 So the overarching topic of the podcast is talking about autism in women and in what ways do you think the experiences of relationships for autistic women may be different? Let me think about this one for a second. I think one thing for women is the way, and this kind of plays back into our expectations or just expected to look a certain way, dress up for your partner and look cute and be flirty. I think a lot of times for women we're expected to be the flirty one or I think to just going to events and being like the supportive girlfriend or whatever, and the supportive partner can be hard because it's a lot of social interaction. So I think just the way we carry ourselves and this might be less autism related but I think in general today it's just hard for many women to feel like they can be assertive, which I do feel like actually is really important to talk about with autistic people because it's so important for us to speak bluntly and directly. And a lot of times that is not received well, like people don't like it, a lot of people don't like it when women are assertive and they're unapologetic. And so I think that's especially hard for autistic people who want to live a life of integrity and honesty and be open about what they're thinking and feeling. I think a lot of times that can be met with like, well, you know, your, you know, the B word is kind of how it comes across. So I think that bluntness and kind of clashes up against who we're expected to be in a relationship. And I think women are ready to be like, and we are we're the strong confident partner, you know, that wants to have equal say and you know, I'm getting on my soapbox now, but I think there's a lot at play there for sure. Thank you for that. I think there's, there's also another aspect which is perhaps a little bit more dark, which is sort of in the realms of like, use some negativity because the statistics that are out there, like just for these in general, you know, all domains are pretty horrifying. Yeah. And if I think, I think I did see a study where it was like, happens happens a lot more to autistic women, especially since you have, you know, met men a lot more likely to have a certain personality that can be abrasive and manipulative and abusive sometimes. I feel like considering that more, more men are like that. I would, you know, I'd say that, you know, women are a lot more vulnerable to that kind of physical, physical related abuse. Yeah. And it is unfortunate. And again, you know, I'm thinking about these dating and relationship groups. I mean, the women who were open about the abuse that they faced was, you know, if I had to just give a number, I'd say it was easily 60%. And these were just the women who were open about. Yeah. So unfortunately, you know, I feel like it again, going back to what we said earlier, generally speaking, you know, autistic people are pretty empathetic, but even, but women even more so, you know, and so I think that we tend to attract people sometimes that like you said, give us word salads and are manipulative and try to use our empathy to make them feel better. We kind of lose track of who we are. And we want to make the other person feel better. So we'll give our body, we'll give, you know, our emotions. And unfortunately, a lot of times there will be an abusive situation where on the other side of it, the delayed processing, everything, you know, on the other side of it, it takes you a while to realize what even happened. And unfortunately, that is a common story among women on the spectrum.