 Who here really wants to have amazing sex? Raise your hand. Everybody should raise their hand, right? Okay. There's two things you need if you want to have amazing sex with your girlfriend that are essential. And a lot of guys miss this. Matter of fact, it took me a while to even get this down because it was hard at first. The first thing I talked about is the tension skills, right? You got to have tension skills. So, the first thing I do with any girl I'm getting intimate with, I ask her what her fantasies are. I ask her what she wants to experience in life, what she's done. I want to know about her. I want to know what she wants, where she wants to go. And there's an essential key ingredient in doing this. When you do it, you can't judge her for anything she says. You can't make fun of it, you can't mock it because she's going to probably say stuff a little bit at a time, right? Because what happens with women? Society judges women for loving sex. It gives women a hard time. But yet, women are just as sexual as we are. They're beautiful sexual creatures. They're probably more sexual than we are in a lot of ways, right? And so, I had asked this woman once, it was a girl I was dating, and I said, what's your fantasies? And she was a little more open-minded than other women. So, she came really fast with it. And I want to ask you guys, I want you to really take this in. If this was a girl you were dating and you were getting serious with and she said this, I want you to think about what your reaction would be. And I asked her what her fantasies were and she said, well, one of them is I want to fuck five cowboys in the back of a pickup truck in a field. And if you get all nervous and start laughing and start pushing away, right? Which is what a lot of guys will do because it's like, this is a girl I care about and she just told me she wants to fuck five guys and you see what I mean? What's going to happen there? How much longer is she going to trust you with her fantasies? Now, I'm not saying you have to do it, okay? I'm not saying you have to go do this, but you can't judge her for it. You can't make her wrong for it. So, the right answer is really take that in, feel it and say thank you. That's beautiful. Don't tease her, don't laugh. Otherwise, she's, you know, she's not going to open up and tell you more things later. That's what you want. You want her to feel completely safe sharing every fantasy with you. And you don't ever want to judge her for any other. So, you can set her free to feel comfortable with you. Number two, to end that, by the way, is tension and vulnerability, right? You've got to be willing to be vulnerable. You've got to be willing to be in the tension. You've got to feel it all. You can't do it from your head. And then number two is you've got to protect her fantasies. If she's sharing her real deep personal information with you, you can't run and tell her friends. You can't run and brag to her friends that my girlfriend just said she really wants to have a threesome and we're going to have a threesome. No, that's between you and her. You understand? That's your secret. You want, it's, as you two go deeper into this intimacy, it's something you're doing together. And so you might find that as you make her feel really comfortable about her sexuality, you make her feel really safe. You make her feel really empowered and free that she starts to open up more and more. She starts to want to know what your fantasies are. She starts to want to know what you want to do. And then your sex life at that point starts to improve. Now as you start to go do these things, again you can't start freaking out and getting weird because that's also where guys without much experience start to lose it. And that's something you have to work on. What the real key here is stop judging women for loving sex. Set them free guys. If you guys want amazing sex, give them the freedom of amazing sex lives. And that's going to require being comfortable in the tension and being comfortable in the vulnerability, both at the same time.