 Y'all hear that run? You're so... Are you ready? Guys, when you're here, are you ready? Do you immediately hear the Zoey 101 song after? Zoey 101 theme song lyric. We're over this. Okay, we're doing the music. Hey guys, what's up? It's Kinsey. Today I'm here with my BFF, Bestie Girlie number one. Y'all know? My best friend. Bestie Girlie, we know. Girlie have BFF. I'm number one. I'm so embarrassed that I messed that up. Bestie Girlie? I'm so embarrassed right now. I'm not embarrassed, that's what we call it. I'm just embarrassed that I messed it up. You know when you start saying things ironically and then become your vocab? That's exactly how it goes. That's where we're at. It's really embarrassing. You guys, when you hear subscribe, also follow us on Instagram. Also, we're very cool and we're going to start showing it. So, thank you. You don't tell them that. You don't tell them that. Yeah, no. Yeah, no. Okay. Effortless. Effortless. Aww! Don't try. We don't have our collections saved on our Instagram. Nope. Go away. Don't ruin. Let goOME. Like I said, follow us on Instagram. And we're just going to start with something like just Ye적- YeeЕ opp. Where did you all meet? When did you all meet? Do you wanna lay out? I met Herm in your apartment. In downtown. I met you. Do I talk to you or them? Like both. Go on the frat. Imagine like someone's sitting there, I think. Is that, is that like? I don't know. I met you. Her. I don't know what I'm doing. Just say something. Okay. 2015, going into 2016, and Joe and Shaw are staying with me in my apartment, my first apartment. No. Right? No, this was after that. So like, they were, no, they weren't staying with you. They just slept over one night for that thing, for the New Year's Eve. And then a couple days later, we came back. So, around New Year's Eve. Oh, without me. When you came over and they were with us and we hung out. So we were all together. Yeah, I know. But I understand like, I knew Joe and Shaw. And we filmed that video with Andrew. That was the first day we ever met. With Joe, with Joe. And Andrew. Oh yeah. You and me, Andrew, Shawn, and Joe. Yeah, so we go way back. Damn. It's only two years? That was just not right. But it is right. That's so weird. No, because it's about to be 2019. Yeah. So like three years, three years. Yeah. We're right over three years. Yeah. That makes more sense. Okay. But like roughly, roughly two years if you, I'm here. No, no, no. I aged 17 years in this friendship. No, no, no. No, no, no. Mine is, mine is the good year. It's been months. We weren't friends. Plus it gets a couple others, right? Then we've known each other for two years. Yeah, we had a little bit of a falling out. A little falling out. You know what I was thinking about when I was in the car? I didn't say it because I was weird. Same for the video, like you asked me too. Okay, you know when you're like dating someone or like you like see someone and you're like, oh like not now, like maybe later or whatever. And then like it's never like later and you just get over them by then. It's kind of like that, but we're the case where it worked or we're not dating. Like we, I'll be, I'll see what we're actually going to do. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because we're definitely, we're like not now, but like maybe later and then maybe later happened. Yeah, yeah. This happened so don't count on it. Yeah, no problem. It was the boys who bought it. Yeah, no, we're even a friend. Like sometimes it really just means like let go. Yeah. So. Basically, we just took a break. Did we talk about why we, why we fell out? Yeah, what would you even say? What's your reasoning? No, genuinely, I don't even know what I'm saying. I had it falling out with a mutual friend of ours. And then, well, I know this isn't the reason, but it was my reason. Cause then we fell out and I was like, oh, I blamed it on the fact that me and this other person fell out. Yeah, but it wasn't. It wasn't that at all. And then once we reconciled. But I also, I didn't communicate that way at all. And I will say, this was at the end of it. I feel like, cause normally I am like, especially now with a lot better handling conflicts and like a lot better like having conversations. But at this point, we just didn't have a conversation. But also, I will say like at this point, I was so anti gossip and talking poorly of anyone. Yeah, and that's all I was about. Well, that's all I was gonna say, something else. No, but I wouldn't, like because of that, if I had issues, I wouldn't like talk about it with anyone. I wouldn't like go through it. I just like bottomed everything up. And then at the end of it, when we guys had that falling out, I was like, whatever. Because of that, do you see what I'm saying? So like if I would have just like realized it wasn't gossip and it was like something that would have been beneficial for our friendship and then talk to someone to get advice and then go from there. Like by the time I was like, okay, we should try this too late. You know what I'm saying? So it took a break. I was at 10. Yeah, yeah. I was, it's like so weird. If you would have told me then that you were like my number one, like y'all didn't know it was warm. Like, no saying. You were the only person I tell everything to. Like he, like I immediately called out, like if you would have told me that then, I would have never believed it. I would have never believed that we could go to this after that. It's like we're like right or die. Like I'll murder someone for, I'll literally send her to a car. Like, if I could do, like if you're an officer there's no point for me. You're an introvert and I'm an extrovert. But I feel like we both can lead on your side. Definitely, yeah. Because like sometimes in a group setting you could totally be an introvert and I could totally be the extrovert. It just kind of depends. I will say when that started to happen, that was weird. Like when you started to be the last one, it's true. What inspired the Chase? Love that song. Y'all that has the Chase and my check out now. New stuff's coming. The Chase was inspired by a friend of mine. We were really close and he, like whenever he would vent to me about the people that he was like into, I noticed that he kind of got over them really quickly. Like he would talk about it and maybe they would show some affection later and he'd be like, no. And so the song The Chase is like, it says in the song, like I love the Chase and that basically it's about somebody who doesn't fall in love and somebody who gets over people quickly. And I feel like that's everybody. Like I did write it about somebody else, but I feel like everybody can, not everybody, maybe some people really do don't like The Chase, but. When did y'all know this was a forever friendship? It made me think about it. Maybe like your birthday. Your birthday weekend. Yeah, I feel like that was a really, I agree. But actually the other day, it's funny that you asked that because y'all was talking about how like through our friendship and like everything she's like gained, or like not through, but like during this time with a lot of empathy and stuff and she's like, or understanding. She's like, I had that before it continued, I'll have that after it continued. And why did I have like an afterlife? This last, no, well, no, I'm getting specific. We went to Big Bear for her birthday and something, you dramatic, traumatic, both of those happened. I cried, someone hurt my feelings and the way you responded to it, like the way you responded to it, I was like, we were both like, no, I thought you wouldn't respond that well. No, you said, you said, and that's the one thing. And no, I wouldn't have known. But I should have, for you. Yeah, the fact that you knew that was just, I would have never, you know what I mean? Yes. Or if we're going back a little further, yeah, she opened up about boys finally with me and that was genuinely like that sounds stupid, but that was like the game changer in our friendship. It's hard to talk to someone about stuff like that when they haven't been through it or whatever. And like, there's like a weird sense of like, people don't understand that that stuff like affects you. I don't know, just like anything in life. I was willing to go to the grave with this boy. With this secret. Yeah, I was like, if anything was to happen, if anything wasn't to happen, whatever, like I would have never, ever told somebody. And it's funny because I literally told myself, I promised myself, it would not tell you. And then I had like the ask, I just made up a face. I just made up a face and you knew, like you were like, is it? And I was like, but like, oh, and I just to be clear, when I asked her, I was kidding. Like, but also you had asked me four times before and I said, oh. No, I think it was him. No, you did, remember in the car in church home, you were like, I didn't mean it. Oh, really? I was kidding. Like when I asked you that I was still kidding, you could have gone with it and I was like, ah, that's funny, right? Like, I was kidding. And now I'm like, whatever, like, I don't think a boy can breathe near me. Like, I wouldn't have gotten it if it wasn't him. I'm still like, none of yours is. That's true. I didn't even meet, you could have bought the same one, but I didn't even meet. I just knew, like, given probably everybody did too, but I just knew. I think you knew before I knew. I think everyone knew before I knew. That's me and boys. I would never know with them, but that's such a great quality to have. Really? Well, because like, would you rather be obsessed with every boy ever? Do you know what I mean? No, I'm not. You waited for them to like, be completely and utterly obsessed with you before you? Yeah, absolutely. That's what I do. That's what I do. That's what I do. That's what I do. Before you even think about liking them. Yeah, before I even consider it, like. Yeah, I'll be like, no, I really don't like them, but I genuinely mean that at the time. And then I, there's a lot of times that I say that though, I don't end up liking them. But just like, pretty much, yeah, you know, I also don't like people, but yeah, you didn't know about that one. What would you do if you ever caught someone using Texas' name in vain? I would just pray for them. I would throw hands. Not even from Texas. Like, I just have so much respect that these people must not respect themselves to say Texas' name in vain. That's really embarrassing. What is a topic you can't talk to each other about? I can't think of one. Who has that? We can't talk to each other about it? I can literally can't think of anything. Before I would have said boys. Oh yeah, oh yeah. But now I wouldn't have obviously. On my side. Not on yours. Yeah, but like, I wouldn't have, oh you wouldn't have to teach this anyway. That's true, that's true. What is your favorite thing about each other? The first. So obviously people say it probably like, you're- Your car. You were, yeah, yeah, yeah. Your, people would say like your drive, optimism, blah, blah, blah. I would say my favorite thing about you. You play devil's advocate more than I do. And I really appreciate that because you really see all sides of things you know what I mean? I mean you might not even say it though. I can just tell like, if she's saying, this is rare, but say she's talking shit on somebody and I jump in and I start talking shit on that somebody, she would be like, wait, but like- That's so true. That's so true. Like, you'll say something nice about that. You know what I mean? And then you really switch it up and then we start talking about the nice things about them like, because it's so hard for you to like have, you know what I mean? Because it's hard sometimes to see the other sides of things and you definitely do that. Yeah, you're good. When I go to Yonah, I'm like, I always say I would rather be wrong than be right because if you're in the wrong, it's easier to like work from there, like to work up if you're wrong than it is when you're right. It gets so much easier because you have almost more control. Like not like control in a power way, but control in like, I can make this better way because I'm the one who messed up. Like so I have to be the one that makes the difference, you know, so I always say like, I would rather be wrong, but when I tell Yonah something like, what? But that's like sometimes- But sometimes it's like, it's hard one to know. It's hard to know when to be supportive versus when to be devil's advocate. That's- Sometimes it's hard, you know what I mean? Like should you be like in full support of something or should you make them see that they might be wrong? You just never know sometimes, but you definitely do a good balance of it, I think. And I think I do too. You do, yeah. You do too. Maybe. With you, I don't know what other people, you know. You're very loyal. Oh my God. No, but you're like- Every time you say that, I can picture somebody that I wasn't loyal to, be like- I don't know what their names are. I don't know anyway. It's very loyal, like you're very like stable in things, if that makes sense. Like if you're in a friendship, you're in- You're very like long, we're in a long relationship. Yeah, what kind of thing do you do like a- Yeah, you're not, yeah. I don't know, we're both pretty intense people, so like it's either like forever or never, basically. If I call you and I'm like messed up about something, you're just very stable. And like stable in my life and also stable in how you talk to me about things, like you will get worked up with me, but when you should get worked up with me, it's kind of the same thing you were saying, but like I immediately like, like sometimes I'll just audio message her, like something that happened in like two minutes, like we don't need to talk about this, but just so you know, because if this comes up in a week, something else happened, it's easier to keep it up. Yeah, that's what- But yeah, you're stable. Most of the time I know that I might not reply. Yeah. Because if I just did that- Because a lot of the time, yeah, I feel like we're really good about not editing each other out on those things. Like I feel like we've gotten really good, definitely. Cause I'll be like, oh yeah. But I know when to be like, bitch what? Yeah. And then I know when to be like, okay. Like there was something that happened like a few weeks ago, that I really taught you and my friends and I knew they'd be really mad, but I was like, okay, here's what happened, but like I knew, like, the, the- Oh, right. See? She waited, she waited a little bit to tell me because she- I waited to tell anyone really because it was like messed up. Yeah. And I knew that my friends would get really worked up about it and I honestly like wasn't super worked up about it even though I probably should have been kind of thing. And then I just like, I just like made my decision and I moved on from that. Like it wasn't- It's good that she waited to tell me because if she told me in the moment I would have gotten so furious. I'm still furious, I'm still mad. Sorry. Yeah. Unforgivable. Boy. Sorry. We all, we love everyone. Yeah. We're really unbothered. Exactly. Last time. Do you love the chase as much as Yalla? I love the chase more than Yalla. Oh. Okay. I think Elizabeth Bahamir- Oscar Branch. You can only pick one. Go. To Branch. If there's some questions, some questions might be boring. Yeah. Yeah. Is it sometimes hard to make time to see each other in person? Absolutely not. No. Dream boy, you're a dream boy but my dream boy for you. Ow! Me. Can someone diagnose me down below? I think it's big. What we've talked about this is because you are so emotionally stable and- Non-emotionally secure boys. Yeah. Latch on. You know what I mean? It's like that. Yeah. Because they're like, she's gonna help. And you do- That was good. Yeah, it's definitely not good. Thank you. That was good. Yeah. What about me? I want to know. Mark Ruffalo. Oh no, you have to know. Literally! Oh my god, I would love that. I'm with is supposed to bring you closer to everything in your life like God, you're calling in your friends and everything. This was to bring you closer to that. They're not. And the second that they're like isolating you. Yeah. It's really bad. Okay, what's your favorite thing about friendship? I have mine. Okay. I like how we're both like very creative in the sense of like ex- Like, I feel like we're both like pretty expressive but I feel like when we're like creative together and we like balance ideas, like we don't do the same thing. Yeah. But it's cool to like, you know what I'm saying? I like, I think one thing I've always been and one thing I was before I like changed emotionally who I was from two years ago. I've always been super, super involved in other people's creative projects. I love it so much. Sometimes I'm even more passionate about that which is why I didn't do music for so long because I was so concerned like with what everybody else was doing. I don't want to push people too much. Like, No, that's what I mean though. Like I like that we're involved. Especially like when all these songs come out. Like that's probably more exciting for me. Yeah. It's more of a bonus for you. Yeah, that's how excited I am. I'm so excited for podcasts. Yeah. Like stuff like that. Like we're very, And that's another thing I was thinking about just the past like few months. Like, I feel like things have not been changing in my life. It's just been like, I don't have to describe it. It's been a good time and it's gonna be a really weird time. But that's what I would say. Like I'm so grateful because at the end of the day, like you can take whatever from me but I still have like my friends. I still have the safety of them. Like you can always go back. I'm like, Yada is always there. Like I'm like, I ultimately still, not like with since like a competition against anyone like not like that at all. But like at the end of the day, I still have that. And that's like my like, like the covering like my like safety net. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. So it's like a very like reliable thing. It's great. And there's definitely been times I think in both of our lives when we didn't feel like there was somebody who, you know what I mean? Like, it's just funny that it ended up being each other. Yeah. Yeah. Definitely. What is your next song, Yada? Why does this come in now? Soonest, right? The thing is, here's my dilemma. Here's my dilemma guys. I wrote this song. I have them. I know she does. So she's not waiting for it. Yeah. Okay. They're really good. No, yesterday. Yesterday. I wrote a song called Call Me Back. And I love it so much that if I had my own way, like I would want to do it like, I don't even give a fuck about Christmas. Like, I just want it out. But I don't know what to do. Like, I don't know. I'm over-stepping my bounds, like contacting people. You know what I mean? So if any of you guys do music, hit her up. Yeah, seriously. How do you handle fighting with your best friend? Okay. Well, this is subjective because I wouldn't handle fighting differently with other people. You know what I mean? With you? I think I care about our friendship too much to let anything become a problem. That's what I'm saying. I'm like, now we're just so like, almost mature in our friendship that like, things don't ever get to that point anymore. Yeah. That's how we do it. Not getting offended, not holding onto a fence, also having conversations early on and realizing that if it's like, drop your pride, that's the biggest thing. Like, pride. You've helped me the most with that I think though. I feel like if I didn't have you in my life, I would take things more personally Yeah. You know what I mean? Just because I see how you leave, for example, you don't get offended too often and it doesn't make me think, oh, I shouldn't get offended, but it makes me think, oh, how important are these things that are getting to that point? Yeah. Yeah. I think also, it's like realizing that you guys are like on the same side. If you're on the same team. Yeah. But that's what I would say, like in the conversations that I've had the past few months, like that's when I'm like, we're like not with you, like just in general, but we're on the same team. Like, The nine is ever as malicious as you make it seem. Yeah, exactly. We're on the same thing. We're on the same angle. So it's like, we're on the same team, like lower everything. It's like not gonna make a video. Like, don't view the other person as like your enemy, like it's your best friend. It's like, you're on the same thing. So I kind of like had friends in the past that I didn't, that did not make me my best. I wouldn't say that they suck, but they make me suck. This is the biggest difference with my friendship when it was before versus now is before, I felt like held back almost in a sense of like, I felt like I was held to the person that I was like months before. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. You've got a lot of internalized things. Because like you change and then you feel whatever. That's a big thing with you right now. I don't feel like I can't change. Like if I walk in your house tomorrow morning and I'm completely different, I'm 100% and you'll be fine with it. You won't be like, that's not you. Yeah, exactly. That's what I'm saying. Now I feel like I can be whoever. Yeah, I think that's like probably the biggest thing. What have you learned the most from each other? Dude, it's the whole offense thing. 100%, I would say. Because now it even affects how I interact like with my family even. Like for example, like my mom. Love you. If she- I can use you. Love you. I love you. I can't do that. We talked about this before. I was moving out of the classroom. Straighten your middle fingers. Just straighten your middle fingers. Straighten your, maybe? Yeah. You gotta just do that. But I get reminded just by having conversations with you that- It's not that deep. I don't say that all the time. Yeah. Like it's not that deep. It really isn't that deep. Not everything is about, and not everything is exactly what it is in your head. Like some people think so much. And some people, I literally mean me. It's me. I think so much. You're so much better at another. I try to be, but being in my head a lot is like my biggest, biggest flaw. And it's gonna be the one thing in my life that I want to constantly work on. And I just think that if you just don't think, if you don't like put so much value on your thoughts, it doesn't fucking matter. You know- Bite on your emotions. It's like- It's really versus logically. It's like built up my faith in like people and reconciliation and friends. Like that's what I always say. Like when I think of like, that'll never happen. You never know what's gonna happen or like, or like people like changing your grime or people like whatever. Like now, the last thing I ever want to say is like, oh, never again. Cause like if you would have told me that we will be this close to it, I would have never believed you. So it's like built my faith up in reconciliation, growing as people for both of us. Like it ended up working out at the end of the day. So like, but like it really was like probably my most extreme case of like a friend falling out like ever. Not that it was like- That was really- But it was just like quiet. Both of you for me was that the most- For sure, for sure. And so like I think, yeah at the end of the day, like it's really, and that's something that like literally like every single day I sit up all the time, like you really don't know what's gonna happen. Like you really just don't know. Now we're forever BFFs. And y'all I can't leave my side, even though apparently there is an afterlife to our friendship. So I'm still gonna be past that. We're gonna do an interview for that. Love you guys so much. Hope you guys enjoyed this. Watch our vlogs, Instagram. Wait, we don't have a, we don't have a- A hashtag? No, not a hashtag. Yenzi? No. But that's cute. No, Kana. Kana, that makes- It's okay. Ken, Ken, Kenza. It'd be Yenzi. Yenzi. Cause the other one would be Yenzi. Yeah, that's cute. Hashtag Yenzi. Love you guys so much. Hope you guys enjoyed this video. I'm sorry that it was so long, but you guys liked longer videos of my channel normally, so peace out.