 میں بھائیوں اور بھامو خطر ساتھ میں اسلامہ ہے کہ ہمینے جانتے ہیں کہ ہمارے سی بہت heیف میں بھی اور ہمارے سی بہت ساتھ بھی مشروط ہممارے سی بھی ہے خبط روزوں میںا طرح لائنس سےувати ہے جب عامٰین ایک حار gamesی hvor میں ایک بہت بھائی کی ساتھ ہونے کہ ہمارے ساتھ ہوتی ہے کہ ہمارے ساتھ ہونے کو لئے یہ وہ بیرہ آج لے ہوں گا لہذا مہارہ میں میں اپنی وقت کی منذارے کی بھی کسی بھی ممتظہر ہے جب کیونکے ان کی اپنیہ اپنی حالت کام کسی حالت کتا ساتھ بھی لہذا اپنی بیرہ کی طرح اپنی بیچی ہے لہذا کی تختیقہ کے نقر تقیقہ کے نقر تقیقہ het انہوں کو تقرحی کا ایک اختیقہ کی حالت کسی بھی بھی رہنے کی تفراد ہے بس آپ جانتا رہنے سے مستان بھی کان رہتا ہے euch to see to things and this is not only in marriage in anything you need to look at their relation ship with their maker if they have a good relationship with their maker which is true and not hypocritical what that means is sometimes you have a person praying five times a day and i see this happening more and more کہتا ملیمہ و سالاتا ہے اسی بھر کے باتوں پیارتی ہے وہ ملیمہ کے باتوںی مالیمہ کے باتوں کو جوا پر but people are fulfilling salah and still they are immoral and they are evil. I don't know if you are seeing this, it's because there is something lacking in that prayer. Perhaps the sincerity, perhaps the genuineness. روحہ میں تک روحہ بہت کسی بہتالی ہوتا ہے۔ تب ایک بہترانی اللہ سبحانہوں سے مظکل ہوتا ہے کہ اگر میں مجھے سن ہے کہ اپنے کیا عور پرقہ جانتی ہے تو اس کے مقام سا々رہ میں ایسی پردہ نہیں کریں۔ امکہ میں ناہی بھی ناہی چیز کے مقتور میں لیکن، میں آباہ نہیں ہے۔ میں، ایک ہر مد vibr میں بھی ناہی چیز۔ میں آپ کو اپنی بھی ناہی بھی ناہی چیز ہے، مرحبا باقیت ہ رہا ہوں۔ اولیم باقیت ہوں ، میرے مرحبا باقیت ہوں ، اولیم باقیت ہوں ، میرے مرحبا باقیت ہوں ، اولیم باقیت ہوں ، مغرب کے ساتھ حیارت ہوں ، اُن لیسا سب حانہ ہوں ، ایک ممتازا ہمارے ساتھ ہے ، ممتازا ہوں ، but we are not genuine we just do it because our friends are doing it all because we don't want to be seen as someone who's not praying سان پر دیئے لککا تو سانسیرٹی آپ کو سیکارتہو کو لئے جب آپ کا اپنے معاہ سبحانہ واتعالہ کو زیادہ پر تک زیادہ جب آپ کا اپنے معاہ سبحانہ واتعالہ کو جانتے ہیں. کیا بھروں اور بھرشاہ میں ہیں جو آپ کو جو دل اپنے منمیتا سخ Kor جانتی ہے اور اسے پر کارکتی اور بیٹان گتی ہے یہ juice why when it comes to marriage the prophet peace be upon him. Did not say that you must marry the person who looks the best. You must marry the person who has the most money. You must marry the person who comes from the highest family in terms of lineage that is respectible or you must marry someone just because he او جس کا مبہر او بہت ہوتی ہے تو اگر آپ کو پروپوزل کیا کہتے ہیں گے جو آپ کو پر آپ کو پرکوزل کے بات ہے کہ آپ کو پرکوزل کو پرکوزل کیا ہے جو جو خلوق میں جو خلوق اور دین کے بات ہے کہ اگر اللہ اور اگر کریچوں سے اللہ کہا کہ اللہ میں ریلشنشی پر سکتا ہوں اور وہاں اللہ کاما پر ریلشنشی پر سکتا ہوں گے when I look at others I don't look at them as rich and poor and dark and fair and powerful and not powerful I look at them as creatures of the same maker who made me their entitlement is just like my that's it so when I look at them in that way and I respect them it develops my own character اگر اینا ممتعریہ کے بارے میں انجاء پہنس کر دے گا۔ جب区مین ممتعریہ میں جو تکہ کسی گارے میں اللہ سبحانہ و تعالی کی شارکتھا ہے۔ اگر اینا جو جيد ہے گی کہ اللہ کے بارے میں ملدی ہے جو جيد ہے اگر اینا ممتعریہ میں بھی لéتтора own représent ہوتا ہے لیکن این کے کانیک دیگنا چاہتے ہیں لیکن کہ آپ کی بارے کو غوابش نہیں ہے گا۔ اگر ممتعری لے او جیسار ممتعریہ او رہ او کی ممتعریہ اور اپنے ناری میکنے سے مانگے کرتے ہیں اگر جو سی گاڈین چاہتے ہیں آپ کی شخص دیکھا ہے یہ ایک ایک سیاز کے دیسی دیکھتے ہیں، آپ کے ایک سیاز اور انیسان سیدوں کے ساتھ کی بردیں نہیں کہاونی جانتا ہے۔ thispeople ضرور ایک میکنے کو leash بھی نہیں۔ کنی ایک حال نہیں کھونے؟ پھر آپ کی کسی؟ اللہ ہی آپ کو میکنے آپ کو بہت سامنے سے کالت چیز کی جانتے ہیں اللہ کا چاہد دارے جاتا گا. لہذا ہم جو جو ہمارے والوں کو انجال کرنا کیتے ہیں. چیخ امران میں hazardous جب國ہ بیان کے ساتھ اسی صحیح کی نشتہ ہی نہیں دینا جانتے ہیں کہ یہ صحیح کیا جسی کن کیا جب پر اللہ کیا جب پیک thanی کیا جیسے میں بھی کسی کے بارہ آپ اور میں پیان کی جاتے ہیں جو سبحانہ اللہ کیا آپ کو پہلی ہوتے ہیں جو سبحانہ اللہ بک протیری لیتے ہیں جب مجھوری کو ایسی اللہ کیا جو بہت کے ایک ممعاقہ ہے جو آپ کے بارے میں نemنی کے بارے میں ان کا کیا جاتے ہیں جانا گا ایک د்?ا Dabei쪽ڑ Salut دیتے تھےمینcous عرم ہیتی ہے جل Eliot د Hye relieved درارانو ہونجا ہے گیاrets ملے اصader ہے کے ا Highway امنہ پو !!! يلود اند rain ملے include اللہ و اکبر ,Yo ا dolphins اس پر کہہتا ہے ، یہ ایک بھی دوڑا ہے ، امام کہ ہمارے بھی جتا رہے ہیں جب جانتے ہے اور ہمارے ایک بھائی سے وصد کی طرف ہمارے بہت ایک امرابلہ اس پر آنے خواہت آپہ کیا لگاہاں لیں جس کیا لگاہاں لیں آپ مہار کے لئے ہمارے بہت ہمارے بہت آپ کیا جس کیا لگاہاں لگاہاں لہنا نبا کروا کیا ، اسے دیreamڈ کیا ، آپ ہماری بھائی کیا خبت کو ساملہ ہوں ، لیکن آپ یہاں حوالے سے ساملہ خیالی ہوتا کہ آپ کو خوبط موکنے dresses کم65oma جو نواری ساتھ ہونا ہے۔ اگر میں اللہ کی three میں تو کیا ہے کہ اگر میں اللہ کی ورلی کیا ہے اور ہمیلس Incred fact اسی بہوچنے میں سے پہلے جاتا ہے تو سبحان اللہ کو جاؤں معرفلی معرفلی ہے۔ جو آپ کو سب سے اچھا جاہیں گے ہوتا ہے اور آپ کی ان کے ملیات ہے بھی سبتوں کا سبرہ ہوتا ہے۔ ہمLAUSE ہم آپ کا سبیت تک مہلوہ ہوتا ہے۔ ہمیلس ان کے ساتھ اور ان کے ساتھ بے ان نمی سینا نہیں جاتا ہے، ہمیییے جو نمشہ ہی سنت ہے ، ہماریتوں کی کامنای اور بارے میں سنانا جاتا ہوں ، کامنای اور کارکٹر ساتھ بات ہے ، ولو نمشہ پر بہت کامنای لے گیا ، میں آپ کو چیز کو معلوم کریں گی ہے۔ جانتے ہیں کہ آپ کو معلوم کرتے ہیں ، عمامet وہ مخبور ج Grandeبوٹ ہے ، اور وہ کبائی برانی برانی دینانے意ہ جاتا ہے . ہم کیا جو خوبت بہت ہی اس طیور کیا کیا ہے جس کا رہے ہیں۔ ارخای اिش شاہی سہاتی ہماری رکھی ساتیں گا ، اُن ناس تقوی ربکم اللہ دی خالقا کن او بیبل بی کنچس of یو رب کو میدیو بی کنچس of the one who میدیو who created you who nourishes who provides for who is in control of you بی کنچس of him تقویہ what is the meaning of تقویہ before I get into it I tell you the end of that verse اللہ سیز وطق اللہ سکن time in the same verse what تقویہ اللہ اللہ دی تساہلو نبی وال ارحان conscious of اللہ whose name you use to ask for things from one another you know we say اللہی بلہی تلہی don't we say that we want people to believe us we want people to do things for us ڈسٹرہ we use the name of اللہ now a days when a muslim says اللہی what happens especially when they say اللہی there's a problem there's something wrong there they did not need to say that سبحان اللہ you could have said اللہی it's not wrong to say اللہی and sometimes you know it's part of the speech because اللہی it's part of the speech you see what I just said which means اللہ سبحانہ وتعالہ speaks about اللہ بلہ وی فی ایمان کم بیما عکتم ال ایمان اللہ does not hold against you that which you say in terms of oaths by اللہ as you are passing in speech someone says what's the time اللہی my brother it's about 11 o'clock what you mean is oh my brother it's about 11 o'clock but it's part of your speech some people have the statement that they keep uttering it's not wrong it's part of speech it's not wrong to say that for example someone says how are you say what are you my brother I'm okay اللہی my sister you know الحمدلہ I thank اللہ that doesn't mean I'm taking an oath that's the name of اللہ that's being used as part of my speech اللہ says I won't punish you for that I know that that both parties are aware of the fact that it's just part of a statement but اللہ says when you promise when you are taking an oath and you are making it confirmed someone says how old are you you say 42 43 are you sure اللہ here I'm 42 or 43 sorry I'm not giving my age away I'm just telling you okay I could be who knows so اللہ سبحانہ و تعالیٰ is informing us of this اللہ is saying it twice in the in the same verse be conscious of Allah number one he says the one who made you number two he says the one whose name you use and then he adds to that while our hama be conscious of your relatives those who are connected to you from the wombs so our hama is the plural of raheem which means the womb the womb the womb سبحان اللہ be conscious of those who are related to you through the womb you know why because it was اللہ alone who decided that they will be related to you no one else think about it for a moment your relative no matter who they are how are they related to you was it your choice okay take away the husband or the wife because you had a small role to play in it right but we're talking of those related to you through the womb was it your choice no no you can desperately want to have been the brother or the sister of someone you can only be their brother and sister in humanity at times or if it's a bigger gift it's humanity as well as brother and sister in faith مشاہ اللہ so تقوہ تقوہ اللہی secondly another of this of خطبت الحاجہ یا ایوہ اللہ دین آمن و اٹھق اللہ حق تقاتح ولا تموتن إلا و المسلمون اویوہ who believe be conscious of اللہ سبحانہ و تعالیہ and to not allow yourself to die except in the condition of islam or in the condition of submission to اللہ that means live your life every day as though you're going to die on that day so you are obedient to اللہ سبحانہ و تعالیہ someone might say how can i ensure that i'm alive or sorry that i pass away in the condition of islam how can i be sure that i will be a submitter when i die the answer is every day if you ensure that in yourself you realize i may not see the end of today so let me do something between me and Allah then they will come a day when that will definitely be your last day so that's another verse talking about تقوہ consciousness of Allah etc the third one also Allah says اویوہ اللہ سبحانہ و تعالیہ و تعالیہ و تعالیہ و تعالیہ و تعالیہ و تعالیہ و تعالیہ اویوہ who believe be conscious of Allah تقوہ for the fourth time in this خطبہ that they are reading just before you get married one of the places where it is read that means the first and primary cornerstone and foundation of a happy home a happy family a happy marriage is تقوہ اللہ now one might say let's expand slightly on the term تقوہ for the next two minutes a lot of the people say fear Allah have you heard that fear Allah fear Allah it's commonly used some people would say be conscious of Allah i'm one of those i would say be conscious of Allah it is a more positive term than fear Allah fear is more of خوف than تقوہ خوف is more fear تقوہ is actually from the creation of a barrier between you and something and this is why the علماء have explained that the term تقوہ is derived from the deeper meaning to create a barrier between you and the anger of Allah the displeasure of Allah the punishment of Allah which means love Allah when it comes to Allah i will fulfill my salah not because i'm scared of Allah but i'm rather scared of the punishment of Allah i'm scared to displease Allah so i'm worried if i displease him i will be punished more than that punishment is actually the displeasure of the one who made me so there should be an element of love in تقوہ when you love someone you don't want to displease them do you understand when i love someone i really don't want to displease them people say i love my mom i love my dad but they're not allowing me to marry who i want to marry well maybe you have a problem maybe they have a problem or maybe both of you have a problem i can't just say your dad is wrong because i don't know the guy if i knew him i might also say no and just to clarify that if you want to say no you need to have a valid reason he needs to have been someone really out of tune completely you know no fulfillment of his duties unto Allah and no fulfillment of his duties unto the rest of humanity bad habits etc it brings me to the points if you're listening carefully these are points that are foundations of happy marriages you don't have a bad habit if you have a bad habit kick it including smoking it's a bad habit people do it socially you know what is social smoking what was that for i'm just puffing to show you at kfc we get onion rings from my mouth you get smoke rings مجھے اللہ مجھے مجھے have you seen how they do and it comes out like this and they try to impress quit the habit smoking kills the whole world will tell you that people say is it حلال حرام مکرو حرام what is it والا ہی whatever it is it's a bad terrible quit it cut it now because on the box it says it kills all it is hazardous to the health how can you as a muslim still think that you know what it's fine for me to do this مہ اللہ سبحانہ واتحالہ گائدس i met a friend once for your information it was not in nigeria okay so he had a cigar big one cuban from cuba and he's just puffing i said what do you get out of it he says brother it's the status it's the status the status مہ اللہ سبحانہ واتحالہ forgive us what kind of status is this like the people who go gambling and they're all sitting together and putting more and more and they think well it's the status when i go there i'm given respect but you're losing money you're doing something حرام you're earning the displeasure of Allah you're becoming mates with شیطان and you're saying it's a status well may Allah forgive us that breaks the family it breaks the marriage as well cut out these bad habits no matter what they are so تقوا is actually has within it an element of the love of Allah that is so deep that you don't want to displease Allah because you know if i love Allah so much i create a barrier between me and the displeasure of Allah ابن حجر العسقلانی says ات تقوا ان تجعل بينك و بين عذاب اللہ وقایہ تقوا is to create a barrier between you and the punishment of Allah by doing what Allah wants and by staying away from his prohibition sometimes there is no barrier between you and the sin but you just say no i won't do it i don't want to displease the one who made me i actually love him i love him so much سبحان اللہ مے اللہ سبحانہ و تعالیٰ قرانت سدیب اندستانک so the first foundation of any relationship is تقوا if you're conscious of Allah automatically it will be a pleasure to interact with you because you don't have a closet where you hide all the skeletons and if you've done things wrong in the past you've sought the forgiveness of Allah سبحانہ و تعالیٰ we need to remember this so this is تقوا this is something important let's take a look at some of these verses because i've just read them now and i realized that one of these verses speaks also about the tongue oh you who believe be conscious of Allah and only utter that which is upright سدیب سدیب means straight upright only utter that which is upright imagine if you're in your marriage and you only say things that are upright it cuts out your swear words it cuts out your lies it cuts out all sorts of falsehood and insulting words abusive words and hurtful words many men and women we say things to our children our parents our spouses that are so hurtful and we think that we are entitled we don't even consider it sinful when you your child is making a noise shut up relax سبحان اللہ i went into one home and they said hey there was some noise going on in the background and someone started screaming what were they saying they tried to keep the children quiet and then they said stop screaming what are you doing what are you doing silly you are screaming to tell people to stop screaming and that's what we do we tell people to do not to do things we are doing right now right here it doesn't help so when you want someone to be in a certain way you need to be in that way first that's another foundation to be a role model i want my children not to commit adultery but i'm everywhere every day and i'm praying for my daughters and my sons may Allah forgive us may Allah strengthen us i want my children to pray to dress appropriately but i'm only مناسب ان کیا ہی سوء ہے جو ہی poderia لیسے ویڈ لیسے house بوڈی like ہی اس کو ہمحالے ساری ویڈ لیسے لیسے سوء کام موساک ہے جو بڑی اسے سوء ہے آپ جانتے ہو کہ آپ اللہ آپ کیا ساکتے ہیں اللہ آپ تو آپ کو اُن چیزوں کیا ہے جو جانتا ہی آپ کو مد ہے جو آپ کو محال월یس حکموں میں محالورت ہے اور خلال رسول اللہ کی امامی ملی کے امامی ملے جب آپ کو جانا ہو جاتا ہے اگر آپ کیا ہے ہے کہ آپ کے satisfaction میں کیا ہے کہ آپ یہ پہلے کیا ہے تمہارے کا نوشہ کھو ہے اور شپ رجالے میں پر اس چھوڑ لیکن ہے جو آپ کیا ہے کہ اس بلڈی میں مروں گوپی کھو ہے ہمیں بہت سے برہاں گوپی اور کیا ہموں کے گوپی جاتا ہے اور اس customize آپ کے HP اچھاٹانے کے لئے آپ کو کہانے کے لائمیں آج پی ایک کھو ہے اور اس سے شاب کسی تک انہیں پوریوں کہے اپرودگیاٹ لیکن اور وہ ب寫یناریاڈ کو کہتا اس کو Technael را کہنا نے کالشاییرپھر دانستخرروںہ اسو جو کہا knowadas ہے جو کہ لکھہ میرے مثال میں ڈائی compare اللہ فور ایک خوب'tا ہے دےfان w lässt Mitch pullئیک bissing بہنuta اگی ایک عام ل گا اگر لو کے راتی ہے ن interview مونک� کی First way اللہوں سے آپ میں فلی다�ی ہے ، جناحہ با اوضہ جارہ ہے ، ہم ایسا بھی مصاوی نہیں ہے اور گابل ہموار ہم ایسا سوار اور بودانی ، وہ جمهان اللہ کا سبحان اللہ سے مطرحک止 رہے ہیں۔ پھر جیسا ایک بھی جانتے ہیں کہ آپ وپر لیے آپ کے بہت بھیوں سے جو آپ کے معجش کرو کاؤنے والتے ہیں اور آپ کو کال تعلیم کے بحامے کہ جانتے ہیں ، آپ Seongra کہتے ہیں فیمہ میں سا Brother کا بحامہ کیا ان کی میں گ authors ہوں جراز پر دیکھتی ہے گے تھے ایک بار بھی بھی ایک بار پری روک پر پر دیکھتے ہیں اور بہت سیر میں نشرت ہونے کیونکہ اللہ الدیکھ ہی کبھی خواہ پر لئے کیوں کہ خواہ پر دیکھ رہے ہیں جب انہفرنی دیدہرف معاہد کیا andاڈتا ہے پر ہے دیکھ جانے کے لئے تھے کیونکہ اسی ہوتی ہے کیونکہ انہفرنی انہفرنی جانے کے لئے دیکھے ہیں اور اپنی官ہ میں اچھا میڈ سوچا کرتے ہیں اور ہمیں شخص بھی سے اپنے جو اسی ملیبا مردا کیسے کہ سارے کی حسن ہے۔ کسی خوانہ کیا، اللہ کا نوع خواہت ہے تو اللہ تھا بھی ملیبا مباشا ہے۔ حدیث دیتا ہے کہ کیا اللہ تعاوش آپ کو آگا ہے ، وہ جانتا ہے۔ اگر میں کا خواہت ہے کہ ہم سے شاہت پڑھتی ہیں، اگر میںivoی ہم جانتا ہوں میں لیگا ہوں میںا کے ساتھ ہوں۔ اتنی جانتے ہیں اللہ میںanking جانتا ہوں ، وہ جانتے ہیں۔ اس کو جانتے ہیں لاکھا ہوں ۔ لیکن آپ سوچنے کے لئے لیکن آپ پر بھی دارکتے ہیں ۔ آپ Assistance ہی م勢یو اور برنامہارہ رکھتے ہیں کہ ہم سلمت کی نماز آجائے کہ مفتہ ہیں جو ہمارے سامنے ہوں کہ ہمارے سامنے ہوں اللہ کی نشکز ہی فرمہ ہی رکھے ہیں. کم saint ایک سامنے ہمارے سامنے ہوں کیا جوا ہے کہ أس ایک بھی آجائے ، اللہ ہمارے سامنے ہمارے سامنے ہمارے سامنے ہمارے سامنے ہی سامنے ہی تعطف مجھے عمل پر بہت پڑھتے ہیں۔ اللہ Wow دیتا تھے میں کنہ اک میں پروی اللہ کھانے کیا تھا؟ اور بھائی مقفز کیا گے اور اس سے بانے ساتھ پھا سکتے ہیں کہ آپ خوبم کیا یہ جانتے ہیں۔ لہذا اللہ کہا دے ہمیاری ہم نفس آپ کے ازمان willی ہوتی ہے۔ یہ ہے۔ کیا بہت ہوتی ہے؟ ہی ذہب میں اگر اٹھا ہوتی ہے تو آپ ہم بہت بہت نصاف کےرت بند کر دیا۔ اور آپ ہیں کہ ایہ اللہ بہت بند ہی ہے۔ اللہ now there was a big bell that rang what happened yeah اللہ you said that for the first time genuinely after 10 years of having everything اللہ says I love you that's why I just let you be positive so that positive in your sickness so that you can come to me now I heard you say my name come I want to bring you further you're going to get worse in help but you will get stronger in spirituality now you start to cry you go to the doctor the doctor says sorry you just have 4 months to live that's it yeah اللہ from that day you are up subhan Allah you are crying to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala you are saying oh Allah cure me Allah have no one besides you where was I on the long subhan Allah اللہ says I love you I brought you now do you realize when Allah loves you he tests you because he knows that will bring you to him you come to him subhan Allah and sometimes you say Allah take me out of this اللہ says I want you I want this relationship is so beautiful look at you you are so close to me I want to keep you in this condition for another 4 years imagine if you could hear Allah say that what would happen you would say no no no no and then I know of a person who when he was sick he says oh Allah if you cure me I will do this I will never miss a salat I will do this and I will do that be careful of big big promises while you are in and sick because once you become a person who is healthy again yes the follow you cannot compromise but other things that you might have promised who knows what will happen I know of a person who started reading his salat because he was not well and it was a serious illness and a few years later he became well and we did not see him again in the mosque subhan Allah so guess what happened a little time later the same sickness came back that was another gift of Allah when I spoke to him as a counselor as a Muslim I told him my brother this was Allah taking you back to where you were in spirituality but your health might have gone back your closeness to Allah is definitely much much more my brothers and sisters we were talking about leading by example we were talking about the gifts of Allah when we have these gifts of Allah sometimes we tend to distance ourselves from Allah bring yourselves closer to Allah learn how to speak to people I was speaking about how you never know how close someone is to Allah yet in terms of worldly hierarchy they are far lower than you but in the eyes of Allah they are the ones they are the ones remember any marriage or relationship within the family is based on respect respect we know that you need to respect one another it's based on tolerance is based on the correct use of the tongue I know I'm rattling them out one after the other but I want to expand on something that you might not have expanded on before and that is it is based on giving people the independence that Allah has allowed them to have remember that many people will not talk about this today we have problems in homes do you know why we want to control that's why Allah says wait give them let them fish give them the rod let them fish within the limits of Allah give them their freedom I don't know exactly of this nation or the culture that happens in your societies but I can tell you across the globe we have a problem what problem many of them connected to when you get married people look at you as someone who has to fulfill a role that is semi impossible to fulfill so what was the point of getting married and the other side of the coin is true also we get married and sometimes we don't want any responsibility we think it's a honeymoon like I said yesterday we think it's a honeymoon so you know when you're on honeymoon what's the difference between honeymoon and when the honeymoon is over can I tell you when you're on a honeymoon just what happens your wife is honey everything honey hi honey you're a k honey and two weeks later when she has to cook at home سبحان اللہ ہانی مونیز اوپر ازن اے she becomes sugar no more no more honey so now you call her sweetie hi sweetie what happened to the honey you don't know honey moon is over you don't grade it you're now sweetie سبحان اللہ سبحانہ ہوا تعلق help us and after that hey my sugar what's up sugar where sugar سبحان اللہ ہی you don't grading me without me realizing I'm so excited about it but that's what it is honeymoon is over after that he calls you name I remember one you know forward that we received on the phone once from one of my friends and he says there was a man who kept he was an old man 70 years old 75 years old and he kept referring to his wife with all these beautiful terms sweetie and honey and lovey and dovey and everything else and they said you're so romantic how come you have all these names you know that you call he says you know to be honest I forgot her name 40 years ago may Allah سبحانہ ہوا تعلق not let that happen to us my brothers and sisters remember marriage is one of the biggest sacrifices you will ever make remember that both male and female if you are not prepared to sacrifice your entire system your style will change that's the sacrifice you have to make on both sides if you're not prepared to sacrifice perhaps it's not going to last perhaps there's going to be turbulence they're going to be problems a lot of the men think you know I don't need to adjust she is the woman she must come in and adjust who said that the adjustment must happen on both sides a little bit here and a little bit there give and take that's what it is سبحان اللہ we need to sacrifice you know before you know it the wife is expecting and what happens that is a sacrifice you have to sacrifice your system your sleep sometimes you have to tolerate something grand sometimes not every pregnancy is the same every pregnancy is different even with the same person every pregnancy is unique in one way or another so what happens you as a husband you need to also share what is going on be sensitive to it say words of love when Allah says utter that which is upright go out of your way to say the most beautiful things to your spouse considering it an act of worship both ways husband to wife wife to husband the problem is some men they know the most beautiful words they will say oh you look stunning you're gorgeous you know you're drop dead gorgeous you're this you're that but they're saying them to the wrong people that's a problem you know all the words but when you come home it's the food ready no one would believe unless they were CCTV on you what you just uttered to another sister who was not even supposed to be uttered those words no one would believe what you did how do you want your family unit to develop how do you want your marriage to strengthen how do you want your children to learn when you are being so hypocritical where it is deserved you don't do it and where it is not deserved you do it many men could not be bothered to fulfill the conjugal rights of their own spouses because they do it in haram or sometimes they don't realize the prophet ﷺ says when you fulfill the intimate rights of your spouse it is a sadaka it is an act of worship it is a charity the Sahabah were surprised they listening they said me have sex with my wife and it's an act of worship so they said how messenger how is that you know what he said ارائیت اِن وضعہ فی حارام do you see if this person fulfilled his desires in a haram way would he get a sin they said yes he would well if he fulfilled it in the right way he would get a reward سبحان اللہ many people said you know when a man calls his wife she's supposed to respond you know سبحان اللہ what about the wife's needs many men don't even want to talk about that you've left her alone she's remaining this way as though she's a widow سبحان اللہ and she's not she has a husband he's not really interested he's not keen she'll touch you at night and so on what do you do turn the other way hey I'm tired trying to sleep don't you see what time I gave what time do I go and you said what did I say I didn't say anything may Allah forgive us the only reason I'm speaking bluntly and directly is because my beloved messenger صل اللہ علیہ وسلم has spoken in the same blunt and direct way otherwise I would be ashamed of speaking and saying things he spoke about it live open clear no hiding because Allah knows this problem was there and it's going to come where men sometimes think that's it it's me I'm only worried about me me me and me you know no way not at all it is about us it is about a family unit a family unit is made up by more than one person otherwise it's not called a family unit a marriage is made up by more than one person otherwise it's not called a marriage you can't say I'm a married man when you don't have someone who called a wife you can't say you're married may Allah سبحانہ و آلہ و آلہ و آلہ قرانتہ سٹریک so my brothers and sisters it's important for us to know to give people their independence when you're married sometimes people think and I know the in-laws sometimes feel this in some cultures like I said I'm not totally aware of the culture here but I know in a lot of the places in the world a woman gets married and the mother-in-law thinks that okay I can now fire the maid I used to pay because now I've got a maid whom I don't need to pay if that's the case you have failed no would actually say no to doing some of the household chores if she is appreciated correctly am I right sisters you heard that they don't mind they will cook for you they will do for you and so on they will say a lot but at the same time they will say as much I'm sorry they will do a lot they want you to appreciate it that's all you just need to say wow you must have been working from the morning to the evening don't worry the weekend will go out to eat I'm not encouraging going out to eat by the way but I'm giving an example you can bring her something bring a little gift we take gifts for everyone here and they what about your spouse what have you done have you ever brought her a gift or him have you ever decided sometimes subhanallah you know I remember and I'm going to tell you this it's my own life okay so I'm not doing riba of someone or saying something of someone one day I was leaving to travel on a journey and I remember as I was going there were some visitors now normally you greet your spouse and you go as though you're never going to come back because every time you leave the home it could be the last time they may never see you again so whenever you leave loved ones make sure you utter beautiful words to them because it could be the last time that you're ever seeing them right so I saw my wife was busy and I'm thinking to myself what should I do now you know she's there with the visitors I can't go in these are ladies sitting and saying love you my love you love you and so you know some of us it's still a little bit taboo to do it in public because you know I always believe when people show too much of love in public I don't think they get along inside their doors you know it's just a show you know it's like the boxes who hold hands in public and they want to go they want to box each other you know they were just holding hands before the fight but those who really love each other it's more than words it's more than it's actually something you feel is there that does not mean to not say the words nowadays if you have not said I love you I adore you I miss you and so on 20 times a day to your spouse the new generation they'll think you don't love them no matter what did you hear what I said write it down please sending messages we are professionals we are on our phones all the time I read an article this morning saying one man was saying I used to wonder what Allah means when he says you need to sit with total concentration in front of Allah or ponder over the verses of Allah with total concentration until I saw people sitting with the mobile phone now I know what it means they talk to you you can't hear them hello hello how are you yeah everything is okay yeah are you stupid yeah and so on they don't even know what's happening around them they're not concentrating it's only on the phone and we're sending messages the heart you know I've spoken about it in the past WhatsApp has done you a favor it actually starts pumping before it wasn't even pumping and we're sending those hearts every day kisses and hearts and blushing faces and love yous and everything else Subhanallah but to the wrong number wrong number may Allah forgive us send it to the right number and your wife will be shocked your husband will be are you sure are you sure it's the right person wow amazing this is how you build your home you need to show this relationship work on it without working hard on a relationship it's not going to just happen no more there is a lot of pressure out there from various angles to break your home you need to work on it work hard another thing is trust learn to trust one another but it's not good enough to say trust me trust me do not give reason to your spouse to be mistrusted that's also important we always talk about trust the men say talk to the women tell them they need to trust us and I say but men I think those who know my style of answering I normally listen guys why do you give them reason to mistrust you why so let's get back to my story so I saw these people sitting there right and I decided let me take a paper and write on the note I love you I miss you I'm leaving I'll call you later today etc toy it and I put it under a pillow and I went away I was gone there was no other way of doing things you won't believe it you won't believe it she sends me a message later talking of my own family and she tells me that was the best thing that has has happened in a long time for me didn't really I just did it because of the circumstance note Subhan Allah I meant it I'm not sure I didn't mean it but Subhan Allah but what I mean is something I probably thought was this I didn't realize the impact it would have in my own handwriting with a little squiggle at the back looking like a signature meaning at the bottom and I just said two or three sentences and the impact it had and when I went home I saw the paper and now that was it was the center of a romantic relationship you know so I took the paper and I squashed it thinking I'll throw it in the bin and you know hey hey hey leave it leave it I said like what it became an artifact of history I promise you I think it can be put up to shown to the generations you know that that's what he wrote for mom wow anyway we ended up disposing of it because I said no if I leave it there I might not write it again if I don't I'll end up writing it more and more and more Subhan Allah you know men always get their way somehow I don't know Allah Subhan Allah forgive us but the reality the reason I mention this is because what we take for granted our spouses might never thought it would come from us we take it for granted work on your marriages I promise you you can and there is another problem that we have you marry a model Subhan Allah she cannot remain a model forever Subhan Allah she will not she has to become a mother at some stage you have to appreciate you have to say people say you are now too fat and then in some countries you are too thin I mean what's going on they say not enough meat and some people say too much meat what's going on make up your minds guys what do you want may Allah forgive us once again the same applies to the women I think women are more tolerant but sometimes yesterday there was a young man who complained he wrote a question to me and it was in the form of an instruction please tell the women not to be demanding I said well you are telling me what to tell them what's the point of bringing me here they should have left me in Zimbabwe they should have called you up and said please tell them what you want to say Subhanallah then I told him I actually get up because I like to look at both sides of the coin it takes two to tango so I said listen if you want to get married you need to be able to afford your spouse I'm not saying that you need to be wealthy or something but you cannot use me to put your to rest your gun on my shoulder to shoot someone no and when they look at where the bullets coming from they see me standing there a lot of people do that do you hear what moves them so you're using me to shoot down someone else stop it that's not healthy for your relationship don't do that you need to understand there are two sides of the coin just because you are miserly you spend money on women on wine on children and so on meaning on children that are not yours the children of your girlfriend it's happening and your own kids they are dying starving they look at you and they look at you they are dying starving they look at you even for a chocolate wallahi I want to show you something I'm showing it to you just for the sake of Allah look my pocket is here when I got out of the hotel I took with me three small boxes of chocolate here they are two are here why did I do this I said to myself I'll meet a lot of people if I meet little children I'll give them something they'll probably remember me with this and you know what it might touch their lives forever I got a chocolate here it is yesterday I had a few sweets I put them in my pocket to give people wallahi every time I give someone something I think to myself when I go home I'm going to make sure I take for my child as well my own child when I give someone something and I've given gifts to many people I always tell myself that Allah helped me to treat my family in an even better way because the hadith says about charities that when you want to be charitable start at home it's an English saying as well charity begins at home it doesn't say charity begins at your girlfriend's home it doesn't say that you're home wallahi they are people suffering in silence because they are ignored so when you are selfish and you don't do things you don't think things you need to think and do and apply etc when you don't do that and you don't think up ways of developing your relationship and then you want to come and as miserly as you are use an excuse to say you know what don't be demanding I didn't demand anything it's expected of you it's expected of you this appreciation someone cooks and you know the toast is burnt the toast is burnt for example that's the only time you ever notice but for the 10 years that the toast was fine it was just come here why is there no butter here where's the jam where's this where's the honey and she looks and says I'm here I don't mean you I mean the real honey aren't I the real honey ملہ فوجیبا سلام my brothers and sisters rather than that when the toast is burnt and I said this yesterday I'm repeating it you'd rather look and say you know what my darling for years on end Mashallah I had beautiful toast today I'm trying something new I only used to know about smoked salmon now I know about smoked toast as well it's a way سبحان اللہ Everyone makes mistakes You do too but think about a way expressing that while you appreciate the time and the effort put in you will also overlook the mistake that happened that's what it is it happens to all of us time and effort we put into something and sometimes the end result is not as we wanted it Did they plan it No they didn't so we don't ہمیں ایس در اپٹی مجھر سے کفن کرتے ہیں ہمیں شاہی درنگ سے حلہ کرنے یہ ہوتے ہیں ، گھرتے ہیں ، مونکن بورے ہمیں 직접ی درنگ پہنچ میں بڑھنے ہمیں در نقیز میں بناہ ہا جانتے ہیں ، ہم ہمیں سمجھوں کے لئے ہمیں چڑا ہمیں لیکن ، ہمیں اس کے لئے انہوں کے لطرے پر مجھر ہیش نہیں ہوتے ہیں اور کسی معلوم ہیٹا ، انہوں بھی زرادہ ہوتے ہیں ، انہوں بہت تھی ہے ، آنے لگتے ہیں اور آنے لگتے ہیں ، لگتے ہیں ، آنے لگتے ہیں ، ایک دردتے ہیں ، جو آپ کو پہلے ہی چاہتا ہے۔ پھر کسی لوگوں کو مرتمیہ کرتے ہیں ، وہاں جس میں بہت مجھے کیا ہے؟ کیوں سبنہ ہے؟ اور ایسی بھتی ہے کہ آپ کو سبنہ کرے اس کا حدیت ہے کہ آپ کو ایسی اور کچھ کو ایسی ایسی سبنہ کو نبیہ بھی کنے میں لگتا ہے ، اس دانانا چیزا کرونے اور بہت سیہ کرو لیتا ہے۔ اس بہت حصیت کو کیا ضرورت ہے۔ کیا ضرورت ہے کیا ضرورت ہے؟ اپنے حمد انگرز موضوعی ہے۔ نمیز. some of us are so so horrible at home. your wife might think you're shoving poison into my mouth. اتا ہوں چلنے ایک مشاہ ہیں؟ چنج ذات جو ، کوئی پر سگلہ ، After Five یہر你ڈا کرتا ہوں ، چی Yum تک صند김 میں되وں میں implementation اور اپنی괜وز ہم telefoon رن نکی ، اسٹوار ہ تک ایک میںlya cry cartoon ، کیونکہ میں ہوте کرتی ہے ،any میں کیا اسمل کر رہ 셋 آہات پی ہے頻سمر an성이 Partner اگر کیونکہ وہ روش کرنے کے مجھے ایک حسید انہوںتا ہے اس�ل کے لیے جانبتا ہے you must be proud of your child I love you my child you are my love i love you اللہ نے معاہ tuber کرتے جانب Hee امامی you to applicants دو ابل یہ ہے انہوں میں ہی کیا ہے موزی �ہا Cute سب ایک ناجو بہت ل۔ کسی چھانے کا محاہ دی算تے ہیں جانب میں فونی شاہرہ میں بھی بہت بہت بہت بہت بہت بہت بہت بہت بہت بہت سے ہم کو پبڑی ہو could be anyone and someone with evil intention as well. And I don't need to, it's not my duty to respond to the whole world. You can seek from many otherRunner. I know I have 100 emails. I will reply a day and that's it. More than that I can't. And that's a figure that's been pushed up from 10 to 20 to 50 to 100. It's a lot. It takes up a lot of time. But recently I decided when I am going to eat. Now, why I'm saying this, it's to develop اپنے والدہ اور اپنے والدہ. When I'm Going To Eat, My Phone Will Stay In The Room Or In The Lounge. I Do Not Take It With Me On The Table No Matter What. That's Recently I Decided Why I Realized That As A Busy Person As I Am I Sit On The Table To Eat And You Know What Happens By Defaults. I'm Just Checking My Phone Responding. Sometimes My Kids Are Talking To Me And I Didn't Pick It Up And I Am Busy Preaching To The Rest Of The World To Say Watch Out And I Said No Ways I Need To Practice What I Preach Put This Away Put It Away And Now I've Put It Away And While I Eat Is The Best Time You Can Have As A Father With Your Children And Your Family As A Mother Allah Offers You Something Grand And Great Everyone Sit Down Together To Eat It Will Happen At Least Once A Day With Everyone And If It's A Bonus More Than Once In Our کنٹریز We Can Do It More Than Once In The First World Wow It's Once A Week Or Twice A Week They Get An Opportunity To Do It Because Morning To Evening People Are Out But You Have To Do This You Must Put Your Phone Aside Talk To Them Table Manors Everything Else How Was Your Day What Happened Through Your Day You Know They Are Public Examinations Your Child Comes Up With Results They Don't Need To Have Been Rocket Scientists Even If They Haven't Done As Well As You Thought They Would Do Tell Them Well Done I'm So Proud Of You. Because You Are The Only Person Whom They Will Hear That From Did You Hear That I'm Proud Of You They Don't Need To Be First In Class Because First In Class Is Just One Person Maybe Two If There Is A Tide So That Means The Parents Of The Rest Of Them Must Be Absent No Even If Your Child Has Failed How Many Of Us Sitting Here Have Failed Once Or Twice In Certain Things We Do In Life When We Repeat It We Pass Again Second Time Nobody Made A Big Deal Out Of It But We As Parents Today Into Today. When They Are Pre-Doubters Who Are Waiting To Actually Woove On Our Children As They Grow Older To Lear Them Into Their Traps Of Drugs And Sex And Illegitimacy Whatever Else It Is By Showing Them A Lot Of Attention Why There Is A Tension Deficit Back At Home That's The Reason You Want To Develop Your Home Give Your Undivided Attention To Your Family Members Put Your Phone Aside I Promise You Make A Rules That آپ نے قوی عقللہ کہ آپ کی طرف بارائیں گے آپ آپ جو آپ اپنے بار نہیں سکتے ہیں ہمارے بوجیوں اور بارنیتوں کو اکشا کرتا ہوں اور اکشا کرتا ہوں میں کہاو اپریشائتر کرتا ہوں آپ کی يایسوں کو ایک بارنیان مہارنے تحادر ہوں ہے کہ وہ آپ جو آپ کے بارنے لہذا مہارنے کو جو آپ کے لئے۔ لہذا محافظہہ کیا ان соج کیا ہے یہ نہیں بہت بہت جو آپ کے بارنے کے لئے آپ کو فکر پر سکتے ہیں انہوں سے تریندارہ جو مرسل صرف آپ کے ایساں نظفوں کے پرکاران میں جب بھی محاطک ہے ان آپ کے ایساں بھی個 برد کرتے ہیں کہ آپ یہ مجھے آنے میں کہتے ہیں کہ آپ کے مطالحہ آنے میں بھی ج頂ا آپ کو thanانی اے کی مجھے آنے میں مجھے آنے میں بھی جانا کریں جو ایک کے لئے کبار جب آپ کے علمை یہ سمادہ کرتے ہیں جب آپ اس کے حالت کو جو اکساں مجھے جائے لہذا when I say the men should appreciate their women, I'm not saying that the women should now just forget about it and say you see you're supposed to appreciate me and I'm not appreciated, but you're wasting yourself. Don't waste yourself. Some people are naturally big mashaAllah. Some people are naturally small mashaAllah. You need to understand this but at the same time don't allow yourself to become unhealthy. that's the word unhealthy It's got to do with healthy and unhealthy , but guess what? The last time I spoke about this, some of the women reprimanded me They said, why don't you tell the man some of them waste themselves, look the stomach It sticks as the when I was pregnant, nine months my husband looked like he was 18 months 18 مرے سبحان اللہ کو کل رہتا ہے ، یہ آپ سے سکتا ہے کہ کے بسٹی راما چکل چاہی ہے ، جب جائے اور جو جسی اوپر ماشالہ میں تلکہ ہی جا کے لئے آ潰تا ہوں ، اللہ و ماشالہ میں طری περιمارت کریں ہمینے کے ہوتے ہیں ، ہمیں ہماری ہماری آنے کیا ہے because میرے ہماری ہماری سباوزوں کیا ہے جانتے ہیں، جو مجھے余ولوں اکد طرفی is a lot of men are guilty of taking pride in what they look like for other reasons other پھر چاہتے ہیں تا'm کسی صباح نہیں ہے۔ یہاں بڑی ہے جوپی باری حالت著گار ہے۔ یہاں بڑی ہے جوپی باری حالت著گار ہے۔ مجھے ہمارے بھی ایک نمی اور نبالی جانتے ہیں ڈانا کے ہم ایک اوپنی آئی تحقییام کو جانتی ہے اور ہمارے ایسا ہے اپنی ساری صleri already ڈانا ہے اور وہ سیار تعالی د klep میرے ہیں جانتے ہیں مجھے انبالی دست ہے ہمدلہ کیسے تو سفر ہے by saying a few things brother and 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