of behavior But guess what, they're so afraid, they're so scared They may have thought you were going to do that They may have thought that you were going to reject or abandon them Even after your years of loyalty and dedication towards them They thought you were just going to toss them aside and forget about them And the reason why is because they don't even know you All they know is that that is exactly what they were about to do to you That is what they did to you So take a good look at yourself And realize how much of a better person you are than them Because I believe that these traits, I mean for me Loyalty is number one There is nothing more important than that to me And of course that is how I'm able to get on you every day And make these videos Because yes, I am loyal to you And I've always been loyal to everyone in my entire life At least until they abuse me Until they put their hands on me without my consent against my will Or maybe they mentally raped me I don't condone loyalty in those types of situations Nala's trying to get out of the car Nala's going to leave now I'm going to see her for a while I'm flying out in a couple of days Going to miss her a lot But we have been separated many times in the past Again, it's loyalty Even my cat I am very loyal to my cat Don't know if you know but I had her when she was eight weeks old She's six years old She's still very happy, very healthy Spent so much money Flying her around Paying for pets it is Maybe tens of thousands of pounds Over the last few years But it's worth it for my cat And do anything for my cat And do have a daughter as well It was a bad situation, it didn't end too well I haven't really talked about it much But I haven't seen her for a couple of years And my daughter, I would do anything for her as well Because for me Loyalty is not a family Family is everything But at least until they turn their backs on you When they start to turn people against you They start these campaigns But that is not right And I don't care if it's your own family Someone you're married to It's wrong And you need to recognize that And separate yourself from it I mean many of you, you're so caught up in it You're listening to what they're saying about you You're looking at yourself Thinking that something is wrong with you To the point where you're not even looking at everything they're doing to you I mean at some point you've got to be like Forget about whatever it is that I'm meant to have done What about what they're doing to me And maybe you're trying to make a change Maybe you're trying to be better I mean that's why you Likely confronted them Questioned them Because all you really wanted is for them to treat you better Maybe you just wanted a more functional situation And then they took that as abandonment It was though you were going to expose them When all you really wanted was some space, some peace Just some time to be alone You just wanted to work together with them to make things better Yes, because they're so hypersensitive to rejection They just went all out and tried to turn everyone against you A lot of times that's what they do, they get us completely wrong And that's just how it goes a lot of times But yes, I've got to go It is getting quite late I've got to check in at another condo now tonight I do hope this message was helpful I know a lot of you out there are going through this And as always, I will talk to you in another video very soon