 Question, how do I unattach from a man who's a spender and I want more? Has anyone ever seen the listen to the Arianne and Grande song next? Listen, folks, I don't understand why detaching from someone is so difficult. You literally send the message saying, thank you for your time. I'm moving on to another relationship. Now that's not easy when we are attached to a person. Yes, I get that. When we're chemically attached, when we're emotionally attached. This is why I read the book attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, so you can understand attachment styles. But the best way is called turkey. When I say the best way, that's the hardest way, but it's still the best way. Block the person and the relationship. Move on. Block the person.