 That's a real, I haven't heard any discussion of that, but when does asking consent become itself a form of harassment? You could totally use it that way if that's your intent. It's just like every politically correct word for whatever group can ultimately become a slur. When I was a kid, retarded was the politically correct term for, I'm not even sure what the term is now, mentally disabled, mentally different, neurodiverse, neurodiverse, I don't know, there's some term and then in the right, if you have the wrong spirit, you can use that as a slur easily. Did you just do that on purpose or are you neurodiverse? People are looking for a way to be right, so these words go in and out of fashion. Holding space, that was a really good thing and now space is a bad thing because we're supposed to be about place and space is this abstracted, delocalized thing that's cut off from its relationship. So we don't talk about spaces anymore, we talk about rooms or places, but I mean, giving attention to the unexamined baggage that words carry, that's a good thing. But to think that if you change the word and you solve the problem, that is delusional. And sometimes we don't have words for things that we wanna have words for, like non-binary genders, that's really quite annoying. In Chinese it's no problem because he, she and it are all pronounced the exact same way and the characters are different. There's one for objects, there's one for animals, there's one for gods even, but they're all pronounced the same way so it's not really so much of a problem. Everybody's a ta.