 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم والحمد لله رب العالمين وصل الله على محمد وآله الطيبين الطاهرين والعنة الله على أعداءهم أجمعين من الآن إلى أبادي الأبديين الناس من الناس هو أنه أحبه أو أنه أحبها وهم أحب أي شيء that is associated to them they draw closer to everything that is theirs this is the nature of mankind and also whatever they gain, whatever they buy or whatever they add to their belongings would be very close to their hearts here we learn from the following story how to be able to be fair when dealing with ourselves, with our family members and with friends and with those who we do not even know being fair sometimes being fair means that you have to tread upon your own emotions and desires so be it as long as you are fair we hear this phrase many a times where people say it's not fair or life is not fair why? because they feel that something of theirs has been taken away or they have been deprived of a certain thing but once they sit down and ponder and think about that thing or that item they see that it wasn't theirs from the beginning so they did not lose anything once an Arabian came to the Holy Prophet of Islam and asked him for admonishment for نصيحة رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم لتأكيد من هذه الأخياء رسول الله سبحانه وتعالى وقل عامل الناس كما تحب أن يعملوك لذا تقديم مع الناس تقديم معهم تقديم معهم نفسهم the same way that you like them to attract themselves towards you تقديم معهم the same way that you like them to deal with you تقديم معهم should be the same way that you want them to use towards you so if you like people to be honest with you if you like people to smile in your face and be happy with you and positive do the same towards them if you like people to respect you if you do not want people to deprive you of their honesty then do the same towards them and then the Holy Prophet continues ولا تعمل الناس كما لا تحب أن يعملوك so anything that you don't like in people doing to you or acting that way towards you you do not do that towards them أمير المؤمنين علي ابن أبي طالب علي السلام again one day one companion says I was walking in the streets of Kufa and I saw Ameer Al-Mu'mineen علي ابن أبي طالب standing in front of two sacks one containing gold and the other containing silver and Ameer Al-Mu'mineen was holding people back until I stood there until I saw that both these sacks of gold and silver had been emptied Ameer Al-Mu'mineen divided and distributed the gold and the silver equally amongst the Muslims and amongst the needy that were standing in front of him until he went back home with empty sacks he did not even take anything with him for himself being fair who was Ameer Al-Mu'mineen Ameer Al-Mu'mineen علي ابن أبي طالب was the commander was the head of state at that time did he take anything for himself and deprive the needy no he worked on the basis of fairness there are people out there that are in need of that wealth there are people out there who are in need of my help and my guidance so I should be fair I have that knowledge let me go out there and teach and educate people so being fair brothers and sisters is not only that you love yourself and you deprive yourself and other people of that thing that you own sharing it when you share it you are being fair to yourself and you are being fair to other people عمل الناس كما تحب أن يعملوك ولا تعمل الناس كما لا تحب أن يعملوك والسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته