 The narcissist will leave you for dead. The narcissist will leave you after they have brought you down to the worst point in your life. The narcissist will use up everything that you have to offer. They will take up all of your time, energy and money until you have nothing left for yourself. When we are given to people, it should always be part of what we have reserved for them. But we have kept specially for them. We should not be going into our own reserves for the narcissist. That's meant for us. That's supposed to keep us alive. But these narcissists are so demanding. They will make you work very hard to meet their standards. But nothing will ever be enough. They cannot be satisfied. Everyone is good enough for them because they don't feel good enough for themselves. Which is why they expect more from you than they expect from themselves. They depend on you for their survival, often at the expense of your own survival. They will demand so much until you haven't got enough to look after yourself. You haven't got the time or energy to attend to yourself because the narcissist needs all of your attention. You haven't got the money to look after yourself. Because the narcissist needs to live a lavish lifestyle. So you find yourself making sacrifices. You find yourself being coerced to go into your own reserves, your own life support. To then give that to the narcissist. And even then, it doesn't change anything. It doesn't put an end to the demands. It doesn't satisfy them. They will always want more. They're like buckets with a leak at the bottom. They can never be filled. And the more you try to help them, you will just end up running yourself into the ground. Because it will never be enough. You will be forever running on this endless hamster wheel. Trying to please them. It will never stop because they have these insatiable desires. They cannot be satisfied as soon as you give them your time, energy or money. They don't even take the time to appreciate it. They're not grateful for anything you've done for them. A quick way to test this is just to say no to them. Say no the next time they ask you for something. The narcissist will often respond by saying that you never do anything for them. Regardless of what you may have done for them up until that point. You could have gone into your own reserves and sacrificed the things that you need to please the narcissist. But they will still see it as though you never did anything for them. As soon as you say no, you become this horrible person who neglects them who never gives them what they want. The narcissist will put you under incredible amount of pressure. They will make unrealistic demands. But you find yourself constantly giving into them. Constantly giving them whatever they want, whenever they want it. Because if you were to say no, it would cause a narcissistic injury which would then be followed by the silent treatment or narcissistic rage. They would become very bitter and resentful towards you. And they may even smear your name and tell people that you don't look after them. Because of this, you find yourself constantly giving into them due to the fear of how they will react or the fear of what they may say to people about you. You just want to keep the peace. You just want to avoid any arguments or disagreements. So you let them have what they want. Even at the expense of your own health and well-being, you may find yourself giving away things that you need just to please the narcissist. And they always want more and more from you. It's never enough for them. They take more from you than what you are able to provide. People you have nothing left to give to yourself, and eventually you have nothing left to even give to them. Because they've used it all up, you end up in a state where you feel numb and desensitized. They've overexposed you to abuse, to the point where you become less likely to feel shock or distress at scenes of cruelty or suffering. You don't feel anything anymore. You've become emotionless. You're lacking emotion, sympathy and sensitivity. You're not financially productive. You're missing that energy and aura that you used to have. And they did this to you. They gradually caused your health to deteriorate until you ended up in this condition. They knew what was happening to you. They knew the effect that their abusive behavior was having on you, but they just didn't care. Their needs were more important. So they sat back and watched you run yourself into the ground, trying to please them, trying to make them happy, knowing fully well what they were doing to you. And when you've given everything you've got to give, you're broken down. And you've got nothing left to sustain yourself. Nothing left to get back up out of the pit they've left you in. They don't take responsibility for what they've done to you. Now they're pointing their finger at you. They're bullying you, mocking you, telling you you're too weak, telling you you're not good enough. Because now you've got nothing. You just gave everything you had to them. And they used it all up. But if you were to ask them, they would tell you you never did anything for them. They will call you all sorts of names. They will make you feel so small, as though you're completely worthless. And then they will just leave you for dead. They will leave you to deal with the consequences of their actions. The consequences of everything they did to you. But it doesn't stop there. The narcissist isn't just going to leave you for dead, no. That would be too nice. That would be too pleasant. Even after the narcissist has taken everything from you and left you in their pit of misery and destruction. They will then make accusations about you. They will spread rumours about you. They will ruin your reputation. So even if you managed to beat the odds and get back on your feet. You would only be met with other people who are also trying to destroy you. Because now they've made everyone think that you're this horrible person. The narcissist cannot just leave you for dead. In their minds, you are deserving of a punishment that is far more severe. They want to put you through hell. They want you to experience daily suffering for the rest of your life where you will wish that you were dead. If this video has caused any distress to you, you can email me for support at coachingatnarksviver.uk. I hope that this video resonated with you. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.