 We enter new years with the idea and the energy of changing our lives, not knowing that the things we most need to change are left alone, so we go to the gym and we leave alone the things that matter more than the gym than your physical appearance or losing a few pounds. That's all good, but what's killing us, what's destroying us, isn't the few extra pounds we're carrying that we lose at the gym, it's the massive tons of weight we're carrying mentally and emotionally and relationally that we are refusing to declutter from our lives.