 I kind of faked it, I'm like, come on, let's go. Right, the tonality, all that stuff. Off we went, straight into the club. And when I hit the club, first thing I did is I was like, all right, I gotta hit up the hottest girl in here straight away. All right, this is what's gonna make this guy just, he's gonna, I wanna make, my goal, wasn't so much the girl that time, it was like to make this guy's eyes roll into the back of his head. All right, that's, I just wanted this guy to be like, oh, holy shit. All right, so that was my little girl. So I'm walking in, I'm like, bang, straight away, there she is. Over I go. Straight in, hey, what's up? I'm Tim, cool, yeah, vibes all good. And then he's looking back and he's like, oh, he's gonna make me do this now. Looked over and I'm like, yep, now I've got him, good. So now I can proceed. So you get one little moment with a girl, with a guy, with anything to make a first impression. And I feel like the first impression that you need to make as a dude on your, what is it? Everyone's like, what's everyone doing? On your what? All right, on everyone on their quest, the first little toolbox, first little thing in your tools is the whole entering with boldness. Now, I was talking with Brad Branson, who's gonna be talking to you guys on Sunday. He's staying at my joint at the moment. And we were laughing. We just hit the gym last night. We're walking back. And he's like, yeah, man. It's like, I feel like a tiger or something now. You know, I need to eat some food. I'm like, yeah, that's it. That's it, man. Tiger, my thing, tiger. And I was like, I came up with a little story and a little analogy of like, say we were back in like caveman days or whatever. And, you know, everyone relates stuff back to like the ancestor past and, you know, being alpha and if a tiger had to come eat you, you know, you'd have to be able to handle that sort of situation. So this little image in my mind came of like an African tribe. And say you're in a little tribe and you're a man in this tribe and sure enough, the big ass white fucking tiger comes to eat everyone, okay? Boldness is the man that kind of laughs at the little tiger, runs over at the tiger, grabs it by the neck, shoves its head in the ground and then looks at all the other tribes and like, yes. This is, I'm handling my shit right here, right? That's boldness, okay? Can you all sort of picture that in your little head? The tiger forcing that shit down, okay? Wrestling it to the ground. That's the sort of shit as dudes that excites us. That's the James Bond stuff. That's why we're all attracted and we're kind of like the mini James Bond stuff is because that's the stuff that like, you know, feeds our soul, I guess, excited. Now you don't need to go down and chase a tiger or whatever, I'm not saying that, but that's the sort of stuff. Boldness, stuff that scares you, doing that sort of stuff really helps. So that's number one. Second one that, second one need a little toolbox of quest is passion, okay? Now that word gets thrown around all the time. Like, oh, passion, passion, right? But passion is that, to me, passion is that little tiny voice inside. It's that little, I guess, the little one that says you're meant to do more things. It's the one that tells you your calling. It's the one, you know, when you go to bed at night and just before you go to sleep, you sort of dream about what your life would be like. That's the little voice. That's the little voice of passion. That's the little voice inside. And sadly, a lot of guys, I would call them Bob's, all right? Let's just call them Bob's, for example. So Bob, he wakes up every day and he's like, oh, gotta go to work in my bank job, whatever it is, and he strolls through his bank job. But in the back of his mind, he has a version of himself that's this like rock star, like going out, partying, or like getting a great girl, or, you know, chasing down tigers or whatever it is. Hands up if you feel like you've got parallel versions of yourself inside. Like there's the one guy who you know that can smash it. There's the one guy that you can step up and take over. And then there's the other guy who's kind of like the real life that you're living. Well, I think everyone has those two versions. And I think the real version is the one inside, usually. And that's the one that we need to bring out. So with Bob and with passion, okay, like for example, who's seen a cute girl across the room and immediately lit up inside, right? Just like, holy shit. You know, like that little feeling, like that, oh, I need to do something about this. That's the passion. That's where it comes from. That's the little voice that we need to listen to. And I'm gonna go into some little stories regarding that. But the third thing in the toolbox, the third little thing in the toolbox that we need is will, okay, will. All right, so the first two are useless without will and being able to exert your will. So will as a dude is being able to sit there for long periods of time, long ass periods of time and get through the work that you need to get done. Or will is like going to the gym six days a week and you're gonna hear from some good speakers on health and nutrition and all that sort of stuff. But that's the third thing, will, being able to do that. Hands up, if you have a little bit of trouble with focus and discipline and those types of things, sure. So we're gonna go for a trip just during this speech. We're gonna go for a little bit of a trip down, I guess, my quest memory lane and I'm gonna be demonstrating through a few different stories, those three little elements. Sound cool? Okay, excellent. So three elements to a quest. All right, let's get back on the quest train for a little bit. All right, so there's three elements to a quest. You might be like, Tim, how do I know? How do I know if I need a quest? How do I know if I'm on a quest? All right, how do I know? Three things, three things. Number one, you're like, how do I know if I'm on a quest? Number one, as we've discussed, it may involve a hot lady, okay? Quest, it may involve just a hot chick. Number two, second thing that the quest may involve. The quest may involve money raining from the sky. So you've got money in your bank account to do whatever the hell you want. All right, that's the second thing on the quest that may involve like going after coin. And the third thing that's generally involved in any quest that you will ever try and undertake, the third thing is tears, okay? Tears, little tears. Actually not just little tears, obnoxious crying and tears and sadness. If your quest is good enough, they'll be hurt, okay? If your quest is good enough. For example, the relationships thing, you walk into a club, it's like tough, right? Sometimes like when you try and approach or thinking about approaching, it's like, there's some hurt inside, there's definitely some hurt. And this is where I guess the tools come in and they help these three things. So let's go through each of these three things and how my little quest started. So my quest began at the ripe old age of, I guess 18, I would say. And not that good with girls at all. That's all I was worried about at that stage. Not generally the most social guy in high school or whatever, not the coolest guy. And I somehow managed to get this girlfriend, okay? She was in my karate class. I was into karate. I know, that's another story. Somehow managed to get this girl in my karate class. So the thing about this girl was she was not very attractive. She was actually, you would say obese. And yeah, just not very smart, just totally like the opposite of what you would want out of a girl at all. So landed this girlfriend, but to me inside, I was like, yay, I have a girlfriend. My life's complete. Hands off if you've had one of those girlfriends before. Okay, it doesn't have to be fat or whatever, but you're like, yay, my life's complete. My life's like the movies, yay, right? So got this girl, I was all excited. So I'd bring her flowers all the time. I'd pick her up from work all the time. I'd drive across borders all the time, pick her up. I would do absolutely anything. I'd text six, seven times a day, love you baby, all that sort of stuff, doing that flat out, all right? Then, so this went on for a good few months. Maybe had sex three or four times during that period. I thought it was amazing. Wow, okay. And then I go around to her house one night. I remember this massively, left a huge scar. Went around to her house one night and knock on the door and her dad's like, oh no, she's at the party. What, didn't you know that she was going to the party? I said, no, I didn't know anything about party. Anyway, and he's like, yeah, it's a few doors down. Like, okay, party, all right. I got that sinking feeling in my stomach because my special flower didn't tell me about the party. All right, so off I walk down to this party and I go down the side, I hear the music blaring outside and I hear it pumming. Walk around, I look and there she is on like this, like, lie back thing near the pool making out with some dude. There's, you know, the sinking feeling of doom massively. Hands up who's had like a sinking feeling of doom experience with a chick, yeah, right? So the singing feeling of doom. And then so instead of, you know, I didn't know how to do this at this stage, attacking the tiger or whatever, I kind of, I kind of just sank and then turned around and like, it was serious like a movie, you know, the sad music playing and went home and that's when the tears come in, right? There was tears, there was sadness. I'm an 18 year old man for God's sake and this is what's happening. This girl's like ripping a piece of fat, unattractive, not very special girl that I'd fallen in love with or I'd chosen to fall in love with.