 All right y'all we're getting ready to go pick up JV Look I keep from my vlogs I know have been boring because I keep forgetting to take y'all with me. They do stuff ain't like I'm going out doing a lot but I just keep forgetting about my Camera y'all have the excuse to just drive there to chat. I'm gonna try to take my time, but So y'all it's been crazy still crazy busy school started which is good Work has been busy for me Going through some things at my job to where I am so busy and I told y'all that little fiasco I had or Maybe I don't know. Can you see me? It's probably a little dark The little issue I had when I was on PTO and we had to leave the freaking hotel to go home That's ridiculous my husband will pay $400 a night It's not funny. I'm laughing because it's disturbing y'all y'all can't see me. It's shaking I'm awake and until I get up here. Can y'all see me? girl I'm a few picking up JB Y'all I'm trying to look up What's the value of our home now because now that the interest rates For these houses have gone up the investors have stopped stacking up these houses It's not crazy like it used to be because on our side of our road and where we live at Inforney about There's about five houses for sale and they've been for sale that their for sale signs have been out there for about Three months and that's rare That's very rare houses are selling fast like I told y'all when we put our house up our house So within four days in Phoenix when we put it, you know our house up Um Hold on y'all. I'm too afraid my husband was like I don't even want to know what our house is going for but our house value Possibly has increased. Let me see. Let me put in my address and he's still on my nerves y'all my husband, I think Regrets moving to not moving to Texas, but moving to Farnie. I think he re he regrets moving But it's the thing like I don't go back and forth with my husband Let me take that back. Hold on depending on what it is I won't go back and forth because I did say at least twice You know when we were looking for a house and considering, you know moving back to Texas. I said shouldn't we? Look and see how things are and he's like we don't have time for that We don't have time for that with the what we got to go ahead and sell our house and get a house Why the markets hot sounds like okay? Then brought it up again when we were looking at one might know my best friend who lives here in Farnie And she was like you guys the infrastructure is horrible. Oh, yeah, I'm spitting She's like you may want to choose another place because the infrastructure of Farnie is horrible again I don't know what that means, but now I get what she's talking about So, you know with the inflation and everything going up He showed me how much the water bill was and he's like the water is But why so what are so high like we didn't even pay this much for why so first of all win the middle of a damn drought Green it started raining this week, but I'm like why But at the end of the day we paid half of our house up front. We put down half of it up front. So I'm like so But it's with all these extra expenses to you know enemy of JB school and now we're having to look for a dyslexics a Dyslexic therapist and then we're paying well. No, we're not paying for therapy therapy So my baby still and he's still seeing a psychiatrist with she's girl. She told me she's having knee surgery I'm like, okay, you know what you need to go ahead and get that get that done You know 2022 is is the unexpected year So our house now is worth almost four hundred thousand dollars yep four hundred thousand and we paid Three 360 Yeah Yeah, we paid 360 for it because we paid We offered 20 20,000 more than what was listed anyway. I'm telling you how my business girl But anyway, um, it's it's getting fall time. My skin looks horrible. It feels horrible. I Need to get it together. I need to contact my girlfriend my best friend and be like we need to meet up I finally am feeling a little bit wiggle room with my finances. You know me. Good morning. Good morning. You guys it's Friday It's So you guys it's Friday and I actually have a couple of errands to run girl this little Ross looking Good That's why I'm serving you with this hair like this child. Let me sit back up with this camera down somewhere y'all You know what hold on so y'all I've been up since 5 30. This is a little late for me Maybe see any smoke. I Have my diffuser going with lavender oil. I'm slowly getting back to my self care mode Um, because I see as you guys know you've been following me for a while for a year We've been busy with things with the move get rid of the move and moving in our state. It's just such a Draining thing and just everything that's involved in that and finding a new school and transferring schools Getting special education for JB outside of the private school because private school does not provide that y'all I'm doing that now But anyway, the point is is that I'm getting to a point now to where now I'm gonna start to incorporate in some self-care stuff I think that it's very important regardless if you have a family everyone has a family But regardless of if you're a mom or not taking care of yourself. It's extremely important Baby, my I think my blood pressure a couple of times is weak It's spiked and I know a lot of that is because I'm running around. I'm not relaxing. I'm eating a lot out I've eaten a lot Because that's just you know sodium, so and I'm not used to that you guys I probably would typically eat out once a week, but this week I've eaten out almost almost every day my Calling to to get Dyslexia tutor for JB. That's my main goal today and baby. Let me tell you something mr. Biden. Thank you, baby Well, let me tell you Something told me you guys before Joe Biden Signed this new student loan forgiveness Which is going to wipe out $10,000 from most of us because I don't think most of us make over 125,000 a year We don't you know thank god, but we don't um Don't say girl. I need to I need to restart my computer. Hold on y'all So what's the point? Um Before eating of that even happened Did y'all see the student loan forgiveness Uh, there was this this chart going around about student loan forgiveness for for profit Or it is for profit colleges and I went to a for profit college to get my master's Wiu that was previously owned by Apollo group Which is the company I used to work for and they also used to own university of phoenix Apollo group is basically nonexistence University of phoenix they have gone through the mud baby. So Something told me I had the application. I was doing it all getting everything together Uh, a couple of months ago and then I just got busy and I got busy with life when he I've been trying to get on there, but since he mr. Biden signed this stuff about the student loans the websites are flooded I can't even get on there A matter of fact, I will probably won't be able to get on there for a good two weeks I don't know why my application is in there is saved but I need to go ahead and do everything and submit it If I were you guys, this is just just a recommendation I'm going to do this too Make sure that you submit if you went to a for profit school College make sure that you submit for that loan forgiveness I'm going to try to include the link at the bottom, but good luck because I can't even Make sure you submit your application before october because I have a feeling come october It may even be a hard time to do it now Now one thing I am going to do is that you know, I was ready I did my budget to start repaying my loan and I'm on an income driven id or payment plan, which is nothing My kick to you know, get out of debt. Um, I'm feeling a certain type of way because it is pretty easy You guys I ain't gonna I ain't gonna bother y'all with this too much But y'all know how it is it's hard to pay off depth and save I'm saving money I'm saving something but I wish I was saving more Um, but I stopped giving myself a hard time because it with me speaking to older people They tell me they're like vivian you're better than you're better than a lot of people because some people know That they need to be doing better and they just don't even they don't even try so at least I'm trying so Let me set this camera down y'all. I'm gonna go get pick up Jamie soon They're having something at school today called transformation. Hey you guys we are out shopping We are in taro, texas. Let me get off the car y'all Let me tell you something this little shopping area and I know it's new because I don't remember seeing this this is A texan stream. I'm not even you're not from texas. So on this side, we got ross hobby lobby Ulta, what's down there boo boo marshals is down there We got Verizon. We're at t-mobile for food. We got Uh Water burger raisin cane chick filet freddy's dairy queen. We got olive garden. We got texas roll house Way way way over there Y'all my allergies are messing up. You probably can't see that big old sign way down. It looks like a big old bucky Buckies buckies, which they don't really care for buckies, but buck is just really big out here in texas So let's just go ahead and go into hobby lobby We these are 50 off What is this? Okay, we definitely gotta we can look around but I definitely want to get a rug I can literally spend hours in the store. Look at this. This is my Oh, this is so cute pray first. Wait a minute. How much is this? I'm not for $14 I'm thinking about redoing my Um fireplace with this type of decoration. This is really cute to me I want a globe. I want all this So this stuff is 50 off I want to kind of get one of these to go where my um, I think I may get one of these y'all You know what? I'm gonna get these y'all. These are cute. I'm gonna get these Yeah, I get these these are cute I want a mirror in our bedroom y'all. I want like a um, oh, this would be cute to go above our bed How much is this? $30. See I need a coupon Look y'all my budget is just $20 but I'm thinking about something like this above the bed Or even that I want that match our bedroom That's so cute Now if I have my She room which I don't have anymore All over this stuff All over it. This stuff is 50 off y'all Hey, you need to chill out. I can put you on camera and show you how you act when you don't get what you want This right here JB's making breakfast this morning Dude, y'all excuse my kitchen. I typically clean throughout I don't have a set time and day to clean. I just clean It's been a little challenging that JB. What are you making, baby? Pancakes. Pancakes is making himself some pancakes. Let me see what this looks like Mm-hmm Uh-huh, this is some of my fault. I know girl. I already been doing it some of the pop decoration I put up here. This is for fall. I think for bububi. Where'd he go? This is for fall I almost want to do a different type of decoration for Christmas Does that make sense? So I'll keep this up JB, what do you think? Should we keep this up the entire time or change it up when it gets like december and then You should change it up when it gets to the summer Yeah, you should put like an angel I think I'm gonna do all christmas stuff That's what I'm talking about. I mostly I mostly do fall harvest Because anyway, I'm not gonna even go down that pike, but um, I am gonna do christmas. I think so I think this is why I said we need to Have to go get some christmas. That's what I'm talking about. This is why I said when we go to hobby lobby I need to be picking up stuff every oh by the way JB. I purchase us some christmas pajamas I'm so excited taryn's gonna be like Uh-uh don't say that so look my Look, baby the christmas pajamas. I got us. Guess what they look like. They have black santa on it I cannot wait child. Those kids just get school. I'm gonna be so confused JB You better not say anything because some of them may still believe in santa claus and don't tell them that santa was black JB again, this is a little bit of fall decoration JB's fish is over here, but but I need for you to feed phoenix his name is phoenix Um, you have to excuse the table. I'm doing my planning stuff, but this is what I have so far. I have I know y'all already have this and I got some little bitty Scarecrow's again. This is more fall harvest like stuff Child look at this rain Oh lord They wanted it. We got it Look y'all um a couple of people it's been raining off none for a good week But here in forney just started raining like this real bad now So look y'all um a couple of people were complaining about there being rats in the backyard here And i'm like, oh hell no i'm sitting in my neighbor has seen some mice over there But as y'all can see I keep this area. It's pretty clean. Look it. We don't have a lot of stuff back here I do that on purpose, but the thing that got me all nervous is these moles are underground So that mean if I have a freaking garden out here like I want to these bastards can come Okay, let me not say that these things can come up from underneath the ground eat the dang on food Uh-uh. We ain't doing it. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning you guys I am up early. I don't know if y'all can hear me. I'll just Speak up. I'll just let this stuff fall to the no, I'm not gonna fall If it has numbers I'll let it fall, but if it doesn't I need to come in there and make sure I put it in the right Nope, I mean I need to stay in here and make sure that I put this in the right order You guys it's been a This week work week was not so bad, but I'm not gonna be talking about work all the time because I know y'all this that is not exciting But that's life. I work. I have a job. I have multiple jobs meeting, you know Why I took on some consultant work. So, um Have y'all heard of this stuff this new thing called quiet quit and let me tell you something that is very dangerous You want to quiet quit and I guess the whole definition of quiet quitting is basically doing Their bare minimum to just get by at your job There's nothing about me. That is not even My personality to just do The bare minimum or just Do my job and that's it. That is not even fulfilling if you feel that way You didn't want to look for another job like honestly life is too short to be in a position like that, which is why I'm kind of in a position right where at now when my job is not fulfilling me It really isn't but I'm not doing the bare minimum just because it's not fulfilling me just because I didn't get it Let me tell you something 10 years in it. I haven't gotten a promotion I'm still going to do the best. I'm still going to be do above and beyond for my job. Does that make sense? So I Have been trying Actively looking for a dyslexia Therapist or tutor for JB I don't know what makes granted, I don't have experience in Childhood education, but I have 20 years in the game and education in general 20 years 20 years and most of the Therapists or tutors are only providing online services So It makes it challenging For him to do anything online. So I even asked him when I first I found some people of course There's a whole company called dyslexia on demand where they do everything online. I've seen I've seen What are you talking about? We had a zoom call and I've had you know calls with multiple Dyslexia therapists and they all are doing it online and I'm like So you expect for my child to go to school? Seven six seven hours come home and jump online For another 45 minutes to an hour And do that three times a week even have them. I guess my whole point is right now I am pregnant at a 30 page scope um For the art in I know I'm not pronouncing this right It's the og Those of you who are familiar with dyslexia dyslexia. You know about it I'm having to do it myself you guys. I'm just very very frustrated how things have Damn coven in the matter of a few years The education system has seriously plummeted. Hey, hey you guys. How you doing? It's friday. It's friday And I'm ready to swing Now typically I do Cut up these videos into two videos, but I don't have time y'all like I'm not even posting as much um Y'all should know that let me show y'all some stuff that I got for jb and I Y'all this stuff is so cheap This is supposed to be a sweater. Look how thin this is I can wear this if I can wear this hold on Girl, come get your big ass. It's for jb Yeah, I'm sorry y'all to vent about my work, but I don't talk to anybody else. I was um planning on hopefully sometime Spending some quality time with my best friend, but she is busy too. I got a phone case for jb Now, let me see if it can fit kids because if it doesn't shop, we don't have a fit Let's see if it don't fit. Let's see if it fits a cute Something I now I'm learning. We're not learning. I always get his stuff. I size up because this y'all Jay is almost 100 pounds. He's a big boy. Girl get it together cocktail. I can't finish I actually get some cranberries That's what I'm doing I've been avoiding Tom Thumb here though because there's a man there That he starts smiling and giggling of course. He's an islander Nothing that gets island. He's from Haiti y'all. I mostly attract mostly attract men that are not from america And every other continent, but the u.s. Not that's not to say I have of course. I've had u.s. Men, but mostly Afghanistan though today. No, no, no. Yeah, afghanistan and he was like, what part of pakistan is your parents from I said do what? What part of pakistan or if you don't stop that Stop it. All right. Let me show you what I got. I don't know why I got these cheap ass jackets all this stuff You'll see I'm gonna tell you how much everything costs everything costs me only $50 It's cute. It's gonna be cold now cute with like a cute little white slut tee A thing and y'all when you lose weight and when you used to be a bigger person It's hard to see yourself in a different. Look how big this is. I know that this is way too big for me But napoleon syndrome I feel I Feel like I'm bigger than what I really am, but I'm not Oh, this is heavy. Oh, this is like a good church. Look. This is big girl. Look how big this damn jacket is Be cute with like a you know, this would be cute with a mustard yellow tee Tuck into some jeans either white or um dark denim tan boots Yeah, thinking I'm all bit of 250. I may give this to my sister. My sister doesn't weigh 250. I don't know Why why do I feel like I'm just I don't know what a zero XL is Girl, look at this. Look how much Y'all can't see that. Look at that. I'm gonna look at America. Hold on Maybe maybe a little better if I look in the mirror. Somebody's child They got into their daddy's closet and this the other one I can get away with I'm gonna give this to my sister or my mom. But see my mom is short. My mom is shorter than I am actually um We all only inch away from each other, but I feel like I'm way taller than them Girl now I got one more y'all actually let me put this over here um Let me get into this jewelry before I get to that These are cute cassette tapes Isn't that cute and I think this one is like I don't know what this is I got this two piece. I always want it, you know a two piece Oh, this is wrinkly. You know how to get these wrinkles out. You want to tell you how the hack Spray it with starch some of y'all already probably already know this you spray your garment with starch and pop it and the um Dryer for like 10 10 minutes probably not even that five minutes And our dryer actually has a wrinkle free setting Ooh, this would be cute. Let me try this on y'all. Hold on All right y'all look at this. I don't have on the right undergarments. Hold on I'm gonna put this camera so y'all can see me. It's cute This is a little big too. Look at that And I don't have on the right undergarments. Don't make fun of me. I ain't got no booty I got a long booty and I'll be poking it out like I got something lined up and then I have The jacket this would be a cute like Early fall date night outfit needs to definitely wear I can even since you ain't seeing the back. I could even secure that at the back like that And I have some new heels. I can wear this. This is very comfortable Oh, yes, I can sit there and eat. Let me see how I feel like if I sit there I can eat Be like you want to eat what you drinking? This is cute though, huh? This is real cute real casual. All right y'all. Um, yeah, this is loose So even if I have like if I lift my girl, I don't I don't wear bras anymore But even if I lift my girls up, it's still it's still too loose around here So this is cute though. All right y'all and of course it's dragging the floor because your girl We ain't gonna talk about that. Um What are we gonna do for the day? I need to go to brookshaar's pick up my bird control pick up some cranberry juice to go with the rest of my drink Go pick up JB and that's my Friday And I'll do the rest of this work in the morning because I'm exhausted That shit that's going down with tiffany haddish And airy. So what's his name? I hope y'all didn't see that. What's his name? The other comedian Let me tell you something gotta be very careful who we leave our kids with wrong She already was getting on my nerves The last time I found her funny was when she was in that play. What was that play called with? Um, michelle from this michelle That play why did I get married? What's my man? Y'all know what I'm talking about. She was in the play and she was playing her friend This is like almost 20 years ago But I don't I don't find her funny to me as a comedian. I never wish ill will of anybody You don't have success. She's her. She's a stereotypical funny black girl She is Um, which is if that's your thing your get up Do you I'm trying to say is I don't cosign to that type of foolery. I really don't um In my opinion people are laughing at her and not with her um I was done when she was at one of the One year at the met gala. She brought fried chicken along in her purse And she thought it was funny and the person interviewing her was like, are you serious? You really brought fried chicken and she was a girl girl got me some fried chicken like stop. Please stop But anyway, uh, they are being her and airy spears big butt Are being sued by now adults who said that they were under um They were basically sexually abused. I don't know. I don't know if the allegations of sexual sexual abuse are not um I'm pretty sure by now youtube has taken it away But a couple of youtube channels have posted this video So basically what's happening is airy's and syphony had this this video Which was more like a skit comedy thing where they were using two underage children But the children were in inappropriate positions And the scenarios were very inappropriate for underage children, right? When I told you that I saw like I got to like 30 seconds Of the one you have airy's on a couch. He has a newspaper in front of him Tiffany has this child that at first she was holding and I'm the one she's on this big ass child This child just has this underwear on and all of a sudden he puts this is gonna make me upset He puts the child she puts a child on the floor And the child is is moving around on the ground I was like, this is disgusting. It's inappropriate. This shit is not funny Then with the other girl the other child, excuse me. I believe she was 14 at the time of the video I guess I don't know all the details and I know I shouldn't talk about it before and I understand is that She was asked to pretend like she was eating a sandwich while moaning and groaning basically Insimulate inflation or inseminate like in sexual nature when you're 14 years old So at one point I guess the little boy didn't he didn't want to do it anymore And Tiffany was like, why are you doing all this crying? You ain't never gonna make it in Hollywood. You know what I think I think that's a bunch of bullshit one. Excuse my language. It's two I think that they make that video for those in the industry who are into Child pornography, we know it's big and in hollyweird hollywood. We know it's a big thing The mother is absolutely to blame as as well as tiffani and eri swole ass and just I just don't think I just don't know why people don't see how This could have an effect on a small child as it grew up We want to get back into being a little bit more consistent with my With my content, but my personal life is just so crazy right now. Y'all it just is and Honestly, y'all not checking for hair videos like I used to No, y'all really actually y'all are because my hair videos still get way more views than my other content So I do appreciate that. So anyway, y'all that is it for this video, baby Y'all take care. Have a good weekend. Have a good friday. Drink your drink girl All right, y'all take care