 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and today We're going to talk about why is love so hard. So why is love so hard? That's a great question If love is hard for you, then then let's talk about why There are really two reasons for why love is so hard for most people and the first reason is that we make it Much harder than it needs to be so and in reality love isn't hard. It's actually pretty simple And what ends up happening is all of our beliefs our thoughts our behaviors get in the way We start second-guessing ourselves. Our insecurities come up You know all the internal things that our our neediness comes out and and everybody has this men and women all men and women have it to certain degrees and So, you know the first reason is that we make it a lot more difficult than it needs to be in the second reason is That we don't approach most people don't approach love in a very smart way so they They just throw themselves into this whole idea of love and they they don't understand it They don't know how to approach it. They don't They confuse it with they confuse Attraction and love together. They confuse falling in love with loving someone which are two completely different things So so really it's that most people don't understand it It's actually kind of a difficult thing to understand So if you don't have some kind of education in what love is You haven't read up on it. You haven't studied it at all You haven't learned about love and how to create love and how to be in love and how to fall out of love You need to that then it can be a very very difficult and hard thing to experience in your life And so my recommendation to you is that you educate yourself, you know You learn about love you learn about yourself so that you don't get in your own way when it comes to love And if you want more information on how to attract a Man into your life then make sure you go to visit my website at commitment connection calm and take the quiz there I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon