 I mentioned earlier first you have to master your relationship with God for you first your praying you're asking God to show you know Have that relationship with God where he will reveal to you who you are in his eyes How much you know your worth that you're not just going to settle for someone or the first person that comes to you So you know that you are a son or daughter of God so that you're gonna have standards you're going to have You know, you will make a list to where it's gonna hit your standards So you start praying for that list you start praying for that list they committed into your prayer and church and God will bring someone to you I mean also as you first build that relationship you work on your mission that once you're ready and it's time for you You know that you're ready to be able to seek and have enough to support and have a Spouse, you know that you can actually start opening up your eyes to that and not and in that process to stay focused because Lots of temptations will come left and can I add to that? So there's a difference with there's some basics that you need to find in a person is first They must definitely Have the same faith that they must have must believe in what you believe that's the biggest thing that they have vision But when it comes to preferences those are preferences So I don't know if you're talking about tall short Long hair short hair. I don't know. I mean that's that's preferences But when it comes to finding someone the standards is definitely godly they have a relationship with God because if they don't have that They will never love you the way they could love you it when they have God in the formula So if you have if they have godly relationship, and this is to all the men and to all the woman It's nothing more attractive than when a person an individual is seeking after God So with all of themselves that you know, they will be a godly individual in that relationship So God a foremost mission like she said and preferences is preferences. I would add also Try to keep your expectation on a level your preparation The problem with many people is they have expectation on Ziko so listening Expectation on a hundred preparation on 20 Now do the math a hundred minus 20 80 80 is that's how much frustration you're gonna have in your life So you either you bring your expectation to the level of your preparation on you raise your preparation To the level of your expectation when a lot of people go into the relationship They build a statue, you know I want her to be have anointing of Catherine Coleman a harder mother Teresa the preaching voice of Joyce Meyer cook like My mom have as many kids as my grandma and she needs to also look like the Hollywood star And then you yourself can't hold a hammer completely overweight completely in debt cannot preach Do not have a prayer life. Don't have anything running in your life except your mouth How can you have a successful life? Of course That's good. That's enough