 Hello everyone. It's been a while since I've done a live video. It's great to be back on here again So let's talk about this a video. I uploaded Just two days ago When you're on to them The narcissist does this So what do they do when you're on to them? they run They want to avoid accountability for their actions They want to avoid the consequences They want to escape the shame which what otherwise consumed them so they run from that and This is where they will just Deny anything you're saying to them and they will shift the blame on to you They will project the insecurities onto you They will gaslight you and if they still feel As though you threaten to expose them Or even if your progress and success Threatens to expose them Then they have to bring you down And they will bring you down By enforcing their flying monkeys Getting other people to see things the way that they do Because that's how they control you. You see when you're on to them They feel like they're losing control They feel like you're taking your power back the power that you willingly Handed over to them at some point but when you accept the situation for what it is and You remove the self-doubt That's when they really feel like they're losing control That's when they can feel you taking back your power They sense it immediately So when you're on to them They feel like they've lost control They want to regain their control over you and they do that Either by the manipulation, but if that doesn't work They will try to Manipulate your surroundings They'll manipulate other people Anyway, I'd like to hear from you Please let me know below How did the narcissist react when they realized that you were on to them? What did they do? How did they respond? I'd like to hear from you now. Please let me know below And I will read it out And then we can discuss this together Katie says they ignore and pretend it's all me So typical I'm getting to the point and Say how I feel it's liberating Yeah, that is typically what narcissists will do when you confront them They'll just ignore whatever you're saying and Focus on your real or imagined faults or mistakes They will blow it up out of proportion They will exaggerate it They'll minimize in or deny in Whatever they've done Charlotte Quillen says Accused me of being the narcissist Yes, another thing that they will do if they think that you suspect They are the narcissist One of the first things they're going to do is point the finger at you They always have to project and deflect Whatever they don't like about themselves. They disown and Then they assign it to you Emily Fielder says he cast me out and Told me I was not good and Then he never wanted me anyways Yeah, they will insult you. They really want to target your confidence To make you think as though you're not even credible to Even confront them in the first place they want you to doubt yourself But you have to stay strong trust your intuition recognize That you are an intelligent person who can think for yourself and Come to your own conclusions Fran Wood says They backed off Now I know people don't really Talk about this much, but yes sometimes they will back off Narcissists are cowards and if they feel threatened by you They will fall back. It doesn't always happen, but when it does it feels good For you because it feels like this person Will try to intimidate you and beat you down Now it's like they've got a taste of their own medicine Lady June C says he blamed me for everything Yep, that is typically what narcissists will do When you're on to them Solo's raid said they ghosted and Never hear from them again. Yes, they will Give you the silent treatment or they will just disappear altogether G99 says rage Of course When you're on to them It will often cause a narcissistic injury Which as we know will be followed up by Narcissistic rage or passive aggression So, yeah from this discussion here. I think We all have an idea of What may happen when you're onto the narcissist Because they all follow the same playbook They all do the same kinds of things It varies slightly But the personalities are pretty much the same one thing an narcissist isn't going to do When you're on to them is they're not going to come out And say Yes, okay You got me I Made a mistake I'm sorry and now I'm going to make a plan of action To change No narcissist ever said that they might Tell you They recognize what they did wrong and they're sorry, but they never actually take the steps to change There's no real desire for them to do that and if they did that then They wouldn't even be narcissists anymore They would just change and then no one would be watching my videos every day this channel gets between 30,000 and 40,000 views on average Around one million views a month Just let that sink in At my channel is far from the biggest channel about Narcissists on YouTube, so If these narcissists were really capable of change Why would there be so many people watching these videos and a lot of the viewers Are returning viewers They're not people who watch the videos a few times and then It helps them to figure out a way To make things work with a narcissist and then they don't need to watch them anymore No, that doesn't happen Because these narcissists Never change and these videos Are like therapy to many people Many people who never got the closure they needed from the narcissist Because that's something the narcissist is never going to give you And in fact I will say now that If a person does give you closure And relieves your confusion about a certain situation You're probably not dealing with a narcissist Because that's something they're never going to do they're always going to leave you confused They're always going to leave you doubting yourself They're always going to leave you feeling like you're stuck in a situation Where you're to blame and There's nothing you can do about it. That's all they're going to do so recognize that because that's really how you know what you're dealing with because no one's really all good or all bad, but If you're dealing with a good person They're not going to leave you feeling like that because if they know that You're worried about something you're upset You're confused They are going to feel that off of you and They're going to feel compelled To resolve those feelings that you are experiencing because they would recognize that they Played a part in that This is how you know what you're dealing with so Although when you're on to them the narcissist may do all these crazy things It can also be good for you Because it helps you to recognize That you are on the right track It helps you to recognize 100% You are dealing with a narcissist depending on how They react when you are on to them Anyway, I hope this video Has been helpful to you. I do enjoy hearing from you I love having these discussion videos and I hope I can get on here more often now. I have been very busy lately Especially with the content on the channel But I'd like to do more of these check out the website as well I have new blogs on there every day. It's www.narksurvivor.uk Check out the blog section on there And if you need any more support, you can book a session with me Thank you all for joining me on this live video. I'm just at a shell fuel station here in Thailand on the way to see the biggest Buddha in Thailand and I will have some pictures of it soon on my Instagram which is narksurvivor.uk Also narksurvivor.uk on TikTok as well So check my videos out on there Anyway, thank you all for joining me here today And I look forward to talking with you in another live video very soon