 hi y'all she was tevin okay so i'm sure by now y'all have seen my video uh don't date broke man or something like that okay so i made a bunch of memes into a video and it was supposed to be funny it's supposed to be satire it was supposed to be enlightening but i only made that video because as women we don't have to date broke men you know um and what i mean by that is that's our choice it really is a choice it's not whatever falls in your lap you have to take it it's a choice and a lot of men who don't agree with this choice it's because they are not on that level that women want to pick and choose from you know they are on that level where you know they have to make about five excuses and tell you a life story about why they're not supposed why they're not where they're supposed to be in life now if you meet a man and they the first thing that comes out of their mouth are excuses about why they are not at a certain level leave them alone because that's how it's going to be the rest of your life okay there's always that next big fix that next big thing that next investment this this and that it's always like that so leave him blah blah blah that's the the one that never gets paid off on his investments and he had these giant ideas and then they never came to fruition okay the dreamer okay um then you have the kind of guy who you know says he owns his own business but it's just like an internet business online where he has no customer base or anything and he just couldn't get a job because he probably has a criminal background okay don't go for him either y'all so what I'm saying is women have so much more to choose from we have options we don't have to settle for a broke man now you don't have to be rich but you can't be living with your mom and you can't be dependent on somebody else you have to be able to you know have your own income your own house or apartment a car or your own transportation you can't come into a relationship with your hands out as a man okay because then that just makes you like a kid oh yeah woman want a man not a kid so if you if you're going into any relationship empty-handed nothing in your pockets um depending on someone or wanting to depend on her then just keep walking until you get your stuff together okay because you're wasting her time and you're wasting your time okay women have so much to choose from you know we can walk outside and walk around in a skimpy outfit and we will get approached you know we will we will get approached um and so it's that easy for us so of course we're going to be picky we're going to have options we're going to say oh my god you know if i'm going to settle down with somebody he's got to have this this isn't that because I can walk outside and have sex with any man I want basically I mean men are picky women are picky okay so don't get mad at women for being choosy and picky because when we do pick someone and we do choose them it's for long term we're not trying to just use them up for two seconds to throw them away like men use women no we're we're trying to find a man whose father material husband material long-term friend material lover material you know lifestyle material somebody that we can brag about show off to our friends be proud of our parents for bringing them home we got we got a long list y'all and we can't just pick the bottom of the barrel I mean if you had a choice of men or like men if you had a choice of women would you go scrape the bottom bottom of the barrel or would you try to get the top where everything's good and nice and ripe and fresh and you know shiny you know like an apple would you go to the bottom of a barrel and scrape the bottom for the bruised up old beat up no good apples with probably worms and stuff in them no so why would you expect a woman to settle for a man like that you shouldn't you know if you can't if you don't want to get your money up or your goals up or your ambition up or your education up for a woman get it up for yourself you know if it we shouldn't be your motivation you should be your motivation and then you can pick and choose who you want you won't have to convince them that you're good enough because you've made all these mistakes you don't have to come into a relationship with excuses and could have would have should have because you'll have your stuff together already you know now like most women they have their stuff together or they can get it together or they can find a way to make it work without you and they can have babies they can still procreate you know they can raise families they can do this they can do that but they would rather do it with a man who you know had some ambition and some goals about himself and who had pride in himself and had pride in you know being provider for a family they would rather do it with a man like that but nowadays women they can't find it so they have started accepting this mediocre and it ain't right so ladies if you accept mediocre get some standards