 And there are things in marriage or secrets in marriage that you're not supposed to reveal once you get married. Or does those things or other your past define you? Inu niya sayi. Adoka mo li chitu before je kwa relationship. Ikiju li kano reza wachu wa kwa yubi piya. So zato butiita una define aje ikitu reza paine chanya na umu de. Kwa zini mi realize ni contextual. Kwa yako me li nunsa ide ya, ame di shiwa sana. Kama umu yubi sayi ali weza kufanya hizi vitu. Ane zarudi. Na ame zi se mawazi ina manisha ae zi ta kakurudi. But kama ame protect izo vitumbaya na kaku wambia piya changina nyesi ae. Ina manisha kuna high chances. Bado zile vituali kwa na finda. Ane zarudi. Ane za finda. You lie about such thing about, oh I've only had three men in my life, I've only had seven or three men. Kus obviously ni kiku wambia na talabda kumtyangu. To protect your ego. You are watching Friends Vibes. All feelings are represent. What's up guys. Welcome to SPM buzz and this is Friends Vibes. It's another episode of Friends Vibes. And my name is Miskitinji and I am joined by the gang. Introduce yourselves. Tuwanzai naisai dea right. Naisa abdi. The Great Edibu Tita. The Great. And M.C. Abel. Yeah. Yeah. We have a guest. And M.C. Abel. The M.C. Abel. Ure Kabyza. Ni niu da na nga nga muna kia zi nga adip voice oke nga na sotika anguna sound saks. Brokotisao. Hehehehe. Hehehehe. You know hehehehe. Hehehehe. Ni mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm. Elikufraisha? Ha Jem. Hee Nunaisa. Na, Udi ... Ileesia, wad? Ileesia wat? Ileesia wat? Speak that you had in your wikimusinaf kwa kizangagow. Neo-go? Ileesia wat? Ileesia wat? Ileesia wat? Ileesia wat? Ileesia wa? Eya wad? Ileesia wad? Eya wad? Ileesia wad kwa kisangagowo. Eya wad? Woah. Kani kifun talking? Ileesia wa? Ileesia wa? Uh. Oda hini kifun talking... Not anymore. Ya aqo na vaibingile wu yaw chinga like anangel is lost in heaven All right guys, our topic of discussion today is Are there things in marriage or secrets in marriage that you're not suppose to reveal once you get married Or does those things or rather your past define you at the moment That's what we're talking about today. Nga buti tia had a very interesting opinion. Who? Me? You're now framing me. What do you wanna say to my secrets? Like your things that you did in the past? Yes. Like your partners should they find who you are? Or should you actually reveal them? Yes. You should? Ya, you'll rather tell me who you are. I love you. You're married for two years. Nga pick your story to your campus. No I didn't share. Nah, me. Then you decided women in your homes. Yes? But when you heard they mentioned you're a senior, Kwa? You have already kijkenon? Yes, bro. Youíre not asking me anything. I was wondering what that this man told me. No Seh, he told me he was in the gym. He said those foam things you said, and I said it is a very huge part. You are not to初. It has not been gone for so many nights. na wutani ja kwa. Kwa mwazia wana. Nya, mwa kwa mahala. Ta mwenyeinik. Ya wana. Sama kwakote na tum rainyo. Mama uitu kwa kwa wana. kwa wana. kwa wana. kwa wana. Kwa mwazi wana. kwa wana. Kwa mwazi wana. kwa wana. kwa wana. Number one goes through stories we got During the first liksom situation where Daiana got pregnant It signals that she was unharigne But that was true So, some other noong like me or Aja Mmhmm. Hrema kwa hwa kwa hwa hwa hai. Hrema kwa hwa hwa hai. Tishau. Zida kwa standards. Zida kwa standards. Wei na marriage. A very good question. Abben, right now if someone tells you that the girl maybe you're planning to get married, the girl you're married to, you don't know, waza mada na three years ago. Okay. Ita ntingisha? Anki kwa namkahusiku. Anki chinja mati? Ia na chinja. Uka tamani past Atia, that's is her past Uka muna where'd you end up as an extreme sa a bird? It's the same thing now But I don't think so bro I think If something, sa sa in that about wupachem tuna det I'll end up jaila for a while It depends on the extremes So imagine to Smue ner For example, alqa yung usmos now I'll end up jaila for like a while Na li kwa maybe let's say roba Kwa li kwa roba you with violence No nakitukai yo But now I'm a change But would you want to know that part? Once a roba, it's a roba No, but this is a reformed person now Like truly speaking, truly speaking I'm a change You get, kwa mtukau you say to him Are you gonna hold that against them forever? No But you're lost Ha ha ha ha ha ha But this is a change I feel like I'm normal Like say, I'm past I'm past, I'm past, I'm past, I'm past I'm a change I'm a change I'm a change Goda mifunika, I guess you're a change So I'm very easy But ita kwa na normal Takwa easy ju yangun So na think normal wanga ni tuki Invite wasi wengi kwa yo story Because one is a pata Acha ni kwa mbia ibu kumbwa Situ me jyamukui inje Na hazi ham say akotu saha Iwa na karatuki tuki Bado Iwa na jyoka wana piyan okuma sweet Iwa kukui inje o me kasi rika Una tweet, una duni ni me kwa topic Okay, tuki ongelai Malu ni kwa nanishi Na gari ibu kuli za Isstri ya patinawa koni very simple Uli kwa msherati kabla kukali It's very simple That's the most specific Uli kwa msherati Uki se mahe kuna na level 2 Na kuna nani Jite na tana say zikwa Wana kujua But imagine like she was just made for you Ali zungu katua kikis Anda frof She was made for you Ando she has made the right choice But we are saying it's very important Mutu aise me Mi na takade ma kuzya ni ambiye Skiza, mi mi Mi mi mstiana, mi mi me fanya mambo baia Mi mi nuliwa pomba Mi me vutisha o Shisha, mi kwa fanya mambo baia Mi mi milona ni ona Iweta kuna rafki ya kuflani Kuna siku kibati-bati Mi mi bariki Ata kuna mungine bado nika bariki Uko ready to proceed Hi yon do datayangu Mi mi mi se me All said and done 2020 Kuliko nika enam tumzu rivi Skumoja bestiangu ona kama kuni tembelea Anapi wana mutu Anapa na Bruna cekani kituflani tiki to Mi kwa sabasa kitu na takaga Niki tutu wana ume utaka Mi very simple Lemi bi yawea Ni si skilli e indje Lakin yubaya hi nyuna history Muna kwa angawango First of all all women have dated 2 men 2 men Fast laugh and rib out there Deya bodik yaw three 3 asa ni mingu ya poo to say mingi kumoja Uko na start this Ay zini e bo Ohi habia aga ukomombasa skumoja Umto na kuwambiya, yeh, yeh rinani wu kwa demia, muza di miye, muza di miye Iyo na juhi na fujan maza na No but you see butita, you see like this case scenario for Diana Maroa and Baha The same men you're seeing na tinii milatakanga kuwambi wu kwe li Were the same same people crucifying her Seeing what kind of life is that, some things you should live to your bedroom ni ni ni But her aim was to inspire the women who are living the same life To feel like they can actually make it And also that's why we meant And also that's why we meant to lie about such a, oh I've only had three men in my life I've only had seven, three men Muza na, kwa wawana, kuwambiya na tinii kuwambiya na tinii labda kwa kuwambiya To protect your ego So in 35 to do that Ya, kwa kuwambiya na tinii kwa kuwambiya na tinii labda kuwambiya Because you know this thing when you say it It will hurt me Now you're waiting for me to get hurt when you're in a relationship No Unless you try to find out those things If I didn't tell you You will not know because what has happened Aga kuna jatuli, invaitu ya kwa hii story Design hangi saima tuwe kwa na hii topic Na make sense Like tu me jamama tuwe kasi rika ama tuwe excited ama tu kwa na opinions Because we are the same And you manana na fukiri atopiki na saima Is it good to be kept a secret? Or is it good to tell your partner But apparently kwa hii situationa kwa ni bia tu partner And they are better than the world But clearly she told the partner before That's what she did It must be And probably even consulted with him Like are you okay So mi nili kwa no not talk saima Eh bahawere siju me kaliwa nini No, leave him to be If he is okay with it My point is If Bahawere knew these things earlier Ya Ya, that's Or who woulda icing pick it up Kamali skiliya YouTube Ya nene kata Kamali julia internet Kuna shida Siwezi julia vitu kwa street So as I emphasise Your file must be open Before relationship Without altering the file But what if What if now What if that happens How kwa ambiwa You have invested in this girl Like that umemlipia school fees Nini nini Then later on Ujue U find out Kwa dema mekotu dem poa Just because Pa siyaki wukone Juana siyo poa Pa siyaki siyo poa What are you going to do Ani lijiwa kondo chance For instance usha lipa Una jwa What you anasa wigi The first step of a relationship Niku jwa Nibi siya iku anza Ya nini Nini kuchambuwa Nini Ya nini uki ruka yop face Ita wa hout Ya I feel like that First face Very important So that you would be surprised to come Nio, nice to meet you Kwanza nenge palesagram Nona follow Kina na nipoze Na kufo ome I don't even know Before with that I stalk you Stalk your friends Stalk everything It's not what I know And even questions I'm asking you Is just to get to know you And to know if you're going to tell me the truth And it's better It doesn't make you come to the table The perception about me Which is not me No, that's after we've talked Because mimi Una ju uki wuja Uki kambuwa makuwa Instagramiangu Umi uko nisha took soft life Sometimes See all the time Because nimi realize Instagramiangu nia suits and ties Ndion na uliza If any of you have a perception I'm just I'm just talking But sometimes perception is not wrong That's same ma But nene is sometimes It should also be wrong sometimes Juna eza pachapoze Kututu na weintua Kwa nja na wna jubene Una jubene kuna ndale Fake life Ume ijuwa Nisha kawa Tuna jubene grau eko Ina jubene grau eko Soft life Ukundi ufek soft life According to where u na fofane Nipati atu vitu tatu Nanda niku kuchu Niku fanyani niku kwa gram Places na kulanga Nene na dunganga Ose na chillnau Kwaifu ezo places wna kula Na kwaifu ezo places wna zikula Si daily Lakin wna kula ga Na eze kakupitcheza 6 months Masa epsu ni kuna Some level of truth Ndion na sema So niki yeza gramiako Niki wna kafili Weweni mutu Musherati Kuna kitu me fanyani kawa naivo All right Wona si ingi Okay, let me give you an example Nami uliza wa se Why is it that Beyoncé akiva bikini Anakwa ga sexy She's not naked Naku na msi akiva bikini Kuna zema She's naked Umsi aku naked maze Anakiga Umsi anakiga Una wana Una za kumuna na sexual eye Dan kumuna me ngaara Ako tukua Beyoncé saia taku pigia Eka ni niflani apu Lakin ni wna na Ha me ngaara tuwako se Ya kudu salo Una teki So it's the perception that people sell Mostly some percentage Okay So which is like 2% The moment I start seeing I start feeling Or I start seeing something And feeling that you are a liar Even if you're not There is a percentage of Like The moment I feel like in my life You are a Softlife ambassador Even if you are faking To some level Kuna yu softlife Say that kukuma deni yu softlife Amu kuna access But the life itself you live in it Ume kumbua So perception has some level of Truth So niki kujako instagram ya naisa Nipatia kuna maboisuangu Nae romi naji What you follow Noma Una ga tuku follow Nipatia maboisuangu Kawa kumi Wame follow naisa Naisa Naji tulizu Una kumi Una kumani Una kumani Umi Una kumani Una kumani Una kumani Una kumani Una kumani Una kumani Una kumani Una kumani Una kumani Una kumani Una kumani Judging by people who follow me Una nila Una kutu apu kwa DM on na Naisa hi hi hi Una job Ehi wakotu hi hi hi Una kuna utuna follow Lakin ya tanya yo DMCZ Una tata kuna tata skwenye ni liwa ingiza Amu akunagi na idik Una follow to mi kuz kitu ya on nipo Like kututu ya on nipo Like kutututya on nipo Kututya on nipo Kututya on nipo Kututya on nikiya kudipo It's true But ya kuna kitu Tika ma ni me mi DM ma kituka So una get kuna sema Uki pata Uki juwa mi mi mimi mimi waki wanja La mi mi mahanyaji Naone kwa time line ya ke Is it necessary that ni maku Uma ni ingiza Ya basi mi mi ma Judges are high Judges are high So where do you start at this point of secrets And operate the file? Secret We should not open the file Mi mi sida ni kama File enter kana iwe open It's not necessary I don't think so No, I feel like it's necessary From the Ishuyangu ni ni Ishuyangu ni Ishuyangu kubuani Kama na se ma Mi sia li kwa na changia watu na mi change Laki ni sida ii mojali Bona uldo duskubu ali watu change I don't pick one of my friends calls to li kwa na high school Bikoza mi kata kutuka high school Io ni pigeto story to came back wakwa Kwa ya Kuches are high Ima jini mi Ima jini Ima jini Ima jini Ima jini Ima jini Ima jini Ima kata kua accept the fact that he's not father of two Onaget, Ima kata kua accept the fact he's the father of two Si muza kizu kwa wakwa Mi peratama ni kwa ni peneo utitu wa two Imi hiya kuna bi tu na trakufani Sayi mi mi nga kitabu Tundaka tu umge kizungu Antaka tu nge tu mi change Atu kwa pali pali Sayi na change Bona iya si accept mi mi accept and to mi change So kama niza accept kulu kwa na mdu na change watu na niza change Sayi mi pata umu demo ni kwa na kata na uu Inje na saya mi change Mi ka ni kwa saha mi ni kwa saha Lakin ni kuna mdu ni nesta Mi mi personali Sige penda kufungu wa juzita ni hatu Naza dutitu yo kwa sejunu kuna Mi bada ni niza nisu umbu wa Mi niza nisu umbu wa nbaya Mi hai feel like I get you Sasa wakizi Julio kwa mbele Ima change Bada niza maflani tu Dutuflani na tanga Na pigeo wa kwa mbele Nego jiyama tiko Kama tanka Nga mula kwa nga mua umu Tu na kfacto han pomuku Kalistie niza Ni baen yu umusiba niki kutia Kamaa kuna yaa? Niki yaa? Keni yu jaji me? Kamani nili muli za naa kuna Ataka nipast Kuma ni nipast nipast Niki yaa Anda kama siku muli za kani danganya, yi onipast Kwa tini wasa idi wasi yama? Idi ni yasa hi Ataka muli cheat before yu kwa relationship Ikiji li kana uniza wachwa kwa yu nipia So, Uchisa, una define Una define So, una una una una una una una una una una utita Una define aja iki tu naza kwa inia tia na Nao umu ni Sini meriモiarlizez ni contextuali Tfu ya kumeliinu insaidi ka Ame bishiyu wa sana Ui wa nellaishia Sizi onge na akuی Miki njiwa disha Bishi d bulky nisingеike Pwenitia muming Kama m buyerke Anu heza kufanya hizi b histó Ina zero pi Ame zi se Éma oua zi Ina manisha Tata aezi taka kuraudi Kotu kama ame protekt Izoo vi tumber ya Naka kuwabia pi twi sa tuna Number five is, when you are认wa, you certificate that Nobody is going to come to terms with you. And this is the message that culture cannot live on but you have to have higher chances and be protected by the people that are Assessment you're being supported by the people out there and by the judges But Molt Qana tz Boohobazitatingi. We enne 찵o atiwa. Awezem partnership, Kuna mendoza na uta matimata na komendeétribu na kwa kwa pite. Aa, na kwa kwa matimata na uta matimata na uta matimata. cracked Kama kwa Kwebeade