 Hey, how's everyone? I'm out here At the top of a hill in the clouds Please send me a super chat if you'd like me to answer any questions Any donation amount is fine whatever you are willing to give You give value out and you get value back in return and just enjoy the scenery with me I'm up here in the clouds and I don't even like heights but I'm here So that's what it's all about facing your fears. We all go through tough stuff Maybe it's not something we want to go through Maybe it's something we're afraid of But as long as you push through it You'll always get a positive result in the end. I'm up here and I'm going down now Coming back down to earth. I've been up in the clouds too long. Let's see if I can get down without falling on my ass I can't remember how I got up here now. Did I come up there? Great, I've got to go down you It's quite slippery as well because it was just raining. I'm answering questions to Everyone who sends a super chat of any amount It doesn't matter and then any suggestions on how to break free From my Nark family That will happen, you know when you try to leave them They'll often group together and turn against you That means you're most likely the scapegoat child That means you're most like the scapegoat child That's why they all turn against you. It's because they know you're different But you're different in a good way They wouldn't you think that it's in a bad way, but it's not if it's so different Why are they the ones who are stalking and harassing you? If that's not bad, I don't know what is So never let the convince you that you're the bad person you're not And if you look back in history you will see That it's always groups of people who are envious or jealous who always target that one person Just look at any prophet of God Just look at Jesus Look at what they did to him And was he a bad person? No The people who targeted him They were the ones who were doing bad things And because he spoke up about it, they didn't like it And it's the same thing with these Nark families When you start speaking up about what they're doing Things that you don't approve of Things that are not socially acceptable They don't like it They're not just going to suddenly look at themselves and realize what they're doing wrong They already know what they're doing wrong They just don't want to keep focusing on it So instead they're going to focus on you and they're going to find faults with you Whether they're real or imagine faults It doesn't really matter to them because they don't even care about the truth All they really care about is just destroying you So to answer your question How do you break free from your Nark family? You've really got to move away And I know that might not be what you want to hear But it's the truth As long as you are around them physically They're always going to be around you They're always going to have opportunities to stalk and harass you But if you physically distance yourself from them And you move to a different country or at least a different city It's going to make it very difficult for them to get to you But not only should you move away You also need to block them on social media Or just don't use social media at all Change your phone numbers Email address You have to make it as difficult as you can for them to contact you Any more questions? Please send me a super chat Of any amount, it doesn't matter And I will see it straight away then And I will provide you with a detailed response I hope everyone's doing alright I hope you're all eating well Going out in nature Enjoying the weather Whether it's sunny or raining It's all good When you're trying to heal from narcissistic abuse One of the best things you can do is something that you're really passionate about Something that really means something to you Going out in nature Being around friends and family that really care about you Or if you have any pets There is no greater healing power in this world Than love And that could be A love that you have for a person or animal Or it could be for A hobby or interest An activity But what it all comes down to Is the love It's the love that heals you When you've got love within you Nothing can destroy you And that's what these narcissists depend on It's taking away The love that you once had for yourself Other people And the world around you The love that you once had for life That's what they're trying to take away from you But as long as you keep that love inside of you No matter what they do, no matter what they say No matter what they take away from you As long as you keep that love inside of your heart You'll always be alright in the end No matter what they do Because all you really need Is to get you through this life When everyone's trying to tear you down All you really need is that love in your heart They're fueled by hatred And look where that gets them Nowhere But when you've got love in your heart You can do anything Carolina Blue 20 says I called my narcissistic mother Out in her narcissism My sister backed me up Now my mother acts like Neither of us exist Weirdly we miss her How should we handle this That's really typical narcissistic behaviour When you call them out on something They just don't want to acknowledge it They'll do whatever they can To deny the truth and reality Of the situation Even if that means cutting out The people around them And acting as though they don't exist If you can't validate their false self And the illusion that they're trying to portray You basically don't exist to them It's as simple as that You think that you miss her But in all honesty What you really miss is the false self The person that she pretended to be That fake kind caring person Who always had your best interests in mind But that's not who they really are That's just who they want you to think that they are So that you will then do what they want Because that's all it really comes down to People doing what they want And when you're not doing what they want They don't want anything to do with you They don't want to deal with the truth They don't want to deal with reality So my advice to you is If you really want to be involved With your narcissistic mother again You basically have to join her In denying reality Join her in denying the truth Because that's the only way That she'll ever want anything to do with you again As long as you Keep putting the truth in front of her Keep forcing her to reflect on Reality She's not going to want anything to do with you Because the whole point of the narcissism is They develop these coping and defence mechanisms Because they struggle to deal with reality They're in denial If I could describe narcissism in one word It's denial And the only reason They would ever want anything to do With anyone Is if there's Like a collective psychosis And they will induce that within you Because it's the only way that they can survive around you Because once you know who they really are Once you know what they're really about You wouldn't want anything to do with them anyway Thanks for the super chat Caroline Yes that's right Love is love Love is healing All you really need to get through this Is love Love and compassion