 It's impossible to magically transform into adulthood, in all areas of your life simultaneously. You know, you may be a great parent for instance, but not how much financial sense, or you may be great at your job, but don't eat healthy, or you may have no trouble maintaining friendships, but you are terrified of intimacy. We all grow unevenly. And that's okay. Be kind to yourself about the areas that still need work, and be kind to others about the same in their lives.