 Hey, hey, hey you guys. How you guys doing? Look, I've changed my glasses. We changed into the these are like a Pink purple. Oh God y'all my my pinky finger My nail is all the way down. So let's see if I have something like glasses up because one I like to do that Two I like to do that, but no because of something that's going on But y'all know how we do this, but anyway y'all y'all know how we do this is a chitchat video I talked about what's going on in my personal life what I'm watching on YouTube, but what I'm watching on TV. I tried to Make these glasses clean clean these glasses off these glasses clean. I made it worse All right That'll do for now. I have me half a thing of wine here We are going out to eat move out to eat. I Don't drink a lot. First of all, I think it's tacky to get slum Sloppy drunk out in public. That's just me personally. I'll be a little tipsy, but I won't be falling over I've never done that out in public. I just don't do that y'all So anyway, we are going out to eat we're going to a place called Raw hide which is very much like the ranch where we typically go But it's an uptown of Dallas and so this is just a get ready with me I'm gonna be styling my hair finishing up my makeup. I look a little ashy. All right, you guys So, let me take let me go ahead and take I had this cute little Bracelet here my neighbor Look mine, I'm gonna spill some tea y'all I had My my old neighbors back in Phoenix and friends They were friends with someone. I don't know the term for it's actually a I'm powdering my face. So there's actually a term for this is More so psychological where you're just stealing just to be stealing You can afford it like this woman was or is wealthy like her parents come for wealth and she was just stealing stuff just to be stealing it so they had bags and bags of Jewelry that she had left there after they had kicked her out and they were like give me and you can go through this for anything You want I'm like what the stuff had price tax on it so I took a couple of things and Like purses not purses makeup bags a couple of bracelets. This is heavy I think the price on this was like fifty five dollars like she stole hundreds of dollars of stuff I don't even know how you can steal stuff like that anymore, and I'll do my lips, too So how are you doing personal life personal life first of all, I want to say thank you to those of you who come in it on my Video regarding my my abnormal mammogram Yes, it is so important you guys to get those things done Because you never know my cousin was only 58 years old and She was close in age with my mom because as I stated in that particular video my grandmother was having kids with her kids So I have cousins that are my my I have cousins that grew up with my mom basically and then their kids My cousin kids are the people I grew up with y'all I don't know where my stuff is to do my brows and I'm starting to get perturbed and emotional But just to let you guys know how fast it went From the time that it's not about me But I'm just gonna give you an idea of time wise from the time that I found out she had had cancer To her passing Was just three weeks to the time of her being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer to her going on hospice We're just four weeks. Think about that four weeks a month From the time when you give a news that you have stage four cancer to You're actively dying it when you were a place on hospice you go through a gosh You go through where you're on hospice and you have to qualify for hospice and then I believe it's like every 60 to 90 days We go we I used to work for hospice you guys they go over your plan of care to see if you So qualify you can be recertified to be gone hospice There are some people that have been on hospice When I was working they had literally been on hospice for a month So you don't have to be actively dying but Michael I went ahead and did my eyebrows in the back you guys But anyway, but anyway, that's another thing to y'all make sure that you have your stuff in order Planned of cares DNR DNR do not resuscitate forms Insurance come on We don't you know people don't want to be selling chicken plates to cover your freedom because freedoms are not cheap That's why a lot of times people end up just getting their loved ones cremated because that's the cheapest route That's one of the things that I spoke to my mother about last year is I Wanted to make sure that they had everything in order and I'm actually gonna have a sit-down and talk to them about that in-depth. I know it's morbid I know it's something that you don't want to do But the last thing you want to do is when you're in the middle of grieving a loved one is figuring out what you think they would want so Y'all putting on these earrings and these cute their dragon flag earrings that I got from she and y'all Let's talk about some other stuff. Let's get some little y'all my husband is leaving next week y'all He is leaving for Houston for a contract job. He will be gone for 13 weeks We will more than likely I thought we would try to see him in March but we're gonna wait until April only because that would be the halfway point and This would be our first time Being more than a week away from I heard my husband. Look at that shine. Look at that. Yes girl even when we were broken up, I mean This is like prior to even us getting married I we were well, I would just show up Girl, I would just open be like here's your VCR Well, yeah, I'm aging myself. I remember that time B. We had broken up when we were in college I'm talking about being broken up in college and baby. I showed up down to his apartment. I was like, um Here's your VCR, you know, I don't want it, you know Here you go. So he took it back, you know, I bought him a VCR or something He let me borrow it or something. I don't know child But it was it was his and I gave it back to him and we got back together But my point is girl my point is that this would be the longest so we would definitely be going down and visiting him for a couple of days in April and He doesn't know Right now is 13 weeks. It could be longer We're gonna get to this about them taking my money out Bank of America. I got skank. I got I got what do you call it girl? security My I'm gonna say identity theft, but it was security breach. Oh Next weekend we're going not next weekend a two more weeks JB and I are gonna be going to Longview for my Aunt's 70th birthday and I'll show you guys the jumper. I had purchased this purple jumper Let me show y'all some of the accessories. Let me tell you something when I do something When there's a goal or something I make sure that I do everything from head to toe Yeah, I know I'm gonna do my hair I'm gonna blow it out flat on it and I'm going to curl it going back this way so the curls are gonna go back It's gonna be big as hell. Yeah, so the accessories are gonna be silver. So let me show y'all Purchase now I did purchase some silver shoes, but they hurt like hell. So they went back to Amazon I first these dangled silver earrings. Oh, look at that child. Look at that Mm-hmm. I purchased this necklace from she in that's coming in a couple of more days and then I got this This cute little Handbag is miss cute now that my necklace kind of has this twist loop That's gonna go all the way down to that now my shoes. I wanted some silver shoes, but since that outfit is all glittery I can be a little you know basic with the shoes. So I Have these velvet like Heels or thank you very heel very very basic not too high. Yeah, hold on. Let me set my makeup I'm using the NYX professional. Let me set this real quick Look, I can't see. All right, that's it. I Was a victim of a security breach through my bank And I am surprised for a multiple reason for how detailed and Quick these people were one and two Because I should know better because I used to work for Bank of America. I Packed this particular account for 19 years. They always say thank you for being a value customer I said, thank you too. So first the evening I get a phone call From the bank and I have a safe and it says bank and I ignored it because I'm like, I got time for this It says bank. I'm like, I ain't got time for this They call again. I'm like, you know, let me answer and see see what's going on They call again. Let me see what's going on. So they're like hi This is so-and-so from Bank of America We've been trying to reach you because there has been some suspicious activity on your account We want to verify if you've been basically using your account in this state And we know you're not because you're in Texas. I said, yeah, you're right. I am in Texas And so he's like, okay, so I'm going to send you a text message to verify That you're an identity so I sent him the code that he sent me my new this is the same code Excuse me. This is the same Sorry y'all my my coat my thing went out the same text message I don't know how you say it message number that Bank of America actually uses so I'm like, okay This legit then he's like, okay, so I see you have you have this amount of money in your account I say, yeah, yeah, that's true. I didn't give him my account number I didn't give him the last four digit of my social none of that. I didn't give him my my Logging none of that. So then he sent me a second code. He said, okay, now I need for you to verify this I Said that over and I verified it You know, I gave him a number. He's like, okay, if I were you I will go ahead and Change my password just to be safe. I said, okay, good. I hung up the phone Something didn't sit right with me with this phone call First off the guy had a very heavy accent and I know I have nothing against accents I have me hell my husband is from another country But this guy either he was Russian or he was drunk. I mean heavy heavy Heavy European accent and so nothing wrong with that. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. And so I'm Something they sit right with me. So I immediately go to my email. No, no, I'm gonna. I'm gonna go to make of America and log in Your password is is incorrect. I'm like, oh, you know, you know, you shit me I Use my cell phone. Your password isn't correct. I go to my email. I see all these email messages Your account was accessed from an unknown location. Your account was accessed from from an unknown device Your password has been changed that I'm like, oh When I tell you I worked fast I worked fast. I logged on to Bank of America I immediately changed not only my password, but I changed my user ID I then called Bank of America and said, hey, there's missing suspicious activity on my account. They froze my account This is what happened they did a Transfer using zeal a transfer all the money out and it went to another account God knows where From there, I said, you know what this is not good because I get paid tomorrow So they immediately froze my account. That means they froze my bank account. Nothing can go out stuff can come in You can deposit my money back. Thank you, but nothing can go out So froze that and they recommended me set up a new account I was not playing around because I have several means of income and I need to make sure this new account is set up So I can switch up my other, you know Means of income so they could have this information The next morning let me tell y'all I was so stressed out. My chest was hurting the next morning I got paid from one of my one of my Sources of income and everything was okay, right? So then I went ahead and set up a new account The representative and she informed me that okay, you can still use your debit card I can link it to this new account So she did that she transferred all my money over to the new account. We linked it, right and then I Went ahead and proceeded to change my password. Let me tell you something I changed my password four times within 24 hours. I was not playing around. I changed my password again. I Was not playing around. I said of all types of notifications. I did a two-step Verification it is annoying as hell, but a two-step verification when I access my account Online or on my phone. I have to have another passcode to get in via through my phone So unless you got my phone, you know be able to get it And so whenever I spoke with the make of America reps and I told one of them told me she's like Yeah, they sent you a call through this number. I said, yeah, she's again That is our number. And so another rep was like, oh my god, they are getting smarter and smarter And she's like it makes you not want to put your money I said, you know what? This is the thing my savings account is not with Bank of America That is one thing that one of my older friends. Thank you. Miss Yolanda taught me to do. She said, you know First of all, you're not that good saving your money And just to be safe have your savings account at another bank. And so that's why I've always done I've been doing that for years now. I Wanted head baby. I was not playing around. I contacted my main job. I sent over a new direct deposit form You could even do copies of what boarded checks online through Bank of America did all that know what time it is Okay, I'm good. And so I Went ahead and contacted Google That's the good thing about having multiple streams of income some point being Oh, that was scary. I still probably have some more places. I need to switch things up But right now I feel safe. I know I've not necessarily feel safe I feel better the way that I've set things up. So yeah, y'all be careful. I mean they had I Didn't give him anything but gave him confirmation of those codes. That's it That's it. I didn't give him my account number. I didn't give him What is that? Yeah, what is that? Okay? Here we go. I didn't give him the only thing I did was verify my balance And so the red flag is a heavy Russian accent The red flag was He gave me my balance and I verified it not supposed to do that a second red flag was he's him saying Well, you may want to change your password and and saying bye when typically They would freeze your account for you as a service that was another red flag and secondly I Honestly, I can't say that they wouldn't call you because I have gotten calls before from Bank of America saying that's been some suspicious activity on your account But then in the same breath they say and we have frozen your account and I'm like, okay, so Moving forward. I'm just not gonna take any phone calls from Bank of America. No, seriously. I'm just not All right, y'all. I think I'm done with my hair. I'm gonna put some gloss on This is gonna be a little bit different and I want to tease tease tease my hair So, let's talk about what I'm watching on YouTube girl tank and this other young with a snapper I'm so old this other young guy have a podcast Call for the love. No, is it called R&B money? It's called or R&B money I just discovered it they have quite a few people that have been on this on this podcast very first guest Was Jamie Foxx. They've had Eric Bonnet Kenny Lattimore, Coco Jones A couple of other different people. I haven't watched a full one. Yeah, I've just known. I'm so excited to have discovered this I've just been watching snippets. Yeah, let me go ahead and put my clothes on to you guys I follow her on Instagram a Tia the old G of relaxed hair I Love me. So Tia my fellow East Texas girl. She's she's originally from Beaumont a Tia finally received her YouTube sign her sign from YouTube and she said the reason why it took so long is because she had moved and It was hard for them to track her down. So I am so proud of her So, yeah, besides that girl. I'm watching free movies and stuff on YouTube All right, y'all, I'm putting on my shoes So y'all I forgot to tell y'all we went to go see Megan the movie. It was good Surprisingly good. It was funny. JB and I went to go see it. So I did Watch love and marriage huntsville. Sorry y'all gotta take these off and put on some socks Yeah, I did watch love and marriage huntsville, which was good. You know what? If you're not watching it, I'm not gonna really get into detail but some of those folks are an absolute mess started to rewatch Ayanna Then Xayam fixed my ratchet ass life The one that still sticks out to me you guys is the family where the husband Moved in all of these extra family members to where there's like 17 19 people living in the house and they're complaining that the Lady of the house Has an attitude She's a drunk. She's doing all of this in this. She's she's upset And her husband literally moved all these people in and told her the day before they were come in and was basically like Yeah And I'm pretty sure it wasn't all of them moving in at the same time They slowly started coming in but the vast majority majority of them just moved in without her approval Stop kind of sort of put your pants on poor woman Baby that from sits and They never really got therapy for it. They never really discussed it She said that the husband doesn't even talk about it And you wonder why she's walking around mad you wonder why Some people are just so selfish. I'm back to watching Fargo Fargo is a comedy dark much like the actual movie Also watching based on the true life Body in the suitcase girl. I forgot to tell y'all this on Netflix cabinets of curiosity why that What is his name I put his name in in the comments excuse me the bottom of here So the guy that did pants elaborate When I told you there I would say I thought out of all of the episodes I didn't like two of them But it was dark. It was creepy and I was here for it. I really know. All right. Let me show you this outfit I'm hot putting on these boots. I'm hot