 What's good y'all it's your boy Ross back here again with another video, so we're gonna be checking out my ex still pays my bills This is by this person. She goes by blue jazz on Instagram I think her name is blue jazz in real life. I'm not sure but we did talk about this person on the in the clutch Podcast, so if you haven't checked it out definitely go check it out I'm gonna link down the in the clutch podcast for you guys to go check out our latest video But yeah, man, we got to talk about this. I wanted to really Actually see what she actually said. I know when we did talk about on the podcast They were basically giving me the you know the notes of what she was saying But I actually got to see and probably try to understand her rationale because this doesn't make a liquor sense I'm sorry if I'm in a relationship with someone and we cut off the relationship I'm not obligated to pay your bills. Let's just keep it a stack unless you were my wife You know, will you have like a child of mines? I'm not like I'm not just obligated to do that. So I got to understand her rationale and figure out What's really going on here, but appreciate all the love and support Road to 50k and let's see what Story from the beginning, but like I was dating this person for like four or five years and in the first two years I Supported myself, but also helped them build their business and this like I dedicated all my space and time and everything to their personal business and I ended up getting them like a fifty thousand dollar No, I ended up doing like a whole bunch of things that set them up to be in the space where they were able to make 3500 let's say a night on their space or whatever. So then that's the at the second year I was probably like 23 24 years old when I did that So then when the person got me the car and the apartment everything 27 but our relationship was already like dying off. We were like friends, but you know what I mean until this day He pays for it So does it make it different that I helped him become more established or get into a space where? Those bills are able to be paid off It is I helped him get there even though we're no longer together that way when you say it that way It is different because now he feels entitled this entitlement now He feels entitled that he owes you just like you said if you if you were in this relationship You owe him so much when you got your first big check you're gonna give him some money because you like thank you Yeah, great. That's what he's doing for you He's saying how thank you for helping set me up without this I wouldn't have this and for that. I don't care that you're dating somebody else. I just want to make sure you straight I want to make sure See, I didn't know that part I don't know This is an interesting one. This is actually not as good as I thought it was gonna be the way She's explaining it is she helped grow his business to where it's at now So now that they're not together, it's like on some well shit Well, you did help me out. I got you on the on the car or whatever and it's like I Get that I understand that but at the same time it's I me personally I just even if I know you help me right you know I'm saying and You help me get to that point But we just don't work out unless they're like there was some actual business agreement or you know saying say the loan that you Did take out and you didn't you know saying you took that loan out to help me get to where I'm at If anything, I'd probably help with that more than anything else because that's on the business side of things If you need help with the loan that you you know saying took out You know saying even though that's your responsibility and you chose to do it I would you know help out towards that, but I can't see myself helping out in the sense of Okay, well, I'm about to pay the rest of your car note and I'm gonna pay off the you know The remainder the remainder of your lease wherever you stay. You're like, I don't know. That's me personally. I think If we're not together on that level, I think you should take care of your bills You know saying I should take care of my bills and you know saying leave it at that If I do happen to give you a car that's in my name I do have the right to take the car back not saying that I would it just depends on the situation and you know Where you are financially if you can make the payments cool make those payments, you know saying but if there's some issues And I'm starting to see you can't make the payments or whatever the situation is then you know We don't have to adjust things financially. I may have to you know, take the car trade it in something We'd have to do something, but I'm not just gonna willingly just spend Unnecessary money on a car that's not even mine. You know I'm saying and apparently I think she's in a whole nother relationship I could be wrong. I'm not gonna go through the whole clip or not. I just wanted to check that part out and Kind of give my thoughts and opinions on that But yeah, man for me. I don't know man I I get the The sense of you help me so I'm gonna help you But I feel like there's another way you can do that, you know saying paying for my car You know that I bought you. I mean I get the gesture Like I like I say if you're my girlfriend, we're married. We have a child together. I understand that but you know, I just I don't know man to me personally. I don't think I could I just don't think I could no matter no matter if you did help me like I said if it's business related Sure, I got you. You know saying if you like really going through it like you know saying Maybe it just depends on how our relationship was, you know saying so I I can't even just sit there and say Oh, I'm gonna cut you off. It really just depends on how our relationship was and you know how I feel about it Actively, I just can't see myself personally just spending extra money on some bills that I you know saying You know for item that I gave to you you have to take care of because we're not together no more, you know That's just me personally, you know, so When she explains it like that it does add some context, but I'm still on the fence of nah You don't have to take care of that or you know, I'm gonna have to get my stuff back Like it's just one of those two things is if you don't make the payments, you know I'm saying they not gonna come after you because your name is not signed on the car They don't come after me. That's gonna hit my credit score and all the other stuff. So comment down below. Let me know which y'all still be willing to help your ex out even though they were Maybe a big factor in your business growing Would y'all still be willing to send money to them to take care of, you know, whatever bills they have Which I would which I'll do that or would y'all be like nah, I'm good on that But I appreciate all love and support roll to 50k my mom's calling me right now So I gotta answer that love you guys catch y'all next time