 Alright, so who's ever seen this before? Nobody. This? You? Okay, cool, cool, cool. Alright, so this is called the triangle theory of love, right? According to this, love is the product of what we call consummate love, which right here is the product of three things, right? It's intimacy, passion, and meaning, okay? So the thing about this triangle is saying that in order to have love and fairytales should be on top of it, you all have to have all three things working together. The thing about this theory is, according to this, most people don't get all three, right? Most people get one out of three, two out of three, but they don't get all three. For example, romantic love, that's a combination of intimacy and passion without commitment. That's like a boyfriend and girlfriend. Y'all ain't married. Y'all are crazy about each other. You can have conversations for days, but you're not trying to be together for 50 years, you understand? And then you look at compassionate love, okay? There's intimacy. Y'all can compensate. There's commitment, but there's no passion. That's an example of like, y'all heard of like a loveless marriage, you know, like we're together for the kids, he's my best friend, but there's no, you know? And then, fatuous love, that's passion and commitment, but no intimacy. I can't think of an example of that. Y'all got an example of that? Where there's passion and intimacy, but no, passion and commitment, but no intimacy. Maybe you don't really know each other. Y'all know each other. No, it's not. But you're not committed to it, buddy. Friends will benefit. Friends will benefit. Okay, that's real, that's real, that's real. All right, so, so, so, according to psychology, this is what love is based on. Love is pretty much a math problem, right? So, the reason I wanted to start from here is because first of all, I thought it was interesting. I thought it was interesting to kind of break it down like that. And to kind of analyze your situation based on this. And also, I think you can use this to kind of dissect other kinds of love. Kind of like O2 on video, so there's other types of love. It's love between friends, it's love between your family and stuff. Who agrees with this? I'm guessing the rest of y'all disagree? I'm thinking I agree. You run into him, he's like everything you ever dreamed of, and he never messes up. That's your fairytale. Y'all get married, just happy every half, happy every half to have him. Three and a half kids, right, fifty-fifty to them. You just can't. Like, assume that every fairytale love is jumped straight to the happy of the after. That's not how relationships work. That's where that commitment comes in. Commitment doesn't mean cheating or anything. It's when you're committed to making it work. When you're consistent on compromising and making something work. You can love somebody and they can give you everything that fairytale gives you. Yes, you're going to have problems, but if you want to be committed, you're going to have problems like my parents have been together since high school. They've had problems with issues and whatever, but they have like little kids together. And it's like, I mean, just the love that they have for each other makes me want to love somebody a little bit. I feel like that they love each other like my mom took care of my dad for his treatment. Everybody who's found somebody who's like, oh, he's really good. Some shit came along and he fucked up or she fucked up or you found some type of problem about me. I don't like that. Now maybe you got over that problem, you accepted that problem, but he still wasn't Mr. Perfect or she still wasn't Mr. Perfect. So that fairytale shit is bull. My dad said if my mom ever passed away, she would run him. He would take the dog, he would take everything and just send the house on fire because he couldn't live. But you need intimacy first. You've never been in a conversation with somebody who walked away and thought, damn, that girl's cool. I'm more of the type of person that tries to really get to know people and everything like that. I feel like the problem with the infatuation is love's to overpower that real quick. How many people you know, you be like, man, I'm fucking attracted to them. Then they see that you think about other shit and then you want to fuck them and then it's over. That feeling of... If you have that connection with somebody, you know it. You know you want to start something. So you have to have that in mind. You have a conversation first. You see yourself, most likely, when you just infatuate with that person, you're attracted to that person. Most likely it doesn't really happen. It doesn't really go any further than that. But if you really like getting to know that person first and have a conversation, you feel like, man, I'm really digging this first and stuff like that. It's going to lead up to those other things longer and then you want to have... I feel like it's going to lead to a stronger relationship. So how are you going to be intimate with someone? Y'all are saying intimate see country. But how are you going to be intimate with someone that you don't know? I just feel like there's like certain things that you have to have. Like you have to have that connection. Like it's like something that you can build off of. You can just like find that commitment. I want to agree with what you just said. Because if you don't got that initial attraction, what's going to make you want to be intimate or committed? You would definitely say that infatuation is an intense but short little passion or admiration for someone or something. Therefore, you thinking, damn, we found this shit. That's infatuation, correct? Okay, so infatuation will come first because I'm saying, damn, he found this shit before I think, oh, I really want... I'm like his mom and his soulmate. So you're saying that should go first. I'm wondering if you want it to come first or not. I think it does come first. I'm trying to learn how to be intimate with someone. Not for a great episode. I'm trying to learn how to be intimate with someone. But once you get your heart broken, it's kind of hard, but you can't get scared. So I'm going to thank you.