 When you live through something truly horrible and you suffer some great injustice or persevere and survive something truly horrible, realize you are now in possession of one of the greatest of all gifts, contrast buys. You now can truly be happy because you know how bad it could have been. Somebody who lives a shelter life will never know that true peace and happiness that you now can experience, but that's your choice. You have to see the lemonade you can make from all the lemons in your life.