 And after learning so much more throughout the last month and a half now I understand why the mom makes videos the way she does and you're gonna see some of her videos today You're gonna be like, oh, it's not great But then when you find out why it just kind of makes sense and now I feel kind of bad after watching the family of Jake Paul From Shane Dawson today. We really got to sit back and ask ourselves is Shane Dawson being manipulated by the Paul family What is up everybody? This is Chris from the Rewired Soul where we talk about the problem But focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel, my channel is all about mental health Most of it is about helping you improve your mental health And what I like to do is pull things from the YouTube community or pop culture to try to teach you how to improve your mental health So if you're into that make sure you subscribe ring that notification bell because I make a ton of videos And I've been reviewing pretty much every episode of the Shane Dawson Jake Paul series. All right So before I get started before I get started. I got a little rant against Felix PewDiePie PewDiePie, I forgot his last name, but I got a little rant I didn't want to make a whole separate video for this, but I watched Felix's video about Shane Dawson, you know, and he was just bringing up all the stuff people have already brought up I'm surprised how late Felix was in this But anyways regardless of that like like Felix touched on a bunch of the same points that everybody touched on and everything and you know Felix is this loud voice. I'm like man. I I love Felix. I love PewDiePie I think he's a really good dude But like when it comes to mental health and addiction topics like I don't know his his He's very ignorant. Um and like some of this, you know happened when the whole Demi Lovato thing happened And yeah, like it was just I made a video about this. I made a video. I'll link it up in the info card, but Here's my gripe with PewDiePie today. He okay, you know what? I'll shut up I'll just play you this clip services. I did I think a year ago and they asked me to talk about them I'm like, okay fine, but I would never want to take money from it I would never want to take money for a mental health app It just doesn't feel right and I'm probably the most morally skewed person ever So for me to come up with that conclusion and not Shane, it's kind of weird like what like I don't I don't get it Like this is crazy to me. This is absolutely nuts to me So I saw a comment earlier on my channel and it said something to the effect of like I don't think it's right to have a mental health channel and Promote, you know your patreon or merch or I'm like wait what what like I don't know what world people live in I might make a separate video about PewDiePie like trying to discredit better help which is ridiculous Like they basically are the middle person for people and therapists like that's all they are There might be bad therapists on there, but there might be good therapists like what but like to say It's immoral to get sponsored by a mental health place like okay first off first off It's called Shane immoral for that like PewDiePie Has like the largest audience and have any of you guys seen the the clothing line that he started with his wife Like it's like like a little squiggle line and they sell it for like $25 like what what and they're saying It's a moral for Shane to be sponsored by a mental health place like I don't get that like should mental health be free should physical, you know should you know Physical health be free like going to the doctor like someone say yes, and maybe I don't know Maybe that's what PewDiePie is talking about because PewDiePie is from places where they have universal health care and that stuff is free So maybe that's where he's coming from but to call it immoral is really really ridiculous Like I don't get that at all like doctors who peddle medications just so they can get a kickback on it Even though the medication might be addictive and kill people that is immoral but saying like someone's getting sponsored to promote a mental health website that or app that helps people and Like no, I guess you could say this is biased because I'm supported by better help But like no like I don't back anything that I don't believe in like I've had I've had people come to me and ask me to Talk about their product and things like that and I'm like absolutely not a lot of them have been like Supplements and things for addiction. I'm like absolutely not. But anyways, that's my gripe with Felix Sorry, I had to get that rant out of the way Let's get into the topic of the Shane Dawson like this is something that I've been worried about since the start of the series If any of you watched my last video I touched on it, but now I'm going to expand deeper into it So my fear is that Shane is going to get manipulated and it's interesting too. I'll talk about this first I had a comment so I did like a whole live stream of reaction and somebody said like, oh man, that's messed up He said Shane needs better friends Sorry, like sorry about that And I think that that comment might have thought like maybe thought I was referencing like people like Andrew or Garrett or you know Even Rylan or Morgan. No, no, no, those people are great But like I think the person that comes to mind is like Tana mojo, right? Like like what like Shane needs to stop surrounding himself by people who are constantly getting into stuff So something that we were talking about in the live stream and I and by the way my videos are for you Okay, like so the definition of insanity is doing the same thing expecting different results, right? Shane keeps hanging out with the same type of person Shane keeps reaching out to the same kind of people Shane is doing this over and over but he's expecting a different result. That's insane So like one thing that I really hope at the end of this series is that we're able to like have some kind of recap video Maybe he like sits back and reflects on this stuff because there was a lot of stuff in the ending of this Part three that made me think that maybe Shane like going back and editing this stuff is like, oh my god Like was I getting manipulated? But yeah, like I kind of was taken aback like some people are upset that I'm like giving Shane like some real talk Not like he'll ever see this video But the thing is like I always say this the best friends in your life are gonna tell you what you need to hear And not what you want to hear. All right, like yeah, it sucks But like I have to keep people around I have to keep people around like my girlfriend my best friend other people all of you I need to keep people around who put me in check who say Chris you are messing up All right, so like no like I love Shane Shane is an amazing human being But because I care about him, it's like yo, dude, you need to quit hanging out with certain people You need to quit trying to find the best in every single person So as we go on and we keep watching this video, you just see Shane just feeling bad for everybody Just for for Jake and then for Logan and then for the mom I think the only person you didn't feel bad for was like the dad at some point and like that's good Another comment said that Shane is an empath and absolutely absolutely and this is great Like I made a video about why depression is awesome and people who have experienced depression. They're more likely to be empathetic It's an amazing quality. The problem is is that for those of you out there who are empath It goes way too far. All right, and then what happens is we start to get taken advantage of so so much of our Mental health is about balance like yeah, we need to feel bad for people But we also need to set up boundaries like that's the give and take of this thing Like I need to feel bad for you, but I also need to say yo you need to get your stuff together You know what I mean? So one of the things is about being an empath and what you know When I'm worried about Shane getting manipulated like let's talk about the audience Okay, so my fear is that Shane is going to have the pendulum Just keep shifting over and over now He did make a tweet about this But so in the beginning in the beginning a bunch of people were worried that Shane was gonna try to you know Sympathize with Jake Paul. So the pendulum swing this way, right? And he's like, okay. Well, I'm not gonna do that I'm gonna almost vilify Jake Paul right and then all of a sudden people like oh, no, you're stigmatizing people with mental illness You're being mean boom it goes the other way. So then in this video He does this huge disclaimer and bam It's going this way again and he's starting to realize that and man if this is you it will drive you nuts Like I used to be the biggest people pleaser on earth I was always trying to please everybody and it was screwing up my mental health So when I talk about these things about Shane like it's because I care about him And I want to make sure that these things don't happen, but I don't know Shane I'm not friends with Shane, but you you're watching my video So if you're a people pleaser, you need to start to get that thing in check People pleasing is a very good thing because it means that you want to help it means that you want to be kind It means that you want to be accountable It means so many things and I need to make a video about that But you need to take this people pleasing and find the balance in it So basically at the end of this video at the end of it He starts showing clips of him and Katie more and talking again and yes. Yes. Yes. Yes Like they start talking about this Every conversation feeling like it was worse for them and you feel bad for them I kind of feel a little bad for them too You know or you'll view them in a positive light You're like man that must have been so hard for them. They're such a nice person And that's that's absolutely correct and like although these people may not be sociopaths and things like that Like Shane needs to be careful because like Katie was saying they will they will screw you over And try to make you feel bad about it like what what you need to sit back So when I'm talking about Shane needs better friends Like I think his friends are great But I think you know some of the people in his inner circle They need to call him out on it like I think Shane's friends are better than people like Jake Paul and Logan Paul like the friend circles They have but one of my concerns when watching this video is like whenever you heard Andrew talking Andrew is very agreeable like anything that Shane said Uh, Andrew kind of parroted it and like that that's just like okay Andrew like you know give him some maybe real talk have your own opinion on these things and stuff because One of the issues with uh, you know the pole brothers or people like tana or these other youtubers who are screwing up Like uh, foosytube was they keep all these people around them who just tell them. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes all the time And that's what gets you into crap Right. So like while while Shane isn't running out and obviously, you know doing insane things like Shane realized and he mentioned it in his last video with Katie Morton that the more he's caring about these people The more he's trying to help the more he's Extending himself the worse his mental health is getting and again You got to put your oxygen mask on first before you help anybody else So i'm hoping that you gain something from this video I'm hoping that Shane is learning and growing from this experience So he doesn't get manipulated and used by the paul family to have them You know make him feel bad for all these other things like people need to start taking accountability for the decisions they make All right, and and like that's that's the end of it Like I think you know if Shane would reflect on the whole tana situation That's why he got a little pushback on it because he was making excuses for tana Oh, she's just a kid and oh, you know, she you know, she did what he talks about like She made him feel bad because michael took so much advantage of her and just lied and all these other things like What I was mentioning in the last video and i'll touch on this for just a second because i'm talking forever But shane gets hyper focused in the moment which blocks out everything else And here's what I mean by that you might have been in a relationship in your life Maybe you had a boyfriend or a girlfriend or a husband or a wife or a friend Right and they just kept screwing you over they kept screwing you over they kept screwing you over And then you just started to make excuses from them for him right like oh, it wasn't that bad Oh, they were just having a bad day. Oh, you know what I mean? So you forget all of this crazy stuff they did because you're just like, okay Well, they're being nice right now. So i'm just gonna forget everything else I'm not telling you to hold grudges But you need to take all of the person into account when you're deciding how you want to pursue This relationship, whether it's a friendship or an intimate relationship and things like that And I think that's one of the issues that shane has is that he hyper focuses on what's happening in that moment And forgetting all of the other things that are happening like I mentioned in my last video Like when he was feeling bad for for jake because his mom was filming him But jake literally terrorizes everybody in the team 10 house like shane forgot about that in that moment So anyways, I've talked too long. I would love to know your thoughts Like do you think the paul family is going to manipulate shane? Whether it's jake paul or logan paul or greg paul like do you think that's going to happen and also um, the mom Pam i'm not sure like she's the one who's been reaching out with shane to shane So I don't know leave your comments down below All right, but that's all I got for you this video If you like this video, please give it a thumbs up and again if you are new Make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell and a huge thank you to everybody supporting the channel over on patreon I'm sorry, but not sorry. I need support. I need to get new equipment and things like that I'm kidding, but if you want to support the channel on patreon, you can do a four buck Pick a tap right there. All right. Thanks so much for watching. I'll see you next time