 This evening the topic that I am going to be speaking on is how she is diff99 How is who different, she who is she She is a believing females How as she different from the others What makes her a believing females What makes her so important What is diffря intensity about her Point number one and we need to know this A believing hormones is a being focussed She is focussed وہ آسان ہے چاہتا۔ اپنے موت اپنے تباد ہوں relates اس آسان ہوں کا م наш McConnell دور� پہنائی کرتا ہے ہے کے سبہ اللہ پر سبحانہ ہو تعلق اور اس کی حدث ہے. something that will earn the pleasure of my maker or will it be earning the wrath of my maker. We ask اللہ سبحانہ ہو تعلق to bless all our sisters and our brothers and we ask اللہ سبحانہ ہو تعلق to help us all focus because this focus upon paradise and upon the pleasure of اللہ ہے ہمارے ساتھ ایک چیز کے بریزی化 ایک دیکھخلی ہیں اور بہت کے بارے میں سبحال اللہ اوہ اللہ لیکن ہے اور بہت پیدا ہمارے میں ایک بارے میں سبحال اللہ کو بھی چاہتے हیں یا کہ جو بہت بارے میں ساتھ ساتھ پر کچھ رہنا جا ہے تو بہت پیدا کچھ رہنا جا جا اور کچھ آپ oldا روٹی میکنے کے لیتے ہیں آپ کو سوچ کرتے ہیں آپ کیا آپ اس کے بارے میں تکیار کے لئے بہت کے سالات کے لئے سلحاہ Congress اللہ تعالیٰ ہوں ہوں۔ ہمیchtر آجا لیکچہ میں اس سے ملہ ہوں ، اس سے ایمانوں کو pitch بھی دارہا ہوں اور اس میں ہے کہ سبحان اللہ بہتا ہے۔ اس مرد برنے کے بارے میں ٹائٹی روٹی ، اگر ٹائٹی بہتا ٹائٹی بھی ہیں ، میں حقیقت نہیں ہے ، بہت ہم اور پر تاہیر کو واقعت کے دلığہ فرایت پر جانتا ہے ، سبحان اللہ ، بہتا ہے۔ کہاں دوبارترین ، سُبھان اللہ کے بارے میں لطفٍتا She will try to achieve whatever she can in theрудng in terms of facilitating this life and making it easy for her To live here but her prime focus is The آخرہ0000ی blue is the pleasure of اللہ If we achieve the kitchen while sheทن building اللہ she will do that if she cannot the kitchen is by the way but the relation with اللہ is never by the way ذہ玉 فکرنا have the dream plan Sometimes leads not just a stray in the sense جاننا کے لئے جاننا کے لئے جو اللہ اس کی ایک جو ایک خوانے کو پر کسی جو ایک کسی جو آج ہے۔ now what؟ اللہ عقبار ، آپ ایک خوانے کے لئے ایک خوانے کو پر کسی جو ایک کسی جو اس کے خوانے کا بات ہے۔ اور جو ایک کچھ آگے۔ حابیدی ڈیزاک لخے کیا؟ یہ جانتا ہے۔ ہمارے کے بہت ایسی سی ایک بہت ساتھ سکتے ہیں۔ دور جیسا ہے کہ اللہ سبحانہ Leaders نیستے کے لیے ہمارے لگے ڈونیا میں جاتا ہے ، کہ ہمارے لگنμά میں اہلوں کے بہتشارہ ہے ڈونیا میں ان کے لئے ہمارے العمل دے۔ اور اہلوں کے بہتشارہ ہی دونیا کے بہتشارہ کھو美 Outlast میں دیدار کھو ایک آرہے لے۔ کسی بھائی چاہتے ہیں کہ بہتنے کی اشترار ہی نہیں پہنچا ہے ، دونیا정ہ میں ایک کھو بہت شہروں نہیں ہے کے لئے ہمیں اصماروں کو ایک بہت اجتا ہے یا جو ضرورات نہیں ، لہذا بھی جو وہ ہوا جب ہوتا ہے اور پر چیزیں بھی لوگوں میں لائے تھا ، لہذا وہ آپ بھاتا رہ سکتے ہیں جب اور کہ اللہ ہونے کیا ساتھ کھڑے آگا؟ مجھے ہوتا ہے اور ہونے اپنے ساتھ جو سوچکارتی ہے کہ سورکارتہ ہوں؟ بہت ہوں گا ہے پر فرمال میںی از سوچکارتی ہے لہذا ہم اپنے اپنے ساتھ ہے۔ اللہ اکبر ، اللہ کے نظر کو اپنے ہوتا ہے جس ہم جانے کا سخصہ ہے ہے۔ یہ ہے کہ ہمارے حديث لوگ کہتے ہیں جو جو انگ اتاگے کم من طردونا دینہ و خلوقہ فزوجوہ اللہ تفعلو تکن فتنتٌ فر ارض و فسادٌ عریض محمد صلاحلی اللہ ﷺ کہتے ہیں کہ جب جب جو آپ کی بارےم میں مطابقاتوں کو پر محمد صلاحی اللہ اللہ جو اپنے جو دین اور جو اپنے اس کی قرآنی سرعیہ ہے مردہ دید کرنے والے ہیں اگر آپ جو مردہ دید کرنے والے ہیں مجھے اور سامنے پر کسی اکام ہوتا ہے ، اگر آپ جو موجود سارے اپنے گھرے سارے سارے کیا ہے اور اپنے گھرے سارے کیا ہے ، کاربشن اور سید ، خیال ، اور سن ، یہ مجھے ہوتا ہے ، اللہ سبحانہ اللہ تعالیٰ کرنٹا کیا ہے۔ لہذا ہم جس نے کہتے ہیں کہ آپ جو آپ کے لئے بھاکی کیا جو بہت ہوتا ہے ، پہلے ہم جنہوں پر آپ میں بہت بہت مجھے تھا ہے ، آپ میں بہت اُس کی جو آپ جو آپ ہوتے ہیں اور آپ جو آپ بیش کریں گے گے۔ لیکن آپ کو کمپرمائش دیتا ہے، کیونکہ آپ کیا آپ جسی فیمل ہے ہے جو آپ اللہ سبحانہ و تعالیٰت کے پر سیدہ میں ہوتے ہیں۔ آپ کو خرج ہی لگکی ہی ہوتے ہیں۔ آپ کو ایک ملی جلوے ، آپ کے لئے سوچ کرنے کے لئے جیسے ہے ، آپ کو یہ سوچ نہیں کیا ہے ، آپ کو یہ جب کم ، آپ کو یہ جانےہ ہوتے ہیں ، جب آپ کے خالالت ہمیں کیا کہ کھونوں کے بارے میں مجھے اور مجھے قائیس بیناتی نہیں ہی ہوئے کہ وہ مجھے ہوں کیا جانتے ہیں لہذا خوص یہاں مضبع کا اكرح جاتے ہیں کے بہت ہوں کے ساتھ جاند ہاں ہوں کوایاستا تھا جو ایک لہذا مات کو تک جانے کیوکہ اگر بھی نہیں فوکست ہوئے ہیں ، اللہ سبحانہ وعتعالیٰ اس پرشانتی着 کی اشوہ ہے لہذا اللہ سبحانہ وعتعالیٰ کے بشرہ سے ففکس ہوں جاند ہوں پرشانتے ہیں۔ سب سے حصہ کسیações اور سب سے حصہ بھی بھائی آنہ دوسرکس زوجہ دودلہ اور بھائی آنہ دوسرکس زوجہ دودلہ ہے کہ چیسے تلیے وقت حصولتے ہیں ، سبنیاں جو اس کی کے التي تو کسی نہیں کر دیا گا. اللہ who aqbar ، کہاں اسے بھائی ربی ہو سکتے ہیں کم آپ اس کو مانتا ہے ،ؐپوے آپ مطابق ہوا ، ہمی جانتے ہیں ، منمج ایک دیکارنر دونیا میں کاتا ہوں۔ احسانی مہمہ بار ہے تب کامیان اہم دونیا میں مجھے ہیں ، ہی کیا ہے؟ آپ کیا ہے؟ آپ کیا ہے؟ اور سرح طور پر دیئے اور سرح کیا ہے؟ آپ کے اللہ کے گا لوگ میں جانتے ہیں if that is the case you are at a loss your focus is not correct but is that making you stronger for the sake of Allah سبحانہ و تعالیٰ if yes then الحمدلہ اللہ آپ کے اللہ نے جانتا ہے you know we would like to achieve in the dunya and in the آخرہ you know the dua that Allah makes mention of in ڈوارت بقرہ ربنا آتنا فی الدنیا حسنة و وفل آہ سم فَلْ اَخِرَتِ حَزَنَا وَقِنَا عَضَابَا نَّا رَبْ حضورتا ہے جننیر میں سےگرانتا ہے اور جنری میں سےازی آخرپر ہے اور حضورتка었و. جھاگی نموہ جاگنب ایم آپ میں سے لیتا ہے اوطرم پرکی ہی بھارا ہے. لہذا یہ کچھ آئی ہے کھوگنا دینا ہے مجھے بہت ہی اور ہمیں کہ ہمیں سبقے بہتداما لیکن ہی viuی زیادہ ہوتے لیں اور میں کہا کہ جو آپرے لحاہ کی براہلی مہمارت ہے ہمارے میں لوگ مہمارت ہوتا ہے آپارہ میں کو سبوں کے لئے دیکھ کرنے والا ہی مبادر ہے ، ہمیں حاملہ نہیں کیونکہ یہ مطلبہ نہیں ہے ، میں کے ساتھ ہمیں بہترین کے لئے انہوںcipe میں سلہ میں نوارے لگا ہوں میں سب ، میں شہد ہوں کے معلومت کیا準備 ہے کہ کوئی اور اس کے لئے ہم ملے اور اس کے لئے ہمیں کتا ہوں۔ کے لئے میں سے پروحی ہے۔ ہمارے میںہمارت کیا ہے؟ حصہ ہے ، حصہ ہے اس کے حالت میں ، حصہ نہیں can not be seen by people if i were to tell someone i bear witness that there is none worthy of worship besides Allah and i bear witness that محمد صلی اللہ و علیہ و سلم is his final messenger and so on if i were to say that i have just become a مسلم which means i have declared my islam my submission openly but people cannot gauge the level of my e-man and my belief the belief is the next step which would now build my link with Allah سبحانہ و علیہ و سلم my maker i bear witness that he who made me is he whom i'm going to return to he has absolute control of every aspect of my existence so if i am unhappy he owns my happiness if i am poor he owns my wealth if i am sick he owns my cure i need to know this and i need to believe in it firmly and this is what makes me focused and this is what belief is all about it helps us focus so to believe in Allah سبحانہ و علیہ و سلم in his mercy and to believe that Allah loves you so when a sister believes that Allah loves her she is different from others she is different from those who don't believe in Allah to start with all those who believe that Allah سبحانہ و علیہ و سلم is not merciful عود بلہ we all read the beginning of the toran and when we start of reading the beginning of any surah we find in the name of Allah most forgiving most forgiving سبحان اللہ or should i say most merciful most merciful amazing one is a specialized mercy and the other is an all encompassing mercy the first one is that which is all encompassing and the second one is that which is a specialized mercy for those who have belief in that mercy of Allah سبحانہ و علیہ و سلم so you need to believe that Allah loves you even if you are going through difficulty my sister Allah loves you you're going through health matters and issues Allah loves you be focused upon that believe that that is what makes you different from the others Allah loves you so much that sometimes he gives you such a great gift known as a sickness which you might perceive to be negative but your iman and your the fact that you are focusing and your belief makes you realize that it's actually a gift of Allah to draw you closer to him amazing this is belief so i'm convinced that Allah loves me even if i took walking down from here i'm still convinced Allah loves me i'm convinced i don't need to become upset if this fan does not work or it's making a noise or for example i have a distraction on this i don't need to get upset i can rectify it with a smile and i can still be the happiest person ever because i believe that Allah سبحانہ و تعالیٰ has given me an ability and it's him who gave me the ability had he not wanted it i would not have had that ability amazing this is Allah this is the focus this is what makes you a believer this is what makes you different from other people no matter what you have it does not make you lose focus today when we have a lot we lose focus by sitting in front of the tv and watching bollywood movies or hollywood movies or nollywood movies or if you come from zimbabwe zollywood movies and we are focused on that why because uh dunya mashaAllah you know we have everything we have the whole world we we have a flick of a finger and the driver comes we have a flick of the finger the car is there we have a flick of the finger and everything is there we have a little phone call or a little tapping on the internet and the shopping is at home allahu akbar so now what's left i just got to sit in front of the tv and enjoy myself and have a massage every day and you know look at myself in the mirror and مکیا سبحان اللہ we just interested in mac and everything else why because we have lost focus we've lost focus so some of us are more interested in making ourselves up than we are in living the real life and focusing on Allah and focusing on paradise that face is going to be eaten by worms may Allah protect us but it's a reality allahu akbar that was quite a hard statement but it's a fact you have to face it if you're focused you will know mashaAllah i am allowed to look great alhamdulillah because that's Allah's gift upon me but if that is my focus then i've lost focus to be honest with you i've lost focus completely that shouldn't be my main aim of existence is the make up no like i say when Allah's blessed us with so many things and we've got good health we want to show things so Allah says i can just take that away momentarily so that you realize that i have given you a gift and you realize refocus come back to us may Allah bless us all to believe and to be convinced in the power of Allah is also what makes a different from others what makes her different is that she is convinced in the power of Allah nothing is impossible for Allah so if you are a person who's had no children not at all 14 15 years have passed by you will still continue making دعا to Allah and having hope that one day he will provide you with what you are asking because you are different you have conviction and you know that Allah has given you so much in the quran to show you that others have delivered even after 50 years 60 years 80 years of their lives so a believing female is convinced as to the qudra and the power of Allah سبحانہ واتعالیٰ I believe firmly and the men as well obviously this is a believer we believe firmly that Allah سبحانہ واتعالیٰ can do anything he can do absolutely anything nothing is impossible for Allah سبحانہ واتعالیٰ That's what I believe that conviction is what cures you when you are sick do you know that that conviction is what cures you when you are sick and that conviction is what provides for you when you don't have you you are convinced because that is the power of Allah that comes in and it is Allah who is the provider ultimately it is always Allah who does that for us when we make dua we need to be convinced as we are supplicating our maker that Allah is going to provide this for me why should we supplicate if we are half hearted saying well it might not be and maybe perhaps and so on so many people who have a cancer may Allah grant them cure have been cured not by medicine alone but by the will of Allah through his power where he has given the ability to diagnose it at a certain stage when it was early enough to have cured it and i can tell you something else sometimes we are affected by that disease and yet through our dua Allah cures it for us before we ever went for diagnosis so we don't even know only the day we die and we meet Allah we might know one day you were sick but you had such a detrimental disease through your dua we cured you before you even went to the doctor to get it checked and to diagnose it my mothers and sisters i pause here for a moment and i divert slightly to say remember one thing when you are sick and ill it is your duty incumbent upon you to seek medication it is your duty do not rely only on dua dua is a part of it the conviction in the power of Allah is definitely holistic without a joke but at the same time when Allah has given you ability and capability and capacity to go out and seek medication you must do that you must go out you must test yourself you must check yourself you must diagnose as part of your duty unto Allah he has given you an amana which is the body of yours this body does not belong to you it belongs to Allah you need to look after it if someone gave you a car to look after while they were out of the country and you happen to damage it wouldn't you go and repair it before they came to say this car doesn't belong to me before anything happens i better drive it carefully i better make sure everything is okay if i've had a speeding final too i better go and pay it up before this brother comes back or whoever comes back and before i have to give the car back the same applies to our bodies they are not ownership of ours so a believing woman does not just tattoo herself anywhere and everywhere because she knows that is haram she does not just pierce herself anywhere and everywhere because she knows where the limits are where as when you have people who are not believers or sometimes their e man is weak they don't even know and sometimes they know but they defy and they begin to do things not realizing that this body is only a uniform given for your soul to exist in this تمپروری world for a little while and Allah will take it away so i normally say that Allah took a soul and put it into your body so your body has worn the soul it's the uniform of the soul one day the the body will take out that soul the soul will come out by the word of Allah you leave the body and the uniform gone down you are no longer known by your name or the body is known as the body after that not with your name do you know what that means every one of us when we die nobody's going to say where's muhammad they will say where is the body bring the body here is the body at home is the body there they're not going to say where is خدیجہ bring fatima here bring abdallah this side here or you know lower abdallah into the grave nobody ever says that they say lower the body into the grave bring the body here bring the body there where is the body how far is the body what happened to the body and so on why is it the body because the soul is gone have you ever thought of that well it is a reality a believing female focuses on that so as much as we interested in mack and back at one stage it's all the body no longer us masha Allah الله اکبر what happened to that body it's gone back to Allah so me what will happen to me i've also gone back to Allah سبحانہ واتعالہ whereas the body will decompose in the soil by the will of Allah but with me i will return to Allah to answer for what i did with the little bit of time and whatever else he gave me in this world and the test is for all of us parents make the lives of their children a misery sometimes why they are not focused not focused on jannah they are focused on pleasing community society what will my relatives say what will my community say how can you wear a hijab how can you look like a nun how can this happen how can that happen but are you focused on paradise if you are forget about the rest they will come they will say wow you did it we can do it so they were waiting for you but we are not focused enough and we're not strong enough so we lose everything so people begin to turn away from the deal because of our weakness and that is a problem may Allah grant us strength my mother's and sisters really it is amazing that Allah سبحانہ واتعالہ has given us so many gifts and he tells us use this whilst you are here imagine this is one big examination room and we're allowed to cheat how's that it's like a big examination hall you have an examination and all the results all the answers are right in front of you you can go and research you can go and check and then write the answer nobody's going to tell you that you've cheated because it's in this big hole اللہ says but you better get the answer right so go out and read a lot of us the answers are there but we don't even want to read the quran no why because i'm busy with learning my song what song are you busy learning سبحان اللہ i don't even want to say what song so what happened to the quran i'm still quite young you know that's the answer we get i'm still quite young you know why because my dad told me that when you turn 30 that's when you can start learning the quran اللہ اکبر 30 you might not see another 30 minutes then what will happen this is what makes a believing female different from others she knows what she wants she knows the temporary nature of this dunya she knows the temporary nature of her body and her existence and she knows that she will change from this particular world to the next in a different existence altogether which means in another place altogether by the will of اللہ سبحان اللہ تعالی so to believe in the power of اللہ and the fact that he can do anything and everything when a person is sick and ill we make dua together with that we do what is known as دوار دوار meaning the علاج the cure to visit the doctor to try our best then we ask Allah we cry to Allah and we are convinced Allah will cure us you know when you find someone terminally ill and the doctors tell you that okay they are two days left many of us have been told you have had two days left 20 years down the line we are still as fit as a fiddle what happened well medicine was wrong that's what happened well the truth is it's the power of Allah we tried and Allah سبحانہ و تعالی Provided but even after 20 years you still have to go you still have to go so Allah gave you another 20 years to pack away more good deeds in your bank as many good deeds as i can you know when we are young we don't have a bank account at a certain stage people start opening bank accounts they begin to work the salary goes in they want to save the savings become big and big and huge and they get so happy why because رسید نا سبحان اللہ وصل إلى عشرت آلاف our bank account is now 10,000 دینار you know the dinner is so strong wow 10,000 that's a beautiful رسید i can do something with it not realizing when رسید اکلد آخرا where is your bank balance for the آخرا where is it what has happened to it nobody is saying don't pack away money for the dunya but don't give preference to it because your focus is on the آخرا every دینار that you have packed away for the dunya you need to pack away good deeds worth more than that for the آخرا because the آخرا is everlasting as for those دینار they will not help you for more than another 10 to 20 years when you get a job finally you settle down how old are you 40 years old you've now settled and everything is okay the average age of people who are now considered people who have settled down and now they're looking after their children and preparing for their kids 40 years how many years have you left if you're lucky you have another 30 years to go and then what then i need to get into the آخرا then everything i did which was focused upon the آخرا will come to benefit me so don't lose focus that's salah that you read the dress code you had the goodness you had the all the good that you did will come to help you may Allah protect us and the Torah you engaged in something powerful the problem with us we lose conviction in Allah's power so we think Allah is not powerful and we think that He's not going to grab hold of us when we do things that are wrong and when we when we are astray if a person doesn't read salah it doesn't affect Allah it affects them the person does not want to dress appropriately believe me it does not affect Allah it affects them and it definitely affects them but they don't realize and it will affect them سبحان اللہ when a person wants to engage in bad habits it will affect them it doesn't affect Allah سبحانہ و تعالیہ لا تنفعہوا طاعت الطائئین ولا يضرہوا معصیت العصی good deeds of those who do good they don't help Allah and the bad deeds of those who do bad do not harm Allah سبحان اللہ و تعالیہ it's for us this is us it's all about us سبحان اللہ will help me or it will harm me so i better be focused and i have a beautiful way out at tawbar i can turn to Allah at any time and say Allah forgive me let me gain focus again you know what this might be my last few days in this ت composers hands ایاا اس لگا스 ا нравится اس لگر اKim optimize و ہوتا جاه看一下 اس لگنے ان پوری آئا سبحانہہ او اٹعالا سے اس مجھے کامی chuy cream لی سہدی خوالاتindruck دوسرہوں خانみ کرنے اس دور کو دے نہیں ہورا finalement اسی تو ان میں سے اذا سوائی س Wah یہ کسی دیدہ ہے۔ اللہ کھوٹا ہے اbumps اور دستندہ. کھوٹر ہم معلوم کریں جانتے ہیں اور اللہ کہتے ہیں یہاں کیا ایک حیرتا ہے۔ لیکن میں آپ لگئرہا ہے، اللہ آپ کی جانتے ہیں کہ یہی ساتھ کہا تھا ، کھوٹر س справ کے جانتے ہیں۔ تطعت اللہ اللہ 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کو حافظ حافظ ہوں اور دریاں کو مجھے گیا ہے تو ہمیسے خیر اللہ کو برائی ہے اور ہمیسے خییر اللہ کو محاوجہ ہے تو محاوجہ ہوتی ہے۔ circle07 شکار کے لئے ہیں کہ وہ سبسیت ہے جو وہ کافی ہے ، انہیں صندگی تصور بات نہیں ہے جب ان کو جانتا ہے ، جو اوری ان کو جانتا ہے۔ کسی بیٹی ہے جو آپ کو جانتا ہے جو آپ کو بھی سبسیت ہے ، کہ سےرة ہوا رہا ہے، اللہ کیسے ہم کو سبسیت ہے کہ میرے آمن پیچھا چاہتا ہے کہ میں چاہتے ہیں جب میں nachہ یہ سبسیت کرنا ہے کہ ہم کہ میں چاہتا ہوں گا آپ کی سے ایسا جو تو ہم سبسیت ہم کو سبسیتے ہیں کہ également تو میں یہ ہوا ہوسノ شوش ہے اور جب میں یہ کیوں کہا ہے کہ میں کروں تو Zhuq تو لئے آپ کو یہاں ہے کہ ہوتا ہے تو آپ کی ملوجہ ہونے پر میں خلالا ہوں میں آپ کے لئے کوٹر نہیں密سکتی ہوں آپ Definitely میرے ایک بیٹھایایییییییی ہیں جس میں آپ کو ملوجہ ہوں اور آپ کی حکوم کیا ہے یہ ہے جس طور پہلے ہی ہے یہ ہے اللہ اگر آپ میں ایک بیٹھا چیزی ہے تو بھی میں بھی آپ کو warہ کریں آپ میں ہوں آپ بھی میں ایک بھی بے لیکن آپ کو لیکن سبحہ میں حالاتا لیںا لیکن اجمع کیا آپ اجمع کھونتے ہیں! جب آپ کو معاف پڑی پڑی کے ساتھ ڈیزیز میں آجا ہوں کا بہتکار ہے ہمیدی ہے ، یہ طرح ہمارے ساождения کہ ہوں۔ میں لیکن اسی دیکریہ کے لئے کا افتادتنا چاہتے ہیں۔ بہتا میں جو اس میں مجھے بہتا مجھے آجا ہوں۔ سبحہ مجھے اللہ سبحانہ اللہ تعالیٰ ہم کامبار ہم آئے۔ اسی دیکریہ کا افتادتنا چاہتے ہیں۔ بہت ہی کاملئے کسی پر تقوریت کا مقابل ہے کہ اس کا اشرح ک anواقا ہاتے ہیں جب لوگ شکر ہمینا پارکانے اللہ آپ کو پہنچ کرنے لیسے no one wants to die but everyone is going to die like i always say how many people want jarna put up your hand everyone who wants to die now put up your hand no one how are you going to go to jannah if you're not going to die but you might say well i don't want to die right now Senior لیکن جو حطُ مینئے مرسل ہے جب وہ اپنے خیلے اپنے جو محطن ہے. بہت پہلے ہوں آپ کو پڑھ دیکھے ہیں ، کوئی اللہی دانا کریں۔ اللہ کا کہہ دیکھیں ، یہ آپ کے ساتھ رہا ہے ، میں کہتا ہے کہ اللہ لیکن اپنہ موکinfڈو پر کسی بھی۔ میں ہارہا ہوں جب میں اللہ چلے رہا ہوں ، میں ہارہا ہوں جب میں اللہ چلے رہا ہوں۔ موکنے کے لبہت کیا ہے؟ ایک جندلیوں کو پڑھا ہے۔ تحفت مطل مو to the gift of a true believer is actually death because now you're going to get what you want it's like a child saying oh man make me first in class okay i worked so hard i'm first in class i need the prize when is the prize giving oh it's on sunday in the evening i'm not going to come i'm not coming because why i don't want to go it's nighttime when are you going to get your prize so we need to think about it carefully death is something you have to go through المو to بابن و كل الناس داخلو death is a door and every single person is going to go through it but the question is have we prepared for it have we tried have we been focused upon it or are we just focused upon this and that and so on and so forth you know we have our schools and mashaAllah our children are doing very very well in the school my child can read the book with the eyes closed now but come to قرآن they don't even know our word come to what the religion is supposed to teach they don't know a thing and Allah has only written 14 years for that child in 14 years the child is going to go so when the child go may Allah protect us all but it's happened this is a reality we need to talk about it and we need to let it wake us up because without it we won't wake up so 14 years later your child is gone now everyone is going to be bragging in the in to say wow the child was first in class for so many years the child was very intelligent the child was this the child was that the child was topping mathematics topping this topping that but you busy sitting there lamenting ya Allah the child is in the grave in the grave we've never heard that the angels will come and ask you what were your results for mathematics is that what we were taught so whilst we are importantly looking quite focused upon the dunya and the secular education we should not lose focus upon that which is more important اللہ اکبر بل تُو ثیرون الحیات الدنیا وال آخرت خیروں و ابقا صورت الأعلا powerful it's read almost every week in the masjid in جمعا and Allah says ڈے you have given preference to the dunya yet the آخرہ is better and it is everlasting so that which was not everlasting we focused on it why because we were lost i am not at all calling for us to take our children out of the schools no ways i probably went to some of the best schools that were available to me but all we are saying is be focused be focused on something greater do not do one at the expense of that which is more important that's what we're saying that's all there's no further statement so you can't have the highest education when your child qualifies as the top surgeon in the entire world you can be so excited because they are known as a muslim surgeon اللہ اکبر not just as a surgeon who's shy of his or her islamic identity oh then what did we do we're not prepared for the آخرہ so we are convinced انشاء اللہ اللہ will help us اللہ will guide us we also accept the تقدیر that اللہ has chosen for us that's what makes us different we have to accept it but we don't blame تقدیر for our failure we don't blame pre destiny and the degree of Allah for our failure if i was lazy and i did not work hard and then i failed i need to have a little bit of the blame you know sometimes you have people they tell you make the other i get مرید you know you make you are i've got a daughter make make اللہ اللہ gets her married and they don't give you the other side of the story that you've had proposal after proposal after proposal after proposal but whatever Allah sent to your door you just kicked it out you just kicked it out if you have a reason to to obviously decline no problem you may but for no reason you don't have that so you've made such a big blunder by turning away what Allah sent now when it's late you're saying سبحان اللہ you know make you are make you are but Allah says i sent you so much but you threw it back what should i do now اللہ و اکبر sometimes we blame تقدیر but it was my تقدیر اللہ says hang on you are also to blame like a man who came at the time of امرب خطاب رضی اللہ عنہو and he had stolen them they wanted to cut his hand he says hang on hang on hang on all of me love you mean i believe in predestiny and it was this time that i was going to steal so how can you cut my hand because it was this time already written next to my name intelligent but ameera meaning was one up even more intelligent he says oh he tells that you know what go ahead with this execution or do whatever you have to because it was predestined that we were going to cut his hand as well look at that it was predestined that we were going to cut his hand as well you want to play games well we can tell you the reality this is why we say Allah sends you a lot we turn it away we are to blame as well but don't let it depress you because you can always pick up from a lesson such as today's you can always pick up make toba to اللہ it's not a fresh go again try don't make the same foolish mistakes as the past اللہ سبحانہ واتالہ bless us may he open our doors so like i said don't blame destiny for your failure but when things have happened to you where you've tried your best and still it was out of your hand and so on and something has occurred you will سرنڈر to the degree of Allah you've been for every form of chemotherapy every form of cure you've tried this you've tried that still you are suffering and now you are in your last may Allah grant us all goodness and jannah you need to embrace the fact that i'm going to need my Allah and i am hoping his mercy because if i were to ask you are you going to enter paradise through your deeds or through the mercy of Allah the correct answer is only and solely through the mercy of Allah سبحانہ واتالہ so i have hoping the mercy of Allah that's why i said one thing that makes her different is she believes firmly that Allah loves her اللہ loves her then we have the issue of purity a believing female is always pure pure in what pure in absolutely everything in the way she speaks in the way she dresses in her interactions in her company in her heart and in her mind purity of the heart so the qualities are removed of jealousy hatred and this love of gossip the love of sin everything is taken out that's what makes it different so she's not jealous if another sister looks more gorgeous she's happy wow alhamdulillah sister allah's blessed you mashallah yes i'm not jealous but those who are focused on the dunya do you know what they would say no way she can't be looking better than me not at all i'm not going to speak to her then we go around spreading rumor about her we make life difficult for her and then she cries and she's depressed and she becomes this and that because neither is she focused nor are we we busy fighting a little battle in the dunya not realizing that as soon as you clock the age of 40 your first ninkle comes in unless you're living in bahrain allahu akbar in bahrain i think it's at 50 may Allah protect us so this is what happens my mother's and sisters we cannot be focused on little matters we cannot be focused on these small things subhanallah we cannot be jealous of one another no we cannot start envying you know they've got a car i need the same car well you know what she wakes up for fajran and to head to it every morning where are you where are you watching movies until 12 at night on the internet busy with whatever else now you have lying and we chat and we don't chat and everything else is there and what do we do we busy on that until two in the morning we go to sleep when it's time well the muaddin calls out and he says and we're busy heading in another direction in fact he says a salah to خayroom من النور salah is better than sleep and we are just in our beds at that particular time what happened to the salah gone then we are jealous of the sister who's got how that's loss of focus so what makes her different is she is focused on purifying her heart she knows that i need to purify this heart i will take out from it jealousy hatred for others deception i will take out from it malice any form of evil that is in it the love of sin the love of the dunya that exceeds the love of Allah is very very bad it is actually completely forbidden if you love the dunya more than you love Allah there is a problem so if trying to earn the comfort of this world we are earning the displeasure of Allah we have done wrong and we need to remember this and we need to know it so purification of the heart purification of the mind is extremely important as well she is different because her mind is pure when she sees things she doesn't jump into conclusions that are negative rather she jumps into the most positive conclusions her mind is pure she she has a clean relation with people she has clean understanding of what's happening and when she communicates with people it's very pure and this is why we say another point is purity of your companionship what makes her different is her friends are all pure people when it comes time for salah they all fulfilling salah when they're going out they all dressed appropriately that's what makes her different that is what makes her different otherwise what's the point may Allah protect us so to vet your friends and to make sure that you mix with those who are going to may help you achieve that which you are focused upon in terms of the after that is what makes her different purity of companionship your purity of interactions you don't just interact with anyone and everyone because you know that Allah created you and He knows best how your machine operates simple way of wording it someone's made a Toyota they will tell you how the machine operates you will follow the instruction because you know Toyota has put in this and this is how you operate it so when Allah made you and me we are more sophisticated than a Toyota so He sends the Quran and the Rasool ﷺ to us in order to tell us how we will be operated in order to achieve success and the best mileage from our fuel and yet we want to turn away thinking no i can interact and intermingle and i can do what i like with who i like because you know what i'm an adult and i'm responsible and Allah says hang on you don't know the heart and the mind are the most powerful organs Allah has blessed you with never ever give control of them to anyone besides Allah otherwise you will be hurt and hurt very badly a lot of people are struggling and suffering depressed because they gave their hearts away to someone they met on the net and that person just used and abused can i tell you there are a lot of people who suffer because there was a password there was a password made up of eight characters that was used in order to use them to get to them to abuse them what's that password i love you eight letters and he continues telling i love you i love you and he's lying he doesn't even know what love means he's not focused at all if he knew what it meant he wouldn't be telling it to you he would be upright so that was the password once he clicked password entered straight into your heart i love you too wow Allah protect us then what happened we are lost we are gone because a year down the line we are crying we are depressed and you can't even tell my father or my mother nothing because they don't have a clue what was going on and they will tell you you're a fool but it's their fault as well they did not play a role big enough in your life to know what was going on this is why we say if you're focused you will know your children are a nima you must be focused upon them as well that is Allah subhanahu وatal who placed a duty on your shoulders to look after your kids that's what makes her different she is focused we're going to get to that InshaAllah so don't allow this password don't allow this password that people utter to be a password straight into your heart because anyone could say that and press enter and that would be the right password and so now we are caught we are hooked and what happens sheiqan's got grip of us like i say and i'm repeating this the heart and the mind are the most powerful organs Allah has given you and blessed you with do not allow people to control that nobody shall control that besides Allah don't hand it over to someone no it belongs to Allah we will only do with the heart and the mind that which will please Allah yes so when you're married you have a spouse الحمد اللہ within the limits you will be able to give a portion of your heart and your mind too by the will of Allah why because that's what pleases Allah but if you give it elsewhere believe me you're not focused it's going to come back and believe me i'm a counselor i know what i'm talking about it comes back to want you because everything that's rosy the clubs and the night clubs and the glamour and the night life and the parties people are focused on parties come friday night they're at a party what party well we went to a party we had fun and we danced and we we had music and everything else what happened you're not focused on the after not at all did that party help you at all no what do you want me to sit and read the quran on a friday night اللہ عکمان what an answer what an answer no may Allah grant us goodness how can you leave the home in the morning without having read one verse of the quran how but we do what did i say one verse of the quran i challenge you do you want to make a change in your life before you leave the home every morning please can we promise one verse of the quran let's put up our hands will we read one verse of the quran before we leave our homes in the night believe me it will change your life it will change your life and read it with its meaning understand what you've just read and you'll see the words of your maker the one who made you if you think you're falling in love with this one and that one because of how nice they look and how hot they are and how sharp they are and how wealthy they are and how beautiful they look when they walking and talking and so on believe me the one who made themточد primarily be the one whom you are in love with completely that's what it is but we loose focus it's Allah subhanahu وートعالہ whom made us in the first place that's what makes her different subhan Allah so we spoke about interactions purity of interactions purity of companionship purity of the heart and the mind that's what makes her different purity of her dress because she knows when Allah ہماری حرام میں مبالکہ دریسا کرتا ہے جو مجھے بیوتی ہے۔ اسی بیٹی بیٹی ہے اور اللہ کیوں کہہ نے بیٹا ہے ہمارے یہ ہمارے کیا؟ کیا تو ایک مختلف ہے کہ اسی اللہ کیے اچھا نہیں کمپیٹ کرتا ہے۔ لیکن اس کی ایک مختلف ہے۔ اگر اللہ نے ایسا کمپیٹ دیتا ہے تو میں اس سے پیٹا ہوں گے کیونکا ، میں ایک مظہورہ سے مجھے اللہ ہے ، میں ایک مہماری جنہ مہماری جانا ہے اور یا سبحانہ ہوتا اللہ ص donde اللہ و ہٹا اللہ میں سے آپ کے ساتھ کرنا ہوں اور یہ یہEND انہیں ایک سے اور ہوں ہمید نہیں ہوتا ہے سوہی اہلہ جانتے اگر میں تھا ہوں میں اس کے بارے میں نہیں پہلے ہوں کواہاں میمت ہوں س기�ہ کیا ہے کہ کچھ پہلے ہوں میں آپ کو مرارہ سکسا کے لئے اور یہ کر رہے ہیں ہوں کہ وہ آپ سے خوہد کا ماری آپ کو مرارہ ہوں کا ماری ہے باہر آپ کے لئے ایک لگs ثم پر کیا ہوں کیا ہے؟ جب دی کے میں آپ کو دی ساتھتا ہے تو ان کو جتے ہیں۔ کام پر مجھے میرے بجنگوں کو بڑے جاتا ہے۔ میں آپ بحث کیا جاتا ہے۔ you know the shampoo جو ایک پیک لگائیں جو آپ کو ملاگ معنی سے کیا جاتا ہے کہ عندہ the wind is blowing on my hair because I have got thick hair ساتھ آتے ہیں آپ کو پرسین سبنے سے ب ہرانے کیا جاتا ہے اللہ علیہ اللہ کبیت کیا جاتا ہے اللہ اکبر ملیار کیا جاتا ہے اور آپ صرف ایک einzige کبی better ملیار کرنا چاہئے ہوسکتے ہیں جیسا کہ تماسکا جس میں آپ کے ساتھ ہے کہ جو آپ کے بارے کینے منہلو کو ایک بارے کیا ہے۔ اللہو اکبر مالہ غرن دیشیفہا ہی چیاری۔ ، مجھے رہا ہے کہ یہ پتا نہیں ہےیکاراٹی کہ میں انہوں کے لیے سادہ دیتا ہے۔ آپ کو ہے کیا ہے کہ آپ کو پہلا کے ذات میں آئے؟ کہ آپ کس کیوں پاکک جانتے ہیں کہ آپ ج blew کو رہنا ہے کہ آپ کیا کبھی جو آپ کو پہلا مجھے ہونے کیوں تھا؟ جب میں میں جو ملے دوسرے ہوتے ہیں ، کی وجہ سے ہمتا ہوں گے؟رت Liam because of my day and those to things can get better not worse not to say that he must not look at what i look like that's correct you need to but that's not the focus of it i can compromise a little bit here and there when it comes to looks and size and age and so on those are all things i can compromise but when it comes to the deal and the hor ﷻ I don't want to compromise that's what it is meant by it then we are focused on priority of speech what makes her different is she doesn't swear ہے دو آپятсяے οι اللہ JB جب پس جانتے ہو جاتا ہے لیکن پہلے مارے میں لوگوں بھیہ لست all x x یص زیادہ یا جب نسبہ جانتے ہیں Ireland اکسر مخاصشioninters Guatemala ہوتے振ر جانتی ہے اگرا پر صفیہ بھی زیادہ ہے سب kilograms جاگ ترے ہے کیا ہے بیار آسان آج crab ہوں کیا دpause آ coordinator curious اس کے بارے میں آپ کو بیٹی پر کردیتے ہیں ہمارے میں بیٹی کریں گے جس میں آپ کو پھر پہلے ہوں گے اور آپ کو بیٹی پر کردیتے ہیں لہذا کہ ہم میں بیٹی کرتے ہیں اور ہمیں پہلے پہلے بیٹی کرنے کے لئے آپ کو پہلے بیٹی کرتے ہیں اور انہوں نے اس کیا کہا جاتا ہے؟ وہ آپ کے ساتھ میکنے میں پہلے بیٹی کرنے کے لئے، وہ اس کے ساتھ کیا ہے۔ لہذا اگر انہوں نے یہاں because you were upright the moral that they took is that you were focused upon the pleasure of Allah when they were focused upon chatting about others so what makes یہاں بلوز کی مختہ ہے کہ اوہ شخص ہوں گا اور اوہ شخص ہوں اور وہ کیا یہچہ بھو میں نظرσα دیکھا اور دیکھا ہوں سوچ ہے تو ہے کہ اس سے concerts میں ہمارے بلوز کی بارہناس لگا وہ کیا آپ کو سن سامتی چیزیں بھی بھی دیکھنے کیا؟ وہ how i can get the message across to them But am not ever a person who will start bothering about this person committed this sin So let me spread it across the globe Did you see what she did in you know this one did that and that one did this That's not my business this is what makes her as a believing female جو مرورا ہے جو ہمارا ہے جو سلسل ہے اور یہ جانتا ہے جو جننتہ قطعت کیوں گے ہے اور شامیوں کو بہت ملک ہے جو سلسل نہیں سکتے ہیں جس کو اللہ سبحانہ و حالہ پریشانے والے ہمارے کوئی ملک نہیں چاہتے ہیں جس سے ہمارا ہمارا ہمتا رہا ہوں کہ ہمارے مجھے عام دلوں کو فرمی ہمارا ہمارے بھی جانتے ہیں ہمارے حالے ہمارے ہمارے affecting all focus and become the happiest of people because as i say who is the owner of happiness it is a lot and alone owns happiness all temple replay is exactly that temporary pleasures that's what they are but the ultimate pleasure that is a lot that is the focus we should be upon on this is why we say change your focus back to a lot you will be hacer You the happy person goodness comes you happy sadness comes or should I say Evil comes اور آپ بہت سمجھتے ہیں کہ اللہ کے تقدیرہ میں نے آپ کو جانتے ہیں اور آپ کو مرادہ اور اللہ سب سے ہمیں آپ کو مرادہ کریں گے لیکن اللہ کہاں اِنَّ مَا يُوَفْصَا بِرُوْنَ اَجُرَہُمْ بِضَئِرِ حِصَابِ اِنَّ اللہ ریکمپینسیز دوز جو مزادہ میں ایک مزادہ کرتے ہیں۔ لیکن آپ کیا چاہتے ہیں؟ کیوں؟ لیکن آپ جانتے ہیں آپ میں کیا ہمارے ج신میہ جاتا我跟你講۔ لہذا اسے کھانے کے پیاراتا ہے۔ آپ میں اللہ کی بیحاک لے کیا ہے۔ آپ کے لئے کا مختلفہ ہے کہ اسی آپ میں چیزاہی evenine پر سترہ گا۔ اللہ سبحانہ ہورتا، عالہ کرانتا ہے اس کے لطف کو رہا ہم ہمارے添ا دے ہیں ایک طریقی کے وقت کی بارے میں د Έشالتہ جانتے ہیں اور اس کے جب جانا ہوا جلسی ساتھ بہت ہے کہ آپ پر پہلچ آپ کو پہلچ پر وقت کے وقت کیوکر ہے visit ہمارے میں لکھے ہمارے مجھے مقمین کی دنیاں کاملتا ہے. ہمارے ہängen ہیں. ہمارے客تہ کرتے ہیں. ہمارے مقمین کیراما ہمارے مجھے مقمین کیا ہے کہ وہibile will کی گرنی بھی سانے کیا ہے۔ ہمارے اس پرمینا سامنے کیا ہے کہ ہمارے مقمین کیا ہے کہ یہ مفیوہ of مقمین کیا ہے۔ بہت نظرالہ سبحانہ واتیالا ہے۔ اس سے ہمارے برزی جانتے ہیں التقارق ہونے ہوں ؟ about working very hard to do what to serve Allah to serve my husband to serve my family to serve my children that's included in my family and my community and the ummah at large and humanity at large but that's the order so now people tell you know he must serve me who am i to serve him well hang on they are right on both sides nobody is saying that you do not have rights nor is anyone saying he does not have rights but the term used is work hard on your marriage work very hard laziness is one of the biggest components of the breakages of marriages laziness lack of dedication lack of focus wasting time with other things that are not important today people are wasting their times on mobile phones so much that if they spent one tenth of the time smiling at their spouse like a mad person they would still solve the problem forget about your phone ten minutes look at him and smile that's all believe me he will just look at you and smile back love you solve the problem obviously i'm telling you something that's on a lighter note but the point being raised is we spend so much time on items that are futile people whom we don't know we will never know we will never meet we haven't a clue who they are probably it's a person who's cheating me on the other side pretending to be someone they are not and so on and this is Allah سبحانہ وتعالیٰ he's given me a gift of a husband and a spouse or children and so on and i spent no time with them and this doesn't mean that the men should not be dedicated as well they too should be extremely dedicated you have no excuse you know we say don't suspect your spouse but we also say don't give your spouse reason to suspect you both of them are equally important we ask Allah سبحانہ وتعالیٰ to help us work on our marriages too many people are unhappy for petty reasons petty issues things that can be resolved and solved why we're not focused i don't realize i've got a few more days in the dunya what am i trying to do i've got children to raise i've got a qabr to prepare for a grave to prepare for lahu akbar may Allah grant us focus so that's what makes her different she knows she knows that a sacrifice is required of me to serve to serve who to serve the cause that Allah has instructed me to serve may Allah bless us and make us of meaningful benefit to everyone around us the last point i would like to mention this evening what makes her different is that she is not enslaved by the adverse environment around her i touched on this at the beginning let me say it again she is not enslaved by brand names by trends imagine you have a trend people are doing things so we all want to do that everyone has their hair it comes down to the front and it's painted pink so everyone has to paint it pink why because that's what bayon say did lahu akbar may Allah protect us if that is the system of operation we've lost focus so what makes her different is she is original that's what makes her different she is original she is herself she knows i'm a believer i i owe my life and my existence to allah subhanahu وatala i don't owe it to the trends around me that are un islamic if there is a good trend of people who are reading the quran people who are engaging in حلقات and engaging in different forms of learning and getting closer to allah then that is a brilliant trend mashaAllah but we are talking of the evil trends around us a believing woman is never ever enslaved by the trends rather she is original she remains on the same thing no matter what the world can come up with all sorts of things do you know if you take a look at the shoes subhanallah may Allah protect us a lot of women are guilty of focusing on shoes so when you open the cupboard you have 45 pairs of shoes you have the clogs and the court shoes and you have the high heels and the slops and the sandals and so on pink and green and orange and purple and more like i said i don't even know what color that is i just heard it but they've got all the colors those shoes are not helping them walk towards paradise why because they're not focused i'm focused on shoes when you get to the grave are they going to ask you how many pairs of shoes did you have that's what's going to happen not at all no way your shoes are so irrelevant that you are buried without them perhaps your children are fighting this pay i'm going to take no i'm going to take okay you take one i take one may Allah save car i'm not saying you're not allowed to have shoes please just now we'll see everyone barefoot but are you focused on shoes because it's the trend they wear this type of shoe now i've got that one they wear that type i've got that you can operate with a shoe that's beautiful comfortable lovely and it serves the purpose of your fit do you know a lot of sisters sadly have calluses on their feet and blisters because they are using shoes that they do not fit into that are so uncomfortable but just because they want to wear shoes that are acceptable in the eyes of those who are the slaves of the trends and the brand names they would do that so if that's the case we have a bit of پنل بیٹیں to do by the will of Allah سبحانہ وتعالہ the same applies to your dress code the same applies to everything else we don't need to be or what makes her different is she is not enslaved by the trends and the brand names and slow on she's not enslaved by entertainment and parties and nightlife and what have you may Allah سبحانہ وتعالہ help us be focused on the last may he help us be focused on that which he would please him and may he take us there and may he make us the best of people who have the best of character my mothers and sisters my brothers and fathers who are here this evening masha Allah a beautiful evening in this beautiful city in this beautiful country of a Bahrain and Allah سبحانہ وتعالہ has brought us together for a reason and the message i've delivered for you is pertinent to me to start with and thereafter for every single one of us may Allah grant me humbleness and humility and the same to every one of us may he make us love one another the pure true love which is for his sake someone asks what is the meaning of loving you for the sake of Allah to be honest we could translate it to mean i love you in such a way that everything from you that will bring me closer to Allah i love the fact that it is in you by the will of Allah you will help me get closer to paradise and anything that is negative i will help you recognize it and i will help you eradicate it because that is the love in the name of Allah سبحانہ وتعالہ it is for the pleasure of Allah to get closer to Allah may Allah سبحانہ وتعالہ grant us that particular love we are here only and solely for his sake i hope and i pray what i've said is not just entering one ear and exiting the next but insha Allah it is something that will meaningfully change my life make me focus make me refocus make me look back into my life and change a few things such that the day i die i tell myself ya Allah you've given me such a beautiful life time to prepare for the day i'm meeting with you here i am ya Allah take me with the mercy of yours grant me جنہ may Allah grant us the شہادہ the day he takes us i mean and may Allah سبحانہ وتعالہ grant us the good words of the of la ilaha illallah محمد الرسول اللہ سلام the day he takes us away may he make it easy for us to go and may he be very very merciful upon all those whom he's taken away and may he be merciful upon us the day he takes us away may he grant us the intercession of Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم being in mind that we would only deserve it through his mercy and through the trial may we all be from amongst those who can try to be focused because that's what makes all of us different from those who are totally hopelessly unfocused may Allah protect us all وصال اللہ وسلم وبرکہ علا نبین محمد سبحان اللہ بحمده سبحانك اللہ