 And I've just outlined some examples of emotional maturity that men and women both find attractive in romantic relationships. You have to understand men tend to be more logical creatures. Women tend to be more emotional creatures. Although in midlife that actually can almost be reversed. So having a mutual sense of humor certainly pays dividends to turning a man on. Lastly, and this is most important. She has an agreeable personality without being a doormat. Agreeable personality is operating from a place of teamwork but at the same time not resisting your partner's desires for both men and women alike. I've just outlined some examples of emotional maturity that men and women both find attractive in romantic relationships.