 having a relationship with an autistic person, I would say try and play to their routine quite well. So if you if you're not satisfied with the amount of communication that you have with them, maybe talk to them about having like doing like a weekly thing or having like a weekly time during the week that you tend to spend time with each other. If you are dating them for a significant amount of time that can alleviate a lot of pressure because we don't always know how much to talk and how much to you know interact with people and you know all that. I think everybody's rules without some degree but for us it can having that sort of routine and sort of connecting with you in any in any form of your choosing I think is a good way to go about it. Yeah it does help like it really does like you know I mean my experience I tend to have a very very low social battery. In general I don't specifically like to text all the time.