 Ask very early in a relationship, do you wanna have kids? Because I always say there's two types of women. There's STL, short term, mating STMs, and LTMs. And you can meet the perfect girl, but she's an STM. She's interested in short term only. Because if a girl tells me, you know what, I've never really wanted to have kids, I'm not really into it, I'll, then you can't, don't be good, and the worst is when they're beautiful and they tell you that, because then you're just wasting your time.