 You touched her heart, Jamani, with that gown. She doesn't know anything about the costume. You really touched her heart. You know, it's just a small thing. That is not even a small thing. That's a big thing and it went a long way. Imajin, ulefanya tu lakini sa iziona. Maybe nikosyoda baraka ulepata through that more and more. B disadvantaged byINE Kwase sihti w every nilim어주 팥ka my good name is Miskithingi and today I have a star now guys before I introduce my staff for today I would like to tell you guys to subscribe kindly subscribe because you know we are on the road to 100k and if you hit that subscribe button you're getting as close to 100k subscribe alright thank you for subscribing now my staff for today is someone you guys have asked for a lot hey on that comment section it's just her name over and over again and I'm glad that we finally get to do this now this lady is an amazing mom she's a wife she's a super producer and other than that everyone we have spoken to about her says she's an amazing human being and who are we to disagree this is the one and only Judy Nyawera aka Bimku Roo finally guys I'm good what anyone be you guys what it has taken me to bring Judy here today it is the hand of God and all very to him but thank you for coming for having me Karibustana in that intro we okay let me tell you fun fact me and Judy share a birthday if you guys if anyone knows me they know how I had a gone people wish even a birthday month if I realize we share a birthday month November who I'm like then I realize that we share a birth date yeah same I was I was so happy but nice to to see you today thank you for having me finally finally finally here to on get figures to read video you know Judy you're a great mom maybe I watch your videos with mumbus and I'm just there wondering did you go to school to learn how to be a good mom did is there a class that you went to did you learn into it I will tell us about that I got pregnant yeah when I was in my third year of college so 20 young yes I was 22 years old I 22 years old what do you know nothing what do you know nothing you know actually you know almost nothing about because I'm a twokuli umedwa to shule so you're just about to finish school knowing yeah Maisha 22 years old yes positive yes positive So ni lienda ni kao naoke ni kao monisha Ita matukwati na mamboza kuza kwa reko reaction That day I cried the whole day I imagine 12 years later we here She's now 12 years 12 and a half actually She turned 12 in January So no manual, no school, no nothing Na mungu Actually ni mungu Then life Junior susata se mani ni Akuna kitringine there's no manual for parenting Hakuna Hakuna atya the greatest parents of all of them Akuna ga manual ekifikani parenting And motherhood is no manual You learn as you go Ni mungu, mi nasimanga ni mungu by the Because I can only do so much Mi nasimanga mi na fanyangayam I feel lucky it's a responsible mother This is what I need to do Then I leave the rest to God Let's talk about being in the limelight Because now you know Judea few years back atatungi Atukwati na kujiwa Ata unge kwa hapat kipuongelesha Watu ui pwana shanka Ui ui pwana jua Ui ui mituwa na kuangana bibi But ui bibi atu jemu ona Because you see So you've been a producer behind the scenes for a long time Yes, for a long time Now I'd like to know This limelight thing Is it something you decided you know what Many follow sana now Let me now decide to get into this Atamimi ni pati endosment Let's just do bi ashara because I'm now here Or is it by virtue of just being bimkuru That now Ili bidi too I can say X By affiliation And by affiliation I mean Three years ago So I started When I started working with Njikushin Selle That was in 2018 October That is when I started working with them And it was by Shia Coincidence So before that I was working for another TV production company It had been there for almost nine years Producing other shows And then In the beginning of 2018 I felt like After being in one place for so long And doing the same thing for so long It gets to a point where you feel like I think it's time for me to Move on to something else But judivily Yoko na karakter kevili na kuanga I'm moving on to what Nasi je jipanga What is this thing that I'm moving on to So January came February March When we were coming into 2018 When we came to Kofisi I resigned And I said I'm going to buy the first quota So by the end of March to Kenya April I have figured out what it is that I want to do Then I resigned I go do this other thing that I want to do 2018 The first quota was I was in Bandohan I came to Kitu And I said this is what I want to go and do next And I dragged it on Until sometime in May June I believe Kame kazi me Inna fil na kama mefika Mushendifu givin everything If you could ever give to this company After almost 9 years It's okay even if you don't have Something figured out Whatever it is that you want to do Next figured out It's fine That is what I did On the 10th of September 2018 So that September I told my team That I want to do a few months old So I'm going to say I want to do a few months old I'm going to do a few months old That I want to do The kid will be doing Managed I will manage the team Oh so you said you will manage the team You said you will manage meneji juni bibi na nini cuti nishikiliye biya bataise sele mtu yame kam nini ni the lord responsibilities menzako kwa mingi then team o the brand is now becoming bigger like bigger than the two of them so they felt need at least a manager Okay nimi tukuya konwa ziti nambi ah sawa, e bote yantafikiri ya bato na humi ni fikiri ye nika yandahu mbeze ni kanda huu nkambia beze e bipa, tim nasilewa nasa ma kwa nezataka wana need a manager kuna mtu na fikiria neza fani o kazi So that is like 2 weeks before my final date in that company So you had not even resigned just yet? Ni kwa mba baksha wiki mbili umalize sasa 2nd day 2nd day yumba ni nika lale ni ki fikiria ni na tapu fani So bili tukawa gaya na actually tukanda kwa there were some names we mentioned in that conversation but tukanda kwa mbalize o conversation but babe 2nd day fani o kazi and since you have nothing to do as in you are about to resign 2nd day was idea actually the conversation was 2nd day wa hiki liya until we find someone and we confirm this person 2nd day 2nd day 2nd day 2nd day So I said I have a few names but in the meantime I will explain 2 weeks 2 weeks 2 weeks I will explain kazi apoki dogo 2 weeks I will explain 2 weeks I will explain at least 2 weeks 2 weeks 2 weeks came 2 weeks came I was on a Friday and on Monday I met a client she was an official client she updated I was... I was online at that time 2018 I think I had like I think I had 7000 subscribers or 6000 subscribers follow us on Instagram So me of course left but I was wrong I don't know if I was wrong na waplo dingi cho chote na ningi maleza wezi ya wapu zin dingi I know So chini amaji chini amaji Netflix came this week on this Monday to me pata na sasa wadini afu na wambia buna need kumifundisha kus I know I have a background in production So I know a bit of stories are clients na nini na nini kus when you produce see you pitching So I have an idea but it's not social media it's very new to me but skills I came to later learn skills na zon do nilzini saibia na tuka na tuka minikanda kushikili ya kazi kushikili ya kazi na jio this is not official 2 weeks later when I was in Kenya was in Tuftetena sisi tu na tuka wufanya kazi na So beden na kumikandiki yukituli kwe menilet nilenda home di kami kus na feel I don't think I feel like you need someone who has who knows who has an idea about social media and how it works and what not beden na alitata na kaka kata kanyambu into tu na fanya kazi Anyway 3 years later I say now come this is the fourth year it's a 3 years last year this is the fourth year since 2018 I want to buy affiliation ndi ju yu affiliation niya team na sele atasimu kama ui sana niya affiliation niya team na sele kus na when they started working with them kido kido go they are doing their stories they are doing oh nini, kido kido kama when you have been behind the scene what you are managing what you are saying ma nini 4 years later, it took almost 240,000 By the way, jumkuru storya ke ame Rudi, ame Rudi kwa social media COVID It was not active until Mkuru Genzi started it It was not active, ya nge maliza muzika mazei post For sure Nyu kwe liya te ame Rudi tu juzifi So it wasn't seed yubimkuru Yubimkuri yubimkuri yubimkuri yubimkuru And then now, mkuru genzi happen Yubimkuru nao But by the time mkuru na komu Rudi, nambazili kwa zime kamji yubimkuri Yes, yes Hey, okay Now let's talk about artist management Because now you've become a guru into it And you know You have, you're managing big brands We can see the impact You know, you're putting the effort into them So I mean, you have strategies But let's talk about now Artist management because I feel like it's still a thing Creatives have not embraced Especially in Kenya I don't know if that's what you feel And just let take us through Is it really important for artists to have managers? And what are some of the challenges You know, you've been facing as a artist manager Or a brand manager So of course So artist management is I feel it's still something that's very new Yes In our country Like artists Management is not So artists have a group of people they work with Yes But management Management Sikitwimekua I feel it's something that's starting to pick up now Nihaa So when I started working with Tim Well, I was in a school in Kenya And there were challenges Challenges, and there were two challenges The challenges were Because artist management is not something People are familiar with Even the corporate Yes And I was in a school where I worked with And I worked with Nijugush I was directly working with Nijugush So I was working with Nijugush So who are you? Who are you? I was working with Rao See, when I worked with Nijugush So I was working with Nijugush So there was that Yes People were feeling like But I'm giving this work to Nijugush So I went working to Miss Kujui In a joint with Nijugush So there was that At the very beginning Yes But One thing I can say for Shua For corporates Like proper Corporates Yes Or proper clients when you need corporates Like big brands and whatnot After interacting with me Let me speak for myself Yes Let me speak for myself After interacting Like we do the first campaign By the end of that campaign But they want to call Nijugush Where we have to take To take you where you are Yes To not take you where you are Because then Slowly they started understanding Why The importance of a manager And I will tell you Why a manager is very necessary When it comes to an artist Nesemanga An artist What you understand best Like what you know best Is what you do Okay In the creative Yes Sindio You are a musician What you do best Is creating music You are a content creator What you know best Is to create content Is to create creation Yes Sindio But you do not really understand The business aspect Exactly of content creation Of this thing that you do Because Wengi And if I'm not wrong I think Wengi Even very big artists Wengine wanata managers Tiem hakwanza Mita pani example Nijugush Sanoj Gold Yumi wa fanya kazi Tiem hakwanza Skitza kena nini Akifikiria skumodziya zitu M working as a person Naji na mtingene saizi Tiem li kwa It was that of passion It's something he loved He's an actor Yeah So creating content Yo skitza fani skitza Nani nini Niki tuto ani kwa nafanya kujibamba So when this thing Nye, nia lipwana fa nya espansion. Skoi bi kaminga business And, me, nia puika ni kwa. Ne tricki, ni kama hati lewi. M kung mi, natsuma kwa gulecti na kontent. But, na nashijui. Ni kontrakte meu kuja ni kama hati siye lewi. Exactan. So, na se ma nga bi importance if Aitabila kwa ungeza uti ya whole list, kimi kwa it is that, you understand. You as a content creator, you as a musician Whatever is kind of artist you are. Maniki Y Mu'r na mezi tilu wa oki Sendemo info w音i M科AU tawap accelerati bundu rights a Bongum So muja cea Na na observa mgi na na yi asib ko a�wa nege a k gardini lew bregi na nizya dubbul za kwa mwucho wei ki do percentegii kii do gotu kwa mwuto nia, mwuto nia evena nna hisha kwa maki uzentiwa ona ananda nina wikufil batix perna, kwa wikufi talye kwa wikufi but the thing was the eee the person giving us wak uzhaka kuleza manizuna na kweja kuku kukula pesa I know so njibu shana charge ten bob pa video ozi kwa 20 ti wa nge $70-50 a desu cita $20 a desu $50 I can't blame them because they are some who do that They are rogue managers But a proper manager, someone who has the best interest at heart They are just there to make your brand go Get to the level that you want to get He is doing very great I totally agree with you because I've been a manager I'm a very big artist Someone you guys know and appreciate her work And let me tell you When first they would call me I would give them this is the rate card Transparency, we all know this is what we charge Then they would make sure they find her contact Call her to find out If that is the amount that I give them Then the brand would tell them Talk to my manager This is her number Then they come back to me So that relationship between the artist and the manager It has to be based on trust And trust on another level Trust is the amount of your life Exactly, at heart So that you And don't ask for me I know it's the problem with the best thing to say But I ask for me to manage you The connection has to be there It has to be there It has to be there The connection has to be there Because unless we get to that level of trust Then it has to be there You need to be more or less like friends I don't see friends, I'm familiar I don't know if I'm familiar Sometimes you spend the night Even talking about concepts that you want to work on In the last three years I had a conversation with a team In the last three years I have been working on it I have been working on it I have been working on it I have been working on it Because I have been working on it You spend more time, really good time with them Most of my time I would spend it with them Because I don't know how to work on it Because we have projects We have meetings, we have shoots We have such things So management lies in mind Trust between the artist and the manager It has to be Let's make it very solid Guys, you better learn something from this I hope you have learnt something from this Now Judy, let's talk about tewaki manis Because when I did that interview with Sele Ya ni, oh Judy, oh Judy please to let her Judy Comment section, muna jijua? Niko hapa, ni mefiki Now, let me ask you I would like to know, the first time you met Jugush What was that situation? What did you think of him? We all know how Jugush used to look like He was this funny man We all know So, I first met Jugush Actually, when he was working on Real house helps Hapakule, gani doli kuji akwanza Hapakule manire Hapakule then real house helps Hapakule House helps was born Hapakule So, when I met him The first time I met him was actually In my house They were shooting for Hapakule So, that time was still working for The company you were working for ya And During that time, because I used to travel a lot Like I used to travel I was producing a show called Shambaship Up There's on Citizen So, Shambaship Up we used to shoot across East Africa So Uganda is in Kenya So, I used to travel a lot Like I was on the road 24-7 In a month I would be home like a week Or less than a week in a whole month Because I'm on the road like we are either shooting in Kenya We're shooting Tanzania, we're shooting in Uganda So, ata Timo Of course, to look what we're doing Abela liwa menean bieju ya team Nini nini nini in jugushu okmc Drama Ni kapu haneza act Nini nini Then of course the inception of Hapakule I knew about the cast Kido Kido But you see kwa around It's not people I was It's not a one-on-one experience So, I remember the first time I met Timo They were shooting in my house Because our house was actually one of the sets So, I took a job I went there and shot Of course, I shot I went to the bedroom Nini nini Then, I was interacting with Timo So, I went to the room I said, I'm here Nini nini I felt like I was with my mama Actually, even though I felt like I was with my mama So, I felt like Come on You know, I felt like My family started off You know, vibes Nini nini I felt like I was with my mama I felt like I was with my mama I felt like I was with my mama So, that was my first interaction with Timo But of course after apo I was selling So, I was selling I was selling I was selling for a while But then the very first time I met I had hosted A few girls Kwa Nyumbayangu for lunch And one of those girls was actually selling So, Nani had invited selling Mimi And that was actually the first time Yes Nini nini Just as a team I was interacting with the team Then, I met a girlfriend And she was selling So, I was selling I was selling I was selling I was selling Even though I was selling Okay So, I had lunch I decided to have a few girls over for lunch Now, girls by venue Nini nini familiar So, there was Kate There was Izare Izare Matubia Kulikwana Fei Kina Kate I was selling The same people So, I was selling I was inviting I came for lunch So, Cele was also meeting These are the ladies for the first time Harpo So, Cele was very timid Because I felt I was coming to her So sure Hey, there are celebrities Their faces are on TV So, Nini nini But no, Nani, because I was So long like Kate It's not a big deal to me It's not a big deal to me It's not a big deal to me For people that have interacted with me For me for a long time So, I was seeing I was standing at the door I was waiting for a long time But for Cele I remember that first thing He was like I can imagine He was like When you were inviting When you were I was like I was like I was like I was inviting So, I was embracing The girl friend So, the first interaction with Teemu was on a set of They were shooting in my house And then with Cele When I had lunch I hosted them for lunch at my house It was the very first time to interact Oh, have you ever spoken about To know that interaction on that day I wish I knew about this thing Oh, have you ever spoken about That interaction on that day I think she has ever spoken about it Anywhere like in the meeting She hasn't told you about it as well No, no, what I know is She was very afraid I was afraid of her So, I said I never thought that I would cancel I was the only person She was familiar with And she said she had interacted with me She interacted with Teemu So, it was the first time To interact with Teemu Teemu I understood what she was going through Now, let's talk about the gown You know, Cele I was in Judy I was wearing a gown I was wearing a gown I was wearing a gown I was wearing a gown Let me ask you What decision did it lead to you guys deciding Because I believe maybe it was you and Abel We decided now we want to support these people What decision led you guys To actually want to buy them the gown And Did you actually guys know Mulejuwa kufukwa wa wakosa Wacha tutuwa sa idea So, of course By the time we get into the wedding A few years later So, we have bonded As in the bond now Has grown And now this is family We are still in the intention of getting married We have done all those things Roshios and whatnot But even at the time Roshio tutuwa kufukwa na juwa So By the time we got into the wedding Arozi Kulikuwa Biyotem kulikuwa Niniawa Situin bida kawalikuwa shatoka I think we were in Shatoka They had left We were in Ujuguwa Exactly It was in 2015 So, yes, we were in Toka But we were in Toka and we were taking photos But we were not taking photos But we were taking photos But we were taking photos But we were taking photos But we were not taking photos But we were taking photos At a plan And you see back then Social media was not worried And you see back then Social media was not worried For sure So Of course Of course we were not taking photos But Honestly for me I was the best couple Yes So my responsibility was the best couple We were taking photos We were taking photos We were taking photos So we decided to go And shop for a kawalikuwa I was in Toka So I took her to the same shop I remember Yes No, Akinaselewa was in 2016 Yatulikuwa 2015 Yayao in 2016 So we went to the same shop And we were taking photos So we were taking photos We were taking photos We were taking photos We were taking photos We were taking photos So we were taking photos So we were taking photos But what she doesn't know is I had Papast To buy that gown for her Is her gift for the wedding So here we were thinking We were taking photos But we were not taking photos We were taking photos We were taking photos Matkozbi we were taking photos However We were affected in that situation You know them I remember they acceptable I used to take photos And I took photos From a lot of people in this world We also took photos So we decided to have a wedding And you will have money Do not get rich That time You were getting old Do not get rich And you can't keep them This time it was not for you And what came been Will not happen Now people understand kwa kuma kum كwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa miku kwa. So we don't even have a gift for the wedding We have a gift, we will get one That's why we want that to happen We will accept that This is my gift That's because I have gifted it to my wife That's because then there was a gift from the first to them a gift from the first to them That's because he has gifted it to her and she said it was for her Hey Jama ni, hey you touched her hearts Jama ni with that gown We will give her that I will show her the gown You really touched her heart with her and you know it's just the small things that that is not even a small thing That's a big thing and it it went a long way now look imagine Uli fanya too lakini sa easyona and maybe niko shorabaraka uli bata through that more and more That's true and I will tell you how to handle any conversation Ta kumbe bile wali kujapunili baba and I like how that small kani ni came back in multiple I will tell us how that happened just tell us yeah so sometimes To know I think in life we don't know what to do That's a cool thing so for me another particular point because I was able to do that I would afford to do that Expecting nothing really just to make them feel good Exactly enough for me they are young people it's a young couple So whatever we can do whatever we can do Yeah me and Abelie whatever we could do to do kutumes matu taifanya Yes Kwa ksiatutunwa bati ya like a good ni ni ya kuhuansha life kama married couple So uh vile una fanyanga kitu Na years later you don't know So me miui li kujze in 2018 That's like two years later X two years later So Vile uh story ni me semae vile ni li atye yo nkakam kushkiliya Ehe But you see ni li kam kushkiliya nsi kwa na plan Like had no plan not to ever I won't like to know it Okay I had no plan for whatever it is that I wanted to do next Yes Nkwa me fukiruna tafanya bieshara Oh funguasa alam ho Sijun tafanya ni ni Hissini kwa na nizu Ote kwa na bieshara na tafanya Yeah But kwanza kufanya kazi na kina sele Eee Nkaza fanya jokuna una ni nani ni Do you know for three years Kwa on diwa me nilisha Like in diwa mwakayani For three years So you know the team diwa me nilisha ni ni Anyway So sometimes you can't do the kwa small thing that you do Ezin wu na fanyanga kitu e fanya 2k Ya Yo pese a gawna inge kulisha ta One month in Asia Pese a gawna seriously One month in Asia I don't know Ezin yo ilikam kujimotiplayi And it's still a continuation And it's still a continuation Whatever I'm doing now Like everything I'm doing now Everything I've been able to do now The skills I've gathered In the last three years Now I've been spending four years The facts that I'm now a content creator Are actually a brand thing To work with me Imagine All of that It's by virtue All of that Ya Is because of demons Ya Yoku kwa manamimu alikam After 2 weeks Wa kasi masitzea To take kwa fanyakazi na mdini Na taka kwa fanyakazi na webi Everything I am right now Everything I'm doing right now Is because The growth Is because of that Ya Is because of demons And who would have thought Who would have thought Because you were there ahead of them You had all the experience As compared to them Your life was at least You know okay To a point you can support them Ya Kuna Later in life Kwa on dowa ngekuji Sesa kuni support Kwa on dowa ngekuwa Na lisa idea sada Ya Kus one can be them All the money I have made Being their manager Ni wao Wao They want my bosses Nya They want my bosses On dowa Na niliwa Mmm it's true Ya So And you know that's why they say Don't look down upon anyone You never know Ya ni ula security gadoa ko Wezi juas kum Ya ni Wan ni Ya ni We a na kuni ni iwi Life is a circle like this It is a circle And some things go Lao wneza koko juu Kesho Ukuwa pacini That's true In this life Unam duwa mwa please nne Doa nasamanga Don't ever burn any bridges Mahal ya kumu du na fanya kazi Don't burn any bridges Don't burn Kus you never know You never know If it's time to live Just live Live Live zizuri too Ya Ngutimila knu Traininga Bukini Nuko shua sayatu lukuna Sayama tu naawanha niki Maliza tb vidhati yatuna Ingekwa marij How was it for you? I said I got pregnant when I was 22 I was in my final year in college KMC I was in film and TV production Abel was in Malaysia He was in Malaysia KMC He was in Belia I was in first year I was in third year KMC I was in 3rd year KMC I was in Belia I was in 8th year I was in 8th year I was in April I was in April holidays I was in Mimba I was in Abel Abel was like whatever you want to do I was in my final year Ika gafanya trends grew up after crying whole day all up so secure Ofuse i didn't know and i willing to what's the difference 22you have many thoughts come on first thoughts na kwesto k Kenshita Jumpi Ika batu Sita Jumpi 2ne ma zia katama 2ni 50� enlightened we we want we dad passed away when i was in takich ma'ma yis na mama mist bimi through actually thru high school High school yuatini kuwana sumana basyari wona jiwia basyari nwa jiwa basyari e mi ni kwa... mi nile sumana basyari you are a bright students are you a bright students nwa gumana kwa sponsored yuata kwa wana sumana basyari mati ni wana sumana basyari twani hi mituwa KMC ni college at least it wana kwa sayari kali it wasnt very bad but, kwa tukua familia ya tu yo 60,000 tunali pa pahiya kwa waping 60,000 pa hia in KMC yo, sii tu nikugini치�u kwa mami amмерa na lipa 1 milion pa t clone i know lot of money for me so the second tigi niliga yuli kwenu i am such a disappointment yo ma she has worked so hard kwa ni matii so hard to get me to this point and this is how I pay her kwa ku mimi in my hand was Imagine, ya ni bale akurudisha nyumbani degree Ume pelikam totu Ezi unapelikia mama kumtotu Sayuata amko financiali stable Ezi nambadwa na shagul ni konanda siblings okoshule So there was a lot going on in my head But I can tell you my saving grace Aki in the one thing, in the one thing that made it okay En posibol kuza maukit nezapatam totu na naki hakitu ni habel Kusia was there from day one Alina, whatever you want to do, you can do everything But just, actually alisa maibu akasama, but Natakatu kukwamdu okuli, mimi niko sawa Mimi, I am ready to be a father I can do this, I can support you Hauna, sida ni kuna kituta unani dukuri about kusia nisi I can do this, I can do this Kusia nisi nika kusia nisi Sida maili za shule KMC KMC kipata bol uluku na mbuu Wendanyumba ni ukale Exactly, but for some reason Siku wa ii Wali jua E, lekutu ficha mimba Wazi Wazi ficha mimba Wazi ficha mimba Wazi ficha mimba Siku wa ii Wazi ficha mimba Wazi ficha mimba But for some reason Because I was also a very good student In college, performing well So siku wa ii I think for the lecturers and everybody else Even the dean Plus again they knew the father So they were a bit lenient Eli kuatu nisi sawa But imagine siku wa ii fukusu wa shule I want me to stay Nani nili ngang ezin Nili suma Until the kia musho Because I gave birth in January of 2010 So nili suma until December Like until willewanafuma ni ni Because now come January The first quarter It was meant to be the last term Project Now for the final exam So it was a bit easy So ni tukinge januari Kwa zatunenda kumali za shule By March April, mimi maali za sasa Kmc dan So I was also a bit lucky Ya for sure because it was towards the end Exactly But no namututu wa mikuja January 5 Na the same week I think the following week But imagine I think there was just Fever But how was the pregnancy journey to Because now you are still in school You are going for classes And I am a woman I am a hostelle But I was still in school I did not want to have a kwaabel Was a woman I wanted to have a kwaabel What am I filled with I didn't want to have a bedroom So I was going to sit It was still filled Was also filled But then it ended Just as a husband Hata ya, no habi hl ماjhhi No hl majh dande Yama wan kwa nagda mafya Yung kura majhhi T Seal nga Kwa hibumia, hl majh Kwa hibumia, hl majh kwa hibumia, kwa hibumia kwa hibumia kwa hibumia Kwa hibumia Nira hl majmia Kwa hibumia, hl majmia hl majmia kwa hibumia kwa hibumia kwa hibumia kwa hibumia Kwa hibunia kwa hibuma kwa kuku ya milenium na chipo za milenium at least as you go expensive sun lakini kuku ya milenium hei lakini hei lakini kuku ya kitamwe so akitoka job nipana wan pekinis so of course ikilasi kuku zunani epeo wuna umorulaki logo eo but if you want na wan lakini kuku kuku spesifikia o iyo na itaka but the pregnancy was very smooth because i didn't have any implications what not mean i will say those are the benefits of having you baby ali some of the benefits as in getting pregnant when you are still very young very smooth nothing as in neta apu kua reini kumlicious nothing nothing nothing so to li kuatu sawa until the very end i think from oktober apu donilianza kwenda so nikona abadu hostel but jiyo ni narudi pangani kwa pangani so na commute ni ni narudi pangani until sasa december no come december do bile shule zili fungwa november kemsi tukut na fungani kama kama high school kama high school e nika mani thams kama zili funga semester so bile shule funga november apu donilihama sasa officially nika nijusa sa from there nikona jua beretem nasa singe kwa nasa singe kwa but the pregnancy was good until the very end kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa apu na pali kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa pakeklina beti kwa isikspace k慢慢 baki kwa hendie injaja hendie kwa kwa hendie hendie高zanz disinfectant na kwa kwa ya nagumanti bile shule fala kwa hendi nika muangal, nika ya kwa mwakomi ni na Na she is taller than me, she is like na feel ni kama ni manza kumaliza kulea So kia wa badum dogo Whatever years I lost, kwa ala ni kilea You can do them now when you are financially stable Exactly, we have the money So kwa ili ni kwa mbio uli ni uleza, uleza ma, is it something that can advise other young girls to do? Yes I can't tell you, pata mimba ukiwa mika 22 Uka kwa na mitu stable, na mefika mahalu na feel ni kama Tuko mahalu Like kwa, na mitu mzuri, mbini ni ai So mbini ni say, kwa mbini ni ya Kwa pata mitu yukiwa ni kitupo anko sasa Then you get to enjoy your adult life When you are also still young So sasa imagine say, I'm turning 35 Teseya Mtotondu yako miyakakuni na mbele Very soon, next year na fanya klazit, then 2024 She's in form one So anenda form one, mimi ni kiwa 30 30? 37 Still very young Utawe yambia watu wusi sista yako kusimu kwe She's going to be a bit taller Ya, for sure Baba ke So yata kwa mberefu So now I get to enjoy my life Sisi, peti as we can do it Aki Tumizu kwa zile skutramba, leka form one Mimi ni to ski Na niliwono wusi sema uwek wongiza kengine Mambuyaku unisha ma liza Uko tulifonga peti Miya Sisi tukotusa wanam tukotusa Niliwono wusi sema uwek Aki, what's in your address My address Those stupid questions that you people keep asking Mati wongiza wengine, wuna poskiti yam mumbus Utawe wongiza alini Please Those are stupid questions Thank you But that's a stupid question Don't ask those questions You never know the reasons behind Very true Please don't ask those questions They are stupid questions Just cut it Thank you Sisi kwa tu iksa personal decision It's not that we can't have another baby It's a personal decision which we are very ok with Ok with Because we have one child na you moja metutosa Ya So he's a ma suali by this Na boingiza Wacha tu atu a main to be asharaza Or it's important And you know I remember you guys When you guys went clive How I met your mother You guys Kuru mentioned that akwa na pesea mataniti When you were in labor Sister Abel Great But you see now These are things I never knew Ya Meli kwa na nyonisha Life ikupu wa Whatever you need You will get it That is exactly how I have felt The entire life Is in our marig life And there's a point now it got Where you were supporting now him Because he didn't have anything But he was supporting He was supporting me from day one And he didn't have anything And he didn't have anything So when it was my turn I did exactly what I was supposed to do It's not a favor No, I did my part He had done his part for a long time It was not my turn to do it My part And you see Marriage na kwa ngaivo Sometimes we are coivi Sometimes we are coivi Sosa na fili Sosa saizi Kila kitu You can sit back and relax Without any worries Without feeling like Then you are not going to get this If I don't work then we are not going to get this So these seasons There are different seasons in life Basically for everybody In marriage especially And we support each other Let's talk about marriage Judy You know kuru sat on the same spots Where you are Nika wambia Kuru your marriage looks perfect You know Nika wambia mimi na nga kwa comment section U nambia watu You look beautiful my love Thank you darling Thank you sweetheart Niko Judy anona izi vitu Of course anona Na ingekwa she is not comfortable With those things Because he told me the level of trust in your marriage Is something else But do you know Betty how you get to That level of trust Is when you are also Looking for the right one So it starts with Mi Like inanzangana mimi As an individual It starts with you as an individual See it inanzangana mimi Like how Trust washi Am I Of myself Are you self aware U na jijua wewe U na niduku jijua kwanza Kus niki jijua Then na jua Judy ni nani How does Judy behave How is Judy What is her character But the time tesa na funguaruhu I am going to understand Where is my husband How is he How is he U na jijua kwanza Because you see Like I said Kwa ila relationship ya artist na manager Just like your relationship ya artist na manager The level of trust needs to be Very high It's the same thing in marriage Because we are two very different human beings Two very different human beings Imagine Kama unako sananga na Nii mtu amu jalbali wapa moja U na kwa U na kwa sananga na familiar kwa damu What about this random stranger You've met 20 years later Uko Wasis na kwa sema Kwa sema huyu dumse wangu Ya But na sumangatu Let's me yanzana I think let's me yanzana Nini as individuals Uko tu me jijua Ya Because I know myself Like I know Naji jua na namu jua I don't even make any sense But what I'm trying to say Is you need to understand yourself At a very high level Deep level For you to Accomodate other things Accomodate other people and their behaviors And in this case now Your husband Because he would do Uko Like him is a people's person Like that is how he expresses His love for his followers And his fans Sesa nikiya kujiya po nianze kususha Please That is he on your character And then once you understand somebody In their character it's very easy to live It's easy to live with people So umkuru nio Umkuru is a people's person Na ee ee anapenda Na funguanga Ee rohoiake na wanga open Umtoku express love Like his love language Is words of affirmation So That's who he is So Nika kusaku accepti oka ma bibiake If onjotu nasamanga ila nonsense Lia mi kwa liupu nonsense Ya kujere boku kutya kubalisha You can't change a grown up human being An adult Who is he? The person he is Is oni vituzi mainstili wa kwa ke 4 How many years? 35 years of existence So how am I going? Na ee kwa na ee We can take care of a long time It's not 14 years You can't change An adult When you truly understand who you are And then you open your heart to try to understand Your partner Na kwa rahisi Mi na fili nika ma even do sisi tu mefum Bondi itu Hei I feel like I'm in the class Mi nisi kama na fili Na fili nika ma ee Na andika notes kwa kili Ya you know it's like There's a situation where some lady was dating a DJ And then She was probably mad The fact that the DJ is saying hi to people And instead of them going home I'm like how do you expect the fans to come To his gig the next time If he doesn't say hi to his fans Then don't date a DJ Na mancha tu Whom jui na fu jui na fanya You don't understand his world Exactly You understand Ni niyakende unizaisi You two strangers Who decide to come together And make a life out of This union You know he actually mentioned Judy as he expects me Mi mu entertain my whole life Aj That is very unfair Like that would be very So imagine So na fanya ngaivi Okay so this is something I do So every time So for example Na nika serisha Bo The first thing I do Na nzangaku Na reverse your situation Na fkiriya Na jui na kwa in his shoes Ebu fkiriya kame ngekwa niwewe Umefanya Ame ngekwa niwewe umefanya wa ibo Reaksion niya kwa ingekwa niwe But every time you do that Ni niya kwa yufili Kuna kitu twitter Reaksion ni ni ngekujana It's different Ina kwa nga very different Kus Ukinza kubali kwelewa muntu Kwelewa kwa ni ni muntu wa kwaivi Nia Na kwa ni ni actions Na kwa ni karaktya kwaivi Ina kwa easy Alafupia Sometimes you might put yourself In their situation Wone niwe apo ngeka serika But then again how would you want To be addressed Actually now it comes down to that So ok Ngeka serika So ni sawa tu kukasirika But nge taka anyongeleshe aji Jo ni memkosa ya Nge taka anya address aji And that's how you go about it If you want to be shouted at Then you go ahead and shout at him Tosa apondyo ni ngei Nimi when I'm angry I go quiet I can't shout I don't know how to react When I'm angry Nge action is just Like na zimanga Nge nge nge nge ni kama na defleti wa Nemi nga njama zaanga So yeah yeah sure Like nge mshajuana Nge kumekama nge nge Nge kumekama na tuwi loi na kwangi Nge kumekama na tuwi loi na kwangi Nge kumekama na tuwi loi na kwangi Nge kumekama na tuwi loi na kwangi uhu ya Biistely Nyio sho to fiki ya pani anasaya Ita, liik wачr meto ni No ni za maman Na adresi chana, nani nga abel Nge kgments uchi Hata wakako inakande krwado 100 kwacka cite finger Tuhu na kumakaman shikulamtawardalis kiya M yumberedawa na ota enemyo Neya burand It's like Luluhasan and Rashid, they produce a monika kiragu They call her babe, both of them How do you happy birthday me mwishpale Instagram? Happy birthday babe Comment section Luluhasan umiwona hi? Nini? But it's only when you're so secure in the person you are Yes That you're able to accommodate such things So sometimes it says a lot about us It's not even about the person who is between them It's about you Ya Eh, kusmia kiki We don't do one later nga Adani kasi kia mudu niya mwimutati twingini ntashana Nisha nga? Oni wama mkostana Oni mkostana, oni niya mwimutani kusmia Yumon, that's how they relate Nia Ni gama sa elektrombi ati Sometimes you gush ata Sana mwimutati wama atafikiria unam katia Kusmia this too nice to this people Atafikiratu unam katia Nijue tu nachirati niye niye niye niye niye niye niye niye niye So however you choose to interpret that That's as it can appear for the followers That's up to you But we can understand to you and your character Okay then What is that one thing you're most grateful about Mkuru? I can say Ya Yiyo enyume fikiria yiyo Yiyo enyume, checka yiyo Ya, Mkuru nene yasema It's his unwavering love and support Oh, that is like unconditional Yes, like ata ikakwa ni niyama Ushai Onajwa life yamgo Meti ni kwa mbe Niki ata kituga ni kihapen kwa ii life Ya Whatever I don't know what I mean Kitiwati kihapen There is one person I know Has my back It is him Like I know Beyond any needs to be held out And that is really good to know You can actually just count on someone Like for you, you may know Yeni Ata kituga ni kihapen kwa hii dunia It's the one person that I can count It's the one person I know will always be there Nia Let's talk about now Mumbus and you know The rules and regulations you guys have set in the house Especially when it comes to funds You know How do you guys come up with such things Because you know we've seen There are people who choose to give their kids Access to internet And especially the fact that Mumbus is quite older right now You know Na onamulim pe asimu But before that Aku kwa na asimu Na badi wa asimu Ili pe ano na rules Niko gai Mumbus tuliko na pe asimu Lakin mi rules You know kutia nasama ni rules Conditions How do you guys now get to decide Like these are the rules and regulations We want to set for Mumbus So for a while And I can say up until very early this year Sisi we were pro We were against Not pro We were very against Her and gadgets And the internet Like you are like no Until you're 18 Then you can have a phone Twan siya Wata kutia nasama Simu So we have gadgets in our house Like mi niko na Laptop abela kuna laptop So she was allowed to use His or gadgets But ile tentu na fanya Homoak nani na ni So we were very much Very much Again we started using gadgets And more than that Until by then Actually nani Tulu kwa na nani na yo conversation Ni somebody we had that conversation with Akatwame But you guys don't you think you Doing an injustice to Mumbus By not letting her access the internet And have a gadget Kwa kwa wamiya ai Agi Agi sasa Gani Kwa ni sisi tulile loa na yo I don't know Aka se ma have you realized that Mumbus is growing up in an era Of the internet And technology And that's her future That's her future Like fucha ya ke ni hiyo ni technology The future for everybody For all of us Is technology Is technology So kimi ni ma access Don't you think kuna wili wuna umbutani uma Okay Bedi ali sami yo statement Mkaka niyemka ga ya You're making sense Ya Like that one statement Bedi li na kasi ma hiya Which is so true Kus we are here As, as parents Say hi Some of us are making money From E The internet Your phone Exactly Like No office, no nothing Mkana internet Nani fanya ni tenge neza Yes So I am It is actually being very counterproductive Which don't allow Them to have access to the internet Of course You know, regulates access But then exactly Then we come not to that But How do we regulate Okay These two things Yes Like tuna tutaregulata je Ile ki tuna consume on the internet Tutaregulata je Ile te ma na spend on this particular gadget So that's how we came up with these rules Ya Nani na simple rules By the way, it's not anything new It's Kawaii datu Most parents are practicing out there It's not anything new Ya Ni yuku sema Gadgets ikunate miata Kunate miaku Kunate miaku tumia gadget Kifanya assignments Then kunate miaku tumia Gadget for entertainment Bit of entertainment But then kunate miaku ya putokanje Yuku na kuchesu Kunje physical Because it's also important Ya That is very important Kasi si kushinda tu kwa kitu me Mekili na nikuivu na waj YouTube Yes Kuspa, then YouTube is such a thing Is everything, ya Actually for her, ni me realize yo generation Like at a Netflix, ni I'll attack you, YouTube Kus YouTube began to learn Kus apu uneza jifundisha na Na the same time una learn To mingis na na trends Both good and bad Ya, for sure Ya, so ni ku Jatibu tu kuregulati o The time spent on the gadget And whatever Ni ni she's consuming only Whatever content she's consuming Yohana, there are so many controls Like parental controls right now YouTube for kids Ya, there are so many actually Kamae ha mingis asa Shion ni has access to YouTube for kids Ah Ah, shukurumumbu sukiwachi Apreciate Unapunpugakunakati osimu aiku kwa Kufua Apreciate So it's not a phone So tablet Ya, ya And how is it bringing up her girl child Especialy in this era of now social media The era of, you know, work generation How is it? It is not easy But sometimes I feel like she knows a lot She does Sometimes I feel like she knows Vtuzeni misijuik Like sa zingina neza ni ambiki tunishina Ulejuwaji yo Like something that's trending Right now on the internet Ni ni And I know for sure it's not in our house Yes We have some measures that we've put in place We know for sure It is not here But you see, shule is another thing It's been shulesh Kids To interact with kids from Different Ya, kids who want to watch The same show, watch Netflix Mumbus ar konani ni akia Netflix Like she knows she cannot watch anything That's above her age Yes Ata kuja ni ambi jia Kid tuni ni me yona Kosengetu ya ni ni But my friend was Who told me they were watching that with their pines Ya There's nothing you can do about that It's beyond your control That's beyond my control Nimi mi tuku ha kikisha That whatever This is what I was saying when I said Motherhood and parenting is all about God Whatever you can do and God Kosababu Sasa mi mi tuni kuhu That whatever I have instilled in her Yes That she's able to You know To live by it Ata kikwa subjected in other places Ya When there's peer pressure and whatnot She's able to make her own Distrobed decisions Exactly Sasa mi tuni nasa Manga mi mi ni me fani Kwa ni umba ni me fani angu Sasa mi tuni jia Kwa chia to God It's just to cover Whatever it is Up to it's beyond my control Ya So rules are very important For children And especially For any child Any child The short Like kids need They only operate A kid can't operate without children Yes So sometimes you learn as a kid Kwa zazi utuna At least in my rules Kwa kia mingindi anati They don't know They are learning from us For sure So how do they learn from us If you're not the ones telling them This is This and this and this And this and this No Ya But also kids learn Mostly Ya Through observation They do They do Especiali sasa ikinda kufika iyej Kitia tanya naon ando anataka Una wakan anaku janga na kwa mbia Pachma muli nambi wono wokufa nevo Ya You should set the example Okay You live by example Ya If you make a promise You break it Then she knows promises Are there to be broken Ya Like there's something between How is it We don't know what to Like our friends who come over They don't understand Ya Like If Mumbus is Tu kona iye ya pukwa setting room Una tia position dati tukia na tuna Ni kila Sazing ni kila mtu akona Akona mbozake Ya Entertainment Misi zi watch anything on TV If Mumbus is Is there Is there Like on Netflix Like any of my shows I can't watch them when she's there Yes Ataka kwa ti ya kona iya Fonza na wotivi tu zake kwa di Ni I can't Yes Kus ivo tundio Kuko Imitakakakule amtuto anku Ya I'm setting an example And you're watching when she's there Nya Nya sasasen ya kwa po mimi duna Watch the same show Doesn't make sense Ya So They learn through observation mostly They do And roles are immersed Ya And roles are immersed Ya Rumi kwa rumba Rumi glasima Aj Aj How Eh Nya wei na make a lot of sense And again It's okay to make mistakes Because we learn from those mistakes No and again There's no manual There's no manual Ni kwangalitu na ona Uke analizu na ona No I feel busy Kamal Mule mimi ma simu Then kawangalesha mkona Oh By the way Nya We have our parental controls Nya We know we can regulate it To some extent Nya That's beautiful Tu ke malizia judi Ni lukwa na saka kujua The relationship ya team na mkuru How is the relationship like How is their friendship like Aki lemi just say it again Kus I think I mentioned it Nya There is a father-sanjilish Oh ya ya ya you mentioned That's a father-sanjilish Ya Ya I will see Nya feeling I feel like that's how If I was to define it Yes That's how I would define it Ya And it's that self-explanatory for sure Ya Kus you ask your father for advice You tell them when you're feeling low Mu tu aki kuchu okoza unene na wambia Kus kwa sozia imidia wanaji fanyanga At ya wapenda And we all know they are like very close friends Ya That's beautiful Judi wana just kujuku na mafans Wambia kit San Wambia kit Tell them something Gaia, all I would want to tell them Nya Thank you for following me Thank you for the support Thank you for Loving my content Whatever it is that I post on my pages I Promise to keep it authentic And to always do it Ya I think you're authentic What's your point I promise to always keep it authentic Kus I think that's where Nya Nothing fake is just how it comes For me the content that I Like if I put out that content I feel so good Any conversation to do with Mumbus Ya How she's growing up Ya Kus me realize it's an area that Most parents It's not a conversation Conversations that we are having Yes Our kids and especially on the internet Ya So if I Mumbus and I are meant to fill that gap Then why not And your conversations are so So informing Like it's really beautiful I remember the first time I watched The first conversation you guys had The mother-daughter conversation Oh I sent it to my sister I'm like oh kus I have nises Ya One is in form one It's in a teenager Ya Look at this content And see you know This is something they can consume I sent her Faster faster Akayangali And I'm sure they watch the content Any Kwanzaipitoka I have to remind her Nam tu miya nam tu miya Ya Ya Did you expect that reaction from people That you got Actually let me tell you Honestly I did not Kus I Well in my head I imagine We are very woke parents Okay You know like Ni na fikirakamuku na mtoto Ako the same age na mtoto angu It's because you are a woke parent Okay That you are living in this era Of social media and what not So we know we have to be woke Like Naizumatu unge lesho wa tuto e tuji Naizi naizi You were shocked I was actually very shocked Kus they I think the feedback in God Like 70% of the feedback in God Was Mimili conversation Tiku ananju an tanzi Awa pinam tu toa Aki Like a santi At least now I know Where to start So I thought Actually honestly I thought Is it nivit watwa na nge Zaka waida tu wa Kus mimi tulian Naizi conversations na mumpus When she was like eight years old Like whenever we were alone in the car We would Talk Like tunenda mahali Ni ni ni ni Like we would just talk about these days Yeah And then you see They start Being curious at a very young age So mibubu said Got into a point Where if she comes into my bedroom And there's a tampon There's a walt She asks what is this Yeah Kus anana Mami you are a girl like me Yeah But I'm not using this What are these things Yes Now I was just going to Wachana na hibu Rubisha ma ni kuchape What exactly Sama liyambu Namakini mkate ya watwa kumbu I know That is what we used to be told actually I know In this era My friend You cannot tell You can't Yeah Unless nimdo doa miakani Yeah You can laugh Umkate tenopate Aki kula Sa saizoni mambo gani Awez to communicate For sure Other than lies There are places for them To get this information If you don't tell them Yes They will get the information From the internet For sure You leave me It's from their peers And from the internet They will get the information Then And you see That information is not Necessarily The right information Or the correct information So they need to hear it From us As the parents Kila samangiv Anything to do with Whatever Anything she's experiencing Now she's growing up She needs to know those things From me first Before ending Aki story Na watu kumji Na na nitu kujua Nini So nitu kwa na mambo We need to have the sex talk Like a proper You know We have heard the sex talk Okay Yeah Because my friend If you start your period You can now get pregnant For sure Yeah For sure So that conversation Had to happen Na But now she's growing up Nini Na So she needs to understand What exactly is happening You know Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Melaan kama zile na feel ni kama nimetoka klas Ebu lemi no Thank you so much Judy Thank you for having me I know it has taken a lot for you to be here But I'm here But you're here And it had to come You had to Kipingi Kipingi Kipingi with a K Yes Kipingi Yes Yes Kipingi kwa Yes You have to understand Thank you Judy I truly appreciate Thank you All right guys That was Bimkuru It was a very insightful conversation Right here on Bars It's Stars I hope you have learnt something If you have Please sit down below on the comments section And in case you didn't subscribe As we were starting this conversation Please make sure you subscribe Subscribed All right Thank you so much My name is Miss Kithingi And until next time Kipit SPM Bars