 Your crush texts you back. This is an exciting moment. Yes. So excited. He responded. What do you do? How do you text him back? How do you make sure that he likes you? How do you connect with him? Hi, my name is Matthew Coast and welcome to Commitment Connection. Today we're going to be talking about six different rules for how to text with your crush. So let's jump right into it. Rule number one is a mindset that you want to have. How would you think about this if you receive this text message from a guy? And so is your text message boring? Is it something that you would respond to? Is it something that you'd be excited to receive? And if you think about it, there is a difference. If you receive a boring text message from a guy that you only kind of like versus a guy that you really like, you're probably a lot more likely to be excited and respond back to a text message with a guy that you really like. And so where is he on this scale? Is he really excited about you or not? And so you want to make sure that, especially in the initial phases, you're connecting with him and you have interesting text messages and you're having a good conversation. And it's something that you'd look at and be like, yeah, I would respond back to this. This would be funny. This would be interesting. I'd appreciate this text message. Rule number two is don't wait too long. It's just a silly game, right? And so what do I mean by too long? Because it's one of those things where if you respond back to a guy immediately every single time he messages you, it basically says that you have no life and you're making him a priority over whatever life you do have. And on the other side, if you don't respond back to him in a timely manner, it basically says that you don't care about him and that you're not interested in him and that you're kind of playing a silly game with him. And if he senses that he's either going to play games back with you and start waiting a really long time to respond back to you, or he's just going to lose interest and disappear on you, either one of those things you don't want. So my suggestion is you don't wait super long periods of time. We had a woman in our community who was like, oh, I've waited seven days to respond to his texts. Is that long enough? And we're all like, oh, oh my God. Yeah, it's way too long. He probably thinks you absolutely don't care about him or, you know, are really disrespectful to him. So don't do that. Number three is just be honest and be real, right? There's too much fake out there as it is. Just connect with him. Say real things. Talk about your real life. Have a real conversation with him. And remember, you know, you really ultimately, the goal here is to connect with him in person and to meet up with him in person. And so don't get overly invested in trying to have just this amazing conversation over text message. Text messages is really more for creating kind of a light connection. You know, you can get deeper connections with him if you guys are both like mutually on the same page with it and you're going deep and he's going deep and all that kind of stuff. However, you just want to make sure that you're being real and you're not being fake. And I do give text messages out, right? Like, if you want text messages, I have more text messages that you can send to a guide than you can possibly handle. And they're great text messages and they'll get him chasing you and interested in you. And we'll talk about that here in a little bit. So rule number four is remember that sarcasm is like hot sauce, right? A little bit of it is good for the right people. Some people don't like sarcasm at all. And some people don't understand it at all, right? And so you kind of have to figure out what's going on with this guy. And almost nobody wants it all the time, right? Most people out there don't want sarcasm all the time. And it kind of breaks the real connection from actually happening. I mean, it can be fun and it can be flirty and it can create some passion there. But if you want a real deep connection, you don't want to be using sarcasm all the time. So number five, rule number five is, is your text worth responding to? And so I have this thing in my irresistible text where I talk about a text worth responding to, right? You send him a text message, does, is it worth him responding to? You know, if he received it, should he even send you a text message back? And sometimes women will be like, yeah, I said this and he didn't say anything. And I'm like, well, why would he say something to that, right? Did you ask a question? Did you, you know, is it something that he needs to respond to? And so one of the suggestions that I have is that you always ask open-ended questions, not just yes, no questions, none of that kind of stuff, instead focus on open-ended questions. Like, what does he think about that? Something that you would respond to more than just a yes, no. And so is it a text message worth responding to? Number six is don't try to force anything, right? If the conversation is over, just let it be over. If he's not into having a conversation, just let it be over. If he's not really into you or he's kind of ignoring you or he's not trying to move things forward or meet up or any of those kinds of things, don't try to force it. You know, and it can, you can wait a little bit of time and then maybe, maybe he's doing something, maybe he's busy, maybe he's emotionally not in the best space right now. And so you might want to wait a little bit and have a conversation with him later, where he's more open to having a conversation and connecting with you in all that kind of stuff. And if you want some of the best text messages that you can have to connect with a guy, I suggest you check out my irresistible text. You can go and download it. There's a button on the right hand side of this video. Just click on it and go download your copy of my irresistible text right now.