 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم والصلاة والسلام علي أشرف المرسلين سيجدنا ونبينا وحبيبنا وشفيعنا وقائدنا وقرة عيوننا سيجدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم يا عربنا لك الحمد كما ينبغي لجلال وجهك وعظيم سلطانك اللهم نفتح علينا فتح العرفين اللهم علمنا ما ينفعنا ونفعنا بما علمتنا يا أرحم الرحيمين اليوم ان شاء الله سوف نتحدث عن اشخاص محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم انهم دورة بانتو أبي لها برضي الله وعنها والخنساء رضي الله وعنها لذا دورة بانتو أبي لها برضي الله وعنها كان من الوصول من سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم انها اخباره she's his cousin she accepted اسلام and she believed in سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم despite her parents vicious enmity for islam so she embraced islam without fear she didn't care about her parents she didn't care about her family so she joined the sacred ranks of the companions and she was a very strong believer in الله سبحانه وانتعالى and his messenger so her father أبو لها and her mother those were amongst the worst enemies of islam and they were amongst the worst enemies of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and the extent of أبو لها's enmity towards islam was for example when سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم called people publicly towards the truth so أبو لها openly attempted to denounce him and tried to distance people from him what about his wife أم جميل would cover the path of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم with with thorns in order to harm him so for those parents the daughter was a completely different person سيدا دورة رضي الله عنها was an amazing companion so in these difficult circumstances دورة رضي الله عنها تسكارد تسكارد تسكارد تسكارد تسكارد the religion of her parents أب اندني سيدها من حياتي أضبار إسلام وزال فاتحة سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم these these points were evidence where proofs of her recognition of the truth ويجب أن يكون هناك مجموعة من هذه المجموعة. أولئاً دورة رضي الله عنها كانت مجموعة من مجموعة whose name was حاري سبنو نوفل ومجموعة لديهم ثلاثة أطفال أقبة وليد ومسلماتها حاريس لديها فهي تصمرني أحتفاً ووأخذت في هذا النبي ثم دورة رضي الله عنها خطر المجموعة يوجد مجموعة من سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم كانت مجموعة من المجموعة وعندما تذكره، جيبريل علي السلام سيكون أفضل في حاله عندما تشاهدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم فدورة كانت محمد Whose companions who migrated from Mecca to Medina to escape the oppression of the family and of the society لذلك عندما رضي الله عنها حصلت في مدينة she stayed at the home of one of the companions whose name was Rafa and some women from Zureiq tribe said to her so you are the daughter of Abu Lahab regarding whom Allah سبحانه و تعالى said so may both the hands of Abu Lahab be destroyed and he has been destroyed so how will you attain any reward for migrating so دورة رضي الله عنها was saddened by these words and she shared this experience with سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم what did he do? صلى الله عليه وسلم سيدنا محمد reasshoot her and he told her to sit he asked her to sit with them and after reading the prayer he ascended the pulpit and he made a declaration so what did he say? he said مابال أقوام يؤذونني في ذوي نسبي ألا ومن آذى نسبي وذوي رحمي فقد آذاني ومن آذاني فقد آذ الله so سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said oh people why am I being troubled about the affairs of my family by Allah he's weird by Allah my intercession will reach my relatives so whoever hurts me with my people with my relatives then he hurt me myself he hurt me and whoever hurt me has hurt Allah so this is how سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم defended the oppressed he stood firm and he told people to be careful he warned them so در رضي الله عنها narrated حديث of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she narrated two hadith of sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم one of them was when the prophet was on the pulpit someone asked him oh messenger of Allah who is the best of people and sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم answered he explained the best of people is the one who is most mindful of Allah who commands right forbids evil and maintains family ties the most so sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم gave us the example the characteristics of the person who is the best of people fearing Allah سبحانه و تعالى doing the right and commanding doing the right commanding people to do right stays away from evil and asks people to stay away from evil and he has good ties with the family so this is the first hadith that was narrated by رضي الله عنه and the second hadith that she narrated about sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم was the messenger of Allah said a living person cannot be harmed in retaliation for the actions of the deceased so these are the two hadith that رضي الله عنه narrated for sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so she was رضي الله عنه was an immensely pious she feared Allah سبحانه و تعالى she wanted she wanted Allah سبحانه و تعالى to be pleased with her she did her best for that and she was a generous person and ابن حجر العسقلاني رحم الله described how generous she was and he talked about how generous she was in feeding people so it doesn't matter who the parents are it doesn't matter if they are believers or not it doesn't matter where you are raised but what matters is the faith that's inside the heart the being faithful to the to the religion that we have in our heart and to apply the orders of Allah سبحانه و تعالى to follow the footsteps of sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she was the daughter of the most people who were who were against sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم but Allah سبحانه و تعالى has given her an honor when she migrated and when she refused the religion of her fathers of her four fathers and the best of that honor was جبريل عليه السلام would come to sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم on the form of her husband دحية الكلبي so this was دورة رضي الله عنها so from this amazing female companion we get the strength in our relation with sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she did not care who her father and mother were she did not care about anything but she wanted to support sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she wanted to prove how good Muslim she is so from this character we have to look at ourselves we have to look what are we doing for our religion how are we faithful to our religion what are we doing are we good models for people around us with people when looking at us say we want to follow this religion we like the radiance on the faces of this person when Allah SWT loves a person he throws the light in his heart he guides him so he would know what path to follow so being guided by Allah SWT means that the person is on the right path so we ask Allah SWT to guide us to the right path to sيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم to whatever pleases him to accept our deeds and to make them faithful to make them just pure for his sake moving on to our second companion female companion her name is Al-Khansa and her title is a distinguished poet and the mother of the heroes so who is Al-Khansa her name is تماضر بنت عمر الامري بن الحارثي بن الشريد so it was the year 8th of Hijra a lady was amongst the delegation of her tribe she they came to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she was a noble a lady of a noble origin she was extremely beautiful she was well mannered she was very elegant so she was with سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم with the delegation and she was and she embraced Islam and she started saying some of her poetry and سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said to her hey ahunas so who is this lady who was she before being a Muslim she was a poet before Islam and she was very famous for the sort of poetry that she was reciting about the death of her brothers her brothers صخر and معاوية passed away and she said poetry very sort of poetry about them so she said about صخر عينية جودا ولا تجمدا ولا تبكيعني لصخر الندى ولا تبكيعني الجريئ الجميلة ولا تبكيعني الفتا السيدا so she said oh my eyes she tears generously will you not weep for صخر the generous will you not she tears for the adacius طول هنسم ينجمان who possessed the qualities of leadership and who led his people her poems were so eloquent so what type of a change that happened to خنساء when she became a Muslim and what type of a change does Islam do on the life of the companions so the life of خنساء was the best example to know how she moved how she changed from being one person to another person before Islam and after Islam so as I mentioned the change started when she came to Medina with the delegation of her tribe بن سلين she came to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she embraced Islam and she pledged her alliance to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she became a good Muslim سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم when she would be attending a gathering he would ask her to say a few lines of her poetry she would listen to the Holy Quran from him and those ayahs though this Quran that she would listen to these حلقas that she used to be in where the keys of خير that made her close the pre-islamic doors and opening the doors of faith the doors of نور so she changed from one person to another and she started to raise her children as per the rules of the new religion she would encourage them to be courageous she would encourage them to be to follow the jihad she will encourage them to be ready to sacrifice themselves for the sake of Islam for the sake of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم in the battle fields so she was a model to all moms so she lived during the time of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she learned a lot from سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and after his death she lived in the time of سيدنا أبو بكر and سيدنا عمر and she witnessed the armies of the Muslims going all over the place just to spread the religion of Islam so this army would talk to people before starting the battles the leader of the army would encourage the enemies to become Muslims if they would accept they won't fight them so the banners of Islam spread everywhere moving people from darkness to light and seeing that she was remembering how what it means to be a Muslim and what it means to be a non-Muslim she used to remember her life before Islam now her life after Islam so she would thank الله سبحانه و تعالى that he has guided her to become a Muslim and that he has honored her to become a Muslim so they are now people who call for Islam as we said she lived in the time of سيدنا عمر رضي الله العم and at that time the armies of Islam used to go everywhere so one of the battles that happened at the time of عمر الفاروق رضي الله العم عمر ابن الخطام was one of the armies headed to conquer Iraq and الله سبحانه و تعالى and her four children to be with this army going to قادسية so they all went with the army to participate in this very important battle القادسية so what did الخنساء do? الخنساء before the battle she got her four children and she was talking to them encouraging them to fight courageously firstly for the sake of الله سبحانه و تعالى she told them she reminded them that they died and their death will be the key for them to enter paradise she reminded them that being victorious and having victory is only from Allah سبحانه و تعالى so she sent a lot of things for them she encouraged them a lot and of what she said was my sons you embraced Islam and you migrated willingly you are old sons of one man as you are sons of one woman وقد تعلمون ما أعد الله تعالى للمسلمين من الثواب الجزيل في حرب الكافرين you know the great you know the abundant reward that Allah سبحانه و تعالى has set has assigned for the Muslims who fight against the non-believers so her words now she's trying to get them to get them healed to fight for the sake of Allah she continued and she said و علموا أن الدارة البقية تخير من الدارة الفانية I want you to know that the everlasting abode is better than this vanishing one and I want to stop here I want to stop here to say a few words about this vanishing life that we are living in and about the everlasting one now we see people competing for this dunya this one has a house I want to buy a better house this one has so much gold I want to get a lot more than what they have this one has this type of car I want to get a better type of car so this competition is about dunya but will anyone who who is dying get any of these dunya things with him to the grave no so this competition is getting a person to be a loser but there is a a better competition in this dunya what is this dunya how can we benefit of this dunya how can we compete in this dunya if we want to know that we have to go back to the Sahaba to the companions of Sayyidina Muhammad they used to compete but how when they would meet one would ask another how many ركعات did you pray at night how much Quran did you read tonight how how much did you pay for the sake of Allah and they would answer each other not for the sake of showing off no they would answer each other just for the sake of competition for and this competition is pure for the sake of Allah so while competing in this dunya they are actually competing for the not for the dunya because the result of these actions will be the reward will be achieved in the day after and not now so the more you read of the Quran in this dunya the more reward you will have in the Akhira Allah سبحانه و تعالى will say to the person read and elevate with each ayah that you recite on the day of judgment you will be elevated one level in Jannah so this is the real competition in this dunya so we are working in this dunya but our aim is to be of the winners of the everlasting life so Allah سبحانه و تعالى she continues and she now she is continuing her speech to her children so she's reciting surah 200 when she said يا أيها الذين امنوا صبير و صابير و رابطوا و اتقوا الله لعلكم تفلحون oh you who believe endure and be more patient be more patient than your enemy be more patient than what you have been before be more patient to everything that Allah سبحانه و تعالى has put you in and this is a lesson for us so we have to accept everything that Allah سبحانه و تعالى puts us in we have to follow these orders so that we would understand what's going on after so استبروا و صابروا و رابطوا و اتقوا الله so be patient and guard your territory against the enemy and fear Allah سبحانه و تعالى so why لعلكم تفلحون so that you may be successful an amazing speech about encouraging her children her sons to fight fiercely on the battlefield so she says فإذا أصبحتم غدا إن شاء الله سالينين فاغدوا إلى قتال عدوبكم مستبصرين وبالله على أعدائه مستنصرين when you wake up in the morning الله سبحانه و تعالى this is how she's praying for them go go and fight against your enemy with conviction and seek Allah's help over his enemies فإذا رأيتم الحرب شمرت عن ساقها وضرمت لذا مساقها فتا يممو وطيسها when you see that war has become tense so what you should do engage yourselves in the fight تصفروا بالغنم تصفروا بالغنم والكرامة في دار الخلدي والمقامة so that you may attain treasures and honor in the abode of eternity so she's encouraging them for the everlasting life not for this dunya what happened her sons left having accepted her administration and they were determined to implement her words so when the morning came they set out early towards the battlefield and they all fought gallantly and courageously of course how do you think they would fight after these encouraging words so they fought until they were murdered one after the other so they all died they were all murdered for the sake of Allah and of course what happens the news spreads so the news of their murder was swiftly approaching what was her reaction what was it what was she going to say is she going to to say lines of poetry sorrow poetry about the death of her sons and to praise them what would she say so the words that we are going to hear from الخنصة when she heard this great news she remembered nothing but Allah SWT she remembered Allah's promise and she said الحمد لله الحمد لله الذي شرفني بقتلهم وأرجوا من ربي أن يجمعني بهم في مستقر رحمته so all praise is due to Allah SWT so all praise is due to Allah who honored me with their murderdom she's thanking Allah SWT and she's considering their death as an honor because they died for the sake of Allah SWT they were all murders and I hope that my lord will make me join them in the abode of his mercy أرجوا أن يجمعني ربي بهم في مستقر رحمته so they all passed away she did not say any words that were not accepted by Allah no on the contrary she thanked Allah SWT now so what happened her children opened the door of death before their mom she knew that everyone is going to pass through this door so when people die when our kinship die when our fathers, mothers, grandparents everyone children relatives so when anyone passes away we know that they opened the door and they went in before us but we are all going through that door and this is actually what makes our grief less and less because we know that one day we are passing through this door to meet our loved ones and we ask Allah SWT that we all meet with them and then we say محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم this is our ball in this life that when we pass away Allah SWT is satisfied, is happy with us when he is then we know where we will be so we always ask Allah SWT for حصن الخاتمة the best of endings that he would be pleased with us at that time so عمر ابن الخطاب رضي الله عن after the death of the poor children الخنساء he used to give her the the the amount the entitlement of her four murdered ones annually which was about 200 dirhams and that happened year after year until he died or until she died so if we stop here for a second and if I would like here to address myself and all the mothers of today all the Muslim women all those who are raising children in الخنساء there is an example of a role model for all of us if we all follow her footsteps in raising our children we will have pious, good, fearing and courageous young men women and when this happen what will happen then we will have a strong so as mothers we should not love our children only for this dunya we should not only care about providing them with all they need no we should love them for their akhir we should always advise them we should always talk to them we should always guide them to Allah SWT we should always make them love Muhammad SAW we should always get them to be connected with the Quran we should always raise them to have good manners that Allah SWT would be pleased with we should raise them to be proud of being Muslims so may Allah have mercy on Al-Khansa may Allah be pleased with this belief leaving a patient female companion of Muhammad SAW and may he raise raise her ranks just as she raised such pious, good fearing children may Allah SWT unite us all together with SAW and until we meet next week I send your Salam and my Salam to SAW والسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركات