 My husband helps me out a lot, especially with the kids being that I go to school at any time, so he does help out a lot. He cooks some days, some days I cook, but we do like cooking meals. He's really not a, you know, just comes back. It's just choices that you make. You just have to weigh your options. Is it really worth it? Do I really need it, that band? Am I at a place in my life where this is my only option? Can I, can I put up with this? Can I make this happen with everything that I have to do in my daily life? Can I fit it all together? Can I focus on my kids? Are my kids still going to be in my own house? Get me the opportunity to get there. You know, what resource I need to take to get there. Or whatever, because I'm willing to do it. I'm just, that's just what I want. My message will be to maybe not Jewish, because I think a lot of them are Jewish. If you do that, I don't know if they'll come or see you in a city school or whatever it may be. I think not just on Jewish, because it's just a different situation. You don't know what it's like to have been through to be in this situation. It's good to be in a school for a few months to work. It'll be part of the solution. These women consistently show up for other people in their jobs and families in Jackson, Mississippi. All people get public assistance, including the wealthy. So why are only those programs designed for people in poverty so punitive, paternalistic and unduly complex? Our work aims to reveal the true narratives about these families and explore a new approach to policymaking that gives voice and power to the families that policy is intended to serve. Join us.