 Like, oh, there we go, Tina wrote. Question. Once ghosted, how long should I try to make it right when I was at fault by leaning too much into the friendship? Okay, let me read this one more time. Once ghosted, how long should I try to make it right when I was at fault by leaning too much into the friendship? Well, listen folks, I'm of the opinion, there's no time like the present. Stop, again, going back to the stupid book, the rules, this whole narrative. By the way, I was listening to someone else's advice and said, well, if a guy texts you, wait four hours to respond back so you don't seem eager. I'm like, that's such bullshit advice because that's manipulative. I'm a believer, strike while the iron is hot, have real sincere conversations with one another. Oh my God, this stupid narrator, this isn't a reflection of you who's asked this question, but have dialogue with someone, have real communication with someone. Folks, if you're not reading the book, How to Make Love All the Time by Barbara DeAngelis, I highly recommend reading this book because it teaches you the, again, just like eight dates, eight dates, it teaches you the mechanics to a healthy, happy relationship. And folks, I know you don't like hearing this because you've been told by all these other dating coaches that men are the leaders of the relationship. That's a crock of shit, ladies. You are in charge of your relationship, Destiny, not men. And you are the emotional leaders of the relationship. You are the emotional leaders of the relationship. And how do you do that by leading by example? So again, remember I said most guys are winging it, they're winging it, they're winging it. Stop winging it. Folks, this is serious fucking business. The minute, okay, let me tell you something. Dating triggers the number one emotional health issue like nobody's business. I'm gonna repeat that. Dating triggers the number one emotional health issue like nobody's business. And that is, I'm not good enough, I'm not lovable and I'm not likable. And sadly, when someone has had a lot of dates that don't work out and lots of dates, in other words, one after another after another. The predominant end result is bitterness and jadedness. Remember when I talked about women who are complainers? Oftentimes people who are negative and complainers is because they become bitter and jaded and their mindset is all fucked up. I'm sorry, I'm just gonna call it for what it is. This is why I'm such a big proponent of doing the Hoffman process, the Hoffman process. I highly recommend doing, this is, by the way, folks, if you wanna do this, this is gonna be 50 hours out of your life at a minimum. If you're not willing to invest a good 15, 20 minutes a day and it's gonna take 50 hours to do this work. If you're not worth 50 hours to shift negative patterns and limiting beliefs, then you have no business being in relationship because I'm gonna tell you, the shit that you bring from your past is gonna bleed into every future relationship. And so if you have negativity or criticism, that's the predominant conversation in your life. You're going to attract more and more negativity in your life. And I'm here to say that, let me go back to this question. There is no time like the present. Start speaking up to people. Let's stop this narrative of waiting and start having real conversations with one another. Can I please get an amen on that? And that thumbs up, thank you so much. All right, let's see what else we have here.