 There she is Megan Wu the love of my life ever since we were chosen as partners in science class I knew we had chemistry. We both love Pokemon Boba. We even had the same bias in BTS. Oh, I love Jungkook It was at that moment she had me Jung shook This is it. I'm gonna ask her out. What should I say? Hey? Are you black pink because I want you in my area? No, that's stupid Hey, are you a member of twice because you make me feel special. No, that's stupid I got it. Oh Hey Megan. I'm good Hey question What's up, dude? All right Are all the white guys stealing your girls? Maybe you've noticed it around town or even on TV in any Asian white relationship The girl's always Asian and the guy is always white, but it's never an Asian guy with a white girl I mean, let's take a look What? Let's do this Wait, this doesn't work. Ah, shoot. That's right. The Hulk is green Okay, now let's think of some popular examples of Asian guys with white girls Does this count Right off the bat, let me be clear. I really don't care I know some people will be really angry typing in the comments. Yeah, you I see you. Stop it Y'all gonna say who cares about this love is love let people date who they want and guess what I Agree with you date whoever you want Mary whoever you want as long as you guys love each other. I don't really care It's none of my business. So what is the point of this video? Well, I want to find out if the myth is actually true are white guys actually stealing all the Asian girls Now it's an old saying, but is there any truth to it? Or is it just some statement that some angry Asian men made up for not having dates? Me and my sister are gonna do a little experiment We're each gonna go on Tinder and we're each gonna swipe 20 times for the next five days making it a total of 100 swipes and the reason I picked my sister is because Well, she's my sister and I assume, you know, we're about the same level Attractiveness wise, I guess I don't know so at the end of the five days We're gonna see whoever has the most matches and whoever has the most matches wins. We're gonna see how this goes You know it would make this so much more interesting whoever won Got 50 bucks Wait, what? You want to bet on this? Yes, if I win you pay me 50 bucks But if I win I get 50 bucks If you win, okay, you know what? You know what? Okay? Let's go game deal. All right. She's gonna pay me 50 bucks if I win Game on several days later. All right, so it's been five days and we each did a hundred swipes on Tinder. I got 47 matches what? Really I Got a whopping Four matches That's so sad That guy that guy anyways deals deal I'm gonna pay up $50 All right, so obviously I got my butt kicked I got destroyed I got slaughtered by my sister But is it because people in America don't like Asian guys? Where am I just ugly so I'm gonna do another experiment to test that out I'm on this app called EME hive It's a dating app for Asians and Asian Americans and pretty much anyone that wants to find Asians with this app I can find out if just everyone doesn't like me or if it's just non Asians. It might be everyone. So we're here Setting up my profile Adding photos how many how many photos do you think I should put in I don't know How's that for my first photo? You know what's also cool Avatar, let's put one of these guys in Bam, what do you think you guys like my selection? Let me know down below in the comments Yeah, yeah Yeah Yeah Best one What's cool about EME hive is that you can select which type of ethnicity you're interested in But let's just pick all of them. So there's other filters that you can put on here Like their marital status if they drink what kind of languages they speak Shoot, there's no Valerian on here If they smoke what's their income? Of course, I only go for the finest So it just makes it so you can customize your search to exactly to your preferences that way You're only getting shown people that you want. That's definitely a lot more Asian people than Tinder All right, so I did 20 smiles I'll see how many smiles and messages I get in the next few days several days later. All right guys So it's been five days I'm gonna go ahead and open up EME hive and see how many messages and smiles I've received opening it up and Oh my god So I received three smiles and 63 messages A total of 66 people either wanted to message me or let them know that they were interested Oh my gosh, I'm no scientist, but if my math checks out, that's definitely a lot more than four So yeah this whole time I thought it was ugly, but turns out I'm just Asian. I mean look at all of this So yeah Turns out that Asian girls like Asian guys more than white girls like Asian guys. Yes The last time this many people liked me was when I opened up a pack of gum in class You know what this means, right? It means I got more matches than my sister. Ha take that So in any given year according to the US Census Bureau There are approximately 2.1 million marriages a year and approximately 17% of those were interracial Okay, let's say that there were approximately 357,000 interracial marriages in a year of that 357,000 11% were white 18% were black 27% were Hispanic and an outstanding 29% Nearly a third of all interracial marriages were from an Asian making them the race most likely to marry outside The race which would be approximately 104,000 a year. Okay. Well, that doesn't necessarily mean anything, right? I mean, what about Asian guys? They're included in the statistic also Let's go deeper So in 2010 it was reported that 15.3% of all Asian wives had a white husband So now let's compare this to the other side for Asian husbands only 7% of them had a white wife. That's less than half Wow So does everyone just not like Asian guys or something? Well, according to a study by Columbia University Women were 33% less likely to respond affirmatively to Asian men than to members of other races In fact, according to another study by Columbia University, all things being equal Asian men would have to earn 247,000 dollars more to be considered an equal suitor right 247,000 dollars more per year to be equal to him So let's say you have two guys Brad and Nick Brad and Nick are pretty much the same in everything same physical attractiveness same personality Same height Same GPA in college They like the same memes They play the same sport and they both listen to the same music Only differences Brad earns $53,000 a year. Nick would have to earn $300,000 just to be seen as an equal mate But why is that? Why is it so common for an Asian girl to be with a white guy? But so rare for a white girl to be with an Asian guy. Do we Do we smile or something? Is it because I watch too much anime? I asked some people to get their opinion on why this is I think it's because that Asian guys tend to Study a lot in college and they focus most of the time studying and getting good job by the time we graduate All the Asian girls are gone. I think that it has partially to do with attraction. I think more often I personally know more white men who tend to be attracted to Asian women than white women who are attracted to Asian men I would assume that it has to do with imperialism Internalized misogyny and racism just from the guys that I did it They weren't shy to tell and be forward about their feelings. It's a little bit more aggressive. Yeah in dating and yeah Obviously not me, but you know white guys are probably a little bit more on average taller honestly I think it's because we are really cute, you know Well, you know it's for that green card White men perform better in the bedroom many Asian girls prefer dating white men instead what? Bro, what are you talking about man? John M. Kong of the University of Michigan in his article Deconstructing the ideology of white aesthetics stated while Asian men tend to be derided because their bodily aesthetics contradict popular white notions of Masculinity the bodily aesthetics of Asian women are lauded because they complement and perhaps even symbolize the ideal of femininity as Asian men are perceived as physically small and weak so to our Asian women however a small physical build has been traditionally associated with ideas of submissiveness passivity and Vulnerability quantities indicative of feminine beauty therefore it is not unusual to find white men being fascinated with the racial Exoticism of Asian women often to such an extent that it eclipses the femininity of white women So according to this article the idea that white men go for Asians is because Asian women are supposedly Submissive and feminine while Asian men are small and weak, which is just not ideal for white women. I Went and asked some Asian women that are married to white men to see what was their opinion on this I think the effort to vilify or at least mildly shame certain population for you know Maintling across races is racism in itself. It's like there's no need and no requirement To maintain Some sort of racial purity within marriages I think we're we're over that a lot of people argue that history Racism and society are the reasons for this but wangfu productions gave a really simple answer that Itentally towards in this whole thing you have but whites and Asians the blame is not on the white boys on the Asian kids The blame is on the individual What about it is because Asian guys just don't have the confidence or assertiveness Needed to start up a conversation with a girl. You need to be more assertive It is not because white boys have this or that or have this magical power It is because the majority of Asian guys are too fancy and they have very very small Confidence So to answer the first question are white guys stealing all the Asian girls well remember what I shared earlier that 15.3% of Asian wives had white husbands 82.5% of Asian women also had Asian husbands. The majority of Asian girls are dating Asian guys So are white guys stealing all the Asian girls? Absolutely not. So for all the Asian guys out there that are worried about all the Asian girls being stolen Fear not. We'd like to thank EME Hive for partnering with us on this video If you're like me and you don't live in LA or Seattle Then chances are there aren't a lot of Asians in your area EME Hive is super cool. It connects you with Asians all over the world And if they're on this app, then chances are they're looking today other Asians as well Thank you so much for watching and remember to subscribe And I'll see you next time