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You're right Two three hundred and pie today We're so cute Hey, so we're here today to talk about your sex life Okay, I'm very excited to be having this conversation with you because I just pictured you to have the most robust sex life ever thank you let's start at the basics okay when did you first acknowledge yourself as a sexual being what's your earliest sexual and memory okay so I'm gonna first describe myself I'm a lay low foundation I I consider myself a prude thought and let me explain to you what that means so like I have pretty much always been somewhat of a prude on a sexual level but very thoughty on a flirtatious level I had a crush on Will Smith when I was 11 I didn't know it was masturbating but thinking back on it that's I mean really the definition of like I was touching myself and just like watching fresh do you know what episode no I don't but yeah that was that was my first like and I had a word for it too I because I didn't know the word masturbation so I called it satisfy that's actually really nice what do you remember feeling after that do you feel shame did you feel joy I didn't know to feel shame what I didn't I didn't know it was like something that I should feel shameful of so I don't know when that changed because I'm sure at some point I mean I grew up in a fairly religious Catholic family so like there's shit that's like shame everywhere so at some point that must have changed where I would associate shame and sex any form of it but at that time satisfy satisfy when did you realize you were attracted to I was okay so this is gonna sound so weird but I was I knew I was attracted to Will Smith but I didn't think that meant gay I didn't think that was weird in any way I didn't see it as like me being a guy and him being a guy I also had a crush on Aladdin but that like I had these crushes but I didn't realize that it was anything out of the ordinary like norms so like the first time that I realized that I was gay I think I was like 15 so we started talking we exchanged like aim screen names I know that is chatted a little bit and then like in the first conversation he was like I like I have to tell you something or something like that and I was like what he said is it okay that I'm a boy and I was like yeah yeah that's okay and then like he sent me pictures and I was like oh it's really okay so when we were talking I also met another guy who lived in New Jersey and so I was talking to both of them simultaneously they knew each other I mean they didn't knew they knew of each other when you think about loving men or being attracted to men do you think about what the mechanics are of sex with men did you know at the time when you opened yourself up for that world that this is going to mean something different than what you have seen or learned about in school I think I did I knew that that it was different but as soon as that I realized that I was gay and gay was a thing I knew what gay was at that point and so maybe that's how I was able to identify myself as being gay but like whatever the mechanics I would have expected I would have seen from like scenes and movies or I don't know TV shows like Oz on HBO that's awesome so you already had I think it's massively important for people to have frames of reference so if you've never seen a movie which is why representation really does matter and people who have the representation taken care of already will disagree with that but you'll never know until you haven't seen your story your face the way that you love position to portrayed on camera so I think it's wonderful that you had movies like that or TV shows already as is yeah but of course watching those things it was it felt wrong like it felt like I can't I can't like experience watching this with anyone else like watching that show Oz I would have been like in the basement and like turning it on and if someone's trying to come down the stairs I'm changing the channel right so like it was still in the context of being something that shouldn't be allowed and so I think that kind of creates another layer where that it kind of builds it in that like there's something shameful about what I am like that's something that I identify as gay I also identify as gay we can't exist as the same thing without there being shame did you ever go through a period of time of repression or trying to be something that you weren't oh yeah this would this would have been in high school and maybe like a year or two after I found out that I was gay or figured out and I would be walking through the hallways of school and like looking at girls and internally telling myself like you think she's hot you want to date her like just walking down the hallway and it would just be a thought that I would repeat and like try to make a reality what was your first sexual experience we never like did the deed like we never did we never did anal sex but all the other stuff exchange oral we did and that was like I it was like there were two people in my brain because like one was like you are so like wrong for doing this and the other part was like and then for my first serious boyfriend I was 19 and that's when I lost my my whole ass virginity and that's like another big first and so he has that yeah I have not had great luck with it okay did you always have great luck with it so I don't know how to say this because I think some people who watch me will know who this person is because he was in video before but I'm just gonna say that he was blessed okay and he was my first yes so like you know when you start you just need to take it real slow and you need to make sure she's lubricated yeah like all the way lubricate your preferred lubrication um astro glide is good yeah astro guy is a good one but yeah and also just I think you kind of have to endure it and then it will subside okay so like if you get past that this I don't know if this is good advice but if you get past that then it won't hurt anymore are you G not G spot prostate orgasm then yeah did you work on that over time when did you first experience that um I think okay so without like touching myself that's happened a couple times not every time but I think without touching just like you know like without masturbating oh right yeah yes um and those like that doesn't happen every time yeah but I think that might just be because I'm greedy and impatient okay enough of this what advice can you give to straight girls that would make their sex game incredible oh I mean okay I know a lot of a lot of guys are afraid of butt stuff like straight guys um but I mean I would say like for a girl a straight girl or a girl who's in relationship with a guy just have the conversation be like hey I want to try something new tonight are you down hopefully they say yes honestly like he's gonna be like putty in your hands if you do it right and like that I feel like that is like a secret that's not really a secret do you do it right just you know maybe one two lots of lube don't you know don't do that I'd say and just like you know curve up a little bit apply some pressure and so it's similar because the motion for women is up and forward it's a come here motion yeah so it's the exact same I would say so uh-huh and nipples if nipples aren't being paid attention to I don't know what is going on the stat is though 5050 really that half of the people like it and half don't but then I don't you're a don't oh my god so I would get nipple piercings 10 years ago if I didn't have the crummiest boobs always painful always too sensitive always a no I don't like it first of all the phrase crummiest boobs is your new twitter bio anybody who's watching this video right now and has never spoken to a gay man before about his sexuality what is a massive misconception that people have I mean I do think that there's a misconception that every gay person is promiscuous and I don't there there's nothing wrong about having multiple sexual partners and doing it safely but I mean one it's not everyone two why does that matter like if someone is having a lot of sex with different people that's really no concern to you unless you're fucking them right so mind your business also like kinks don't like don't have to be like you don't have to be kinky to have good sex I think I think vanilla could be real good if you just have like a vanilla sundae with some strawberry sauce you know some rainbow sprinkles that's delicious or just the vanilla sundae by itself sounds great you know what listen sometimes you want to try vanilla because you haven't had it for so long it just tastes new to you again what do you want to leave the choir with okay um I mean I'm gonna get first of all I just realized we have really similar handwriting sorry oh sorry sorry for you actually um okay so I would give you the same advice that I would give myself and it would just be to be a little bit more open if you're if you feel like you're closing yourself off from different experiences just tweak her open a little bit you know just like a little peek just crack it open see what's in there one finger at a time one lubed finger at a time preferably that finger and isn't that the lesson we're gonna do also a video on nix channel as well he is in a long distance relationship right now and thriving inside of it yes doing a beautiful job so if you guys can relate to that or you want just more of nick in general going down to infobox find yourself some links get your fingers lubed up and come on by stick them in