 Welcome to politely honors podcast. This is episode three. I'm your host the dozee, and I'm gonna go ahead and jump right into it Today, I want to talk about pretty privilege and how it can hurt women, right? We all know how pretty privilege can help women first of all I want to preface this by saying I am not opposed to women using their pretty privilege for experiences I want you out of use it for the softest life that you possibly can't you want to use it for trips Experiences VIP sections Bag shoes, whatever you want to use for that's great. This is what I am saying though While you are using that pretty privilege to have a good time Be sure that you use it to secure a husband Now let me say this as well. This this is for women who want marriage or husband If you wanted those women like oh, I don't believe in marriage. I don't want a husband Just skip this whole episode is not for you, right? This episode is for pretty women who want a husband While you out here using your pretty privilege for all of these good things and all of these great experiences My advice to you be sure to use that pretty privilege to secure a husband while you still have it While you still have that leverage it makes no sense to wait till you lose your pretty privilege You gain a hundred and fifty pounds and you're not commanding a type of attention that you once could and now You're looking for a husband because guess what now? You don't have the leverage to get the type of man that you could you could have back then you understand what I'm saying like Do not let the fund that you're having right now Ruin the goals that you have for yourself in the future I'm gonna say that again. Don't let the fund that you're having today Ruin the goals that you have for yourself tomorrow, right? So while you out here you having fun you're getting the VIP sections for free You getting flew down you getting put on yachts you getting put on Pete on private jets You getting bags you getting Chanel you getting Birkins you getting shoes Make sure you secure a husband make sure you secure the kind of husband that you want While you still have that leverage the problem that a lot of women make is they're too busy having fun That they forget that they want a husband in the future and so they wait They wait today pretty privilege runs out and then they start looking for a husband do not waste your pretty You got to know when to just like the stock market You know when to go to know when to buy and you got to know when to sell You know when to sell when you're at your peak, right? You sell to the highest bidder when you're at your peak don't get What's the word offended by the words that I'm using I know I'm saying buying sell I don't mean that in a literal term the point that I'm trying to make here is When you have what the market wants when you have that pretty privilege, right? You can command a certain type of attention therefore you have the leverage to demand a certain type of man If you if you got a whole bunch of stuff on your list I want to do to a six feet make six figures and all this stuff when you that type of pretty you can probably get that But if you wait until all of that beauty you got runs out you wait till you just you know You something of of a of a cautionary tale before you start looking for a husband Your you you can't get those type of men anymore. You understand what I'm saying So it doesn't make any sense. I saw this one somebody posted something to the effect of why does it seem like? unattractive women find husbands quicker than attractive women and I don't think that's the case at all I don't think unattractive women find husbands quicker than attractive women I think unattractive women allow themselves to be courted Quicker than the women who have pretty privilege because the women who have pretty privilege are out here having a ball They out here having fun and that's fine. Like again, I said it I'm all for women having a good time. Enjoy your pretty privilege when I go out I want the prettiest women in our section and all of that. So like listen, I encourage pretty privilege I'm simply saying while you're having fun while you're enjoying your pretty privilege Be sure to secure a husband because you don't want the day to come where you start wishing you had access to those type of men And you no longer do you understand what I'm saying You don't want that day to come when you like damn, yo I remember when I was this and that and I could do this I can't do that stuff anymore and you have nothing to show for it, but a bunch of you know a Luxury pieces from seven seasons ago. You understand what I'm saying you don't want that to be you you want it When you got a shoe you got a as my mother would say you got a strike while the onions hot Whatever, but you know what I'm saying like when you have that leverage you got to use that leverage You got to use that leverage to your advantage, you know men value beautiful women. I'm not saying that's all it takes I'm not saying that as long as you pretty all you can get a husband But sometimes you can't but what I am saying is that pretty privilege is gonna get you in the door Before your personality and character matters for men your beauty is gonna get you in the door Your character and your personality is gonna keep you there, but your beauty is gonna get you a ticket to the dance You understand what I'm saying so While you having fun while you enjoying your pretty privilege be sure to secure a husband I think a lot of older women should be given this game the younger women But for some reason it doesn't seem like they don't it at least not in the open at least I don't see it being done So I'm gonna get in this game. Yo have fun Have a blast use your pretty privilege for the foot for great experiences But don't wait till it's too long. Don't waste your pretty. That is the message of the day Do not waste your pretty out here Don't waste your pretty and then start trying to circle back when you are just completely unattractive to men Because that is the wrong time to start looking for a husband The time to look for a husband is when you have all the leverage that you can get All the leverage that you can get when you have everything that men are looking for That's when you look for a husband because that's when you you can get the best in the market that you can possibly get because you have The best version of you to offer And and the viewpoint of what men are looking for right so Yeah, that's my message man That's how that's how pretty privileged can hurt people because they sometimes they just wait too long sometimes and by the time they start Looking for a husband. It's like it's too late in my next episode I'm gonna talk about what happens when women wait too long because we don't talk about it that enough We don't talk about that space that a woman can get into because she's waited too long I've heard people touch on it from just the same The same angle, but I want to touch on it from a whole bunch of angles so that episode is gonna come on my channel This is a this is an exclusive for we need to talk so thanks for tuning in and I'm gonna catch y'all for the next episode politely honest peace out