 Kupita apo jobless kona Aunty! Oya! How do you do such things? Nuki kusaku salimi amtunivo? Actually kusaku salimi amtunivo Actually kusaku salimi amtunivo Actually kusaku salimi amtunivo Kuna hagei na kakrips Challenges we women go through Say the pretty women go through First is public harassment It can be verbally, internet Sexually Workplace So let's say for instance Umenda wuka umba kazi maali Amma yua dadil somewhere Say And then fika wuko The person amiku ita Maybe the CEO, the manager and the sort Anana kukrashia inawe Anana yu beauty But in that beauty angali the real Thing imeku leta apo Umeku jaku tafta job There's another mentality imeku jia I know this girl is desperate For her job So why don't I give her a Offer Ili ana jua Ana kweka position had Ina kweka position I really need this job At the same time If I'm going to get it How am I going to work with this person Definitely to work it one time And if you're not ready for it Amma you're in a relationship They tend to take advantage of these girls I've heard that a lot Sana sana Because my job is entertainment So a lot of the ladies in the statement Sana sana wasani Me dakuwa producer Producer na dai Normaly pa siya tu jalipa You've done what you're supposed to do You've executed everything you're supposed to execute But bad or two Bad or two Do you think there are such challenges In regular workplaces People see you as a trophy As in there is nothing There is nothing you can do You're just a beautiful girl Who should be used And you're stupid People think beautiful girls are stupid See na jo yo na siya Madi mawaremba wajwe math Wajwe physics So people look at a beautiful girl And feel like This girl There is nothing she knows Jina slikwini li change Meaning kitambu slikwin Had a different meaning But slikwin is someone who is just You know beautiful And she doesn't know anything And likes money So unapata When even you go out With your friends Ume enda mahali Let's say it's kind of a bash And then you hear your friends saying Mizantaftiya dim reimbu kamawewa They just feel like You see, whether it happens Paredi product Mizantaftiya dim reimbu kamawewa Ukuji nao next time They just see you as a trophy And your friends So ukuji nao next time So that they get used So it's very challenging To be beautiful by the way Kablach toke apoko wakulis I want to paint you two pictures And I want you to choose Whichever one you choose Moja nii You are very good at what you do So obviously When you're good and you work hard And work smart And you're consistent And you know all those wonderful things About discipline and things And then upandecheyo kidokidogo Ah, do you know what they'll tell you? Uyana kuwana lalala nani Uyana boso na kulana Oh my God Aya, scenario number two Muntutu ata ujumjuwi Sawa, you've met at the workplace And you've experienced to their life Aro ujuyi ameshi aje Uyumegrowa paje Nothing to do with each other But just because Anona weni mrembo nauna jua There was parties una jua weni mrembo Ha, every day you must be taught a lesson Wacha ni taku onyesha wesi mrembo Wacha na fuda Yes, what is wrong with you people? Can we just live our lives? Can we just live our lives? Please pick a scenario and discuss things Okay Tangele, I used to hear Kupandishwache on a boss You know, you cannot just work hard Kupandishwache You are good at this thing, right? But whenever you just Umupandishwache from Na jupi uken na jom Uki fanya kazi po alazi mo utapandaju Umupandishwache unasike unalala nga na boss Amasiju na jona na kina nani Hr, what? Kujajuzi Nini So, you see, atawale New employees waki kuja They'll get that story Na watakuchukuliaivo Na ata respectitisha Because they know that Kwa weh, hauku fika apu Maliume fika jfotiyako It was because ulilala na boss And piau na onokyoko job Sometimes after work You might want to go and grab Let's say a bite Ata kama na drink Let's say coffee with your boss But sato wizi unika na na boss mahali Because to ita tembe Unika na na na boss mahali What are you doing at a restaurant With your boss Sometimes it's just meeting But people don't like You know, take it That's a form again I know it's a must for people to talk Kwa ni amna kitu ingi na kongelia Si mongelia seno Kwa basulona Amma suwarez Suwarez is being harassed Clearly, guys, there are things to talk about I know, perhaps ashacha goa May be okay But do you have any experience Ano shei iskia kitu kama iwi Like me too too Just because you know That you're beautiful And you're okay with it You're not even flaunting it, by the way Una jeka tu vizuri Una watu vizuri Una tembe atuna confidence in dunia Because my God did not create me For me to suffer I'm not here to survive I'm here to thrive I'll be together And I'll be happy if it is okay But there are two things Anashwa I want to behave I want to behave Please explain to me How do you do with such a person? Okay, me personally have been there I feel you since Since It was just a few weeks ago There was this audition A modeling audition So I want There were around 100 ladies Then mume tends You don't know who is who Na na na pikiwa What are you going to do with this? Then there's this group of girls Mume kapa moja Muna chochana like Muna jibya saik Then it happened that During that time I made an audition My part, I'm done Then wukuna pewa your results At that point Una ambe wa ume kwa picked So Temne nifika kwa the director A li kwa za Your case is so different Just stay aside there I have to make a few calls Will confirm me in a few minutes And I'm like why? Then it just You relax, just stay there The girls are like What's up? Then I was like maybe I have not qualified On this sort But even look at my results They are okay So After that The director was like I have to take some few photos of you I want to send it somewhere We have an audition Outside the country We are organizing On the sort I'm shocked I'm so happy at the same time Then I'm like Why is this guy so good? You even doubting yourself? And then you are not Maybe I made it You see So the girls were After po Eh Kwa nu li pe anani ni Si tu me kwa wat Just tell us You knew this person from You see Is so Yes Tisha ni kwa nambai They believe that You can't do it It's not that you are able Ni mtuladzma Mi kusapotu Mi peyanaki tu You see Nasibdo Yeah All right So tu ambia Poli na luga gani Mna takaji We are sorry I'm so sorry I'm so sorry Sorry Sorry Tu ingiakidogo relationship So sa Kunai aspektia Maybe Mtu ateiku believe Uko single And for real You're single You're not playing around Maybe you don't even And I want to say this With all the love in the world Because Mikau nasponyo Yoni saaw Like that's you I will never judge you Yoni yako If that's what your heart tells you Who am I Nimi ni nani Ni kujeni kwa ambia Usufanya kitukaiyo But kama maybe utaki Saaw But mtu ezi kubali Ayatu beautiful Ayi Maka vizuri saan Ayi zivi tumetu api Ayi ya pa And then on the other hand Maybe you are in a relationship But your person will never believe You're not cheating Sure Like unashnokini sumboa Vitu ata hazi ko You want us to fight Like mbonan nisi kupenditu na mani Can I just love you in peace Like please Just because I look a certain type of way Does not mean every time I walk outside That I am nakatiana na mtu Haye zi kwa tu ni where we to Haye zi kwa iwa Ono na malizi vitu na ni gosa guys Deepo Hashtag is when the morning Pick one and talk to me But there you know what Whatever you're saying is true Because I've also seen friends Who've broken up with their boyfriends And boyfriends who've broken up with their girlfriends Because of the same When you're beautiful handsome Your better half Tends to think that you are automatically cheating You cannot even pick a random call at night Not late Let's say 8, 9 Why is this person calling you at this time Nini You must be flirting with this person Nini Someone cannot even call you beautiful Like hey beautiful Someone can't tell you that Mbonu yu mtu ana kumdi aive Nini And you end up being single Because these people just dump you These someone will just cheat on you at the end Because he or she thinks that you're also cheating So ana revenge Na wei wei You're not cheating You're just nice You're just beautiful It's just you If I wanted to cheat, I would cheat If I wanted to, I would do it But I'm not doing it Why are you accusing me? Like for all you know Atamu nyanakungelesha mibia taneza kwenge He has no interest in you Like he's just your friend Like you know what you're doing Just because we look some type of way What do you want? Mbonu lini approach kama nivo Kama uli kuna jwa na kwa gaivi Basi kama ushani pima evo Ushani beba evo Why did you approach me in the first place? What's the problem? What isn't the actual problem? Naskia kutua salti zingina But hashtag why in the money Talk to me mom Okay and it comes to trust issues It's normal in a relationship Definitely women Wezi tembe atu inze Peacefully Lazi matu wa nomota kusumbua But knowing that you're dating and respecting the person Ono na Ono na joko na boundaries zako But this person na na fail kukweliwa Just because he's insecure of your beauty Ya ya ki kukatia nijoi na kujanayo So that should not be the case Land kukwam strong Because my beauty can't change Kwa doa tanisubu atu na ukwenjena zi nifugia kwa numba You see So even it comes to trust Zingumu usana Tell me how you relate to people Like day to day basis Maybe atu kukuspa market I'm atu kukwaki usk And the funny thing is Kuna tem neza katia wa Hadini shanga embo nani katia I have not put any effort At this mu make up on me first In fact niko na mavin kwa kichwa Goza huzode ni bagi You cannot see what shape I am I could be shapeless for all you know Na nani katia Ok sawa Sawa Sawa ni me skia Ni me kusalimia So that you don't think I am rude Or impolite And why is it that ukika tiwa Now katae you rude Kastaki Ebu talk to me Udei katia wa na ukandu Ukuna madingo And genuinely ukotua po People don't want to accept The fact that sometimes like You just don't want it I mean Sitaki kuka tiwa I'm ok Ok It's good It's good Thank you But I really don't want to be You know Girlfriend or whatever Entanglement I just don't want that But people don't understand Apoko entanglement People don't understand that By the way They really don't understand that Alafu pia Una patam Untu ameku katia Not with the intention of loving you You see Untu ameku katia Because you're beautiful Anata katukuna How you are How can this cheat be You know Immediately you make a box Evo This person will use you And leave you Because anatua Ah Sikuna atuengi na uta kujakum katia Oh Anata itu kulamali Ya Evo too and then They just dump you But it's a very big challenge Iku amrembo I will have another scenario But kama metani kujia Badai Please don't come for me But Ushaikati wana mutu in authority Ya ni manzea pawna joki kata Weh Pape utaki Let's take for example I'm trying to choose my words So very carefully But let's assume Maybe ni mutu anabeba bunduki Kaziakeni Ya kulinda atu seme It could be JSU Nizakwa kara Nizakwa any type of Boratuni authority Na kona You know Powers Nana ukatia na ni Sasa Sasa Apo unanzok sema no haji How? Thank you You know you're faithful Yes But weh Unae na sadana You don't know what the outcome might be So how do you handle that kind of situation? Okay For me It's kind of tricky But You just keep in mind Whichever you decide Will affect you in a way So I will not just accept Stakubali kundia box Because you're in power Or the sort I'll be forcing myself Kundia seti Because ni kupenda Amata ni kukupenda Stakwanga Secured like Anything can happen And the sort So I choose happiness And peace I'll rather say no What would you do? Because anyone can be Talked too maturely You know You can just talk to this person And be a You know They don't take no for an answer Like you don't know they exist I know they do Now you just ghost them What will you do? Block them everywhere Nakama ni mitu no na kilaseko Oh my God If this person is dangerous Then you'll just have to Into a gate Move from where you're staying This person is indeed That dangerous Otherwise you just think That anyone can be Talked too maturely Ushaya mbo kuna maringo Just because you're living your life Udatu jafungu amdomo You've not spoken to anyone All you did was maybe Work from point A To point B Minding every bit Of your own business But someone Somewhere Asha mbo kuna maringo Nakikungele You could even be Having a bad day Amato kuna homa As you know Some type mashiro Oh, crabs I don't even kuna mimba No, kuna too much