 Welkom back. Welkom back. We are here, as we promised you, with the talk of the day, the discussion of the day. My name is once again Sankaraka Esu and I'm here to discuss the marriage thing. Watu wa nga wapakwa lewa, watu wa nga wapakwa, watu wa nga taka tukurimen single like the statistics now say that people get as old as 50 years, they are still single. That is what statistics say. We are here with the two phenomenal, two great people here to discuss this. We have Ouna Halai, that is the Yulem Super and we are here also with Muchi Muchi. They are not new into these platforms, but they will introduce themselves. Mugi Sema, everything about you, what you do, how your social media handles and then your view in life in general, not just on this subject, your view in life in general. We are going to start with the lady. Well, a very delightful morning to all of you. My name is Ouna Roslene Halai. I'm a student at Karatina University. I'm finally a student pursuing a bachelor's degree in criminology, criminal justice and public safety. Yes. Social media handles? Social media handles Ouna Roslene Halai on Facebook, Benz Legal on Twitter. And also I must say that I'm still hopeful and trusting the Lord that before the year ends, I'll be graduating, I'll be even powers to read more books. You know, potentially employer marks might be watching somewhere. True. Okay. Muchi Muchi. Yes, Muchi Muchi, the name on the idea to do manama. Not officially, but officially we're in the process. You are going to change it. Somebody did so last week. You remember, Zak Kinutia, the CIS sports. Oh, yeah? Yeah, he was called, he was a leader at the University of Nairobi some time back. I think he was the leader then David somebody then Babu Goten. Now he was called Zakareya Kinutia. Now he did away with Zakareya thing, now he's Zak Kinutia. In the idea, the certificates and everything. Are you in the same process? In the same process. What is your official name? Official name? I don't know. Oh, you don't know? I don't know. Tell us other things you want to say. You feel safe that we can look. Muchi Samul Muchi. Business man, entrepreneur, producer, director. Son of the most, Kamakawa. But of course the ladies man, Kamakawa, Kamadawa. Now some of you are maisha. Manzeo kumoka nilaz manasita fadali. I'll see you. Are you a gospel artist? Because nima iskia. How could you touch so many things about God? I believe in God. My strength is the most. I am nothing without him. And I acknowledge that every single day I wake up. How I live. Ma pastakada wa taleta beefki dogo. I want to make those churches who say kumoka nilazima bile wu mesama. The surpassed house said that we don't want to put people in this church. Very true. If we don't want to put people in this church, kumoka nilazima wu moka sa bile wu mesama. Last ma, kuna atuana, they fall in love with poverty. Na ifa iku wa hiva man. We were not born to be put in this earth. We were born to be kingdom seekers and kingdom fulfillers. Now on the topic of the day before we leave you, when are you getting married? Yo nima fubumbu bro. Yum, one, miku onguku konsepti ya maharage like last mulu yo maharage ima tokapin. Yum maharage ni ni nini nitu yapplayin this generation in this time. So mi kuwangu, mi rei ni kiyanzas turizangu, kumpraniya mbei chi zia apua la. Una una kama e zini. Na samanga in this life never say never. Yum, nezakonakiburi fula ri ni amu atei sita yo wa, alafu kisho, e napata nanada love of my life. Uko naisu plans bai bia? Nan Na na ma ma na niki na n game niya jo ja nalizi tu na unadana kuhu o wara Rose you are a finalist you are doing your final year ya ya ya Si ja jikiya deadline Si ku k reveals idja jiku Are you seeing you? Are you seeing Rose married some day maybe? Ya ya rumiko muhasa waza amado What? Rumiko muhasa waza waza I don't know when but I will have a fun So, hajolea kweza jibu wa. Aja jibu wewa. But she's coming to what I want. Yeah, piya, ano hoopaku oney, something like that. Ano hoopaku oney, because at finally, at least you should serve... If it was now the traditional, non-mohan trajectory, you could have had somebody maybe, you've started talking about Nandana kut orphana ma Kosoma Nanda Nandana Nyunkwa purchased We want to live everything for good. We want to be as free as possible. Now from both of you, it is clear that marriage is not in your diary right now, from both of you. And it is the case for the majority of youth in Kenya. Seventy-four percent of youth in the university now on our Gopa story and marriage, on our Gopa, like our Fikiri and both males, especially males, both janaimene, and especially males are not talking about it, our fatherly ladies are about sixty-four percent. So, why do you think youths fear marriage while it's an institution that was instituted by God and people get children and everything out of the marriage? To begin with, when you visualize the society that we are living in, about fifty percent of the marriages are leading to divorce. And that's why most of the people sit down and question the institution of marriage. You find that when most of the people who are ready in marriage are not enjoying it, then you ask yourself then why should you get in there when there's nothing to be happy about in it. So people just get what they want. That's why you find there are more single mothers and people who are doing parenting as a soul, as a person. Can we get personal with you? Why do youth, what reservations do you have about marriage? You ask, Rose. My fears about marriage, first of all, is to fall out in love with the person I'm married to. There's that possibility. There's a possibility because, casually, I've been loving people, but then I change. I'm loving them. I'm loving them as time goes by and I no longer love them. So it's you who has been causing this problem? So for a partner, I will not want it to get to that extent where I have unloved them or I no longer love them. And then you have kids with them, you have kids with him, you are legally married in church, and then you have unloved them. We will see how to sort this problem. That's why you think this problem is rampant. Why don't people want to get married? I won't put it on one reason. I will say that there are reasons for this. There are people who know themselves and they know what marriage works on principles. And they want to understand what the principles are required and how they can fulfill those principles. Kuna wale, when you are on a commitment, kuna wale wa mauna biliwa zaziwa wa mika wa taki wa maisha. So there is a lot of reasoning behind why the youth in general fear marriage. But I feel the most important should be wherever kujijua as a man. So kujijua na wale, what is required of you in this life and this society and then would you put in the aspect of marriage wale, can I fulfill what this woman wants, what this family requires of me and what is such a tu niye kituwekitu onside of kule ni kwa tabi ambaya. Ya ni kwa channel one news up on it. It's normal. I think in that process we can come back to us. He's talking about mtu labda ajiile wii. Tulabda bado ajiile wii. What do I need in life? So yondi na fanya, ago pe ku olewa. Don't you think kulewa wii uji amata ampia directions aside in life? Ampia direction ambaya. Sa sa iwi ni onataka to fa tahi direction, especially you ladies. One thing is when two people are together in the union of marriage and have signed that legal contracts have been united and they have united your life. Still these people are different and complete persons. So as a person for you to become the other person's best news or the other person's best person you need to have known yourself so that there's no baggage of me in marriage. No, I'm trying to learn myself. And I realize that I'm not the best person for you or you're not the best person for me. That's why there's an urge to prepare yourself. Yes, my friend at 23 got married. What are the experiences? Do they have good news to bring home? At the moment, it's still her first year in marriage. Everything is still very blissful. Everything is blissful. Do you admire that life now? No, I don't. Her life? I don't. But she's bringing back good news. She's bringing back good news. There's another person who's bringing bad news. I don't have one. So it's becoming complicated. Muchi, now you can finish for us your story about why you think people fear marriage. Reasons me more bro, ju. Ni kipige usabu. Ni konabuwezu palimta ani. Kichuwa ke foka zia ke nambawa ni jatoka ziko zi streets. So na yende kwa love liya jatoka kwa zi streets. Ana mi pango kupata day 1, 2, 3. And then there's a aspect piya kupendwa. So na yende kwa moku kupendwa. Nama day moku kunjwa moku kupendwa tukoku kumareji tukuskoku kumareji. So if you're getting the love na ujao lewa konini asa u go through the whole process ya ko lewa. I think this is why God doesn't want people to get into intimate relationship before marriage. Sababuwe wanao nge vitu wakumarewa nao nge and you're still not married so you're staying for very long. I agree with that point of view. It makes a lot of sense but baduk ya nga liya the life you're living right now. How many people do you know alkuwa vajinsa kenda ko lewa? Ata wanyu wako married api wako wano. Na vajinit iskwizi ni tricky especially kwa wanao me. How many people do you think are vajins by the time they get to me to graduate? Especially men? Do you think they are men? Men are very very few. How do you know? Laikirani gesuak na pidiya ebu pidiya gesuak na vajin men at the time they graduate from the university. We juajem to university. You're a very valid point of view because what you say is juaju me na ibez on stories ni me skia. Na wano moengi wuji chawacha ni me fana ni me fana na at the end of the day aji end up kufana ni niti. Una nipata. But baduk piya kuna aspectia wuna nga liya. Una juu na mbyongo usani ni kiyo chajami. The music we sing, the content we produce everything that we do is a reflection of who we are. And the content that is there right now ni chape kitu, tufani kitu, there is so much on that that jari boku get the data of when you are mefana na ni wei ni wei ni bero. Muchi before we get off you would you encourage people to get married? Kuna di juu? When they become of right age. Marage kuna aspectia ni ya security na growth that I come with this other life. Kwa sebabu the moment you identify the person who is meant for you na ukawilinku akumodit their wrongs and their rights na kusham jua nuna jua isafari kutua take pamaoja ikweniku baikweniku zuri. So the moment you identify that and you are willing to take that journey that's I believe that's one of the best journeys you can pursue in life kwa sebabu. I know of people like my grandfathers, my uncles, my aunts who have been happily married for years na as much as kuna challenges 1, 2, 3 wama survive through the storm na ako sayi bado me shkan hamkona over 50 years over 60 years of marriage but bado tu miata mi mone home like I like kwe to my mum and dad kwa that's close at the end of my dad passed like a few months ago yes in peace manze. But chasa ye kuh achana ilifana ni yone aspect inginia marriage juu because they are both Christians so kuna certain principles in marriage kama uta fulfil juu marriage na kama na submission na kama na responsibilities for both genders so to spoiler what these responsibilities are before the marriage begin kwa ija ni etu itza eda mojoto tachaka ama munginata kwa na side kende over the board muna tata fulfil the responsibilities that zina faku fulfil yua so the moment you understand yourself and you know what you want in this life nopatem sa na je lewa na na jwa kenyanata ka you merge and decide to work together you agree that marriage is a beautiful thing if it's done, if it's working we want to get the view of hala and I do think people should get married when they get the right age and all that people should get married one person who believes in love as a beautiful concept and love is the foundation of marriage so I would encourage people to get marriage people to love each other people to grow together and before they get into marriage to avoid people breaking up in the first year of marriage or the marriage not ending up working well I think people should first understand themselves they should go through a journey of self realisation which is very vital loving yourself understanding who God says you are establishing a relationship with God before you invite the other party now to be able to give them the best now we are on the same page we agree that marriage is good marriage is beautiful but now there is a problem people fear it and I got some from my research I got some reasons why people fear marriage and on the top of the list is economics people are crying people are crying people are crying people are crying people are crying to bring up a family and all that I want your suggestion on how we can solve this don't you think who atum tu mene pia na fanya kazi yama wola yama wola yama wola aspektu ya nina niju mika mabuiz niza kwa nada iwa ifa kukatu kejani atia kifika nia me oshavi yama nia me fanya nina kusde ya kuna presyama kwa kejani kule wa toi yonda shugulia kusende hasul na badu pimi ya zaman niza kwa nada iwa nambishi ya zuma na woman monya na jijua na kuna goals na kuna visions na kuna bituna takaku wachivi na life so say the economics na come through in the aspect of me kama nada iwa ifa kejani pimi ni kwa willing kufani everything that is there to be record nia, mi kumua kakejani nisi kujekumule tia lawa maya ati yo, liwa kuna rent liwa kuna nini nisi nile moa kakejani pimi ni bebe mziga willing liwa moa kwebe na moment before we say in that marriage contract we decide what kind of life do you want to live 20 kusimisha 1, 2, 3 are we living that life right now? so what do we do to move from this life to that life? what role will you play what role will I play? nia iskua tini mi misina do ya kulea familiar nadi pata we have decided to do this bebe mziga willing liwa moa kube kube ros shida ni kwenyo ni nini watu wana wana kwa pakuawa because you will be like a burden and you know you are a multiplying burden you are not just a burden on your own you are a burden when you want to pay money so how to pay on kwa burden how do you think this can be solved? okay let me start here from my view I don't think the issue is the issue has become economy because people have entered into accidental marriages most of the people have not gotten ready to get into marriage they have slided into marriage they have found themselves in an institution that is not even legally bind because come we stay has been very rampant in the society that you are living in for moving with your boyfriend you act married get children not all marriages start with will you marry me zingina zina wana babama ni ambi ni rudi panyan blila you see that way it will come has not prepared and is not probably economic has no financial security or economic at least stable bringing up such a marriage issues of burdening the other person become a burden because they don't have a job now comes in so the only way to solve that is when people will get ready for this thing before getting in let's avoid the accidental marriages let's avoid just sliding into things because of accidental marriages may be members of the family because zingina wana parents zingina wana rudi kwa baba umtoto wende kwa baba umtoto bablabda ni student who doesn't have anything so the best way is to avoid doing vituzadals before you are married sexual relations are preserved for so if you are not married you are abstained is that practical muchi it is if you are a principal person in the sense of you understand there is self discipline and there is control and you are able to exercise that but just say are you encouraging people to use contraceptives the original name of contraceptives are family planning what family are you planning are you going to have a family I am planning a family I am planning a kwa kula kitu be prepared kwa kula raw kuna wuzazi na come through naio kuna magunju na come through naio to every action there is a reaction so to kia mwa kuteku this line of kuna kula kitu kuna follow kwa kula kwa family planning kwa kuna kwa contraceptives and doing everything that is required kia mimi maisha ita ni pata na mstuku ati kifanika it's in one of those rare cases kia iliband but for most for the majority of the data that is there people who use family planning and contraceptives their rate of kupata magunju na kupata maimba is lower than for people who are doing it consistently on a raw basis so to go back on your question is it practical kuhishi on abstinence ni tumimu kupu glorify na kupresi ni ninawa life kama kila si kwa subu kia muka ni gengetun nga maza wasupu na nini na nini during the day ni wasupu uta kuna saka ni kitu uta kuna taftabil uta so kia mwa ni this kind of nadani we react to this life kablaku live villi na faku ishi juna ju kia muka na una konsium kenye tui me kuja uta kua tu kenyume jipatia kia mkua mue ksiku ya nuna control kenye na feed kwa tumbo kwa kichua kwa kila kitu ni mi na muna ni nina ingia uta za control kenye una takap control na ninawa da kwa piliatia jini na nana hogo kona naka isi Kwa wangaya n river kwa muka ni piliata na kuja kwa kwa piliata naka hini ngingo na kia maha n거ki komiliata is bad experience from former marriages. Like you look, people who have broken up, you remember the machakos thing that happened to me? Oh, yeah, yeah. You remember those things? So what went on? Ni kama wa kia commited to marriage, then left them to attack the treaty. But all you saw, you were Jirani being beaten. I really condemn gender-based violence and domestic violence. They should not be there. But there are people who fear marriage because they saw somebody being mistreated. So they end up misti tawalewa kama hindwa life. Oh, some people are even experiencing them from their own parents. Me, the parents fight. So you say, kama hivindi ondawa iko, then mimi siyoni ni kia lewa. Now, nambu wu sayi diem to kama wu you start with euros. Mitu kama wu yu mwenya na se ma, mimi fituni meona kwa weniwa na oana, mimi ita kwa hivi. Onaza, sayi diem mitu kama wu yu haji. Kwanza kabisa, this thing, for example, let's talk of parents. You have witnessed the marriage of your parents, your dad and your mom not moving on smoothly. It is not something that is ideal for you. You have developed what you call childhood emotional bridges which have made you so transactional and goal-oriented because probably your parents were so tough on you and so strict on you. And therefore you are someone who is more project and goal-oriented than someone who can raise and become a relationship person. For example, most of the youth view relationships as projects. They want it to be a goal. Once achieved, they want to move to the next. That has made them not to stay together in marriage for too long. For example, when I get married at 23 and I'm supposed to stay for 80 years, that is 57 years in marriage and I'm a transactional person because I have not dealt with myself before getting into marriage. Therefore I'm being affected with the emotional bridges that I had as a child growing up. This will make me, by the time the 2nd or the 3rd year ends or the 7th year, I want now this project to come to an end and move on to the next thing. Nashanga kwenia ishi. Because I'm one person ishisha, I want to go to the next thing. So marriage is too long for me to survive. 57 years are too much for me to survive. That is another, in fact it was the third. To the third point, people fear committed, long-term commitment. But let's get to Muchi first. I can combine both your commitments in the aspect of marriage. We come to Mepandana. We acknowledge that we are changing human beings each and every single day we wake up. So let's move on. Kila siku msi ana mka, ana mka either greater than he was or more lesser than he was yesterday depending on who he is or who she is. So work will allow you to fold your way. Kama msi ana change kila siku. Kuna siku ana change, aachekua ulemsi mojini lipa tanana naya 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 15 years ago. So the real question is, am I willing to bear with this person as a change? Nami apu sanen kuna beef na marriage. The church na Christianity mekani marriage till death do us part. Yes, that is devout. But if I go, marriage ni na faku ani tupenda nia dimo jitu acho? Acho, okay. Ju, let me explain where I'm coming from. I believe marriage is a source of peace, source of growth, source of happiness for us. We are being combined to be one person. So for us to be one person, last ma kukua na aspectia communication nia. I want to do everything about me and I want to do everything about you. Nde yo, tuki kuja kusimama mahali as one, akuna kitu tasuki akutokanze ikusitu ekuni husu. Nami akuna kitu tasuki ekuni husu, because we've come together as one people. Bacha sa tumikuja pamoja. Mimi ni me change. Kuna say we live in a world where we are the first generation who consume information this first. Ukiangalia in previous society, gaziati marua pigiwa drum, mara moshi, like, information will come to take time before you begin to say it. Say we are consuming a lot to a point of, adi, see when you as Kenyans, ningu musana kujuwasi ni nani. When you are a religion, when you are Islam or when you are a Christ, when you are Kabilaiaa, when you are Kikui, when you are Jaluu, when you are Nani. Are you a Kenyan, like the nation in itself? Like, there's so many things that influence who you are, desi ni kusimama na kitu moja kusema. I am this, nami mi nimesma mi ahi, unaparatumichi kuwa a little bit of something from all over the place. Nuki look back on our culture, desi ni, like, the African people, marriage was the concept of the man was the head, nangiyamu kwa nama bibimbao, anezwa kulisha oote, anezwa patiya chakula oote na oto toa ke. Patiya ni ma bibibili anada, anada ii. You want to be a kukudanja, the next kukudanja. Una nipata. Bacha sa sayi marriage bili me kami, one man, one woman. I want to problematize what you, you stand for, like, adi moja wei tuwa choka. Moja kichoka na moja badoa na penda utas idea na. Chasa, are you willing, so liyanguni, are you willing kwa mzigu in that marriage desi niya? Umseki lasi kwa na kama nani tuwsi, analala na wasi wengine, anipati ye shima, anipendi, in the name of kwa sababu marriage lii se matili death doers part. Do you believe in love? I believe in love, but... Ya, somebody can love somebody. Only Christ will love us eternally. Mtu mungi na na kumpe te love you till I die. Like, yu akuna mungu dani ake. Bro, what is your take about this new concept which is bringing up at you get married till one of us gets tired? I don't think it's an ideal thing, but it is the realest. It is what it is. Because when I'm most needy in a relationship and I'm the one who loves you more and probably you have and loved me after a while, then there's no need for me to keep in there when there's no peace, there's no love. All those foundations of the marriage and along are there. But don't you think it is selfish to only think about your feelings? You don't feel that. You don't take into account the feelings of the other person. Like, you decide that you no longer want me. Let's take the case for... I really need to use the case for Alfred Muto and that other lady. Humans of violence. The lady looked like she wanted to be out of that marriage but the governor looked like he really wanted to stay. Even I feel na kusadia. To an extent that you saw that lady at his birthday party yesterday when he was turning 51, the lady was there. In fact, lady Nialim Lechakek and Fanya Izozote. So that friendship remained because this man feels like we... I still love you. You don't need to go. And then you've decided that because I'm a choka, I can't move out. Why don't you take into consideration the feelings of this other man? I'm taking it into consideration because Nimej Yuliza kwa ni ni ni kutiasi. Mi skupendi, skufil, na filubra de mungine. Maisha angwe kwa kwa kwa umu mungine. So kwa ni ni ni nendeleishi a life at in duty. Mekano we had a good happy marriage at when we overcame the storm. Na the storm ime last more than the marriage itself. I make sense kwa angwe ya marriage is peace, marriage is love, marriage is happiness. Kama yoko kwa yo marriage ne maisha. Buddha, tembea, where tembea? Life ni kubua. Kwa ni ni tujpati oppression habila life is heavy. And that's why it's important to love someone who you are compatible with. Someone who will understand you day in, day out and will seek to learn you each day so that kitu about you is kujika mboing there event of marriage. Uno na. Kama mku in a relationship amain marriage mume fika the seventh year na realize hey, there's something about this man or there's something about this woman that I don't like. You should at least get married or marry someone who is ready to seek to learn you day in, day out. Someone who is ready to learn who you are and who you are not. Before we get to kwa yosu, to add on that if we stick together and we are having problems in our marriage, remember the children who are there. Demana sisi kama wa toi nungumu sana kukonsida marriage as the first thing in our lives. Kwa ni ni tunanga liya vile aso engino ame kwa kiiishi. So kama tuna picture, e maisha aso ame kwa kiiishi ndi ame isi na ningo je in marriage, why the hell should I do it? Kura ni pata. So kuna aspect here protect your children while ever, marriage is for love. As much as the tough times may come, yes may come to machine doku zi handle. So how do we approach that? We peacefully agree here we'll do this in a convenient legal way whatabaki na mani, sisi tu tabaki na mani na maisha ita ndi liya. So say aspect itungo je adi today bro, tuna lahani wa tuni maisha. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Okay. Point number four is freedom. It's like people want to be free. They say that in pengula maisha that ring is like a lifetime handkerf that is making you you can see you have one. I know that one is just anonymous. anonymous. But people want to be free like if you're married especially ladies if you're married to somebody then that person will be controlling your life the whole. In fact even men will be controlling your life the whole of your life and this is why people feel married. They want to be going out when they want coming back when they want. Eat what they want at any time they want to do what they want. You only see them poil bro chana na marriage marriage you have that line of thinking because marriage is based on principles and philosophies na principally marriage me and you are coming together to be one. So come on me you're not coming together to be free. Yeah. So come on your life is my life and your life my life is your life. Come on I'm not willing for that aspect that you're not free at any kujibile na taka nifalibili na taka. That's what majority of ladies who are back on the research including yours. So unambieros pierce your life so come on na taka usiyo so that you're free will you go away pekiako wuku ingiange senyuna taka wuku jese senyuna taka wufanyiwi wuku lese senyuna taka but aspecti amarijini last ma I be considerate of the other person. Yes I want to do one two three but we are together in this. Beb wunana tifanya the story. The elephant in the room mochi is that this is why if you are married. So how can you advise them what can you tell them? Bro sayo last matu wunana jupiri inakaya. So when you want to pop up because of that reason wacharenana. Wacharenana. So bro maybe na sayema he who finds a good who finds a wife has found a good thing. Yes. So ni ulemoni anapata sayo last mu upata ulemoni ame pata bibi ame pata kitumzuri. Bro sayo opinion on this on this freedom thing. First freedom to me is something that is very fundamental. Yes. Because I have learned that marriage is confining in a way because there are no more individualizations and this is the reason as to why people in marriage have ended up not loving the entire thing. You are a party a party man I am a church girl you want to go to your friends I want to take you with me to maini for prayers I want to take you to a drunk Yes. You not for that idea so you end up feeling I end up feeling confined because there is no freedom this other person wants me to do this and this is what I want to do. So that's what people fear most. You have your friends your partner does not like those friends so you are not free to to catch up with those friends you have now to leave them because of your partner So what I would advise freedom is in you I want to take you if you are a party girl after a party girl you want me to do it I want you to do it you want me to do it I want you to do it Rose we are still on you say partings our time is really much spent say partings on those who still fear marriage because of these four reasons we have noted down would you tell them to just still keep off as much you would say Maybe I would not advise people to keep off to keep off marriage because of any reason because of any reason I would not advise anyone to keep off marriage I would advise people to just work on being vocal about the things they want around their parts I would advise people to be much freer with each other to talk about any stupid thing any stupid decision to table everything that way they get to understand each other and when they understand each other it becomes a smooth line for them Mucha this is your camera my parting shot my parting shot so dayakajen dayakaje sasa nadai kwa simple na impactful this is your life allow in this life kuna principles that is your marriage pekiyake in everything that you do kuna principles so ni kwa allow am I willing to take the necessary cost to partake kama ni kuli vas a single man kula kuli vas a single man inakama na gara makada but the most important thing ni your peace your happiness and your growth so marriage apart from nge ni kama nlazima kijana sio lasmo usieko operation and society at you it's a good thing kumunyana parta but sio lazima na kwa hayoma chachi I go by the name El Muchi Muchi make sure many follow me follow on twitter Instagram social media zote at El Muchi Muchi shukram marriage was an institution that was instituted by God himself so Muchi should not deceive you to keep off keep off marriage it's beautiful it's a beautiful things we have all agreed that it is a beautiful thing so if you can do it and you know we learned the other time that love is a principle it's not a feeling so it should not be like fixed by feeling that when I feel in love when I feel out of love what the principle that I'm going to get married whether in love or not whether in season or not stay there so it's been good having you this is white 54 keep on the conversation is going on on our social media platform at white 54 till we meet on Wednesday and I think tomorrow there are also programs that are still going on now but for why in the morning let's meet tomorrow Wednesday and every other weekday my name is Tilsankaraka Esu salute