 A list of the girls that I'm working on for threesomes with me and my girlfriend, TNL stuff, book flights to New York, design some chairs with Chubba, make sure that my tax gets done, contact the Austrian Prince that I'm friends with, buy some shorts because summer's coming, plus a whole bunch of stuff for Euro tour. Yeah, of course. I always just chill out. I spend my life just having sex and doing kung fu, isn't that the impression everyone gets? No, the truth is that actually I'm the CEO of a very complicated business that runs across multiple time zones and consonants, managing a team in Singapore, one in Serbia, one in Austria, one in wherever it is that we happen to be. And so I'm always working on a shitload of things. I do try to balance that out with going and doing the kung fu and the sex and having nice sleep ins and reading books in the park and all that other great stuff. But I also work like a motherfucker. So just to give you a little idea of how my brain works, I'm a listaholic. My mother taught me the value and the curse of lists, which is that you always have them. This is my previous book of lists of shit that I've been doing and being an entrepreneur where you're responsible for the lively good of 11 people now. Plus some people have babies. Don't get money even the baby doesn't eat, so I feel responsible for them as well. The natural lifestyles runs live workshops on seduction lifestyle design, meditation and being a kick-ass human being. And we've experimented with a whole lot of different formats for that over the years. Originally, when we started many years ago, eight years ago, we were doing the standard weekend boot camp. And very quickly we changed that because we found that two days is not enough time to get decent change. It's enough time to get started and have some fun and have a catalyst, but it takes more time to get a permanent change. So we started doing more long-term workshops. Now we run a four-day mini-residential, a seven-day residential and an infamous 10-day Euro tour. So you guys will get some behind the scenes into all of those during this summer season of Daily Naturals. Right now we're in Budapest and Lee McCrae and the boys are running a four-day mini-residential, which is our highly compressed action-packed long weekend workshop. My focus and my goal for this workshop is going to be putting you guys outside your comfort zone. So putting you in positions that are going to freak you out, they're going to make you feel uncomfortable, they're going to challenge what you perceive about yourself, what you perceive about women. And I'm doing that from a place of love because I want you guys to change. Sometimes it's going to feel tense, you're going to hate me, you're going to want to punch me. Sometimes you're going to feel tired and like you can't do it. But that process is something that we've done with hundreds of guys and it's something that we've designed very specifically to help people overcome the mental barriers that they have and elevate to the next level of their consciousness. I'm really excited to put you guys in that flaming hot inferno of intensity and see what comes out on the other side. As well as infield, we hid microphones day and night. All right, it's day three and we just finished lunch and we went up to this girl and scared the shit out of her by saying hello when she was walking fast and in her own head and she freaked out jumped out of her skin like oh my god but because he understood the principle of pressure and release he released the pressure by saying don't worry I'm just here to say a compliment to you relax and she's like okay good you scared me he's like I think you look beautiful and she melted she was so happy that she said no one has ever come up to me on the street and talked to me like this before so what a beautiful thing from being able to go up to someone and not get the perfect reaction but still communicate your desire and then even when she's scared to help her calm down help her relax that guy looks like the arabic version of Jeff Goldblum so you're feeling that spontaneous energy coming out without like it's an honest reaction how amazing is it to think what if you lived like this every day of your life walking down the street and just shooting out this magic energy to everyone you talk to now the student of mine he just went on an incident with a girl that previously he was saying before he went up uh she's not really my type and guys fall into this fucking trap of believing that this is my type and this is my type so what I said is go find out he ran up he got to know her a little bit and now they're on an instant date that is what happens when you challenge the party yourself that goes no this is not my type because my type is based on previous experience of girls who are much much slimmer similar to each other but even in my own journey I know that there's many women I've spoken to and I thought initially that fuck before I went up to her I'm thinking to myself this girl is really not for me I can tell by the way she walks I can tell by the way that she carries herself her mannerisms I don't like it but I challenged myself in those moments to go you know what I don't just have one particular type of girl because I'm not one particular type of man the thing is at night is that there must be a phase of warming up and I was teaching these guys this because I can see them their body language is very very stiff they're very low and all I know that I needed to do was to just allow them to open up their body language and they just go in and start saying things to girls from the first thing that comes to their mind and this is the way that you can be able to get yourself out of your body and into this moment by getting the things out of you that's sticking you in the moment and a lot of times is should I go say this or should I go do this do it and then get the feedback do it and get the feedback and what will happen is that yourself will come to the surface with each thing that's coming out of you who you are lies behind all your under stress feelings and that's the manifestation of it so it's almost like there's two modes of operating that we we have inside ourselves one is like the mode of fitting in with the herd being part of the pack making sure that we fit into the social construct that's around us and in many ways that's a very powerful thing that's something that we live our lives by because we need to fit in and we need to make things work but at the same time there's another completely different part of ourselves which is our individuality our ability to express and be free and to live life on our own terms outside of the herd ideally we need to learn how to operate from both of these places to understand how to fit into the herd then also how to be our own person and how to operate meditation sessions with Shane Matthews as well as he takes all the guys one-on-one does these basically remodels their brains with his amazing intergame guru technology so we're going to do another intergame class this morning this is going to be a nice outdoor one lots of embodiment lots of meditation this is an opportunity for the guys to really get into the state of understanding the bigger picture of what we're doing during this course which is understanding things like liberation freedom honesty embodiment and really starting to pick up that path of masculine initiation because a lot of people think confidence is just like something they can go and get somehow it's like I'll get confidence from doing this thing I'll go buy confidence in a box and I'll unpack it doesn't work like that confidence arises inside yourself as you start to actually do the work that shows you how to believe in something that's bigger than yourself and for example I mean you're learning as you go out and you go through these processes of challenging yourself and getting different results and learning and getting momentum you're starting to build more and more faith in yourself starting to build more and more seeing that many times with guys they fuck themselves up because they believe that they should go out and then they should just have some magic button that makes them feel good straight away more that because they've done previous approaches in the past that somehow they shouldn't have to have resistance now but the reality is resistance yet again it's always going to come it's exactly the same it's like imagining I did I did 50 push-ups yesterday so I should be able to do push-ups today without any resistance it's like no but the resistance is part of existence you've got to deal with it so the more you come to terms with that and you just get used to it as a realistic expectation then you can actually fall in love with the journey because you just like well how about I just love the resistance as well rather than resist it plus styling plus plenty of role-playing classes that's one of the things about our workshops that really stands makes them stand out from others is that we have teams of girls in all of the cities that we're working who have worked with us trained with us and they help the guys in real time to practice touch intent conversation I used to think that there was going to be some moment like in the movies where there would be a green light where she'd go you can touch me here if you want I like your hands or like something that's really over or she's going to be like now you can kiss me after you bought me the candy or like something where she verbalizes that she wants you to touch her or that she's comfortable with what you're doing she's like feel how big my boobs are so I was always waiting for that moment and that moment never comes the woman's very rarely going to guide you in how to touch her and very rarely going to say that loud so waiting for that means you're just going to be waiting forever and then you're going to have that feeling at the end of the night the end of the day that sinking feeling of like fuck I should have done something but I don't know what it was I should have done and now I didn't make a move and now it's like okay see you next time fuck and this is an amazing opportunity for guys to get real feedback from girls and to be able to adjust and these bloody bells always ringing and they don't ring just like seven times for seven p.m. they ring about 42 times and then they do it every sort of 15 to 20 minutes I don't really know why I think it's just they're just trying to battle my evil right well it's not working yeah not listening like seriously it's still going yes all right it's that's 6 32 p.m. so what could possibly be about 6 32 p.m. that that Jesus really needs us to know about what a fucking crazy four days this is me and I feel like as much as us as coaches have tried to affect you guys you guys have taken that and then gone out and affected the wonder that you spoke to if you'd like to join myself and the TNO crew for one of our exclusive live workshops such as the one you've just seen a little locker about right now then you have very limited time and limited opportunities we only have 15 spots left for the four workshops that we're still running for 2016 our workshops have become incredibly popular and we only take very small groups maximum two students per coach to make sure that the guys that do sign up get incredible life changing results so check out all the details in the next slide and hopefully I'll see you guys on tour if not stay tuned for episode three the most common question that men ask me is actually not specifically about dating and seduction it goes something along the lines of this James how is it that you are able to stay so calm relaxed and centered even under high pressurized social situations now I guess a lot of men presume that that's just my nature I'm just a chilled out relaxed Aussie surfed kind of dude the reality being that I grew up being somebody that was highly stressed angry and cynical and I went through a long process of self-discovery to be able to bring myself to the calm centered position that I am in today how did I do that in one word it's through meditation I went on a long journey both internal and real around the world seeking out masters from ashrams in India Shaolin temple in China and seeking out a whole bunch of different modern and traditional teachers of awareness mindfulness and very specific and powerful meditation techniques for the last eight years I've been coaching men live in my programs around the world in these techniques because it's my opinion that if you want to get good with women socially you know and improve your confidence then it's vital that you look inwards not just projecting out into the world I take guys through heavy and deep inner transformation during my live programs where I teach in these techniques that I've distilled from all these masters around the world unfortunately I'm only able to teach around 50 to 80 guys live per year and so many men from around the world constantly contact me asking okay what's the best meditation technique I know that it's something that is going to be useful for me but I don't want to have to go and travel to the ends of the earth to find the right techniques I don't want to get conned by charlatans and I don't want to necessarily have to sit in a meditation retreat center for days on end to try and figure out what works for me so what I've done over the last year is I've distilled and boiled down all of the most powerful effective and quite simple to learn techniques that any man can take and utilize for say 20 to 30 minutes per day to have a vast and powerful effect on his internal state his confidence and his ability to be focused clean and clear in his interactions I call this the martial meditation method and I will be releasing this breakthrough product which is a six-week course on the 2nd of December 2016 if you'd like to stay up to date with the launch as well as receive behind the scenes bonus material then all you need to do is click the link below put your email in and I'll be contacting you immediately the first thing that I will send you is an exclusive powerful meditation technique which I originally learned from my master in Shaolin temple many years ago at the time I was learning this technique to develop powerful martial arts applications but over time I realized that it had a lot of applications for the man that was trying to develop himself socially and sexually in particular it allows you to focus your attention and your energy in a way that is clean and clear rather than getting lost up in your head or giving into anxieties and fears it means that you can get focused clear in your body and transmit the message that you want to to the women you're communicating with another very powerful benefit is that allows you to gain control over your sexual sexual arousal state it's a very common problem that men don't last as long as they would like to or as long as their partners would like them to embed this happens because you don't have control over your physiology your body gets too excited and nervous and therefore you lose it with this technique you will literally be able to last for as long as you would like to so if you'd like to receive this technique as well as a whole bunch of bonus material that's going to be coming out in the next month put your email in and I'll be contacting you very soon