 Seriously, you can however have a really intense dirty weekend away, or if you're in my position rock up to a country, have an intense love affair for a few days and then disappear, but if it's a girl who's in your city, you shouldn't be seeing her more than once a week or so. And just on a side note to that, are you guys aware that right next to England is a very large continent with a whole lot of different countries in it? Yeah? Yeah, no, it's crazy. And therefore, like the price of a steak, you can fly to these countries, and for the price of another steak, you can live like a king for three days and have sex with girls that are way hotter than most of the girls here. Did you know that? It's an important piece of information. I've been travelling from Melbourne, Australia, which is about as far away as you can go without penguins, to this other side of the world to take advantage of this fact, and the average British man spends his weekends drinking expensive beer in absurd little pubs and talking to fives. It makes me very angry. Yeah? You guys can go to Serbia tomorrow for nothing. Oh, shit. Sorry, Sasha. The cat's out of the bag. Don't go to Belgrade. It's not that great. Really dangerous. Girls not that friendly. Certainly don't have sex with you very quickly. Foods definitely not absolutely amazing gypsy music. None of it. Forget about it. This thing is, though, if we follow on from Sasha's 3% rule, only 3% of the guys in this room will even bother to try to get on a Ryanair flight and go over there. So how many people we got here? So there's about one of you. Who's going? Sure. All right. Send me an email with photos. So, that was my little passionate rant. What was I talking about before that? Brittany. No, before that. All right. I was talking about boundaries and shit. Yes. Okay. So you can't see a girl more than once a week. Otherwise, it's going to change the dynamic. Now, over time, this will shift as you start moving into a primary, secondary thing. The point of this lifestyle is that it means that when you choose a girl to be with long-term, it will be that. It will be a choice out of the available spread of what you've been experimenting with. I remember recently on Facebook, I put up a post about an event we were doing, which is on multiple relationships. And some girl from my primary school got on there and said, Jamie, Jamie was what people know me as, old friends. I'm horrified at you. You used to be such a sweet, nice boy. And now you're living this superficial lifestyle. People should just get together through serendipity or something like that. I didn't bother to reply. But I thought to myself, so watch this girl. This girl was endorsing was literally that inactive single to whoever you happened to first hook up with monogamous relationship. That's fucking stupid. In the normal world, well before anyone broke this down, people went out, dated a bunch of people, had sex with some, and then went, oh, that one's the best one I've found so far. So that's what I'm going to have a relationship with. That's what you guys are doing. You will end up in monogamous relationships. They can be a beautiful thing. But they should come out of choice. It should happen when you go, whoa. And I've got no other choice but to let all my other girls go because that one there has just blown my head off. Only under those circumstances should you enter into a monogamous relationship. Otherwise, you'll cheat on each other. There'll be resentment. You'll feel like you're missing out. And guys do that for decades. And then they come and see us in their late 30s and 40s. And it's a sad predicament to be in. The other important thing about being able to juggle multiple women is you have to be really good in bed. Because there's nothing in it for her if she gets one night a week with you and comes over and has lousy sex. Why bother? So it's important that you become a great lover. I think the average that a man lasts in bed has gone up over the last generation. It used to be three minutes, and now it's five minutes. So ladies, you're doing better than you used to. That's pretty horrible, really. And think about it from the wounds perspective. For the guy, at least he got off. I mean, it was five minutes, but at least he had got off. Unlikely, she's going to have an orgasm in that amount of time. So if you become a really good lover, or even just a better than average lover, then you have set yourself well above the bar of where most men are. Now, I'll give you a few little tips on how to get good at sex. Firstly, good at the sex. Firstly, stop jacking off to internet pornography. Everyone's like, what? I don't even have the internet. The reason being that this posture is not in the karma sutra, the mouse and cock. Yep. What that posture actually does, and you're going to use that as a screenshot, aren't you? It's like, James Marshall. What that posture actually does is, if the majority of your sexual experiences is in something along those lines of that posture, it trains your body that this is what sex is. This is how you get aroused. At the same time, you're disassociating yourself from the realities of sex by looking at a screen in this stylized, weird kind of conceptual version of what sex is. And I had a friend who knew that he had a problem with internet porn when one day he looked at a computer that was off and he got a heart on. He was like, not good. He's still doing it. Nothing's changed. So, remove that from your life. Yes, you may still masturbate. Carry on. It's good for you. But use your imagination instead. Or better still, focus in on only the sensations of your hand touching yourself. Actually seduce yourself. Because if you're used to jacking off three minutes in the shower, then you're training yourself to blow in three minutes essentially in a tense, you know, heady space. So, if you're going to masturbate, do it once a week and have a nice bath, light candles, spend time with yourself. He's like, what the fuck? How many girls have you had sex with? Not many. All right. Because this will train you to actually become a sensual creature, to actually get in your body and to enjoy the process rather than the outcome. Most men in sex are just trying to get their nuts off, right? That's not the way you should view it. You should enjoy every moment of it and then become a responsive lover. And the other thing is, if you have very little experience with women, find a girl who's a bit older than you, who's had plenty of guys and just ask her to teach you. I am so grateful to one girl in my life who, when I was 21, she was 26. We went to bed together and I could tell afterwards she was kind of disappointed. And I just swallowed my pride and I said, listen, Brittany, I don't know what I'm doing, obviously, so could you just teach me how to fuck properly? And she did. And that changed the course of my life. Just that one woman and those couple of weeks where she took pity on me. And because I was still direct and clear about, I made no apology. I'm shit in bed. Can you help me fix this? I would really appreciate that. I can buy you lunch or something, whatever you want. But that would be a big help to me. So find a girl who is sexual, who you're really comfortable with, spend a bit of time with her and just experiment and learn together. And if she's got more experience than you, she can show you what to do. It's really important. No one talks about this. They always talk about how to go up and get phone numbers. If you are really fucking good in bed and you walk up to a girl on the street and you're looking in the eyes and you think and know and project, I can make you come so fucking hard. How easy is it going to be to use a direct opener? How easy is it going to be to lead the interaction? Because you're thinking to your end game. Rather than the guy who's like, I'm going to go practice an approach. She can see that in his eyes. She's like, this is not worth my time. This guy is not going to take me on an amazing adventure. The role that this guy potentially plays in my life is nuisance. Possibly a friend who maybe I'm getting cuddled with sometimes, but certainly not have sex with. There's a whole lot of roles that women need fulfilled by men that don't involve the men having sex with them. Do you guys want to play those roles? Say yes or no. Right. It's totally fine to play them with some girls. I have lots of female friends. I don't have sex with them. I really enjoy their company. But that's because I chose that role between us.