 Yeah, I mean now things are changing where where what had been Celebrated and encouraged is now getting suppressed and there's nowhere left for men to go You know, they only had the masculine young and now that's out of bounds too. So now what you know It's only like the feminine that is permissible or this kind of wishy-washy in between state this this Degenderized You know Like nothing state where then you have the no polarity with your partner either if they're not allowed to come out in In a healthy way. They come out in a distorted way the the So the masculine young if it is thwarted and contained it will burst out explosively with tremendous damage the feminine in you were talking about the feminine in now, that's not allowed either like your your kind of written off if you want to play with your dollies and want to be nurturing and and You know don't want to be out striving and contending in the world. What's wrong with you? You must Have been suckered by the patriarchy or something like that like so That if that is denied if that impulse is denied and maybe it's more and some and less than others But if it's denied what distorted way does that come out? I Don't know but maybe a clue is that something like one in four or one in five women today in America or on antidepressants so that is like a deep passivity that is you know attempted to medicate it away, but but The The energy will express itself in one way or another It's unstoppable the War against the self Always fails So you get yeah a distorted version of what is denied healthy expression