 is when they sensed the death of a 12-year-old student of Doran College in Lagos, Sylvester O'Romany, Jr., in an alleged bullying case. In the next next report, Plus TV correspondent Destiny-Mormo takes a look at how the silent menace has eaten tip into the young world, perhaps unconsciously. Disattered is the view surrounding Doran College, as it had been indefinitely shot by the Lagos state government. The whole essence of shutting down Doran College as a result of the tragedy that cost the loss of Sylvester, also known as Sly O'Romany, is for the school to look inward and find out what they can do to help this tragedy that just happened in this school. Parents are watching, citizens are watching, children that have been bullied at one point or the other are watching. Now, if Doran College go ahead to conduct online classes for their students, it means that the whole essence of closing the school indefinitely would have been futile. Bullying is an old menace that keeps resurfacing every now and then. Sylvester's death from an alleged bullying by his seniors in school brings to fore again the danger inherent in bullying. The reality is stark. Counseling experts believe it is an inherited aggression from the parents to their children. These experts drive through the minds of young bullies trying to bring up preventive measures to cop the menace. O'Bully, consciously or unconsciously, picked it from event and occurrences, especially in the family, consciously or unconsciously. And why did I say this? A lot of things happen to children. As human beings, we are a product of nature and natural. The results and the report card of parenting is what we see in the children that are bullied, basically. Maybe from homes where their sibling rivalry, a polygamist home, or a child that grew up under a loveless environment for one reason, have been bullied while they were in junior school. It's like systemic or cyclical, that what they did to me in my junior classes, when I get to the senior class, I'll do it. And sincerely, some of them might be seeing it as a system, as form, as a normal. Cyberbullying, we have emotional or psychological bullying that is also verbal. We have physical bullying and we have social bullying. There are three many categories of bullying, but the one that is closed and associated with us, Sylvester, is what we call mobbing, bullying. They really mob the boy. The bullying experience has been an old tradition, which some parents have adopted for reasons best known to them. But more importantly, is to get their children more open to reality outside the home. For us all to go back to the drawing board. It's time to begin to learn online and relearn parenting. If you look at the trend of what has happened, it is for all the stakeholders involved over that boy, Sylvester, it's a failure on every part and all other boys boiling down to parenting even to the school. So we cannot jump with parenting. During our own time, when we were in boarding house, you know, the metro used to go around maybe 12 a.m. 12 a.m. 12 midnight, 3 a.m. 6 a.m. That 6 a.m. Metro will be there when the bed will go. You know, all of us will save the prayer, money prayer, different hostels, Elexia Hall, this hall, Celestial Hall, you know, something like that. Maureen Ukamakari is a parent. The recent event has made her to change her plan in putting her children in boarding facilities. Ha, boarding kwa. No, nothing like boarding. For me, boarding is cancel. Boarding school, in fact, Sunday I am a houseman, we are arguing that my houseman said, boarding is zero because all this is why you'll be saying, no, they will go to boarding and imagine my children are tender and say, mommy, why is this boarding? I'm not leaving this house to anywhere, I will go to school from this house, so boarding is out of it. Some parents just take those children to the boarding schools because they don't have time for them. Please be this, while I chase my business, while I chase other things, and they see, they dump their responsibilities on the scope. They are students that before the very eyes of their parents, they are going, they are going south. So it's, but what makes boarding house quite challenging presently, especially as you can see in Nigeria is that the economic tension, the pressure is so much. Hours after Darwin College was shot by the Lagos State Government, news filtered that the school continued online classes. From the aspect of the school taking up online classes, it was rather sudden. How was that communicated? But should they take online classes? Eventually, yes. Because whether we like it or not, all the students are also traumatized passively, that this is our school, this is going on. And we have students there, but the way the school has gone about it and the timing and their model of communication could be wrong. But personally, I don't think online school is a bad idea. It's on the radio that online lectures started immediately. It should not be. You can see how lukewarm we are. Live, lost online lecture. Which one is greater? The school is breathing something else. The school can even start in February. It doesn't matter. So that other proprietors, proprietors will learn and then stand up and say, I don't want my school to be closed though. I don't know my stand, but based on the fact that life is there, they should at least maybe for one week or two weeks not do anything. That does not stop the students from learning or not learning on their personal level. So I think they should not. No, no, no. I don't think it's right. I don't think it's right. Because this incident that happened, it has to do with everybody's responsibilities. So by doing this, it looks like they didn't take it serious. Like nothing just happened. Just like maybe they just went for a break or something. So I don't think that is really okay. The nature of Sylvester's death perhaps has brought up the level of intolerance and violence among the future of tomorrow. Like developed nations, would Nigeria rise up, take the bull by the horn and stamp out bullying in schools? All eyes are on members of the hallowed chambers nationwide. Destiny Mom for Plus TV Africa.