 A six stereotype is that we're really paranoid, but I think fear looks really different for each of us. My fear is much more emotional. I fear you'll leave me. I fear I won't be good enough. I fear I'm too demanding or high maintenance. When I first learned about the Enneagram and discovered I was probably a six, my next thought was well, I don't fear very many things, so I must be a healthy six. A few weeks later, I attended an Enneagram workshop where I learned that my fear of being afraid is still a fear. The opposite of fear is in brute courage or might, it's faith. The people will show up for you, that you'll be okay. It's leaving room for unknowns. Being a healthy six means embracing instability in order to become truly secure.