 Let's say you're a significant other whether you're a married and in a long-term relationship a Situation ship whatever it is. They're not treating you right Well, guess what you've allowed it to happen You haven't set the correct boundaries or if you have you haven't enforced them So they continue to treat you in a specific way, you know You can sit there all day and say well He treats me bad or she does this or he always does that But they wouldn't if you wouldn't let them