 Hey you guys, so this is gonna be a different video for me. I'm gonna try to set my hair in perm rods, and I'm gonna be doing a video on things that I want my son to know. Those of you who don't know, I have a six-year-old little boy who is the life of my life. No, the light of my life. That too, girl. And just a couple of things. I'll say a couple, but I have a list here of about 40 things. I think it's really important that we teach our kids and that we lead by example. I think that's the best way to teach your children is by exemplifying the behavior you want them to carry on, if that makes sense. You can hear my little boy in the background. And this is a collaboration with my girl, Linda Lynn. I think she's changed her name by now, Linda. So I hope you guys enjoy this video. So, not in order, different things. Show kindness to strangers. Always show kindness, okay? He will always have a home. No matter what happens, no matter what type of choices, he will always be able to come home. I know a lot of people, they feel like, you know, once their kid's becoming an adult, there's no reason for them to move back in, but my child is always welcomed home. That's good, baby. Learn conflict resolution. Whatever that means, all right. Never judge someone by the way they look, cause you never know what someone has gone through. Don't ever put your trust in people. People will let you down. Can I get an A-band? A relationship with, besides your parents, a relationship with God is your most important relationship. All right, baby. You're so sweet. I'm doing a video on things that I want you to know, as you grow up and things that I think you should know. Maybe he could be in it for now, y'all. I'll stop doing my hair for now. So I'm gonna name some other things, okay? You wanna go over here instead? Okay, I really wanted to do my hair a sweet pee. What I'm gonna tell you, okay? Some things, some of the things you may not understand. Don't ever keep your feelings to yourself. No matter what it is, always share with someone, okay? Okay? It's okay to fail sometimes. As long as you keep trying, okay? Learn how to- Sometimes I forget and keep trying. That's right, you keep trying. That's right, baby. But I forget and keep trying. Oh, you forget? Well, that's a little bit different. Learn how to sit in silence and reflect on things. That's a little hard. That's a little hard at six years old. I'm like, maybe she should. If a friend talks, it's a silly meal, like, no. Okay, let's keep y'all excuses here. I'm letting his hair grow out. It's okay to ask for help. No matter what, if you're feeling like you need someone to help you with something, it's okay to ask for help. It's okay to- Wait, it's back to my hair growth. Baby, it's growing out. It's okay to show emotion, baby. Sometimes, some people think that men shouldn't show emotion or males shouldn't show emotion, but it's okay to cry. Lord have mercy. You cry right now because you're six years old. Don't touch my backdrop, baby. Jesus. Learn how to walk away from a situation, JB. What? What? Yes. A situation? Learn how to walk away. If something is not going away, it's called de-escalate. If something is going on bad, then I run away. That's what you need to do when you get it. I'm gonna ditch you. I'm like, okay, I'm just gonna stay here. Oh my God. And I'm like- It's okay to question everything. It's okay. You always wanna seek knowledge, okay? Don't ever stop learning. You don't want to be a continuous learner. Start taking care of your body now, JB. Like when you get older, start taking care of your body when you're still young. Learn how to exercise. You know, Mommy? Oh, hell. Cause when you get older, child. Thank you so much. When you get older, it's gonna show up. When you're a teenager, you can't eat whatever you want. Sorry, you guys. When you're early 20s, but as soon as you turn 30, as soon as you turn 30, everything's gonna go down here. I'm just kidding. But learn how to take care of your body at a young age. Everything's gonna go down here. Always show up on time. Never be late to things. Matter of fact, show up a little bit early. If a birthday party is at two o'clock, Mommy doesn't show up at 2.30. Mommy shows up at 1.50, right? Yeah. Don't forget your manners. Don't forget to say thank you and please. And yes, ma'am, and yes, sir. I always say please, don't let my please. Learn how to say no. What? You don't have to say yes to everything. You're already good at that. But as you get older, learn how to say no. And learn how to say no to the now, you know what I mean? Learn how to forgive. You know what forgive me? Let's say someone at your school says something really mean to you and it hurt your feelings. Oh, like stupid or something? Yes, if they called you stupid. You would be mad, right? I'll be like. Okay, you know what? Don't forget, when someone says I'm sorry, like if someone definitely says I'm sorry, and you say apology except that. You can forgive, so Lord have mercy, child. So that is it, you guys. Those are things, baby, that I want you to know. And hopefully when you get older, you'll see this video and you'll know that I try to give you some advice. So that way you'll grow up to be a productive human. Mm-hmm. All right, you guys, thank you so much for watching. And thank you as always to all of my new subscribers. Can you say bye, sweetheart? Bye.