 In terms of to-dos for that I've already mentioned quite a few of them Lots of clients are stock brokers guys are working Palo Alto. I've said buy an old Nokia You are banned from your shiny new iPhone 5 on Saturdays I don't want you just I don't want you to touch any screen over the weekend no TV no computers Your iPhone and in many cases it doesn't have as much Lettropagnetic energy, but because you're concentrating your energy on such a small space. It's probably worse Socializing is this iPhones like that so stay well clear of your iPhone These are for guys who are struggling if you're not struggling, you know do whatever, but if you are having problems I'd highly recommend that actually I'm close to buying an old an old school phone for that very reason Deep analytical thought keep that well away from socializing. Oh By the way, how many guys you know who are really intelligent or really good with women? like none It's a disadvantage. It's like one maybe okay Highly intelligent guys tend to suck with women And if you want to give it better with women you really need to give yourself a lobotomy It's just even really intelligent women Women feel I once dated a very beautiful girl had an IQ of 155, you know women feel Men think and really intelligent men think all the time. So you're at the opposite end of the spectrum to what's attractive to women I mean these Brazilian guys are coming over here. They can barely speak a word of English They've got no money in their pockets and they're getting so many girls not been able to speak and it's not because they're intelligence It's because they take action. We've got lots of energy I'm going to be careful with this if you've got toxic friends ditch him or minimize your exposure to them because you know Who has gone out approaching girls with a guy who's negative who talks game all the time? How well do you do? You might as well go home forget it. You got to go out with positive people So stay away from them because they can all I know if I've got a bootcamp with four or six students on it And one of them has a lot of negative energy. I don't mean he's nervous That's one thing I deal with it all the time, but like a lot of negative energy is not a nice person He doesn't like the world. Oh, man, that just kills me Absolutely kills me. Well, everyone's a good person. It's it's so much easier. So get rid of Derecytoxic friends Improv classes that was one of the best things I ever did I did all I've done in my life as a week of improv and that Transformed my my conversation skills and so much with women Salsa as well. I haven't used that much myself, but I highly recommend that cool The other thing is they're scared of beautiful women point six. This is very good evolutionary biological reasons why we're scared of beautiful women Basically if you get a really attractive woman You're scared that someone in society who's a lot more powerful than you back in village times You know the village Head or the village warrior generally the most attractive women are the Other possession of the football players or the corporate executives. So we're scared from our, you know Village life brain or ancestral brain that when we get a hot woman someone's going to come with his mates and sticks and killers So there's real reasons just scared of that. I don't think that's going to happen too much in Sydney Certainly not around Surrey Hills. I can tell you that Someone might send a really mean tweet about you or something. That's about the worst that's going to happen The second thing is in the little village life where there's about oh Has anyone here visited a village in a third world lived there for a few nights? It is one of the greatest things I've ever done in my life. I highly highly recommend that You know Thailand Indonesia You can get one close by particularly one if it's a Buddhist country anyway village life You're in a village of 50 people and You know there might be two hot girls of trial-bearing age if you approach one of them and do a lousy job Guess what happens? That James guy. He's such a dork. He's such a dork. He came up to me. He tried this and he so wanted to fuck me But he was so hopeless that that's reality of what happened. So our brains have processed if I do a bad approach I ain't gonna be little any little Jamie's running around the world ever. I'm wiped out So there's very good reasons why you are scared of women and to some extent your battle is to overcome them, but What's the population of Melbourne three and a half million? Doesn't apply at all. I mean, it's just not even important Okay, if you're scared of beautiful women I Would highly highly recommend I used to say if you want to have sex with ten First wherever you start day to six then day to seven and day and eight and day to nine and day to ten roughly Now what I say is make friends with a ten It's almost you know unless she's really close to your social group It's nearly impossible to actually have a ten is your girlfriend Unless you really really really understand women Maybe for a cocaine dealer, but he probably really understands women. It's nearly impossible You've got to find the quickest way to get that knowledge and you know us guys can certainly help you But just make friends with a really really beautiful woman and you'll learn so much because they just they grow breasts when they're Whatever it's 14 and they just walk around on this red carpet It's the strangest thing ever and all these wonderful things happen to them And you know they might achieve in you know study or law or sport, but no one cares because they're just hot So it's it's really it's must be really hard for beautiful women because It's just such a weird life all these things are just given to you for no reason at all If you're a professional athlete or something, you know You've worked really hard before you get on that red carpet or as she's grew breasts one summer and suddenly and Yeah, the psychology of beautiful women is absolutely fascinating, but yeah make friends with a beautiful woman Okay, a lot of guys go out and they go out to bars and they plan exactly what they're gonna say to women I'm not a big fan of that What I am a fan of is planning your dates If you want to get if you're quite good already, you want to get dramatically better with women The number one thing you can do is plan your dates, which I might call logistics Do you want to pick a city you can pick it New York Sydney, Thailand, India, Melbourne New York I was um, I was living in New York for a while and I had an apartment a bedroom on the lower east side and One time I was doing acting there another time I was there with two or three other times I was there with charisma arts and um, I Met quite a few girls through boot camps and this sort of thing and every girl I met I took her the same place It was this really funky cafe where everyone had pierced Piercings and tattoos and I sort of walked in there with a pot Ralph Lauren Polo Shows completely out of water I was really nice to staff I tip them well and I'd bring these girls Incident who thought I had some sort of you know low-grade yuppie and I'd bring them to this cafe and they're what's he doing here? And then I'd walk them across the road to This park and I knew there was this little piece of Grass which was like a mound so I'd sit them down on that I'd bring a towel and then I'd sit with them You know maybe for half an hour an hour two hours I would just really really enjoy ourselves Maybe we go for a bit of a walk around and at some point I'd lay down and look at the stars and there's very few things in the world better than New York in this in the spring and Sometimes the girls come over and lay on me sometimes I pulled them down there And I just sit with them like I showed you earlier in the hugging demonstration with Rebecca I just hold them and hold them and hold them sometimes for like 40 minutes or an hour We wouldn't even talk and I'd be sneaky and synchronized the breathing so they got all attracted to me and I'm and Then I just say something completely lame like I really feel like an old gray tea or Do you want to come back and see my travel photos or do you want to see my balcony? Which was like spectacular. It was on the first floor overlooking a road But yeah, and you couldn't even step on it because it was so thin But I said some lame excuse and I took them back and oh one thing I forgot when I took them out of the cafe as soon as we crossed the Avenue. I took that hand some of them resisted And you know, I let go if the resistance was too much. I took their hands straight away And as I demonstrated through becker, I was touching them while we're sitting in the park So anyway, we leave the park we go back for the cup of tea or to see my spectacular view and I take them into the bedroom and I Sit them down in the bed and I let them take the bit beside the wall And we just talk and talk and talk and talk and I hold eye contact I make no effort to do anything and in most cases the girls tried to kiss me Do any of you see anything strange with my story so far? Yes, specifically what haven't I done? What's the girl hoping I'll do with a nice date like that? Very good. We don't have chocolates to give people. Yeah, make out with her. So She's met me. We've spent this lovely two three four five hours or hour together and She obviously likes me. She's gonna date with me. By the way, if a girl goes on a date with you, she likes you, okay? Write that down underline it Even if she wants to free dinner, she's probably not gonna put up with you for an hour and a half Uncomfortable just to get some free food. So I've taken her through this whole journey and I'm