 Oh boy, you're a recent cheater. Okay, did UJ actually have a point here? Is once a cheater, always a cheater, true? Studies have found that while it is true that past cheaters are about three times more likely to cheat, the majority of them don't. The biggest factor in determining whether someone won't cheat again is having high relational self-awareness, which involves evaluating your past behavior, taking accountability, and learning from it. Low RSA behaviors include blaming your ex and shaming yourself. But let's be honest, we're still rooting for these two.