 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم والصلاة والسلام على سيدنا ونبينا محمد وعلى آلية وصحبي وسلم والصلاة والسلام عليك يا سيدنا يا رسول الله يا ربنا لك الحمد كما ينبغي لجلال وجهك وعظيم سلطانك اللهم افتح علينا فتوحة العارفين اللهم مع اللبنة ما ينفعنا وانفعنا بما علمتنا يا أرحم الراحمين اليوم إن شاء الله سوف نتحدث عن أبناء كامبانينا دورة بنتو أبي لهب ومساعدة كامبانينا زيد بن الخطاب رضي الله عنهما وارضاهما لذا سأسأل لك هل لديك ever heard of the great companion دورة بنتو أبي لهب أبناء الله بقلت معها حسنا دعني أخبرك بعض الأسئلة ونحن لديك بعض الأسئلة من حياة دورة رضي الله عنها ها هي أبناء المسجر من الله صلى الله عليه وسلم أبناءها هو أبو لهب أبي والأبناء الأسئلة من محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم لذا نعرف أن الله سبحانه و تعالى يتعلم عن سورة المسد يتحدث عن أبو لهب ونبدأ مع هل أبو لهب يرونت و يرونت و يرونت هل هو تبت يدى أبي لهب و تب لذا this is her father أمو جميل is the carrier of the firewood on the day of judgment and she herself will add the fuel to the fire that will burn her husband أبو لهب and of course she will have her special on severe punishment و أمرأته حمالة الحطب في جيدها حبل من مسد his wife أبو لهب's wife is مجميل and she is going to to carry the firewood to flame the fire for أبو لهب and she will have she herself will have a cord of fire around her neck they were both the worst enemies of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم دورة's brothers are عطب عطب أبنو أبي لهب عطيب أبنو أبي لهب and معتب إبنو أبي لهب so with this family yet we love دورة so much and today more than 1400 years past after her death we say رضي الله عنها may Allah be pleased with her so her being the daughter of أبو لهب and أم جميل but does not detract from her value at all because Allah و تعالى made it very clear in the Holy Quran when he revealed ayah 15 of صورة الإسراء من يهتد فإنما يهتدي لنفسه و من ضل فإنما يضلوا عليها ولا تزيروا أزيرة و إزراء أخرى whoever is guided is only guided for the benefit of his soul and whoever ارس only errs against it and no bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another so each and every soul will be accountable for its own deeds no one no one is responsible for the action of any other person unless of course he's the one who urged people to do bad so this is the only case that people will be responsible for that so Allah سبحانه و تعالى has chosen and her two brothers and guided them he guided them to the light of Islam and her conversion to Islam and her escape from her father and mother and her running away to God and to his messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم was impressive and it was very surprising so Dura may Allah be pleased with her challenge her family for Islam she announced the word of monotheism she converted to Islam and became a good Muslim and one of the female companions of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم before Islam Dura had married الحارس ابن نوفا لبن عبد المطرب and she had three sons with him عقبة والوليد أبو مسلم but الحارس never became a Muslim and he was against سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he was with Quraysh when they fought the battle of Badr and he was killed during the battle of Badr الله سبحانه وتعالى of course would reward دورة during her life so he he made the great companion دحي الكلبي proposed for her so دحي الكلبي was one of the most beautiful handsome and good looking people to the extent that جبريل عليه السلام sometimes descended from the sky in the image and form of دحي الكلبي so what an honor did دورة receive marrying this companion of رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم one day some woman said to دورة من تأبي لها you are the daughter of أبو لها you are the daughter of أبو لها in whom Allah says may the hands of أبو لها be ruined and ruined is he so what does your immigration to Medina what does this immigration do for you but masha Allah دورة was as we mentioned a very respectful woman she she practiced the best of morals and she did not argue with them she did not argue with them and this is the first lesson we have in this in the story of دورة if you know that you cannot convince people of your point of view do not argue so she went to say محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she told him what happened and we صلى الله عليه وسلم said to her sit down and wait and it was the time for صلى الله عليه وسلم so the messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم let the people in the prayer then he sat on the pulpit and he said oh people مابال أقوام يؤذونني في نسبي وفي ذوي رحمي what is it that some people harm me in my lineage and in my kinship ومن آذى نسبي وذوي رحمي فقد آذاني whoever harms my relatives has harmed me ومن آذاني فقد آذ الله and whoever harms me has harmed Allah لا يوزى حيوم بميت the living person is not harmed by the dead ولا تزيروازيرة وزراخرة and no bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another so what a great religion is God which commands justice and enforces it no one is accountable for the deeds of another one we have to remember that on the day of judgment we are going to stand before الله سبحانه وتعالى who will ask us who will talk to us about what we did in this dunya show us what to do now in this dunya to be saved later he said take account of yourselves before you are called to account وزينوا أعمالكم قبل أن تزن لكم weigh your deeds before they are weighed for you فاليوم عملون بلا حساب today there is work there is no account وغدا حساب بلا عمل but tomorrow there is an account without any work so get yourself prepared we still have a chance to do our best before we die hence once we are dead then it is the end of deeds so every day before you feel asleep take a moment think of what you did during the day recognize your deeds when you do this and you find some deeds that you do not like you still have a chance to fix them if they are towards people then return the rights of people if they are towards Allah سبحانه وتعالى then repent to Allah سبحانه وتعالى and ask his forgiveness so get prepared for the long journey the journey that once starts because no one no one will be able to stop and get any extra provision it's a long journey we need a lot of good deeds to help us through this journey prepare yourself for the greatest inquisition and remember that the reckoning of the day of judgment is light only for those who reckon themselves in this dunya think of your actions think of your deeds think of your words during the day you still have a chance to fix everything do not lose this chance the people in the grave would would wish to go back to dinya to fix some problems that they have made to heal some wounds that they have said with their words so ask Allah سبحانه وتعالى for his guidance and protection asking for guidance for yourself asking for guidance for your spouses for your children for your offspring and do not forget to make dua for the whole ummah when you say when you say when you say when you make dua when you take the reward for yourself and for all the Muslims that you made dua for and when you make dua for the ummah of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم you will please uh... ا Гос the lesson we learnt from Durrath is that always remember that the environment around us should not prevent us from practical teachings about religion لن يكون لديهم أكثر than those of دورا دورا كان يقوم بشكل أكثر من الناس أبوها أبوها أبوها أبوها أبو جميل أبوها أبوها أبوها أبوها أبوها yet she did not care about them all she left them all to follow سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم how strong her faith was so be strong be strong in your bond with Allah سبحانه وتعالى strive to gain the rewards in the day after this is what we should be focusing on the day after during this life we will have a lot of tests because it's a life where there is no rest if we are happy and everything is okay and everything is good in this life so how are we going to enjoy the tranquility of the day after Allah is testing us all in this dunya and these tests can be to elevate you can be to get you more good deeds or they can be a punishment for something that you did and you know it's wrong and you are keeping doing it so when you have a problem just think about it what is it that Allah سبحانه وتعالى wants me from me in this problem so strive to gain the rewards in the day after and hold fast to your religion Allah سبحانه وتعالى has promised that he will never waste whoever adheres to his remission so always remember to be with Allah سبحانه وتعالى during the time of prosperity so he will be with you during the time of adversity so for those who say we cannot practice our religion because our spouses do not allow us because our bus at work does not allow us because we are afraid to lose our positions so do not blame anyone do not blame anyone but blame yourself if you are away from Allah blame yourself and only yourself as ya رضي الله عنه was among the women who were mentioned in the Holy Quran she was the wife of the worst person on earth فراو yet she was righteous and we all heard Allah سبحانه وتعالى we all read ayah 11 of surah التحريم when Allah سبحانه وتعالى says وضرب الله مثل للذين آمن امرأة فرعونة اذ قالت رب ابنلي عندك بيتا في الجنة ونجني من فرعونة وعمله ونجني من القوم الظالمين and Allah presents an example for those who believed the wife of Pharaoh when she said my lord build for me a house in paradise and save me from فراو and his deeds and save me from the wrong doing people so the secret to this high belief is the great trust in Allah سبحانه وتعالى that he is the helper he is the saver he is the giver so if you want something ask Allah سبحانه وتعالى for it talk to Allah سبحانه وتعالى this is what Duraa has done Duraa asked Allah سبحانه وتعالى to help her to save her from her father and family so she became one of the companions of Rasulullah صلى الله عليه وسلم so do not say I cannot pray during the office hours why not is working for this vanishing dunya better than the life after never never favor any dunya over Allah سبحانه وتعالى never favor anything over the orders of Allah سبحانه وتعالى and remember whenever you leave anything of this dunya for Allah's sake to follow his orders then Allah سبحانه وتعالى will highly reward you and if you don't see the reward then he will save it for you till the day after another good lesson that we benefit from Duraa is seeking knowledge during Duraa's lifetime her relationship with the mother of believers was so strong she used to visit her so often just to get the knowledge to get the wisdom from her and she wanted to learn about the jurisprudence of Islam and the lesson here is that we should always seek knowledge knowledge takes a person from darkness to light knowledge is an ocean and the more we learn the more we realize that there is a lot there is a lot more that we have to learn we realize how ignorant we are we become more aware of time we realize how valuable time is and we remember that we have just a short time to live we have to take advantage of every second of our life so don't waste your time use it for the benefit that you can get to please Allah سبحانه وتعالى use your time wisely learn and when you learn you have to choose what to learn and I started with the دعاء اللهم علمنا ما ينفعنا ونفعنا بمعلمتنا يا الله teach us what benefits us and benefit us from what we learn so Duraa may Allah be pleased with her was one of the great female companions of Sayyidina Muhammad she died in the 20th year of Hijrah that was during the caliphate of رضي الله معنى a life full of wisdom a life full of experience a life full of lessons that we can learn from we move insha'Allah to our male companion who is سيدنا زيد بن الخطاب does this name ring any bell for you yes he is the brother of sayyidنا همر بن الخطاب we all know sayyidنا همر بن الخطاب and we know how close sayyidna hmar was to sayyidna muhmad during the during the during the gatherings sayyidna abu bakr would be to the left of sayyidna muhmad sayyidna hamar will be to the right of sayyidna muhmad this is how close sayyidna hamar was to sayyidna muhmad so who is Zaid who is his brother زيد was a great companion who had love amazing love to sayidina محمل صلى الله عليه وسلم and he determined to give victory to Islam. he determined to work hard for Islam. he was so eager to get Shahada to be a murder for the sake of Allah سبحانه وتعالى he was a strong character he was like his brother but he became a Muslim before sayidina عمر رضي الله عنه so he preceded sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and also he preceded him to jannah he was older than sayidina عمر and his nickname was أبو عبد الرحمن so sayid رضي الله عنه became a Muslim earlier early with his sister فاتمة رضي الله عنه but sayidina عمر was a little late he was of the first people to be with sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he he lived the incidents of Mecca everything in Mecca and everything in Medina he was always with sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he witnessed all the battles and he was so close to sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so on the day of Badr of the battle of Badr sayidina عمر told him hey this is my shield just wear it and he looked at his brother and he said look عمر I want to be a murderer for the sake of Allah the same way you want to be so both of them fought without it and they were always at the beginning they were always at the front of the army and they were always fighting so bravely for the sake of Allah so he witnessed the battles with sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم after the death of sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم many people apostatized from Islam they left Islam and there was the battle of yamaama and it was the corner point were to separate Islam from those who went away from Islam the battle was under the leadership of Khalid bin Walid he was the leader of the Muslims and those who were who apostatized from Islam were under the leader of مسيلة ملكزاب and he was another his helper was الرجال ابن عمث واقل so what is the story of this person الرجال الرجال was a person who came from بني حليفة صلى الله عليه وسلم and he adhered to Islam he converted to Islam so when he came back to بني حليفة sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم died at that time so when he came they found them against Islam so he apostatized and he turned away from Islam so Zaid was so eager to kill him during this battle and you know the battle happened immediately after the death of sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and the Muslims were so hurt and so sad for the passing of محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم they wanted Islam to be above all so they decided that during this battle those group of people would be killed مسئلة ملكة ساب will be killed so when that person so when الرجال was against the Muslims again he was telling them that sayidina محمد that محمد was saying that مسئلة is the partner of محمد in this call so he made مسئلة a prophet as per the words of Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم was lying against that so the battle was so severe and those they fought so fiercely they wanted to get dunya they wanted to appoint themselves as the leaders they wanted to destroy Islam they wanted to finish Islam and they wanted to be the leaders so this was their intention for fighting for going into this fight for going into this battle and the Muslims were killed right and left so many Muslims died in that battle so when they the army saw that there are so many Muslims dying they were scared and they could not resist this huge army that they are fighting so they saw what happened and he was screaming there is there is no one to leave the battle no one should run away يا رسول الله I am sorry that my companions have left the battle and have run away and I determined that what Musailama is claiming is false and we want to end this and he urged the Muslims he urged the Muslims and he was going right into the lines of the army of the non-Muslims he was looking for a Rajan who was the origin of this fitna helping Musailama so what he did he he saw him and he went immediately to him and until he killed him so now Musailama so that his partner died he wasn't as brave as him and he felt that there is something wrong and the Muslims started to get stronger again they started to gather again and they destroyed the whole army with this with this companion with Zaid and his eagerness to the victory of Islam to give victory to Islam and his promise to Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم that he is going to do his best for the sake of Allah for the sake of the Muslims for the sake of Islam and he did it so imagine imagine yourself promising Allah سبحانه و تعالى to do something for his sake and only for his sake not for dunya not for people to say that oh look at this person he is doing so on so masha Allah this is a very righteous person masha Allah this person is always in the masjid masha Allah this person is so on you promise Allah سبحانه و تعالى that you will all your deeds will be pure for him only for the sake of Allah only and not for anything else Zaid promised Allah سبحانه و تعالى that he will do all his best to be a murder for the sake of Allah سبحانه و تعالى and he did it after killing الرجال and after this battle important very important battle so the Muslims had victory and it was always a dream and his dream was fulfilled he always dreamt of being a murder of being شهيد for the sake of Allah and it happened at the end of this battle so now there was Zaid was killed at the battle at the end of the battle the battle was victorious Muslims got what they want and the Muslims were again stronger than before after this battle the army came back to Medina victorious the banner of the army was flying so Abu Bakr رضي الله و عن and Zaid عمر for the army to come back and they were waiting for the soldiers to come back but Zaid was not with those who came back Zaid was a murder Zaid عمر was so sad to lose his brother but he was so happy again that his brother was a murder for the sake of Allah سبحانه و تعالى so he said رحم الله و أخي رحم الله و أخي may Allah have mercy on my brother may Allah be merciful with my brother سبقني إلى الحسنين he proceeded me to the two best things أسلم قبلي he became a Muslim before me وستشهد قبلي and he became a murder before me and of course Zaid عمر knew that he would be a murder if you remember once سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم was with سيدنا أبو بكر سيدنا أثنان and سيدنا عمر رضي الله و عن and they were on أحوض موتن and the mountain shook so سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said be firm أحوض عليك نبيهم و صديقهم و شهدان you have the people who are here now are a prophet and truthful person and who was named because he always believed سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم whatever he said and are the two murders سيدنا عمر and so سيدنا عمر رضي الله و عن always remembered his brother and and once he said he said متمم بلون ويرا متمم was a very good Arab poet who spoke so nicely about Zaid he said poetry talking about Zaid and how good he was so he said يرحم الله زيد ابن الخطاب إني لا أحسب أني لو كنت أقدر على أن أقول الشعر لبكيته كما بكيت أخاك so may Allah have mercy on Zaid ابن الخطاب and I wish I will be able to say the شعر this is سيدنا عمر saying to متمم I wish I will be able to say the poetry and I will I will I will be crying سيدنا سو متمم ستهم يا أمير المؤمنين لو قطي لأخي يوم اليمامتي كما قطي لأخوك ما بكيته أبدا أو أمير أمير of the believers إذا كنت أخاك كنت أخاك يوم اليمامة كما قلت لأخاك لأن أعلم where he will be أعلم where his place is أعلم where he is now عمر رضي الله عنه سيد ما عزاني أحد بأحسنة ما عزاني بأحسنة لا one has given me condolences has said nicer words to me than these words you have said so even though سيدنا عمر always remembered سيد رضي الله عنه and he used to say إنصبها لتهب فتأتيني برحي سيدي بن الخطاب when the winds when the winds blow then I feel the breeze of my brother سيد بن الخطاب so with these two examples of today we see the love of the Sahaba to Islam we see the love of the Sahaba to say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and we mentioned earlier in the first session of this series what made the Sahaba these close to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم why did they sacrifice themselves for this religion what made them do what they did so why why did they hasten to follow سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم why did they leave everything behind their families their wealth everything behind to follow سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and what made them going to fight سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and come back with the faith with the strong faith and with strong ايمان it was all the true love of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so love does not does not imply just few words to say love is to implement is to be implemented love is to be shown love is to be proven it's not just few words no when you love someone you follow that person and the more you love him the deeper your relation to him will be and Allah سبحانه وتعالى said in the holy Quran قل إن كنتم تحبون الله فاتبيعوني يحببكم الله ويغفر لكم ضموبكم just say if you love Allah then follow me and Allah will love you and forgive your wrong actions so all our life is to seek forgiveness from Allah سبحانه وتعالى تحبوا من love of the Sahaba that made them leave this dunya and follow سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and of course the best of the example is سيدنا أبو بكر and those companions who were the pioneers to become Muslims وصل الله على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم لك الحمد كما ينبغي لجلال بجهك وعضيم سلطانك وسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته