 Rydw i'n gwybod, iawn, y nifer o bwynd ystod yn ddau i, a dim o'r ddau i'n ddau i'n ddau i ddau i, mae ysgolwad Brennid Y Rhydd, y Cym Aujourdydd, erdoedd ein ddigwydd yn yr ffordd i ddau i'n ddau i'n ddau i'n ddau i, ysgolwad Brennid Y Rhydd, yn ddau i ddau i ddau i. Rydw i'n digwydd i mwy ffordd i ddau i ddau i ddau i, yna bydd yna chi'n ymni i a chad amddol i ddau i ddau i. Dwi'n gweld ymdweud i'r rôl i'n byw gwyliau at honno. I live in the heart of Angus, where I'm known as Brenda, the lady who conducts funerals or officiates at weddings. I'm also known as Graham's wife, as a mum, a nanna, a neighbour or friend, someone you can call on in times of trouble. I have the opportunity to be these things, but could I have what so many others in and other countries crave these days freedom of choice. On 21 November it will be 100 years that women like me were given the opportunity to vote, we were given the right of freedom of choice. How do we choose what we do? Do we criticise or condemn or do we teach, encourage or lead by example? We like to think we are happy and work hard at achieving that happiness. We like to lose weight by that bigger car, have a more expensive holiday or retire." We all say that someday we will do this when we have more time, but the time to be happy is now. Alfred De Souza said that for a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin, real life, but there was always some obstacle in the way, Something that had to be gotten through first, then life would begin. At last, it dawned to me that these obstacles were my life. When I left school, I became a nurse and then a midwife. Seven years ago, I trained as a celebrant with the Humanist Society Scotland. Little by little, I have knocked down the obstacles I thought made me unhappy and I found a vocation that excites me. I love my life and that makes me happy, whatever role I'm undertaking. So choose to lead by example, build people up, don't knock them down, support others to have choices, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you've shared it with someone special and remember, time waits for no one. Our lives will always be filled with challenges, so it's best to admit this and be happy because happiness is a journey, not a destination. Thank you for listening.